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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 10:29am On Feb 20, 2019
Please, people in the house is there colleges I can apply to without paying application fee?

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 1:50pm On Jan 28, 2019
042viber12:

It's very difficult to get a masters with the GP for the aforementioned course..though there might be schools who may offer which I do not know. U can go for a PGD...Google colleges in canada, search via courses in computer science or computer science itself which dy offer, check their admission requirements, apply den come back to ask questions concerning getting a visa
Thanks a million.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 1:50pm On Jan 28, 2019
042viber12:

It's very difficult to get a masters with the GP for the aforementioned course..though there might be schools who may offer which I do not know. U can go for a PGD...Google colleges in canada, search via courses in computer science or computer science itself which dy offer, check their admission requirements, apply den come back to ask questions concerning getting a visa
Thanks in a millions time.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 1:16pm On Jan 28, 2019
I have a GP of 2.89 and want to apply for
masters degree in computer science.Can
I apply with this GP to study the aforementioned course. I mean is the GP not too low for admission? Is this a research base course or an ordinary course.Please, guru in the house answer my questions P-L-E-A-S-E.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 10:23am On Jan 28, 2019
I have a GP of 2.89 and want to apply for masters degree in computer science.Can I apply with this GP to study the aforementioned course. I mean is the GP not too low for admission? Is this a research base course or an ordinary course. Thanks
Please, guru in the house answer my questions P-L-E - A-S-E
Travel / Re: Man Knocked Down By SUV, Immediately Crushed To Death By Trailer (graphic Photo) by Christty(f): 8:15pm On Jan 25, 2019
This is double horror accident. Rest in peace
Romance / Re: You Can Handle A Dominating Husband In Your Narriage & Relationship This Way by Christty(f): 1:43pm On Jan 25, 2019
[quote author=jumia1 post=75095941]ways a woman can handle dominating and controlling husband in marriage & relationship

It ‘s all depended on how serious and how frequent these controlling behaviors are, you may be able to work with your spouse to improve your marriage, or you may benefit from counseling. If the behavior is very serious or does not improve with counseling, you may need to consider ending the relationship with your controlling partner in order to regain your independence.

Stay calm. For many people, arguing is a natural response to a spouse’s controlling behavior.Unfortunately, a controlling person is unlikely to submit and let you win the argument, so this tactic will likely only escalate the situation. Instead of arguing, stay as calm and collected as possible. You can disagree with your spouse without yelling or being disrespectful.

If you feel that you need to disagree with your spouse, consider saying something like, I see your perspective, but have you considered this? instead of “That’s wrong. My idea is better!” In some cases, you may find that agreeing with your partner is best, but you can do this without submitting to the controlling behavior. For example, you may take the initiative to make your own decision, while still taking your spouse’s opinions into account.

Ask the controller to develop a plan. In some cases, you may be able to use your controlling spouse’s tendency to control as a way of remedying minor issues in your relationship. Explain the issue to your spouse, and appeal to their desire to control by asking them to develop a plan to solve the problem.
Be as specific as possible when describing the problem to your spouse. For example, instead of saying, “You are too controlling, consider saying something like, I feel that you micromanage my activities and don’t trust me to get things done on my own.
If your spouse refuses to acknowledge that there is any problem, this strategy may not work.

Be empathetic. When your spouse makes a demand or tries to control you, it may help to try to see things from his or her perspective. Take a moment to consider why your spouse may be acting this way, and try to be understanding. This may help you avoid becoming angry whenever your spouse acts controlling.

This should help you understand your spouse’s behavior and perhaps look past minor incidents, but you should never use this technique to excuse disrespectful behavior.

Ask constructive questions. If your spouse begins to criticize or interrogate you, you can quickly turn the focus around by responding with the right questions. Ask questions that reveal to the controlling spouse that their expectations are unreasonable or that their behavior is unacceptable. For example, you might say, “Did you explain to me exactly what you wanted me to do?or I am going to walk away unless you start treating me with respect. Is that what you want?”[4]

Avoid getting defensive, as this will only enhance the controlling behaviors.

Be prepared for denial. Controllers often do not know they’re controlling. In fact, many controllers feel as though they are being controlled, which may explain why they feel the need to be so assertive. If you are dealing with a spouse who is habitually over-controlling, you will most likely have to convince them that they are controlling, which may take some time.

Be as respectful as possible when having this conversation. If you want to save your marriage, you should not attack your spouse’s character. Instead, focus on the kinds of actions or situations that upset you.
Use as many examples as possible in explaining what you mean by controlling.

Set boundaries. Once you have a conversation with your spouse about their controlling behavior, you will need to make it very clear what you are willing to tolerate. Explain to your spouse in as much detail as possible what kind of behavior needs to be corrected.

You may want to make a list of the biggest problems and brainstorm with your spouse about specific things you can do to avoid those problems in the future.
Keep in mind that there is a chance your spouse will think you are controlling as well, so be open to listening to any boundaries that they might propose.

Enforce consequences. Your spouse may need to be reminded of your limits every so often, so it’s a good idea to decide what kind of behaviors warrant consequences and what those consequences will be. This should only apply to major offenses that cannot be addressed in any other way.

For minor offenses, your spouse may benefit from a simple reminder of your boundaries.
Don’t overuse consequences. Withholding privileges or affection as a consequence for the tiniest offense is what controlling people do!
Your consequences may have to be quite serious. For example, you may decide that you will move out of the house if your spouse does not make an effort to treat you with respect over the next month.

Read more here:http://jumiaforum.com/listing/ways-women-can-handle-dominating-and-controlling-husband-in-their-marriage-relationship/[/quote
You have said it all gbam.
Romance / Re: I Saw Different Nudes Of This Particular Lady On My Husbands Phone (SEE PHOTOS) by Christty(f): 8:40am On Jan 25, 2019
OK.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 8:34am On Jan 25, 2019
victorsol:


and also most schools deadine is by April or March depending on the school but if you have the requirement and you need funding which some schools or departments offer, then you must meet their soft deadline requirement to be enlisted but if you don't need fundinh from them, then you can go with their hard deadline. it depends on you sha.
Thanks so much. This is more appreciated. God bless you.
Politics / Re: Man Divorces Wife For Insisting On Voting For Buhari by Christty(f): 6:48am On Jan 25, 2019
Something is wrong with the man.
Romance / Re: Woman’s Breast Spills Out Of Her Dress In A Public Bus And Man Takes Her Photos by Christty(f): 6:26am On Jan 25, 2019
She needs to be taught a lesson. There are some places in Ibadan like Gate(Iso part), Bere, Iwo-Road to mention but a few that she cannot pass dressed like that. They will help her to bring it out and even play with it and she dare not talk.
Romance / Re: Married Woman Cries Out In Pain As She Gets Stuck With Her Lover During Sex(vide by Christty(f): 6:23am On Jan 25, 2019
That serves her right. May be she will learn to stop having illicit affair. if it's not running her blood.

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Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 11:14pm On Jan 24, 2019
Josh1996:
Google for schools in Canada, from each schools website go to their graduate school and you will see details there. Their sites are easy to navigate through. Deadlines differ from school to school. You can apply for either fall 2019 or winter 2020, those are the available resumption terms for now. I hope this helps. Good luck

OK, really appreciate it. Will do just that.
Romance / Re: T by Christty(f): 11:02pm On Jan 24, 2019
OK. continue ranting. is he married? if yes, leave him with his wife. if not, find out if he's into any relationship let him go and if not, approach him and tell him your mind.
Politics / Re: Where Is Aisha Buhari? Her Health Causes Anxiety by Christty(f): 11:00pm On Jan 24, 2019
We need you here. Come back safely.
Romance / Re: A Perfect Gift To Offer To Her by Christty(f): 10:54pm On Jan 24, 2019
If she's is a Christian,buy her Bible and hymn book. If she's a Muslim, buy her Quran.

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Politics / Re: South-east Rally: Buhari Goofs Again, Forgets Name Of Region by Christty(f): 10:43pm On Jan 24, 2019
He is having fade memory.

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Politics / Re: New Minimum Wage: Reps Reject N27,000 Approved For Nigerian Workers by Christty(f): 10:37pm On Jan 24, 2019
okay.
Celebrities / Re: Tamira Bello, JJC Skillz Daughter With Taiye Fajemisin Slays In Bikini by Christty(f): 10:35pm On Jan 24, 2019
wow. This is.......
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 15 by Christty(f): 10:29pm On Jan 24, 2019
please, I want to start my own application for masters degree program. I want to ask when is the application deadline of most of the schools and can I start now to resume when? please, No abusive words. Thanks.
Crime / Re: [photos] Man Spotted Fighting Brutally With A Lady At Shoprite by Christty(f): 10:14pm On Jan 24, 2019
The man is a weakling. How can you be fighting with a lady in the public? No self respect and dignity.
Crime / Re: [photos] Man Spotted Fighting Brutally With A Lady At Shoprite by Christty(f): 9:40pm On Jan 24, 2019
Realbuzzing:
It what could be considered as an embarrassing scene, a man and women were spotted fighting outside a Shoprite Mall at an undisclosed location.

According to trending-online reports, the yet-to-be-identified man allegedly slapped the lady who purportedly insulted him following an issue between them.

The lady attacked the man right there in front of the supermarket as two of them fought brutally to the shock of onlookers.

See Photos Below
https://www.realbuzzing.com/photos-man-spotted-fighting-brutally-with-a-lady-at-shoprite/
Celebrities / Re: Actress Patpat Ugwu Twerks To Davido's N1M #BumBum In Bikini (photos) by Christty(f): 9:30pm On Jan 24, 2019
Okay. Is this how we are going to motivate our young ones coming up? Is this a good legacy? I weep for the coming generation. I don't think there will be decency in our next generation. it will by then be called Old school.

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Romance / Re: Zambian Minister Sichalwe Mistakenly Shares Porn In Whatsapp Group by Christty(f): 9:24pm On Jan 24, 2019
This is serious and unthinkable.
Politics / Re: I Have been Fair to Igbo- Buhari To Igbo Leaders by Christty(f): 9:21pm On Jan 24, 2019
You cannot satisfy everybody equally. Just try your best and leave the rest.

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Crime / Re: Video Of Housemaid, Girl Defecating In Her Boss Cup by Christty(f): 8:42pm On Jan 24, 2019
OK.
Religion / Re: Prophet Wale Olagunju 2019 Prophecies About Nigeria, Saraki, Buhari, Agbaje by Christty(f): 8:41pm On Jan 24, 2019
Nigeria prophet with different prophecy.Ok oo
Crime / Re: Armed Robbers Attack Polaris Bank In Osun. Three Persons Shot Dead. Photos by Christty(f): 8:39pm On Jan 24, 2019
God will save us from danger this year.
Crime / Re: Housemaid Caught On CCTV Defecating In Kitchen (video) by Christty(f): 8:36pm On Jan 24, 2019
Very unhygienic. May be she is from a place where where they use to cook is not far from near by bush they use to relief themselves. bush girl.

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