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EroticAngelina:
or maybe she's having an affair with him that makes her scared when u ask.

my sister Yes She Is! Thanks for being honest

My brother tell them!pls tell them o



But wait a minute,my brother what is now the possible known solution to this your discovery?

Gabrielabel31:
Hello fellow nairalanders! A friend is seeking for an advise. pls help him out. His girl friend told him she can't marry him without having a car. What should should he do in dis kind of instance?

my brother she's right in her little sense. But for the brother that's enough motivation to succeed take it as an insult from the babe and take it as though all the pretty babe in the world rejected you because you're poor. Poor here means you have to think you are nothing and have nothing for you to be successful in life. Thank God for relationship in my life before I use to think I had something but relationship opened my eyes and reality to me and today am best for it

My brother best of luck and u got a pretty chick there

My brother good luck

My brother I smell doom and success

Preciousgirl:
state ur reasons

my sister NO! And the reason is because it's lame

gnykelly:
there is this girl that caught my attention earlier this year. love her, love her attitude. perfect example of wife material. wooed her and she agreed.
after some time I discover that there is another guy at the end of the table. she never told me, but was able to figure it out. I asked her she replied she is her friend. and he is based in dubai. I told her she should put my pics on her DP and I will do the same. she refused flatly.

I waited and study the whole thing. one of the possibility that came to my head was that she wanted to use me as a buffer in case that guy fail him. so I decided to ask her this question' if you and I are walking on the street someone ask you who i was'. she said just friend'.

then I told her I don't want her friendship again. she was furious but I wasn't bulged because I will be at the loosing end if I invested time and money.
do you guys think I've been selfish with my attitude or acted right in my best interest.

my brother nah! U r not selfish u just display to her what a real man really is(confident and know what he wants)

clovislouis:
Note.- your candid advice Pls. Am so love struck on one of my course mate and she doesn't seem to notice. How can I get her to look in my direction. # have tried possible ways guys use#.

my brother if u have truly tried every possible ways a brother can use to get babe then I bet u haven't used this one here($) #thank me later

My brother if your babe no gree for your guys no mean say she no go agree if she meet me

kozaic:
Omo see mentality...wat assurance do u have dat u wud wake up from sleep?
If a relationship works fine if it doesn't ok..
So we shd b ashamed of being in a relationship?

my sister what are you saying please can't comprehend.

nalijah07:
Would you wait until your forties to have your first child if you boyfriend wanted to get himself together "financially" first?

What if she waits and they breakup in the meantime? That means she would have waited for nothing.

I personally think your forties is too late - is it me?

my sister sorry about that. Life goes on

Kingsley1000:
She has been disturbing me on facebook and watsapp,sometimes,i would try to ignore her message because i finds it awkward chatting that lenght with any of my relation.....we seldom travel to villa,thats only on festic periods(xmas),she always wana see me,i'v been avoiding her as shez not attracted to me especially the fact shez a girl.....we'r born on same month,same year.shez very cute,and she often stays alone,her parents re bankers...Am confused

my brother's and sister's look at this one o he is finding someone to think dirty like him. Ok go ahead F#(k her why she be pestering u like that of cuz she wants something

My brother what can I say?

My brother Ronald4lif what can I say

My brother what can I say. Look the Oxford advanced learners dictionary defines rape as the act of forcing somebody to have $ex when the person does not want to. It is also described as the act of destroying or spoiling something or somebody. So my verdict is no woman would want her body and right snatched from her without her consent. Should any human being be subject to such humiliation of rape? No!. With the power vested in me by my brother's and sister's in Nairaland I hereby sentence the accused to be given Ebola water to drink and bath.

herdeythoun:
exactly am a beginner

my sister good for you.

herdeythoun:
a male friend of mine has been complaining about a lady stalking him?and I was like I can't do that crap,itx bullshit..whatx so special about the guy that will make me stalk him?ladies pls stop

my sister are you a beginner? What! well for your information women stalk brother's with Money,good users of joystick and money money money money.

farano:
Kissing someone new for the first time is exciting and scary because you really don't know what to expect...heh. A friend told me she had to excuse herself, after kissing one guy, to go to the bathroom for a towel to wipe all the saliva on her face So embarrassing!

Let's hear yours.

my sister kissing is for women not for men. Men love to experience new ways of kissing money($)

My brother u can get that kind of babe if u can afford it($)

kozaic:
Men are their greatest enemy in relationship sounds odd buh its paradoxical...

I came into this conclusion after my encounter with different guys...

I started dating way back when I was a teen and have been in that relationship for the more than 1450 days, I have watched my relationship transcend frm a girlee crush to marriage plans..
We both have a mutual understanding to b faithful and Amen God has kept us even though its a long distance relationship...

My MuM used to tell us that"a man has a right to express how he feels abt you nd u hav also the right to put down his request".

Over the period of my relationship,uptil now I have come across several guyz who who their stock-in-trade is to discourage you from been faithful..

Over 90percent of guyz have met would utter things like dis wen u tell dem you re in a serious relationship.

- girl how are u sure dat guy aint bed-ing another chick..
-enjoy ur life o
-you are deceiving urself
-how are u sure ur B-f loves you
-long distance relationships don't last
- I might be ur future husband o
-what assurance do u hav d@ ur boo would marry you?

These are just a few tricks guyz use in making ladies doubt the love they share with their BF's.. The question is why are men the ones who wanna distroy ladies relationships nd still d ones who shout foul play

So before guyz start shouting girlz re h oes they should check the part they have played in turning those girls into one..
#gracia

my sister I swear I would have love to say my mind but. Wait na abeg before u go dey brag let that your boyfriend marry you first na

wilsondave:
HBD lass long life and prosperity.

my brother iiiiyaaama

engrtee:
I will marry devil fearing man

my sister I say Amen! To that

Fantasywrita:
1) Greet her.

2) Smile at her.

3) Go racing with her and let her win. Later, when she puts on weight, race with her again and win her.

4) Eat from the same plate.

5) Drink from the same place where she places her mouth, and eat from the same place

6 )Put a morsel of food in her mouth.

7) Let her comb your hair.

8. Recite Qur’an, while resting your head in
her lap.

9) Take a ghusl with her from a single container.

10) Teach and advise her in a gentle manner.

11) Honour her friends, even after her death. Send them food from a sacrifice.

12) Call her by pleasing nicknames.

13) Wipe away her tears.

14) Heed her advice.

15) Take her with you on long journeys./vacations/

16) Spend time with her in entertainment, and stay with her until she is satisfied.

17) Let her spend time with her friends.

18) Give her time to adorn herself before going to her for intimacy.

19) Do not go to her in the manner of animals.

20) Make this dua before being intimate with her: Bismillah. Allaahumma jannibnash shaitaan, wa jannibish shaitaana maa razaqtanaa.

21) Wake her up to make salaah at night. If she doesn’t get up, sprinkle water on her face.

22) Convey salams to her from others. Make dua for her.


I always tell my Christian friends something, I tell them that just because someone bears a Muslim name doesn't mean he's a practising Muslim.

Just because he/she recites the Quran doesn't mean he follows its teachings.

Most are ignorant of Islamic knowledge and how to live the day to day life of a Muslim.

Women are pearls and diamonds and worth more than that. They are meant to be treated lightly with care and love.

*These are the teachings of Prophet Muhammed and his way of life*

Reference:

You may go through these books, you will find more light with respect to the above points.

1. The quest for love and mercy (regulations and wedding in islam)

2. Closer than garment (marital intimacy according to
the pure sunnah)

3. The fragile vessels (right and obligation between the spouse in islam)

my brother best of luck

Ipledge:
Please don't laugh me this is happening to me.
For like 3yrs now I have end up dating girls already in a relationship.i don't know what's is really going on,if I have feelings or wooed 1000girls,believe me all the 1000girls are already in a relationship,but sometimes I decide to date them (because I believe am gonna win the heart totaly)if i really like d gal and which can be mutual sometimes.the last two gf I had were in another relationship,I am always at the receiving end because I don't get the attention I always want.i was the one that disflowerd my ex,believing I don capture her totally but that's a lie.i broke up with her when I can't continue.
The reason why I opened this thread is because am already in that kind of situation again,but this time I don't want to loose her.what can I do?

If you like abuse me,I know my own problem is little compare to yours

my brother sorry

skyprofm:
Last friday my best friend wanted to go clubbing and we agreed to go together with my babe as she was around from school at my place. That evening I started to purge so I asked them to go ahead so as not too disrupt the plans. It was sunday evening that my friend sent me a text apologising for sleeping with my girl claiming they were both drunk and got carried away. Crazy thing is my girl is yet to tell me anything till now. I'm going crazy here. What do I do

my brother what can I say. Though its sounds serious but if I were u I just forget everything and move on cuz the future smells doomed for that kind of relationship.

clevvermind:
It is one thing i'm used to. I don't allow any girl to open my car door by herself, i normally do it for them. Most married men do it for their wives and some guys do for their babes. Guys try to be nice to the ladies by saving them the stress of opening the car door by themselves. Opening the car door for your wife, girl or babe shows that you value and treasure her so much. It is also very romantic.

So guys, try and be opening your car door for your women when both of you wants to go out. Or when you want to pick a any girl.

my brother what do u mean by car door is it what am thinking(d one in-between)

nalijah07:
This topic was on the radio this morning. If you did, what was the outcome?

my sister I hadn't done such thing before till then

newslife:
I delibrately asked this Question because i want to advise my friend, however, if it is natural i will keep my advice but if it is not i will advise him to go for DELIVERANCE, so what do you got to say?

my brother why r u questioning is personality? Haven't u heard or seen Derele Edun the popular presenter. Instead be his manager and let him use is pitiful talent to rake in the money

My brother is this story for real

My sister thou shall not tempt/test your Lord/boyfriend