sorry, the language no be my papa own. I meant, she was the first girl I had Bleep wit

@IAH
God will bless you oooooooo, my sister. Nigerian girls always want the man to toast her, buy her credit cards, pay her transport fares, by her undies and clothes, some even ask for pocket money.

I wonder why Nigerian girls can't also do those things that men do for them. Especially the students, they will just suck you dry. Out of 10 Nigerian girls, you can only see two that is truly caring and romantic, if I lie help me ask any good guy in the house

I thank you all for your advice, may the Lord answer all your prayers. Alheri you are a BOMB, thanks a lot my sister.

@disney,
I guess u didn't read and digest my first post. I don't want any one to bad mouth or bad finger me, all I want is advice and good one for that matter. If I may let u know. I had never known or dated any girl before I met this girl in question. She was the first girl I had sex with in my life disvirgined , if you may know. I think why she did that to me was only because she knew I truly loved her and I always forgive her no matter how grevious the offense might be. For the three years we dated, I had never one day hurted her or made her cry. I bought her clothes, undies, and at times paid her school fees. Whenever, she offended me, I would always be the one to beg her. The first time I caught her with her school mate, (we all attended the same University) one year before the last one she did to me, she begged me and I forgave and forgot. Even after our seperation we used to see and the last time I saw her she even collected my phone number, although she didn't call afterwards. So with this you should know that I had forgiven her with all my heart.

Please Nairalanders, let us live GOD out of this. I have been praying about it for long long time. What I need is how to fall in love again

@cy
Thanks for your advice, for your information I am not desperately searching for a girl. It's just that I am the only son in the family and there are pressures left and right. I just want to address this my problem first (not feeling the way I felt for my first love). I had tried to force myself falling in love with a girl friend whom I had known and been close to for the past 9 years but the feelings wont ever come.
WHY

@kenflavor how do u mean?

@alheri
Thankx but that's the problem, I talk to ladies (the beautiful ones) and they fall in love with me, but I dont personally fall in love with them no matter how much I try. I gat no feelings for them the way I used to. ........like thinking about the lady, dreaming about her and so on. My heart is blunt and I have no emotional feelings for them. There was a particular one I met of late, when my friends saw her they all said wao this gal is a beautiful queen and they all admire her becos of her height and the way she speaks, but Chika doesn't feel anything for her. Can't u get me?

jerryinka, I had left her 4 years ago. I have always been praying to GOD so that I could fall in love again but woo sai. Please, what can I do to fall in love again? Let us leave God out of this. I mean TRUE LOVE

Hi everyone, I am a newbie here an Igbo by tribe and a Computer Engineer. I have been reading a lot of topics on this forum for over 1 month now. I need u guys advice and I will so much appreciate it if u could be nice to me. I am 32 years old and 4 years ago the lady (whom I loved so much) I intended to get married to disappointed me by sleeping with a friend.

Consequently, After that events I hated ladies so much, because I feel they are all cheats. A year later after a lot of friends persuassions that I should give another lady a shot of my love, I tried some ladies but unfortunately any lady i like and talk to agree but I don't ever fall in love with such ladies. I could count up to 7 ladies that have fallen in love for me but more I try to love them never come to past. I am in a horn of a dilemma. I am afraid I may get married to a lady I don't even love.

Guys/gals, what can I do to fall in love again. It seems what she did to me had damaged my heart for love.