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Report the account number to the Bank. Also report to the police. Preferably State CID.

According to your story. The man is the issue here. You don't know if saying I love you too from the woman is the only reason why she still has the job with the man's company. If she is able to strongly resist the urge from the man, then I think you should encourage her to become stronger and resist the urge rather than abuse her or feel dissappointted.

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From their chats she has strongly resisted all form of private meeting or physical romance aside their exchange of love chats, so I think her conscience is still working for now but that man is not backing down, he's hell bent on sleeping with her and the aunty told her that'll never be possible. I don't know when I'll recover from this shock because the aunty is someone I never expected such from.

You need to accept a reality that you really need to work on yourself first.

You didn't talk about series of things that has happened before this December. Because it's not just about this December issue that made her packed out

She didn't pack out because of what happened just this festive period. In her chat that you posted, she's been enduring all sorts from you and you made no attempt to caution yourself.

It may not be because she found someone else, but she has gotten to her breaking point.

If truly you want her back because you love her and not because of your son or because you are depressed, you have to be deliberate about your actions.

1. Work on your anger and how to control your words especially when you are angry.
2. Make sure you keep in touch and be nice. Over time if you truthfully work on yourself without pretence, she will know and it will even be obvious to you yourself that you are a changed person.

She's obviously trying to milk you. How sure are you she's really pregnant?

Let her be. You don't have to pay for the abortion since it's not what you want.

She has made it obvious that she can't marry you, I don't know why you're still thinking about it.

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It is well with the SE.

Why not sit her down and tell her to tell you what she really wants. It could be that she is no longer interested in you or possibly her getting married to you is because she was under pressure or she just want to get married.

You can also ask her if there is something you are doing that turns her off, maybe you are not giving her the satisfaction she is looking for.

You can also ask her if she will be happy if you reconnect with your old girlfriends too. Or create a scene where she will see you and a lady but make sure you have witnesses to prove that it's a deliberate act to see how she will react because of her infidelity.

Something is wrong somewhere, if you can help her to find out what her issue is, there will be a solution to it. The worst is that you guys have to separate.

I would have love to ask so many questions though. Especially some key things that happened before he proposed and after proposal before your pregnancy.

In my own opinion, I would say you have three options:

1. You quit the marriage.
2. You stay in the marriage bearing in mind that you've lost your husband to a second wife.
3. You stay in the marriage to fight for what is yours. Mind you the result for this fight may not be immediate and the kind of fight that I mean is not the punching typing. You fight against all odds to win him back.