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HealthRe: How Do I Stop My Friend From Using Sex-enhancement Drugs? (photo) by Chram(op): 12:29pm On Jun 07, 2025
LordBiden:
You can advice him to go for natural methods of delaying ejaculation instead of drugs.
Okay. Thanks
HealthHow Do I Stop My Friend From Using Sex-enhancement Drugs? (photo) by Chram(op):
I don't know if this should have been posted on the romance section. Though I'm more concerned about my friend's health, reason I had to post it here.

This is a friend whom we've known each other right from childhood. We've been friends for over 18yrs now. We live in same apartment but in separate rooms. He uses sex enhancement drugs a lot. Like he abuses these drugs and I am beginning to get scared for his health. He's been hiding this from me for a very long time until I discovered that he uses same drugs. He womanizes a lot. As in, he can't sleep with a girl without these drugs. Once a girl arrives his place, he'll excuse himself to go swallowed the drugs, then return to sit down. I kept observing overtime until I was able to realise that he is deeply addicted to it. I used diplomacy in confirming this after I brought up a fabricated story of how a guy somewhere uses same drugs to satisfy his numerous lovers and how same lovers kept coming back for more sex cos they were enjoying it and the guy was feeling like a superman. He was so happy to hear such a testimony from me, and that was the point he confessed to using the drugs. He said anyday he accidentally sleeps with a girl without taking it, he wouldn't last for 20seconds and wouldn't even be able to go for a second round. How long will he continue this?. If he gets married, is this how he's going to continue taking pills to satisfy his wife?
Will his wife be happy if she finds out?
I was told these drugs have a way of affecting a child when the child is born. That is, a man who takes enhancement pills to satisfy and impregnate his wife is likely to give birth to a deformed child.
Please House, those of you that know the side effects of using these drugs should please enlighten us, so we can collectively save a friend. All my life, I have never used any form of enhancement pills to sleep with any girl. The only thing I ever took was Alomo Bitters when it was #200 way back when it hadn't been adulterated and was purely imported from Ghana. I'm talking about Casapreko Bitters a.k.a Alomo Bitters.

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PoliticsRe: Top Politicians In Abuja, NASS Responsible For Benue Killings - Gov Alia by Chram(m): 10:16am On Jun 07, 2025
2mch:
If you are serious and you yourself not involved, you will name them instead of speaking in code. What death is a reverend father afraid of?
Don't mind him. Some of these Governors and other politicians who claim to know those sponsoring insecurity should also have the guts to name them and if they refuse to name them, the law should should take it's course on them. You don't play politics with human lives
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 10:08am On Jun 07, 2025
Oakenshield:
Through casket
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CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 12:17am On Jun 07, 2025
samuelson06:
Which cult was it? How was your initiation? What exactly was done to you during the initiation?
You think you're talking to your child, I guess.
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 10:52pm On Jun 06, 2025
kpankpangolo:
I believe this is made up. Let me book space here and come to a conclusion later.
How's it made up for God's sakes?
You guys like doubting a lot. Is it that things like this cannot happen in real life or what exactly?

I just told u my story and you're doubting. What do I gain from posting lies here? Do I get paid for posting fictions/fabricated stories?
SportsRe: Drogba Shares His Throwback Pictures When He Was 5 Vs 47 by Chram(m): 10:48pm On Jun 06, 2025
Obapluto:
As an arsenal fan.. make I no lie, anytime I see Drogba I always get angry grin

Ugly man.. werey man lol..
Even if that guy play 1minute against Arsenal, him must score Arsenal. This guy tormented Arsene Wenger, Arsenal players and the fans.
The day drogba left Chelsea, I was the happiest Arsenal fan
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 10:45pm On Jun 06, 2025
olawaleatanda:
Until they post your pictures as wanted on their social media account grin
😂😂😂😂😂
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 5:36pm On Jun 06, 2025
[quote author=flokii post=135648577]@OP It is well with you.. cultism, occultism and likes only add to people's problems.
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Thanks
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 4:09pm On Jun 06, 2025
adamkkk:
things I never had the stomach for while in school

Gambling
Cultism
Drug


I am not preaching religion and I didn't make those move because of religious reasons. I stayed away from these things because they just don't interest me, i see them as stress.
You did well
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 4:09pm On Jun 06, 2025
Lance008:
Na viki u join he sure me 💯
Na u Sabi that one o
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 4:08pm On Jun 06, 2025
PaNnamdi:
Don't happy too soon rivals fit get ur pics and might be on your tail,dot u know every cult group get rivals informants wey don infiltrate am.
That's your business. You can't decide my happiness
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 3:38pm On Jun 06, 2025
Lance008:
Boss u are wrong
If u change location u can never be indetify as one unless u mistakenly meet ur old friend
Every area for cultism get diff leaders and office holders
But the day dem know say na 1 u be and u Dey hide dem fit come pack ur load for house no body go answer u because the day u were initiated nobody knew ur agreement
Check ur notifications
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 2:57pm On Jun 06, 2025
LanceNL:
Sir, do not mind the young man trying to drag you back. Don't listen to his lies. If possible, block him on NL. That's the rubbish they keep yapping to keep men bound.
It's only through Jesus Christ, that you can experience the peace of God, and thank God you've found him - He that dwells in the secret place of the most high, shall abide under the shadow of the almighty.

The mistake had been made, lessons learnt, and thanks to God for sparing your life.
Join a bible believing church that prays fervently and encourages personal development (I'd also suggest listening to apostle Joshua Selman's messages), attend life changing seminars, and seek friendship with people who are going to your destination in life.

Don't live your life in fear of anything or anyone, Just avoid any means of contact to the former area, change your mobile, and get a job, skill ... as it were.
If you have 1st connection relatives back there, be wise and discreet with communications, and do that anonymously.

You can still be who you dream to be.
I've battled depression before, and I know how hopeless life might look. But your reality would be what you declare and work life to be.
Things have taken a new turn for me, I believe yours too will get better and better speedily.

Stay blessed bro.
Thanks so much Sir
FamilyRe: Husbands, How Would You Live With Your Wife After This Public Humiliation? by Chram(m): 2:14pm On Jun 06, 2025
QuinQ:
Wow! I like this your community. This should be adopted nation-wide. Some men (a small minority) beat their wives constantly. A woman should NOT live in fear and walk on egg shells in her own home!

I know this is front page straight.

First To Comment (clap, clap, clap)
Does Seun pay money for being the first to comment?
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu Absent As Tinubu Flags Off Reconstruction Of Lagos Deep Seaport Road by Chram(m): 1:59pm On Jun 06, 2025
Babangidapikin:
I have noticed each time Mr President comes to Lagos he goes around to check everywhere, like he is accessing Sanwo Baba, I don't think Oga Sanwo Baba should have any issues with his Baba ...rather I think Baba should reward Sanwo Baba with a Ministerial position after his tenure, because I don't know how he does it but the last time I was at the Epe corridor I saw he has done a lot .. Handshake shouldn't create any drama ..It is only Oga Sanwo Baba that goes out with more than one cloth as Governor because engagement too plenty. I was happy to be present at his first term inauguration, there I noticed him and his deputy driving in the same type Range Rovers that tell me , he wasn't ready to do I be Oga Governor rather let work as a team. Although I see Mr President do same with the Escalades but I still don't feel that let's work as team spirit, I still see Oga Shetimma using style to hide in the background. Lagos don't have land again, except you start building vertically no solutions in site. The reason we are still using style to beg Alhaji to play a role in activating our steel industry even if he would use the women of steel and not be directly involved.
Hope u were rewarded for attending the inauguration?
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu Absent As Tinubu Flags Off Reconstruction Of Lagos Deep Seaport Road by Chram(m): 1:57pm On Jun 06, 2025
KillahPriest:
Only one small snubbing and you decided to abandon your guest grin Sanwo Baby is too petty walahi but wait o, isn't it the same snubbing that APC ronus gave more than one thousand reasons explaining why it wasn't a snub ? Umu ndi ara grin
Who told you he abandoned his guest?
Learn to be objective even if it's for once.
What if Sanwo-Olu was not in the country at the time?
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu Absent As Tinubu Flags Off Reconstruction Of Lagos Deep Seaport Road by Chram(m): 1:55pm On Jun 06, 2025
Ikaeniyan0:
Who were the people who lined up behind Ambode? It was mostly the Igbos who were supporting Ambode because of their hate for Tinubu.

Tinubu eventually defeated you all. You will all keep on wailing if you keep on interfering in Yoruba land internal affairs
Some of you don't deserve to be on this platform. What brought tribalism into this discussion now?
What exactly?
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu Absent As Tinubu Flags Off Reconstruction Of Lagos Deep Seaport Road by Chram(m): 1:53pm On Jun 06, 2025
iwaeda:
Sanwo-Olu is goner. He knows, if Tinubu wins in 2027, Sanwo-Olu may end up in jail. We said it, but some the kids like seunmsg, were shouting Obasa will not return. grin grin grin grin
End up in jail for what crime exactly?
Some of you just wake up to type whatever comes up on your mind. You think Tinubu is as vindictive as Buhari?
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 1:47pm On Jun 06, 2025
Jamesmatic:
Okay good luck to you. Who can do can bear? As you get mind take join the cult you go still bear the consequences.
U sure say u dey quick understand something so?
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 1:25pm On Jun 06, 2025
Jamesmatic:
First of all na which cult you join. If you join d one Wey many rivals hate. You no go last.?you for just dey chill and remain neutral. But my only advice for you na to go run beta juju make dem comot eye for your body
God is the only juju I have sir. I have left the association already
PoliticsRe: OAU Students Who Protested Against Wike Arrested by Chram(m): 12:12pm On Jun 06, 2025
Democracy is in Danger!
CrimeRe: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 10:52am On Jun 06, 2025
Nemesis0147:
Since you have change your location and environment
You are good to go
Just cut ties with your old squad.
Ok Sir 🙏
CrimeDepression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op):
For security reasons, I decided to post this with this acc.
I don't know what to do and how to say this. But I pray and hope that you understand and offer me the Best advice possible.

Been vulnerable and defenceless coupled with depression led me into joining a cult group. If I had joined while in school, I may not have lived to tell the full story cos I was going to be killed. But thank God for sparing my life. I joined after sch.
I was depressed. I was oppressed. I had nobody(not even a family) to fight for, or defend me. I'm this gentle kind of person and it seems most gentle people suffer more in Nigeria as people take advantage of your gentility. You can be avoiding trouble yet trouble keeps finding you. That's just the simple way to put it.
Two years ago, I got initiated and was assigned someone( an old member) who would be giving me constant orientation of the cult group. Three weeks later, I traveled and I heard that same guy and another Member had been killed by rival cult group. I was terrified. Before the clash, I had already been warned by the rivals to stay off else I may not return home with my both legs as they intended destroying one or both of my legs. I became even more scared cos I was a stranger in that place. This was what led to my Traveling outta the place..
I joined them in attending all the meetings and these meetings always result in attacks from rival groups. Then I asked myself why I should be living such a careless life that could make me die like a cockroach at any time?
I asked myself again, Do I want to die so soon after all I suffered to achieve in life?
I have completely left the environment, blocked all the phone contacts of my colleagues and even on Facebook. I'm no longer interested. I want peace. I have come along way and wouldn't want to be harmed for no reason but because I joined a wrong association out of Depression and loneliness.
For those who were there and denounced their association with them, is there any other thing I need to do?
I'm at peace with myself because I didn't kill or harm anybody while I was in the group. Since I joined after sch, I wasn't recruited into the rank and file of the association but as a Senior Man.

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