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Pupanchie:
You do not need or needed to be worried, just keep pampering her with enough love so she won't bring a bastard kid to your home

shinaola21:
🌺

I have many crush but shy shy ruined it all,so it just me and my single konji 😂

Goodlady:
Give love a chance

Holyfic:
Simp stay away from office romance, you nor go ask her if she de game for knacking de zuzu de follow her

SenecaTheYonger:
She wants you to knack her. It’s reverse psychology.

BlackyOne:
You can't get out of that situation except do do as follows;

Get very close to her, date her, fvck her just once and avoid her like trash!

She be so ashamed and respect you more!

Fountainofyouth:
Op why do you keep quoting everybody with that YouTube video? Na by force to watch am? abi what is the significance of the video with your fake story?

All this traffic hustlers sef, smh.

EmperorCaesar:
You are a very weak man and it even reflects in the tone of this epistle

I also work with female subordinates at work, in fact, there are 6 of them in my lab and i can tell u that every single one of them thinks its impossible for me to evert fall in love with any woman at all and not just them

Shey women wey i no even get their contact, i dont gist with, i dont even discuss the mildest of issues with...how can they even think I could ever be interested in them

At work place, I rarely answer women greetings as i assume we all are strangers and since we really arent in same department, Abeg, our Exchange of pleasantries is needless

When the ladies in my lab realised i act cold towards those outside my dept, then they were forced to know that i could be brutal and God knows i have never yelled nor screamed on any of them before


In conclusion, It is either u are really interested in her or u just dont know how to set boundaries between you and your co-workers...either way, you are a weak child

WantsandMore:
Just tell her she's not your spec. She better stop dreaming. It's reverse psychology. Don't let her shenanigans get to you mate.

drimzsmoke:
I'm a doctor, nurses(registered) flirt with me sometimes. If she's pretty, I encourage it,if not, I just pretend like I don't see you. As for the auxiliary nurses,dem no born any one of them well to flirt with me cause my eyes no even dey dey ground with dem(I play with the older ones, it's the younger ones that I have issues with). So Bros, you encouraged it. Women are not that cheap.

Do you see how our conversation changed from "love" to "doctor". She used to address me as "love" and "dear" but when I kept addressing her like a nurse and sometimes used "ma" for her, she got the message!!!

drimzsmoke:
I don't know why I'm finding it hard to believe this your story!!!

If your allegations are true however,i.e, you never tried flirting with this woman in the past.... Then tell her to her face and in the presence of her colleagues that she is not your type, let her know that even if she's naked right in front of you,you still won't have an erection

If your story is true however, personally, what I feel is that you allowed it, you encouraged it in your own way!!!

Proserpina:
To save yourself from "stories that touch" I will advise you record her when she starts "insinuating" again.

Be careful.

Karlifate:
@ bolded: LMAO! 🤣🤣


ChristIsGod, if you try the bolded, you've already lost this subtle game by 5:0.

For now, you're still leading 2:0.


Take heed!

Karlifate:
Your pretty girlfriend/fiancee/wife should always bring you lunch with heavy PDA, she would comport herself.


Also, ignore her like she never exist except work joins you together. Make sure you finish the work as soon as possible and keep every dealings professional.


Don't forget to keep receipts & evidences of your interactions with her cos if she starts her shenanigans, the public (men & women) will listen and believe her side of the story.

Demigod22:
OP, if you are not careful, we will soon read on the papers; Justice for subordinate staff.

Dealing with such people is dicy. I remember a school I taught sometime ago. There's this girl, a teacher too, because both of us are young, people unanimously ship us. She will visit me during break time, play with my phone, ask me to buy stuff for her, but when the female students in senior class started doing the same thing, I have a second thought.

You just have to upgrade your strict attitude and overlook certain things too.

Quality20:
It seems an inherited trait which she might do to another man. Just be close to her more, then u can truly show her that u not like other men who would have fornicated her, u know a lot of women believe that men can't resist a woman will holes

brain54:
Be professional in your interactions with her...

Don't discuss personal issues with her. Probably she became too familiar with you. And you know what they say about over familiarity.


Be firm!

rickleye:
Dude if you are “ the gay “


Then sit her down and explain to her why you both cannot work out.
1. You cannot date someone in the same office space.
2. You are her superior ( if that’s a reason )
3. You are dating or interested in someone else .
4. You do not want to be friends as this will make my gf jealous and break her heart.


You need proof of allegations you are making against her

adesegun121:
Ok

fyzaila:
Is it difficult to ignore her? Or pretend like she's not there? Please man up, i repeat man up! How can you allow her to be using you to play kalo kalo. You even went to report to your boss like one cry cry baby.