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Please, people in the house is there colleges I can apply to without paying application fee?

042viber12:
It's very difficult to get a masters with the GP for the aforementioned course..though there might be schools who may offer which I do not know. U can go for a PGD...Google colleges in canada, search via courses in computer science or computer science itself which dy offer, check their admission requirements, apply den come back to ask questions concerning getting a visa

Thanks a million.

042viber12:
It's very difficult to get a masters with the GP for the aforementioned course..though there might be schools who may offer which I do not know. U can go for a PGD...Google colleges in canada, search via courses in computer science or computer science itself which dy offer, check their admission requirements, apply den come back to ask questions concerning getting a visa

Thanks in a millions time.

I have a GP of 2.89 and want to apply for
masters degree in computer science.Can
I apply with this GP to study the aforementioned course. I mean is the GP not too low for admission? Is this a research base course or an ordinary course.Please, guru in the house answer my questions P-L-E-A-S-E.

I have a GP of 2.89 and want to apply for masters degree in computer science.Can I apply with this GP to study the aforementioned course. I mean is the GP not too low for admission? Is this a research base course or an ordinary course. Thanks
Please, guru in the house answer my questions P-L-E - A-S-E

This is double horror accident. Rest in peace

[quote author=jumia1 post=75095941]ways a woman can handle dominating and controlling husband in marriage & relationship

It ‘s all depended on how serious and how frequent these controlling behaviors are, you may be able to work with your spouse to improve your marriage, or you may benefit from counseling. If the behavior is very serious or does not improve with counseling, you may need to consider ending the relationship with your controlling partner in order to regain your independence.

Stay calm. For many people, arguing is a natural response to a spouse’s controlling behavior.Unfortunately, a controlling person is unlikely to submit and let you win the argument, so this tactic will likely only escalate the situation. Instead of arguing, stay as calm and collected as possible. You can disagree with your spouse without yelling or being disrespectful.

If you feel that you need to disagree with your spouse, consider saying something like, I see your perspective, but have you considered this? instead of “That’s wrong. My idea is better!” In some cases, you may find that agreeing with your partner is best, but you can do this without submitting to the controlling behavior. For example, you may take the initiative to make your own decision, while still taking your spouse’s opinions into account.

Ask the controller to develop a plan. In some cases, you may be able to use your controlling spouse’s tendency to control as a way of remedying minor issues in your relationship. Explain the issue to your spouse, and appeal to their desire to control by asking them to develop a plan to solve the problem.
Be as specific as possible when describing the problem to your spouse. For example, instead of saying, “You are too controlling, consider saying something like, I feel that you micromanage my activities and don’t trust me to get things done on my own.
If your spouse refuses to acknowledge that there is any problem, this strategy may not work.

Be empathetic. When your spouse makes a demand or tries to control you, it may help to try to see things from his or her perspective. Take a moment to consider why your spouse may be acting this way, and try to be understanding. This may help you avoid becoming angry whenever your spouse acts controlling.

This should help you understand your spouse’s behavior and perhaps look past minor incidents, but you should never use this technique to excuse disrespectful behavior.

Ask constructive questions. If your spouse begins to criticize or interrogate you, you can quickly turn the focus around by responding with the right questions. Ask questions that reveal to the controlling spouse that their expectations are unreasonable or that their behavior is unacceptable. For example, you might say, “Did you explain to me exactly what you wanted me to do?or I am going to walk away unless you start treating me with respect. Is that what you want?”[4]

Avoid getting defensive, as this will only enhance the controlling behaviors.

Be prepared for denial. Controllers often do not know they’re controlling. In fact, many controllers feel as though they are being controlled, which may explain why they feel the need to be so assertive. If you are dealing with a spouse who is habitually over-controlling, you will most likely have to convince them that they are controlling, which may take some time.

Be as respectful as possible when having this conversation. If you want to save your marriage, you should not attack your spouse’s character. Instead, focus on the kinds of actions or situations that upset you.
Use as many examples as possible in explaining what you mean by controlling.

Set boundaries. Once you have a conversation with your spouse about their controlling behavior, you will need to make it very clear what you are willing to tolerate. Explain to your spouse in as much detail as possible what kind of behavior needs to be corrected.

You may want to make a list of the biggest problems and brainstorm with your spouse about specific things you can do to avoid those problems in the future.
Keep in mind that there is a chance your spouse will think you are controlling as well, so be open to listening to any boundaries that they might propose.

Enforce consequences. Your spouse may need to be reminded of your limits every so often, so it’s a good idea to decide what kind of behaviors warrant consequences and what those consequences will be. This should only apply to major offenses that cannot be addressed in any other way.

For minor offenses, your spouse may benefit from a simple reminder of your boundaries.
Don’t overuse consequences. Withholding privileges or affection as a consequence for the tiniest offense is what controlling people do!
Your consequences may have to be quite serious. For example, you may decide that you will move out of the house if your spouse does not make an effort to treat you with respect over the next month.

Read more here:http://jumiaforum.com/listing/ways-women-can-handle-dominating-and-controlling-husband-in-their-marriage-relationship/[/quote
You have said it all gbam.

OK.

victorsol:
and also most schools deadine is by April or March depending on the school but if you have the requirement and you need funding which some schools or departments offer, then you must meet their soft deadline requirement to be enlisted but if you don't need fundinh from them, then you can go with their hard deadline. it depends on you sha.

Thanks so much. This is more appreciated. God bless you.

Something is wrong with the man.

She needs to be taught a lesson. There are some places in Ibadan like Gate(Iso part), Bere, Iwo-Road to mention but a few that she cannot pass dressed like that. They will help her to bring it out and even play with it and she dare not talk.

That serves her right. May be she will learn to stop having illicit affair. if it's not running her blood.

Josh1996:
Google for schools in Canada, from each schools website go to their graduate school and you will see details there. Their sites are easy to navigate through. Deadlines differ from school to school. You can apply for either fall 2019 or winter 2020, those are the available resumption terms for now. I hope this helps. Good luck

OK, really appreciate it. Will do just that.

OK. continue ranting. is he married? if yes, leave him with his wife. if not, find out if he's into any relationship let him go and if not, approach him and tell him your mind.

We need you here. Come back safely.

If she's is a Christian,buy her Bible and hymn book. If she's a Muslim, buy her Quran.

He is having fade memory.

okay.

wow. This is.......

please, I want to start my own application for masters degree program. I want to ask when is the application deadline of most of the schools and can I start now to resume when? please, No abusive words. Thanks.

The man is a weakling. How can you be fighting with a lady in the public? No self respect and dignity.

Okay. Is this how we are going to motivate our young ones coming up? Is this a good legacy? I weep for the coming generation. I don't think there will be decency in our next generation. it will by then be called Old school.

This is serious and unthinkable.

You cannot satisfy everybody equally. Just try your best and leave the rest.

OK.

Nigeria prophet with different prophecy.Ok oo

God will save us from danger this year.

Very unhygienic. May be she is from a place where where they use to cook is not far from near by bush they use to relief themselves. bush girl.