we were discussing this eve so I told her why she allows her ex make crazy statements on her status she says I shud forget him n not reason him I still couldn't just take it so I kept inquiring and all of a
sudden it develops to a subtle quarrel now we've both
gone to bed angry... I don't know any time issues about
the guy comes up she just wants to AVOID it are they
having an affair or are there still feelings? am going
crazy

Wake her up and Talk it out with her.

girls don't like being questioned about their exes..and we expect u guys not to like it too. so talk to her and tell her why ur asking..cos y would u be asking her abt her ex? it looks funny to me sha.
or maybe she's having an affair with him that makes her scared when u ask.

Same thing happens to girls err'wer...my gf inclusive...her ex calls her err'single day,but if I bring up the subject...she'll look 4 a way and sweep under the carpet,if I insist n d subject...quarrel dne strt ni...so I dnt ask her agen.I knw d guy still lykz her dough...bt we've past d stage of me caring abt d oda men in her lyf

I hate it when my gf tell me about her ex

Do you care to know whether is ex is in existence or not, move on with life. I passionately hate to hear about ex.

I don't like talking about my previous ex either...but then there's a reason for that. If you're really having doubts, you should sort it out.

EnlightenedSoul:
I don't like talking about my previous ex either...but then there's a reason for that. If you're really having doubts, you should sort it out.

Precious ex?

I hate it wen my girlfrnd mention about her ex,i'll quiet wen she sald it nd frank my face..She knw wahala is comin on d way if she move close 2 me dat moment

pasqal09:

Precious ex?

Always. But he's late.

Why do you even give a fu..ck about her ex? D last tym i checked ex means past, and they should be allowed to stay where they belong in the past.

Awho:
Why do you even give a fu..ck about her ex? D last tym i checked ex means past, and they should be allowed to stay where they belong in the past.

You'd be surprised.

EnlightenedSoul:


You'd be surprised.

surprised @ what sweet heart

Op let her alone.............dnt worry,she ll come to you complaining

Though i don't see any reason why girls feel uncomfortable when asked something about there exes, but I see no reason why guys keep on asking about there exes...

Try not always make her Ex the topic of discussion or else your fears will come to pass. Just tell her what you are not comfortable with and move on. I myself dnt like dscussing my ex with anyone. Ex must remain in the past.

'you couldnt take it so u kept enquiring' = nagging. Why wont she flare up wen u're nagging ha abt sometin she told u to ignore?

She's not responsible 4 d 'crazy' comments he makes on her status.
I tink u're tryin 2 create issues wen dere's none.

Ur girlfriend get's jumpy? Where she dey jump go...

man i she dnt wnt u guys to b discussin a ha ex den forget it.but mak sure dey dnt se most often because if dey do verysoon i mean soon u may b addressd as ha ex

Me and ma exs still play friendly matches
I mean exhibition matches nothing else

It's obvious you feel very insecure where your girls's ex is concerned. Ask yourself why.

You also need to realize that the more insecurity you display, the more unattractive you become to her and you are unknowingly pushing her beck into his arms.

Think about it

EroticAngelina:

or maybe she's having an affair with him that makes her scared when u ask.

my sister Yes She Is! Thanks for being honest

What of the possibility of she having an affair with him?

Kini big deal?