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Factcheck0001:
rubbish

Now I believe this your story is for engagement.

This your reply gave u out

Ok. Thank you. You're not in my shoes and you'll never understand. Its well

Factcheck0001:
so she should pause her life so u can b happy right?

Small pikin still dey worry u, if only u know that only u can dictate how u live your life n u can't dictate for others


She has tried to mourn your father for 6 years, oga let her move on


If na she die your papa go don marry tey tey


Abi na she kill your papa ni?

Oga let that woman live her life, the best u could do is to rally your dad's family to cater for your siblings till u have d ability to take charge.

Anything less than that u will just embarrass yourself n mess yourself up badly cos your mom will still go on with planned action

I swear I won't forgive her ever. The battle line has been drawn.

SocialJustice:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Omo, what hunger will cause.

Stop attributing this nonsense to hunger pls. You guys are the ones encouraging this rubbish. What Hunger?
So the only solution to hunger is to be kidnapping innocent and helpless Nigerians for ransom?
Pls

Factcheck0001:
the earlier the better u realize u can only control how u live your life n not how others live theirs.

U are just so one sided in your thinking, u didn't even consider your mom.

She's still young n also have sexual needs but u don't care

She's still young n lonely, no one to call confidant but u don't care.

What if she starts sleeping around?

Between her sleeping around or getting married to someone which one do u prefer?

Why can't she also consider the wellbeing of her children by waiting until we are old enough to at least handle ourselves?
Mothers are meant to make sacrifices

lamentor78:
Poor people too full these nairaland o, always complaining.

I wish u could touch my life today.
Things are hard. Nothing to live on. No hope for today's meal

weslay:
I don't know why you want her to remain a widow for the rest of her life even after six years. Do you want her to die of loneliness?

Let her be, and don't hold any grudge against her based on her decision to remarry.

Okay Sir. Thank you

Chilipepper:
I don't understand you this selfish inconsiderate son. Do you want your mum to be sneaking around and start sleeping with men in the village?

Apart from children, she doesn't have any tier again with your late father. Till death do us path was the vow. After death, surviving party can go on with his or her life.

You shouldn't be angry your mum wants to remarry instead you should be more concerned about your siblings and start planning a better life for them.

Your mum is broke and you still want to deprive her of being loved again..nawa o

Its well

2mch:
Abomination for you to visit. Abomination for your younger siblings to move in with her. Which village are you from? I seriously doubt your story. So for 6yrs, your mother just sat in her fathers house doing nothing, after having kids and being widowed?

Pls avoid this thread if you have nothing good to say. Pls. Don't add to my anger

delugadou:
He's not harsh, just being honest with you. She's 45 years old according to your story. That means she's still very young and fertile. It's better than sleeping around in the community.

The woman has tried to wait for 6 years, so please allow her to be happy. If it was the other way round, your dad would have remarried in less than 2 years. I will suggest you confirm the man is not a native doctor/evil & genuinely wants her. Hopefully, God will use you to empower your siblings.

All the best

Amen. Thank you Sir. The man isn't a native doctor and not diabolical at all.

shesco:
This looks like one of those fictitious stories composed solely for engagement and clout.

I noticed u have nothing good to contribute here

Streetinvestor2:
The road is too narrow compared to how busy mostly towards the abia axis.

U guys must look for one complaint or the other. Is Hope uzodinma the reason for the narrowness of the road?

madridguy:
Your major concerns should be on how to talk to the elders in your community to review the archaic laws and customs of your land.

Your grandfather has done well pushing her daughter " your mom " to get another man. She needs to be happy too and move on. Her marriage vow/oath have broken so no point being single for the rest of her life.

As for your junior ones, you as the first born should try and bring in your late father relatives into this, let them pick up their responsibilities.

I wish your mom happy married life in advance.

You're Harsh on me, honestly.

madridguy:

Guy, this isn't funny at all

I write with Pains in my heart.
I wish to ask God why some certain events occur in life.
I have lots of questions to ask, but nobody to give me answers.

I describe as Selfish, inconsiderate and egoistical the decision of my mum to remarry.

So, I lost my lovely and caring dad six years ago. We had lived in Port Harcourt prior to his death. When we were traveling to the village, we packed all the little properties we had cos we were not going to return back to PH again since my mum would not be able to cater for myself and little siblings.
After the burial and funeral ceremony, we all stayed in the village. I mean a typical village where there's no good road, no electricity, no mobile network. I stayed for a few months, then left them to go squat with my friends in port Harcourt so I could hustle with my muscles and return back to sch at least because it had always been my dad's desire for all of us to go to sch, so I beat my chest and vowed that I would go to sch and graduate. Thank God, I'm done with sch now.

My current challenge now is my mum is in her mid forties and wants to remarry to a man in the village. She hasn't told me yet. But my paternal aunt called to inform me. I'm really worried because if she gets remarried, she will abandon my younger siblings who are there with her because she won't be allowed to take my siblings to her new husband's house as it is an abomination based on the customs and traditions of our place. If my siblings must live with her in that place, then they will have to start bearing the new husband's name as his children. Why ?

Also, as a male child, I'm not allowed to go visit here and eat or sleep over in her new house. If I do this, I might die. Why is this?

Based on reports, my grandfather(mum's dad) is the one mounting pressure on my mum to get married. I'm really worried about the whole situation because the ties between my mum and my siblings are about to be severed. Since my dad died, my mum has been living in her father's house instead of my dad's place. Though both places aren't far from each other. Its trekkable. I feel really hurt and betrayed, I can't even imagine my mum in the arms of another man. If I was stable in monetary and economic terms, I would have taken her out of that dungeon to come live with me, and also bring siblings along. I'm really pained as I type. Tears.. my dad died at age 47.

I wish u guys can beg my mum not to remarry please. What's the difference between me and someone from a Broken background?
Life is not fair to me and my siblings. Not fair at all. I know how I'm feeling right now.

Let me make it clear at this point that if her plans of remarrying goes through, I will dis-mother her. I'll cut all ties and destroy every bond that ever existed between herself and us the children.

File photo used for illustration

Happy birthday to King Tonto.

Which one is Tonto Dokey again?

blackboy:
I stayed in a big 3 bedroom house in Abuja and I always wonder how the new tenants will move their funitures in. The main door was extremely small. We had to get carpenter to dismantle some.

Where in Abuja Sir?

femi4:
Happy Sunday

Do Small something for me pls

femi4:
Evening : 4pm - 8.59pm

Night: 9pm - 11.59pm

Midnight: 12.00

The Blues, happy Sunday Sir

TheFreshVanilla:
In the presence of law and common sense, where is the miracle in this story?

Same question I wanted to ask. They are even linking it to the God of chosen ONLY

inoki247:
Lol I fess comot the Salah meat wey dey my mouth mak he no be say the meat don blind me dey read something else....

Gimme small na. Tins hard here bro

2cribz:
My friend,I guess u meant myself. Cos how your friend problem take add money to your account.

Wow.. what a comment!

Neddstark:
Perfect. I love your strong decision. Some men would be alive if they took the courage to take that bold step

Thank you Sir 🙏

I'm not married yet and I won't ever marry.

Akpaamunsi:
Sillyy question

Only silly to you

CrownedPhoenix:
In Nigerian parlance,

goodnight is generally used to bade greetings when departing for the night.

Good afternoon is from midday to when the sun starts to set.

Once the sun starts to set, it's good evening.

In Nigerian parlance, good evening stretches well into the evening/night. People can be passing by at 10pm and grey each "Good evening".

Goodnight is not used in the way as good morning and good afternoon. When two people are meeting at 9pm, they don't see themselves and greet each 'goodnight'.
In fact, good night is only used to bade greetings when departing for the night. Good morning starts again at midnight.

Exactly 👏👏

Neddstark:
Better continue living a low profile. Avoid bars, clubs and drinking places. Hope the change of location was very far away

Yes, very far. Its even another state that I am in.

SensualMan1:
Your friend or u? There should be no shame in admitting u r the one. Nobody will flog u. U owe nobody no explanation.
There's no way u can know all this about ur so called imaginary friend. Just admit u r abusing sildenafil substance.

I didn't make my post for you to believe this Sir. Cos whether u believe it or not, is completely insignificant

This is a very important question.
When does evening even start?
You'll see someone greeting you "Good evening" at 4pm.

At 7pm, someone will tell you "goodnight"

At 8pm too, good evening.

Let's settle this once, and for all please.

bcomputer101:
No reasonable person will join APC with this bad economy, if not for selfish interest.

Bro, the economy is so bad. The hardship is too much. Too much

Politicians don't even care about governance and how people are surviving.
What type of a country is this for God's sakes?
The troubles, hardship, pains are terribly unbearable now

columbus007:
Drugs taking when having sex does not bring about deformity during child birth, stop propergating lies, secondly he will stop when he's tired.

Seems you are his partner?