What is happening here??

SenecaTheYonger:


She wants you to knack her. It’s reverse psychology.

That's an impossibility

BlackyOne:
You can't get out of that situation except do do as follows;

Get very close to her, date her, fvck her just once and avoid her like trash!

She be so ashamed and respect you more!

I am married

Fountainofyouth:
Op why do you keep quoting everybody with that YouTube video? Na by force to watch am? abi what is the significance of the video with your fake story?

All this traffic hustlers sef, smh.

Sorry

Not intentional

EmperorCaesar:
You are a very weak man and it even reflects in the tone of this epistle

I also work with female subordinates at work, in fact, there are 6 of them in my lab and i can tell u that every single one of them thinks its impossible for me to evert fall in love with any woman at all and not just them

Shey women wey i no even get their contact, i dont gist with, i dont even discuss the mildest of issues with...how can they even think I could ever be interested in them

At work place, I rarely answer women greetings as i assume we all are strangers and since we really arent in same department, Abeg, our Exchange of pleasantries is needless

When the ladies in my lab realised i act cold towards those outside my dept, then they were forced to know that i could be brutal and God knows i have never yelled nor screamed on any of them before


In conclusion, It is either u are really interested in her or u just dont know how to set boundaries between you and your co-workers...either way, you are a weak child

I am not
I have set boundaries

I told you I don't talk to her at all apart from work

WantsandMore:
Just tell her she's not your spec. She better stop dreaming. It's reverse psychology. Don't let her shenanigans get to you mate.

What is reverse psychology?

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drimzsmoke:


I'm a doctor, nurses(registered) flirt with me sometimes. If she's pretty, I encourage it,if not, I just pretend like I don't see you. As for the auxiliary nurses,dem no born any one of them well to flirt with me cause my eyes no even dey dey ground with dem(I play with the older ones, it's the younger ones that I have issues with). So Bros, you encouraged it. Women are not that cheap.

Do you see how our conversation changed from "love" to "doctor". She used to address me as "love" and "dear" but when I kept addressing her like a nurse and sometimes used "ma" for her, she got the message!!!

I didn't please

It's been strictly professional please

drimzsmoke:


I don't know why I'm finding it hard to believe this your story!!!

If your allegations are true however,i.e, you never tried flirting with this woman in the past.... Then tell her to her face and in the presence of her colleagues that she is not your type, let her know that even if she's naked right in front of you,you still won't have an erection

If your story is true however, personally, what I feel is that you allowed it, you encouraged it in your own way!!!

I didn't

Proserpina:
To save yourself from "stories that touch" I will advise you record her when she starts "insinuating" again.

Be careful.

Okay, thanks

Karlifate:



@ bolded: LMAO! 🤣🤣


ChristIsGod, if you try the bolded, you've already lost this subtle game by 5:0.

For now, you're still leading 2:0.


Take heed!

Why do you think I am leading??

Karlifate:
Your pretty girlfriend/fiancee/wife should always bring you lunch with heavy PDA, she would comport herself.


Also, ignore her like she never exist except work joins you together. Make sure you finish the work as soon as possible and keep every dealings professional.


Don't forget to keep receipts & evidences of your interactions with her cos if she starts her shenanigans, the public (men & women) will listen and believe her side of the story.

Thanks

Demigod22:
OP, if you are not careful, we will soon read on the papers; Justice for subordinate staff.

Dealing with such people is dicy. I remember a school I taught sometime ago. There's this girl, a teacher too, because both of us are young, people unanimously ship us. She will visit me during break time, play with my phone, ask me to buy stuff for her, but when the female students in senior class started doing the same thing, I have a second thought.

You just have to upgrade your strict attitude and overlook certain things too.

I am not close with this one

Quality20:
It seems an inherited trait which she might do to another man. Just be close to her more, then u can truly show her that u not like other men who would have fornicated her, u know a lot of women believe that men can't resist a woman will holes

I can't be close to her

brain54:
Be professional in your interactions with her...

Don't discuss personal issues with her. Probably she became too familiar with you. And you know what they say about over familiarity.


Be firm!

I don't talk with her at all
Apart from job related
Yet she is always making insinuation

rickleye:



Dude if you are “ the gay “


Then sit her down and explain to her why you both cannot work out.
1. You cannot date someone in the same office space.
2. You are her superior ( if that’s a reason )
3. You are dating or interested in someone else .
4. You do not want to be friends as this will make my gf jealous and break her heart.


You need proof of allegations you are making against her

What proof again?

adesegun121:
Ok

Meaning

fyzaila:
Is it difficult to ignore her? Or pretend like she's not there? Please man up, i repeat man up! How can you allow her to be using you to play kalo kalo. You even went to report to your boss like one cry cry baby.

Because it's a dangerous allegation

This lady is my subordinate at work
We share same office space
I am her boss.
She has always thought that I am interested in her by her comments although I am not
I haven't done anything to suggest interest in her
Once, she said she thinks I am interested in her but I am unable to say it. I rebuked her.
Anytime she misbehaves and I admonish her, she will be making insinuations that I will never get to sleep with her
I reported this habit to my boss, but she denied ever doing stuff like that
Meanwhile, she occasionally wound make that insinuation.
I am not on talking terms with her at all because of her misconducts and this attitude.

How do I stop this nonsense?
Why is she consistently doing this when I have never expressed interest in her?

Please advise

We hear
See here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSKNlP2EuBw

Bluezy13:
A mini surprise will help.
Surprise her with a tiny gift, check on her or give her an unexpected call just to check on her, be as brief as possible and maintain professionalism while talking to her.
The following day, maintain your normal composure as if nothing happened.
She will become your friend.
Don't always be Bossy.
You have to be diplomatic sometimes.

In my case, I gave her an unexpected call while she was just 1min late. My conversation was thus:
Her: "Good morning Sir..."
Me: "Yeah, Good morning Grace. You are not here yet, I hope everything is okay..."
Her: "Sir, I couldn't get a taxi in time and bla bla bla.."
Me: "Alright then, I just wanted to know."
Her: "I'm okay Sir, thank you."
Call ended.
When she arrived, I pretended I didn't even call her. She became friendly.
Just showing a little care solved the problem because in her mind, "he actually went out of his way to check on me...he is not bad after all".

And if you wish to gift her something, let it be in a group of other workers too. Like buying everyone meat pie or bottle of coke each...you could mention her name in particular by asking pretentiously if she has gotten too.
I am just advising you from my experience.
She might got your back in your absence.
And you too...try and season your bossiness with flexibility too.

Ok

badthinds:
Find a way to delay her at work one day. Hide behind the door, catch her unaware and press a bottomless kiss on her lips. Push her violently to the wall while grabbing her neck. Press the neck like you really want to chock her... Plant an even deeper kiss on her lips. You'll hear her heart beat like Jerry's heart in Tom and Jerry, that's where you slide your hand violently into her skirt. Drag her panties mercilessly from beneath her tigh with your other hand. Flip her to face the wall like she's an inanimate object. Your little guy must be throbbing by now, ram it in with no mercy. Teach her a 2 minute lesson and leave your white survenir deep deep inside of her. Leave without uttering a word.

The way she'll look at you the next day, you'll know that your problem is solved.

That's rapee

What's the best way to handle a female staff who is constantly complaining about you?

Always has issues about you as manager

Thanks

"When a female squirrel finds another baby squirrel, she gives him food and makes sure that he is an orphan and has no mother or father, and after 3 days of investigation and actually making sure that he is without family, she takes him gently and feeds him and makes him familiar with living with her and her young as if he was one of her children.

The female squirrel is unique in receiving her husband when he returns with food with kisses and wooing him in order to ease the fatigue of bringing food to her and her young.
The male squirrel always expresses his love for his female by giving her the most beautiful roses and the largest walnuts and almonds...
Mother Squirrel and Father Squirrel A wonderful family for the future of mankind depends on their activity:

Half of the seeds you store become new bushes in the forest.

1 Corinthians 15:58

Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.

In my dream, I saw a woman I know in real life, come to kiss my right eye

What doe s it mean?

Revelation 7:9-10
[9]After these things I looked, and behold, a great multitude which no one could number, of all nations, tribes, peoples, and tongues, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed with white robes, with palm branches in their hands,
[10]and crying out with a loud voice, saying, “Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb!”

Glory!

Nebes:


They'll always end the conversation when you show biblical proof of your stand. It seems they don't read the scriptures, basing their stands on awake and watchtower magazines.

They are filled with demons

In a convo with one Jw guy, he incessantly mocked the Bible's position that Jesus is The Almighty God, citing that, Jesus 'received' Glory, Power and Honour. To This jw, since Jesus received these, it presupposes He received them from a superior entity so Jesus is not God. Then I referred him here :

Revelation 4:11
“You are worthy, O Lord, To receive glory and honor and power; For You created all things, And by Your will they
exist and were created.”

He ended the convo

Qatar2022:
They're selective before but now they can't be selected

Revelation 1:17-18
[17]And when I saw Him, I fell at His feet as dead. But He laid His right hand on me, saying to me, “Do not be afraid; I am the First and the Last.
[18] I am He who lives, and was dead, and behold, I am alive forevermore. Amen. And I have the keys of Hades and of Death.

Is this Jesus ?

Please share your thoughts

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