Funkybabee:
You need Jesus.

This serve as a lesson to all men that think they are smart to tell women to get pregnant before marriage.

Omo Las Las, iya lema ba ni be

No premarital sex, that's the law

Don't outsmart your creator.

Now back to this, send her out, tell her to leave your house because there's no assurance that this pregnancy is yours self, and if she didn't go, move to another place, go and rent another apartment to begin your new life

File a case in court, that marriage is not a proper marriage in the eyes of God before

Seek for pastor counselling, the Lord will be with you.
Stay strong and give your life to Christ..
U cannot be in sin and expect grace to continue

Shalom

thanks

sleekman:
Get a lawyer and apply for nullification of the marriage. You have no problem here. You are not applying for a divorce but rather a nullification.

https://www.mondaq.com/nigeria/divorce/1009324/the-process-and-grounds-for-annulment-of-marriage-in-nigeria

thanks for being a brother

wallrichy:
I want to marry, marry me please, I am bouyant enough to marry, let's marry cos I love you....all those words are bullshits that comes from the mouth of most stupid and naive men.

Most men are not mentally ready to marry despite the fact that you are wealthy and comfortable. Most needs to go back to school of personal training to learn about women..

The fact is that No matter how high a man climbed in the success of live, he can be brought down faster than lightening by getting marry to a wrong woman.

Op, am so sorry that you ain't man enough to be called a Man. You married a total stranger and I really sympathise with you.

You are lucky anyway, it's just a kid coming in the way and not yet trapped in the dungeon of a rotten woman.

I can tolerate a stubborn woman but not a deceptive woman that is so good in telling lies even more than Liar Muhammed. She professionally and determinedly covered her past from you. She is a good actress cos it's so unbelievable that you never even saw a sign.....a small sign that she's given birth to 3 kids. No funny phone calls, no unusual visitation to her family or friends, no Single signs on her body that shows she's suckled 3 kids ? For 8 Months!


Advise, Op, please run like a mad man from that woman without thinking twice cos she never thought twice before embarking on destroying your pitiable live. Get a lawyer and file for divorce straight away, you have enough facts to get justice from the judge and your property wouldn't be shared. She's a gold digger while you are a big Mumu....sorry to abuse you OP, but you are very stupid ...... Ii wish you well .....and wish I could talk sense to you physically.....

one bottle of bear for u man

torvickof1312:


I concur with you brov, what kinda stupidity is this!!! You date a total stranger for just 8 month and boom marriage, this ain't de problem. She control you?? What a shame on you. She made you do court just because she never trust you and as mumu as you be you consent to what she insist. She hide the utmost part of her having 3kids, Bros we are in Nigeria where law never exist. Even if the court supperglued you don't tell me you don't know what to do. He is a CAPITAL FOOL and a disgrace to men. May your MANHOOD live long seems your brain is in your dick.

aah

Lostchild:
Chineduchinedu

Even in America, the court will a null the marriage.

You can anull everything because your court marriage is base on her lies.

My elder brother made this your mistake. His life never remain the same again.

please tell me what happened u beg you

Dreadshy:
Oga you haf married old cargo with three extra mouths to feed. Please carry your load and vamoose for our front.

no

Piptocoin:


the marriage can be dissolved on the ground of misrepresentation or deception. she won't get a penny from you. the marriage is already void ab initio.

amen

danny34:
Oga divorce her sharply and dont worry, she wont get any half of what you have.

1. Did she contribute in acquiring any of the thing you have?

2. You have a very valid ground for divorce. Deceit.

So go back to the court, now its still early and ask then to declare it null and void.


Or

Pack out of where you are and move on without her.

Move on with your life, you are too young for this wahala

God bless you man

Ellasure:
One advice.

If you go further with that evil woman, you are on your own.

Please desist. Stop. Don't go further anymore. Free yourself from evil bondages.


To many young people, this story could be true as it happens very regularly. Many men are into marriages very similar to this story and are bounded by powers beyond their redemption. There are powers and they are just around your corner, not very far.

Nigerian women we hail ooooh.


So many innocent men have been led astray by easy and cheap sex companion. Don't go for easy sex partners they will surely be very expensive later in your life. Shine your eyes.

Good matters and sex are fairly costly and better be ready to pay than to fall for some STRANGE WOMAN.

Strange women are women you don't know any members of their families, men are warned by the proverb writer in the Bible not to go after strange woman. Women turned to strange woman when they go rogue. Women do go rogue, indeed.

thanks for ya comments

amiable990:
Continue to enjoy your meal till you find another alternative.
If possible starting transfer your property inform of sales to faceless person while you allow your second wife to fight on your behalf

you have a point

riverbird:
How can you be 30 and be this foolish?

When we say some men are nothing but pussies this is exactly what we meant, op if you no wise for Lagos ehh....just forget it.

I be jjc
I just com lagos last year

gabicon:


Get the lady on tape saying that she didn't inform you that she had 3 children before you got married to her, that can be used as evidence. Then go to the court and annul marriage because it was contracted on falsehood.


"By virtue of Section 3 (1) (d) of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1970
Fraud or Duress
Fraud is where there is dishonest misrepresentation by a party to the marriage by which the consent of the other was obtained, while duress is when a party to the marriage is compelled to contract such marriage by creating a state of fear or apprehension, which prevented the party from freely consenting to the marriage. Where consent is proved to have been obtained by fraud or duress, the marriage is annulled not because of the presence of fraud or duress but because of the absence of consent."

ooh thank you

isax:

This is super story....

Maybe na wetin u sabi chop dem take choke you...

Since it is not the Lord that have joined you together man can put asunder coz man has deceitful made this...

I advice you go ask God for forgiveness and if you know the ill treatment she is giving you can take your life... RUN OOO

ya

CALCULUS16:
For the sex-starved inexperienced man, a pu*sy can be used by its owner to manipulate a man, thereby loosing his sanity and cognition. Before u insert ur key inside the padlock, try and find the history of the padlock cos these days most single ladies u see outside there, are hiding one or two things. Even those in church or with hijab. Dont let ur eggs inbetween ur leg overtake the front lobe of ur brain. Its better u marry late and be peaceful than marrying early and start experiencing chaos. Dont be intimidated by seeing ur friends getting married. Take ur time and study the person u want to marry. Op being shy should nt make u lose ur brain, u need to work on ur self-image. As for this wahala wey u enter, the gods are angry, though sex has put u into this, u never seek Gods will in marriage. This kind marriage wey u enter so might nt last cos its foundation is built on lust, deceit and mumuism

thanks

Munzy14:
Cc chineduchinedu If this your story is true, you have a big problem.

Starting from inferiority complex...

You are 30 and your mago mago wife has 3kids...even her eldest child is 13yrs...chai.

They have chop you without balance...Ndi a riri gi front and back...

She took advantage of you...May we not love who will take advantage of us.

Only God knows how old she is.

amen

Gee64:
What appears strange may turn out to be the best arrangement destiny has for you.
This lady may turn out to be the best wife for you though in spite of all the odds against her.
My elder sister had two grown children before she met her husband and they both got married and lived together happily ever after.
Since you rushed into marriage without considering other odds, please find a way of adjusting yourself to the poo you created. It could turn out to be the best decision you've ever taken.
I guess her toto sweet sha? I ask because that may be the reason why you fell for her antiques. ENJOY!

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princewarri1985:
Firstly, bro you are very dumb for not being to detect that she has given birth before despite the fact that you have seen her naked, THIS IS FOR ALL GUYS OUT THERE, YOU CAN EASILY TELL IF A GIRL HAS GIVEN BIRTH BEFORE BY SIMPLY LOOKING AT HER NIPPLE AND THE SHAPE OF HER BREAST. so bro i will advice you move on because she got all the blame by lieing to you. Now you've learnt your lesson and you will be wiser in your next relationship, SHE WON CARRY BORN GIVE YOU BRO SO NON GREE KICK HER OUT BECAUSE NOTHING DEY HER BODY AGAIN AFTER 3 CHILDREN

that's it

Publicizing:
This your story is too fake abeg. God go punish you for this fake story. And I pray this thing happens to you and members of your family, since that is what you want. Idiot

the story is true bro,
Why will I waste my time just to fabricate fake stories, you self reason na

Popesuccess:
No reasonable judge will will give her half of your wealth after she lied and deceived You to marry her. And don't don't beat yourself to much, even the wisest(Solomon) and the strongest (Samson) fell for the manipulations of women. What You should be Scared of right now is what she will do to You if You insist on leaving her. That kind of people can be very dengerous

u mean fight go dey

linearity:
You can quickly annul the marriage based on her lies.

Secondly, even with a court wedding; you only lose half of the wealth and assets acquired during the marriage. Even if you are denied an annulment and you did a divorce, your only responsibility will be the care of your unborn baby.

Always remember that, no matter how far or how many steps you have taken on the wrong path or road, the best option is to make a U-turn and the earlier you make that turn, the better.

ok

Kinzo0917:
YOU ARE THE BIGGEST MUMU OF THE YEAR. YOU ARE A DISGRACE TO MEN FOLKS. OGEDE

is mistakes

GerogeI:


Logged in Just to let u know this.
1. Ignore the nay sayers and idio.ts that fill this page. Many of them have worse issues than yours
2. You can have the marriage dissolved in a magistrate court easily on the basis of her falsified information and mis representing her status as a parent. Once you Tell the judge that you do not feel properly equipped and emotionally prepared to be a step father to 3 kids all of a sudden. And that you fear being a negative impact on those innocent children. He will dissolve the marriage in the interest of the kids. Who signed the court documents does not matter.

3. As your marriage is barely a month old, she is not entitled to any of your properties, talk less of half, as she has made no contribution to them
4. Your responsibility in front of the court will be to support your unborn child only.
5. its better you fill for divorce now, not later. Else after some years she can claim to have contributed to your life.
6. Find out if she has been previously married. It’s most likely she was never divorced formally. If so, the marriage you have is already invalid. Approach a lawyer to help get the registry to strick it off records.
7. It is also important you stop co-habiting with her, in western countries that can mean that you accepted the marriage and her secret children after learning of them.

wow

Rubbiish:

Don't be too hard on yourself, u were naive & she took advantage of it. This can happen to any male virgin without relationship experience. But this your current wife, where did u meet her? Were u the one that approach her or someone did it for u?

I don't know how we starts

I kissed her
That's how we Start

sisisioge:


Chinedu! Hian!

aunty I don enter
I fall in love, we do everything together like twins
We cook together, we eat together, we go everywhere together just like twins
I really love staying with her but she lie to me

Kinzo0917:
I 100% concured with you. That guy is the biggest MUMU in this 21st century. So dissapointed with him. He saw the hand writing on the wall and still went ahead. I don't feel single pity for him. How can he go for a court marriage without none of his family attending it? Its not as if they are dead or none is alive.. That guy na the simp of the year. MUMU

I Don fall mugu
Just that the toto too sweet

Bensonezege:
Oga u really messed up n u r obviously a simp 2 b honest
But the deed has been done already so i am just gonna offer u brotherly advice

Get a lawyer and file for divorce on grounds of marriage by deceit n if ur lawyer is dt gud she won't get a dime just maybe child support

Because dt lady is evil, she may wake up one day and just poison or stab u in ur sleep and inherit everything

Even if you lose half of your wealth,it's better than to lose ur life

Think like a man

ok

Tracingpaths:
I hope by now you've known how stupid you are from all the comments above.

Yes I have oo

benzine:


Apply for annulment in the court on grounds of fraud. Speak to a lawyer, did your in law claim he was from your family when he signed? Has she been married before and did she declare that in the paperwork for the court marriage? I can see a lot of grounds for annulment. My brother, learn from it, people are scary

thanks

Enice:
OP is telling lies, big lies for that matter. cause if this was a true life story, OP will not be here seeking for advice but telling the story of what happened. Also, the first thing he would have done was to seek a lawyer's advice. Those who come to equity must come with clean hands. and anything built on lies and deceit is null and void. you court marriage is not binding on you cause you were tricked to it. but it is only the courts that can say so not you. so you have to go to court to set aside your marriage if it is true.

lawyer already working on the case but am confused cuz I miss her sweet pussy ,it sweet me die that place na heaven on earth
That's why I am confused
I need help

omoharry:
Is it possible for a woman to have three kids without knowing it ? I doubt ..from her breast you will know children have suckled from her .

I am a holy boy am not into women oo

samguru:
Bro,I don't want to be judgemental because I have also fallen a victim of single mother.

Your story is similar to mine.

When we started dating,she didn't tell me she has a boy for another man but in the middle of the relationship she told me.

Before we know what is happening,she got pregnant for me and she insisted I do court marriage.
I obliged and we got married.

Fast forward sha,my home was hellish as in wahala here and there,she abused my family members anyhow,she even wanted to beat my mother.

Eventually,I left her and moved on with my life.

She took my boy away and said,I will not have access to him again.

I left the boy for her,I know one day the I will meet the boy,so I don't bother to look for the boy as she is violent and can kill me.

I am happily married to another lady now and happiness is back in my life.

MY ADVICE
1.Leave her and even forget your child,because I doubt if she will be allowing you to see your child.
2.look for a serious lady,this time around do your research about the lady and if you are fine with your findings,go ahead and marry her.
3. Leave divorce now,you will still come back to it in future and for your information you are not loosing 50% of your properties.
4. Make sure you are far from this lady.
5.Pray oooo

please how are you able to marry again with the court marriage u did ?

leksymaxy:
Bro if you are in lagos, let us meet and talk and I am sure that you Wil laugh at last. You see that devil you called wife will one day poison you and take all the money you are scared of losing. Divorce the bitch now ND have rest of mind. I dey ipaja ayobo side in lagos

I dey lekki