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I Am Depressed Due To Excess Billing From Home / I Am Depressed About My Marriage. / Am Depressed And Keep Thinking About Dieing (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Am Depressed by jessylaurel(f): 8:52am On Jan 14, 2023 |
TheGoodAmerican: Exactly. He keeps nagging like a woman. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by dangervu(m): 8:54am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Oga na your fault and her faults in return ,you ought to have find a way to build her up,Instead you abuse her emotionally , most naija girls wants to be a full house wife ! And the weight of responsibility is gradually killing the husband .....I see your relationship lacks communication...you need to stop seeing her as a useless entity |
Re: I Am Depressed by KIDfurniture(m): 8:59am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Why did she pack out ? You must be a woman beater ? No woman leaves a man that provides for her always and spoils her. You must be a fighter and a woman beater to the core. Plz let her live her life and live ur life alone. breakthrough22: |
Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:00am On Jan 14, 2023 |
WhoDeyHause: This is not the case sir. The woman has endured alit from the guy. She has gotten to her breaking point . |
Re: I Am Depressed by jibrilELsudan: 9:04am On Jan 14, 2023 |
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Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:08am On Jan 14, 2023 |
breakthrough22: Oga, all this your grandstanding will not save your marriage ,it will ruine it and ruine you. From your post and the chat it shows you have serious anger/trust issues. You can't keep insulting a woman that way and expect a perfect wife. She didn't take your call you start accusing her of infidelity... Is that normal? She came back and you asked her to leave with her luggage... She leaves and you are forming "depressed" (your need help o). I wish I can have a private conversation with you. I want to help you because I don't want you to destroy your life with your actions. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by nesgeeek(m): 9:09am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Op u chase her away with ur words. Don't u know some words are more painful to women than beating them? U need to work on your self. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:10am On Jan 14, 2023 |
breakthrough22: Bro, you need help. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:11am On Jan 14, 2023 |
breakthrough22:Bro, you need help. Who sent her away in the first place? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:13am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The guy has serious issues. And its even bad because he has failed to realise that he has serious issues. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:17am On Jan 14, 2023 |
breakthrough22: Did you take time to discuss things with her or you just insulted her asking her to leave? Stop this Nairaland redpiller's mentality ,it does not work in real life. You better act fast. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:21am On Jan 14, 2023 |
breakthrough22: And you don't know that could be network issues? And yes, my battery could be down (not off) and i won't want to take calls because just to keep the phone on. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by jconsulting(f): 9:22am On Jan 14, 2023 |
This man you are very stupid a woman you nag on and insulted is still calling you sweetheart when replying your text.......better go and beg her and change your attitude,no be only you country hard on....if I see your wife I will collect cos am looking for single mother I can help |
Re: I Am Depressed by Danniedpastor(m): 9:24am On Jan 14, 2023 |
TheGoodAmerican: Even his response to you tells so much of the kind of person he is. Let's ignore him. Allow him to keep wallowing 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by UbOI: 9:26am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Jashub: She's got the backing of her dad and brothers I believe they can make her stand financially 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by UbOI: 9:27am On Jan 14, 2023 |
breakthrough22: Well you'll have to be paying your son's fees and all |
Re: I Am Depressed by Exceed15: 9:33am On Jan 14, 2023 |
wirinet: Congratulations |
Re: I Am Depressed by tonididdy(m): 9:38am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Ebonygeek:Bastard Did I tie the knot with my parents? A ho! |
Re: I Am Depressed by SeriouslySense(m): 9:45am On Jan 14, 2023 |
you could be right, but no one knows for certain unless she makes it clearer. tonididdy: |
Re: I Am Depressed by TUFFSS: 9:55am On Jan 14, 2023 |
She has tasted her ex dick again believe it or not, the child has gone back to the real fada. Am speaking from experience, she will want to come back when the other dick gets satisfied.sorry bro |
Re: I Am Depressed by EgusiSoup: 9:57am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Jashub: SIMPS everywhere |
Re: I Am Depressed by Mayeldah(m): 9:58am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Baba leave am make she leave for now. Once in a while always text her that you love her and want her back. Trust me in no time she will run back. To be single woman out there no be beans, with time self, her family members will give her attitude that will make her run back. However, you have to work on yourself and anger issues, man no supposed dey dey nag. |
Re: I Am Depressed by Jude49(m): 10:03am On Jan 14, 2023 |
How will you turture someone with your words and expect them to not get bruises Emotional torture... Words sometimes hurt more than physical injury. Op you are the cause... You called it just nag, whereas it is more than that. You're your own problem!!!!!!!! |
Re: I Am Depressed by chorla(m): 10:07am On Jan 14, 2023 |
You need to accept a reality that you really need to work on yourself first. You didn't talk about series of things that has happened before this December. Because it's not just about this December issue that made her packed out She didn't pack out because of what happened just this festive period. In her chat that you posted, she's been enduring all sorts from you and you made no attempt to caution yourself. It may not be because she found someone else, but she has gotten to her breaking point. If truly you want her back because you love her and not because of your son or because you are depressed, you have to be deliberate about your actions. 1. Work on your anger and how to control your words especially when you are angry. 2. Make sure you keep in touch and be nice. Over time if you truthfully work on yourself without pretence, she will know and it will even be obvious to you yourself that you are a changed person. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by abimic(m): 10:08am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Your wife was there with you through thick and thin, but instead of you to use your power and brain to expand your earnings, you would rather use your mouth to run your wife down. You feel because you are the husband, you can talk to your wife anyhow. Oya try the other women wey dey enter your eyes, by the time she wastes your little money for you, no one would tell you to re-consider your wife and bring her back. No one, not even a little child would accept emotional insults talk more of adults. Your attitude shows much on how you grew up. Sha work on your attitude before you go slap someone's daughter. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by chigbokingsley(m): 10:29am On Jan 14, 2023 |
His story is so explanatory to all to understand. He is the man of the house and a caring one at that. The so called wife left her matrimonial home for Christmas on 26th Dec without a second thought that she had overstayed where ever she is and how her husband must be faring. Jess! Is being insecure as your reaction stated the same as being caring/doing what one ought to do? Remember he called her from 2pm( Afternoon) if you don't know time to 8pm( evening) without her picking nor called back when she saw the missed calls. To add more salt to injury, she was on another call when her own husband had been trying to reach her but all in vain. What a woman. She even gave an unacceptable excuse that her battery was down. Now is the same battery down when she was in call? Can't she call back immediately she powered on her phone and saw her husband missed call? Can't she asked the caller to drop his/her call for her to answer her husband? See, bro/miss, anger is in all human even Jesus was angry at a point. I saw nothing wrong with his actions as the head of his house. Marriage of these days, I don't know what some ladies want. I will advice the victim to erase the mindset of a deadline. Go to her father's house with you own people to address this issue once and for all because it's not a one man journey. Kobojunkie: |
Re: I Am Depressed by Dada4me: 10:37am On Jan 14, 2023 |
The major challenge here is anger. Take care of your anger issues, you will see clearly and things will get back on track. |
Re: I Am Depressed by kadirrr: 11:06am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Please guys. Need your help This person, has been owing me 200k since August last year. Please help me call/text him and tell him to give me my money. His number 0901 801 1519 |
Re: I Am Depressed by Bryan88(m): 11:23am On Jan 14, 2023 |
TheGoodAmerican:guy u dey think/reason at all? Some1 u called ur wife not pickin and not returning the missed calls for over six hours ago and was on another call when the hubby decided to call one last time? To me a faithful wife shud hav atleast returned the hubby’s missed calls 1st atleast to knw y he was callin b4 any oda calls if truly she missed his calls unintentionally...and now she’s givin excuses that there was no light and yet her phone rang 6 times? No light to answer her hubby’s calls but there was enough ba3 charge to answer another person’s call? Oga think!!! |
Re: I Am Depressed by kafeii123: 11:38am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Jashub: This is wrong to say and hold for a mindset.... you're not God...so stop thinking that money is the only thing a man shd provide for his family...... |
Re: I Am Depressed by Moh247: 11:39am On Jan 14, 2023 |
I think she's tired of you and thinking of moving on Better drop the ego and seek reconciliation because of your son |
Re: I Am Depressed by kafeii123: 11:41am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Bryan88: She may not be able to do this... because she didn't want a shouting match.... which would surely have happened that night....the man himself already admitted that he threatened her and insulted her to return to her father's house.... imagine if her father didn't have a house...he could have locked her outside that day... I hope and pray that he mends things with the woman..but he should quit thinking he has the right to insult another human being... simply because the person agreed to stay with him ... It's a habit we men must unlearn... If you know that someone gives you peace....t doesn't matter that they're not giving you money....you need to still try and appreciate them. 2 Likes |
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