jeyselassie:
you are legally married to her in this country. Baba try organize how to leave the country if I was you.

ok

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Please my honorable admins, you may now closed the thread

I want to say a big thank you to all nairaland's members for looking into my live story.

I have never be this confused all my life, thank you all for all your comments, your comments really gives me hope, strength and reliefs


God bless nairaland



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Greenfusion:
Funny you, if this story is true.

Firstly, you need community koboko.

Secondly, u need good deliverance from any spell or juju.

Thirdly, 1 more kokobo to straighten your head.

Fourthly, if you are to seek divorce, i do not think it would lead you to pay any alimony of any kind. You have to stand on the ground that you were deceived and not told she had 3 kids ( it would be taken as a case of deceit, you can discuss with a legal professional on this...my advice is based on common sense).
If na me sha, i know say i nor go do again...because the real intention of the woman is not clear.


If you eventually succeed to divorce, i would advice you go for another "koboko", to refactor and reprogram your brain cells.

I no go fit survive koboko abeg oo

AkaraAndBread:


'Edu my brother, look at the picture below very well and think about your life.

Obviously, you did very little consultations with ANYONE before frolicking with this woman. And now....

Tomorrow is Sunday. Go and talk to a real Man of God (not god of man O!).

Thank me later.

PS: If you have no idea on the next best step, send me a DM.

Yes i have to see a man of God tomorrow

drimzsmoke:

She is a very fertile woman,marry her!!!

lol

calcal:
When I was 30 toto dey sweet me well well but now fucking toto na too much work for me.

abi

samguru:


Guy,
The same registry and file the divorce later.I know this is against the law,but cannot tie my life down with one useless law.

I told my wife what happened between me and my former wife and she even supported me.

As am typing,she does not want me to see my son and I don't care as my new wife has given me more than what she gave me.
I pray for the boy everyday sha

All I know is that one day u will see your son
Thanks man

[quote author=Popesuccess post=106591693][/quote] nawao

Mydazz:
A big fool and a total idiot, here you are still confused about what to do,......
You entered into the most important part of marriage (court) without letting your family know about it.......
You're already married sir,.... the rest are just celebrations,
Please go on and enjoy your marriage to your yahoo girl, abi na woman

uncle calm down na mistake

Ndidi2:
ask God for forgiveness.
Sleeping with a married woman is bad.

I will do that to cleans my self

FreeIgboho:


File for annulment? Easier said than done

God bless nairaland
Thanks everyone

Caseless:


This chineduchinedu guy is a comedian. He really got me laughing here.

I can imagine the look on his face while saying this and I can also see how he'd announce to everyone that his supposed bride-to-be has 3 kids like a village town crier while holding bell.

Are you sure that woman is not an Ex prostitute who stayed in a brothel? No responsible woman will keep such information away from her man. It even took your uncle to consult a babalawo to unravel the mystery and reveal the secrets

Chineduchinedu, that woman isn't done with you yet. She could hire assassin to come and kill you. She could launch spiritual attacks too. Hold that your uncle tight and close - he seems to know the way.


Why do I find this funny?

eweee

tommy20:
God forbid ooo, but its the begining of your nemesis.... The foundation is absolutely faculty...... 3 children!!! boss don't even go there. Forget the court marriage!

That's the only thing you have discovered so far. Don't forget the truth doesn't even come from her but a pastor abi prophet you call ham.


Sir, the journey is far, Wise up bro... All the best

k

Billyddude:
..chai..sorry brother..wah part of lag u in+?

ajah

Babatojide:
MY BROTHER all i can say in
JIDE KOSOKO’s voice is...
”Hello My dear”
NKAN ENI O NÍ DI MÉJÌ KIÍ INÚ O BÍ ENI ...
Life is too short for regrets...
Plenty people haff put mind on your wedding beer and food
Don’t let them down...
Like Nike JUST DO IT

lol

OKOATA:
Nigga men don't cry for women, forget all those zee world nonsense movies. Kick that woman out of your home or she will kill you ajeh. Same thing happened to someone close I know. He was told but didn't listen until the wife poisoned him, that woman will poison you, stop eating her food and send her away immediately. To be for wArned is to be harmed.

God bless nairaland
Thanks everyone

kizbad:
I didn't want to Comment but alas i think you need help..This is what you will do cos las las, you will never be happy with her EVER and also if you don't die young, all the children she will bore for you henceforth wont be yours,, SHE NEVER LOVED YOU AND WILL NEVER LOVE YOU..YOU ARE JUST HER ATM

SOLUTIONS

1, DIVORCE HER: get a lawyer (any licensed barrister will do) review your wedding proceeding cos since your union was marred with lies, she will not get anything and also claimed that you were hypnotized and threatened, that's y u didn't involved ur parents..DO THESE ASAP

2. INVOLVE YOUR FAMILY: IF YOU HAVE PAID ANY DOWRY OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT, DEMAND A REFUND,

3. Stop fucking her asap cos that's where she hold you ransom..and UR MUMU DON DO

4, if you are ready as at now.. chase her out of ur house..this is how u gon do that, wait till she leave ur house , then change all the key lock or better still pack ur loads and leave that area

5. bro you are in a very long thing if you don't divorce here

i only advice you cos u said u wia inexperience if not..u are a BIG FOOL

ignore this and face what ever music she will play for you..there are alot of women ..u can knack for free..any woman with 3 kids from one man is RED FLAG..she will definitely go back to him and she must have killed you

Aaah

chris51:
Bros you have no problem. That court marriage is null and void, because she deceived you.

Go to the Registry make official report and file papers. Null and void will be granted. You should sue her for the deception.

Why is she not married to the man she has three children for?

If you love yourself, annul the union and take off. You can be sending her upkeep for your child when she delivers. What's the guarantee the pregnancy is yours?

God bless nairaland
Thanks everyone

Das1mama:
Bro the good thing is that you have discovered the truth which is half solved, all u need to do is pack ur remains and get ready for TRANSFORMATION. I want u to know some important fact, everyone u see around with smiles on there faces have his or her challenges is facing meaning no one is 100% perfect. Relocate urself with the Almighty God the very FOUNDATION of all creation and his creatures which include this very pain and disappointment u are facing now. God loves u, DISCOVER ur PURPOSE of EXISTENCE. Shalom

shalom

LadyExcellency:
Let me help you relapse your mind. Without the Church wedding that marriage will not be recognized in Nigeria Court.

The Church wedding was a condition to consummate the registry.

Go your way, there was no marriage. Marriage by deception is null and void.

God bless nairaland
Thanks everyone

HolyStriker:
Chai, if I am your parents, I will disown you. Go to court as fast as possible now that your evidence is still fresh.

You Dey vex me I swear

but I miss her

walozanga:


Guy.. that woman hitting that sensitive stuff from the beginning is wrong. Forcing or working on ur brain for u to do court marriage with her is mischievous, having his brother stand for u without any of ur people is crazy.
That woman or should I say ur new is wicked bt the did is done.
1)SEARCH YOUSELF , IF U CAN HANDLE IT AND MOVE ON WITH HER BUT IF U CANT, RUN AS FAR AS YOUR LEGS CAN CARRY U BUT DONT FORGET YOUR CHILD.
2) ARE U SURE ITS YOUR CHILD

thanks nairaland
Everything is in hand of God

FreeSpirited:



Anything 'love' in that message, use cleaner to wipe it off and now press control delete on ur phone.... then go to recycle bin to delete it permanently......
Chinedu ....there are many gals out there who can like u same way and more. If u fall for this cheap emotional baggage and manipulation. that's the beginning of ur end in life. Her tears is meaningless. Ur life is more important.
.
It's either u make her happy and lose ur own happiness for life, or u run to make urself happy from afar,,,,she will find her way out...
.
If u believe one sentence of this story...then you are an irredeemable big fooool. Even if the story is real....are u her savior? Did u come to die for her sin and carry all her life problem? U better wake up....
This woman can charm u for her own selfish end..she can tie u forever, and she will still justifying it.
Run away from a desperate bittch.. a better woman will tell u the truth...a better woman won't maltreat u and turn u to houseboy...u better thank your God that the secret got leaked out.. if not ur life will have been like hell in that marriage cos she will use everything she has to control u, ur family member, and make life miserable for u...run o...run o...
.
Don't even reply her messages.. don't...run o, if u like ur life

nairaland thanks

MightySparrow:

Miracle children! On the wedding day your wife told you she had three children already. You are expecting the fourth one.

Congrats.



Joke apart, you were not bold enough to call off the wedding. Do the needful now. The whole thing is based on lies and deception. Why live the rest of your life in regret?

chaii

alphaNomega:
Truly she is remorseful and you should accept her apology.

However, do not proceed with that marriage, there is no way on earth you would enjoy true love with this lady. Her past will continue to haunt you till death do you part if you choose to marry her.

You deserve peace of mind, as for the child she is claims to be yours, tell her to give the child up for adoption as she would not be able to care for it.

She was never going to tell you about her past if you did not find out. You even asked her and she denied. Where is the trust?

Holy marry

Ninobraw:
The deal has been done so there's no problem what you should do, be calm and relax your mind.
if there's any property she is aware of, do a change of ownership or a transfer of ownership, don't divorce her separate yourself from her let her take you to court and tell the court that she deceive you into the marriage very simple. just that in life sometimes you have to learn the hard way.

k

Godbless3:
You be mumu, woman dey control you like urine and you still go ahead with marraige. She want pack commot for house because you no want court marraige and you beg her and go ahead.
Sha the only thing that you got is that she keep the secret of her 3 children untill ur wedding day and in that aspect, you got a good purpose of filling for divorce in the court and if you didn't appear during the court wedding and her junior brother sign the register then sent her away and let her take it to court herself.
Then the truth will be reveal.

k

davillian:
Lmao
Good boys won't know if a woman has given birth to one child or even three...
But the bad boys just one round of sex they can print your data and millage... ....
Breast, Tommy and pussssy lips would tell you if a woman has given birth....

lol

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LoveJesus87:
This must be Comedy

is real bro

ClixMaster:
What kind of man is this? Oga, you are a big disgrace to all men.

I know