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ceaser:
(Removing my eyeglasses) Fun kee you there!

Are you, are you, are you normal?! (In Mr Macaroni's voice, packing my agbada)

Funny you :

newmoney133:
Marry a guy that is responsible and has respect for you.i know you are confused because of the absent of butterfly feeling.My dear that butterfly feeling which is called love before marriage cannot sustain a marriage.Most importantly pray very well

Thanks for your contribution

Xinox:
well said dear. I am here but not rich. Bring me to be your personal assistant then the rest will be story and I am damm serious. PM me let's talk

Lol
More problems

Dididrumz:
Most great relationships did not start with a love at first sight.

Liking him is enough to give him a chance if You think he's worth it. At some point the feelings would come if you both are honest to yourselves.

It's not a must that You must feel that thing called love before a relationship.

Thank you so much

Amb1045:
Not really. so he can becomes better in relationship aspect. not to continuing been a simp.lol

Thanks
But I need to give it a second thought

Amb1045:
introduce him to nairaland let's give him redpill. you opened up a young man emotions now u want to back out. very stupid act from you. dude might be a simp to fall in love. I wish I was the guy make I break your heart and with your emotions

So he will see this right?

lograr:
But you called him "my love"

Just for fun

Karleb:
Please read your first paragraph again.
Now read the OP again.

As for the original poster, I just was to ask her a question.

Op! Are you mad!!!

Am not mad
I can't/don't want to marry him
But I just like him being around me till he gets married to another girl, not that he pays my bills, but because I feel safe and secure around his arms

Amb1045:
introduce him to nairaland let's give him redpill. you opened up a young man emotions now u want to back out. very stupid act from you. dude might be a simp to fall in love. I wish I was the guy make I break your heart and with your emotions

Why is everyone attacking me instead of advice

Wolgrace:
Hahahaha. Ladies' mastery of cunningness and deception is highly charmful & intoxicating..!

Madam, your first platonic move was a shot and huge rope you tied around his neck, and your aromatic charm is now leading him astray while making us to view you as innocent. You're playing a smart game on him, its quite impressive, but deceptive!!

Analysing your story, you've the mastered the art of deception. Jokes apart, right from genesis, you know this friendship would exceed this level with your permissive love chants, as our society demands a man to ask a lady out.

He finally did after making him drunk by your deceptive intoxication, & you have no feelings for him in other to opt out? Or trapped him as a means to sniff his pocket despite working in same company? Or are you trying to make us think you deserve him? Or waiting for us to give you a go ahead?

Another angle is that you guys might be destined together despite fate allowed to meet the second time, but EVE SYNDROME in you might blind and destroy you.

Thanks
Maybe destined, but my parents won't accept his background ,
I know that for sure

bigpicture001:
Y is the OP lying, you worked on his emotions until he fell for it, yet saying "it's jokingly"...

Who are you deceiving.? Now u got him where you want him. And your forming I don't want..........

U don't want but ur scared he is a playboi....

Abeg Park, seun put on tales by moonlight joor

I was playing with him, like a sister
Never mentioned I love him

uruba23:
Well first you need to be super sure you have no feelings for him,because his pitch to you that make you think he is not blaming his former girlfriend is a usual sales pitch, you won't put your former boss in bad light if you are looking for a new job..I would advice you use reverse psychology this means you have to be deliberate with your conversation with him by dropping words so he knows you're not into him, but your body language is definitely drawning him to you ,meanwhile you are just doing your job. .I would advice you continue doing a good job and not withdraw.

Thanks dear

uruba23:
I can't stop laughing but really what do you want to feel.I am even surprise given that you both bonded well. I think the fact you both work in the same environment is creating the limitation,because you need to seperate having a good work ethics and been in a relationship. So you either set boundaries or take the bulls by the horns and find that feeling.

How can I set boundaries without hurting him

dairykidd:
Just imagine.. after setting him up to fall u want let am knack face fo tarred road. Teasing and playing with a grown man's emotions just for fun. Now him done finally fall u dey ask advise

Is this not harassment... non physical harassment in a place of work. That guy should sue for damages

Hey I didn't set him up
Just took him as a workmate/ bestie

Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.

I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.

When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.

I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.

On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.

Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.

So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.

After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.

Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.

After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.

I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.

Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me

Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.

Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.

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4b. How much did he give to the masses?
4c. How much did he give to his mother?

5. Who was the first child to trek to school?

6a. Where was the first indigenous madman/ madwoman from?
6b) What was his/her name?

7a. What is the full meaning of the acronym SUYA?
7b. Who invented it?
7c. Who was the first customer to buy it?

8a. Who was the first woman to spend the N1000 naira note?
8b. Where?
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9. As at April 2020, how many mosquitoes are in Aso Rock? (give your answer in binary form)

10. Who was the first Nigerian to drink Garri without Sugar?

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b..
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FuckTheWorld:
Lol!
Don't be a coward.

It's a simple question

You've won
Congrats

FuckTheWorld:
Please can you people tell me why you people continue to call Mary a virgin?

It's not even like after the birth of Jesus Mary never had sex again.
I'm sure Jesus had many siblings...
So, why?

If you don't like it
Please move on

No bad energy please.

*Pope Francis adds three titles to Catholic litany of the Blessed Virgin Mary*

*Vatican City, Jun 20, 2020 / 05:04 am MT (CNA).*

Pope Francis has approved the inclusion of three additional invocations in the Litany of the Blessed Virgin Mary, also called the Litany of Loreto.

*In a June 20 letter to the presidents of bishops’ conferences, Cardinal Robert Sarah, prefect of the Congregation for the Divine Liturgy and the Discipline of the Sacraments, said the invocations “Mater misericordiae,” “Mater spei,” and “Solacium migrantium” should be inserted in the Marian litany.*

“The titles and invocations which Christian piety has reserved for the Virgin Mary over the course of the centuries, as the privileged and sure way to an encounter with Christ, are innumerable,” Sarah wrote.
“Even in this present moment which is marked by feelings of uncertainty and trepidation, devout recourse to her, which is full of affection and trust, is deeply felt by the People of God,” the cardinal continued.

Sarah said Pope Francis welcomed people’s desire to include these invocations in the formulary of the litany.
The Litany of the Blessed Virgin Mary, also known as the Litany of Loreto, has been an approved prayer for the intercession of Mary by the Church since the late 16th century, with its usage recorded even prior.
It consists of the recitation of formal and informal titles of Mary, followed by the request to Mary to “pray for us.”The litany can be prayed in Latin or the vernacular.  

*In his letter, Cardinal Sarah noted where each invocation should be added, using the Latin formulations. “Mater misericordiae,” which means, “Mother of mercy,” should be placed after “Mater Ecclesiae.”*

*“Mater spei,” which means “Mother of hope,” should follow “Mater divinae gratiae,” and “Solacium migrantium,” which means “Comfort of migrants,” should follow “Refugium peccatorum.”*

“With every good wish and kind regard, we wish to entrust this notification to you for your information and application,” Sarah wrote to the bishops’ conferences. The letter is dated June 20, the day the Church celebrates the memorial of the Immaculate Heart of Mary.
Sarah said “the Church which walks along the pathways of history as a pilgrim towards the heavenly Jerusalem and enjoys inseparable communion with Christ her Spouse and Saviour, entrusts herself to her who believed in the word of the Lord.”
“We know from the Gospel that the disciples of Jesus had in fact learned from the very beginning to praise her as ‘blessed amongst women’ and to count on her maternal intercession,” he wrote.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.catholicnewsagency.com/amp/news/pope-francis-adds-three-titles-to-catholic-litany-of-the-blessed-virgin-mary-23190

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timekeeper1:
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Eastside22:
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