Politics › Re: Anambra Is APGA, APGA Is Anambra, See Early Results. by chudu(m): 1:48pm On Nov 06, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: . by chudu(m): 1:03pm On Oct 01, 2021 |
[quote author=Fantachapman Quit Mr man now that you are not married...the parents are using you as their retirement benefits post=106342177]My Fiancee has been attacking me regularly nagging at me each time we are out together and she sees a fine girl look at me. I don't even see the girls she is talking about. She has accused me of doing things that I never even imagine doing.
Now there was a time I sent her a message last year with my business whatsapp (that I rarely use, sometimes I deactivate it to create space on my phone to download new apps). She didn't know about this particular whatsapp because I don't really use it to chat with family and friends. In this message, I acted like a stranger/Chyker to her just to see how she would react so that i can use it and laugh with her but she discarded the person not knowing it was me.
Fast forward to last month she came to my house to spend time with me (we are in long distance relationship), I usually recharge dstv with that whatsapp, so she saw the whatsapp and she searched her phone and found out the fake chyker message I sent her last year had the same pic as the one I was using for dstv recharge. I told her I normally deactivate the whatsapp cos I don't use it often. I dont use it much anymore because the original phone number I was using with that whatsapp is no longer in use (blocked due to no usage). I told her the truth about the chyking incident. No one I know personally has the number except I want to ask questions online anonymously or when I was looking for a house, i used it to talk to agents. She accepted.
My main phone spoilt recently and i used the whatsapp to contact a repairer i met on nairaland. So we have been chatting about how to get it to him for repairs.
Now, two days ago, when I woke up in the morning, she asked me why I'm still using the whatsapp. I told her it was cos I was trying to contact a repairer. I opened the whatsapp and showed her, she saw the dstv recharge too, and the other messages that I sent to house agents were still there. So she insisted I scroll down so she could see what I have been doing on whatsapp. At this point I was upset. I told her her suspicions are getting too much, so I stretched my hand with the phone and asked her to give me her own whatsapp (Which she passwords) for me to see her messages, and then she can have and see mine. She then said she doesn't want to see mine anymore. She then left the room and when next I saw her in the parlour, she was deleting chats on her whatsapp. So I demanded to see her phone ( I bought it for her).
When I read her messages I was broken in half. There was a guy she earlier told me was a fool and an idiot, that the guy doesnt know how to talk to women and always wants to chat cos he has no one to talk to. She told me if that guy dares talk rubbish to her he will get slap. That he's not a spec to any girl at all. Now of all the people I see on her Facebook I'm always laughing when I see this particular guy's comments cos I tell her even if other guys are a threat, this is the last person I can ever fear can take you from me.
Can you believe that I read her chat with this particular guy and I was blown to shreds? She has been sex chatting the guy since when me and her first met 2 years ago and she is always the one bringing the sex chat up. She even tells him about me and they both laugh at me behind my back calling me Senior Uncle (as in old man). The house I rented for her and her family to stay, she invited the guy to bring condom and hammer when he is coming to help them arrange the house in the chat. She asked the guy to buy her condom and pant for Christmas, that year was the period I paid for the house. I bought her the phone she used to be chatting with this guy. Each time they are chatting and I come online, she will tell the guy that senior uncle is disturbing her again, that I am annoying and im talking talking not letting her sleep. I was planning to register her in school and that very night in January 2020, she told the guy that I'm disturbing her with school registration. She told him my village and where I live. Anything or plan I have for her, she will consult this guy to ask him what he thinks before she accepts what I tell her. Even when she travelled for a wedding, she returned very late to her parents house due to bus breaking down and as she was telling me their journey she was also giving this guy a blow by blow account of the journey, like for example: "we have entered Imo now, but we have not reached Ph, I am in Ph now, I am home now" and the guy responds "oh thank God".
I broke down in tears and smashed the phone. I still took her and the phone to the repairer of my other phone and they changed the screen, I paid. While I was reading the rest of the messages I was seeing, talk of breast and yansh and other terrible sex chats. She took the phone from me, I threatened to call her dad and she begged me not to. Next thing she deleted the messages. Her dad already saw my missed call the next morning (yesterday). He called her and she told him we had a problem. He called me and I told him everything that happened. He called her again and she said it was all a joke that she didn't mean all those chats with the guy. Her dad called me begged me to forgive her. He was crying. Her mum later called and begged me to forgive her that she said she was joking with the guy. I called the guy with her phone and i told him i am senior uncle, he said he knows who i am, then i asked him why he destroy my marriage, he asked me which marriage? That he doesn't know who I am. I shouted on him and ended the call. I called his girlfriend and told her what he was doing to my relationship. My Fiancee has been crying and begging me since then. After that I forgave my fiancee yesterday, and her parents have called to thank me but my heart is still heavy. I don't know what to do anymore.[/quote] |
Agriculture › Re: Charcoal Suppliers, Let's Meet Here by chudu(m): 1:04pm On Jun 06, 2021 |
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Agriculture › Re: Charcoal Suppliers, Let's Meet Here by chudu(m): 11:11pm On May 26, 2021 |
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Agriculture › Re: Charcoal Suppliers, Let's Meet Here by chudu(m): 11:11pm On May 26, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Insulting by chudu(m): 3:02pm On Apr 17, 2021 |
GFICECOLD: Nairaland I just advice on this, have been dating my girl for 4years now and that 4 years I don't know if we've ever be at peace, every single time she's always insulting me I can't do this and that, m still a student and I try my best as a student to get her what she wants, she said she can count how many times I bought her wig not up to 5 times, I started working 2019 online buying gadgets online and sell them because of Corona everything went slow, I bought her phone twice iphone, I sold my laptop to get her another phone, she have not one day posted my pictures wishing me happy birthday or anytime but she post other guys pictures on thier birthday even her best frd a guy she have his pictures on her phone plenty, The last time she was asking for money I told her sorry I don't really have now but I have not talk finish she insulted me, there's no insults this girl have not giving me any type of insults, she have even slap me, like if I talk to her about her friend she gets angry, she end the call on me she tells me she didn't put a gun on my head for me to call her,please its much I can't even continue to type all this because it's much sometimes she act nice for few days then go back been wicked and this I don't care attitude she gives me I really don't know what to do you are disgrace to manhood you have been dating the stupid girl for 4 years and she has been insulting you are you blind? |
Business › Re: Charcoal by chudu(op): 5:40am On Apr 15, 2021 |
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Business › Charcoal by chudu(op): 5:09am On Apr 15, 2021*. Modified: 10:43am On Apr 21, 2021 |
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Adverts › Re: Scrap Vessels For Sale..(pictures) by chudu(m): 10:26pm On Apr 01, 2021 |
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Adverts › Re: Scrap Vessels For Sale..(pictures) by chudu(m): 10:38pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: My Vulnerable Fiancée by chudu(m): 10:13am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Anoymus4u: Good day fellow Nairalanders. I don't know if I should ever trust my soon to be wifey. I proposed to this lady last month during the festive period, although I have seen a one or two red flags but I decided to ignore them and forge on because I felt every one had their own shortcomings. Including me.
One of them was, I read her whatsapp chat where she told about 4 guys that was wooing her that she doesn't want to accept to date any of them because she doesn't want to be in any relationship and she likes being single and she wouldn't mind having them as friends. It was a tale of mixed feelings for me cos I was furious with her telling those guys she was single and won't mind keeping them as friends when she was very much in a relationship with me. Why not tell them that you are already in a relationship? I was glad she didn't accept to date any of them. I went ahead to propose to also assure her that I'm here to stay and not wasting her time.
Second was that she had so many exes. She chats with them freely, and wants to hook up with them at any point. She's very vulnerable to compliments. All the chats I saw with her exes, they already know her weak point. Once they start complimenting her beauty, her features and the rest , she will to hear more and more and more. From there they would initiate a meeting. Your guess is good as mine.
When confronted, she begged and begged and promised that there was nothing between them blah blah blah. I chose to forgive her and let go.
Out of my curiosity, I decided to clone her whatsapp at least to get to track her and to know if truly changed because the wedding is coming up this EASTER. I don't want to make a life long mistake.
We had a little issh this weekend, she had to find solace with her ex. She started painting me wrong to her ex, saying that I don't appreciate her, and that she could have chose the ex instead of me. Her ex started persuading her and start complimenting her. Before I knew what was happening. The guy start sending romantic pictures and sex videos, telling her he wish he was there he could have used sex to ease her pain. She also responded by sending sex stickers back to her ex.
They have fixed appointments by Friday evening 4th Feb. They are to meet at a bar/lounge. From there, they would surely want to make out. But it wasn't stated in her chat with the guy.
I don't know what to do at this point. Should I confront before the D-day tomorrow or watch as things unfold? I love this girl and practically done the best I could for her. If she eventually goes out with this her ex. That's the deal breaker right there. She's a gooner.
Also should I be worried because of her vulnerability? She likes to be complimented. I give her tons of it, maybe she enjoys outsiders the most I don't just know. Won't this be a problem if all this storm is over and I decide to marry her? A little compliment she's hooked. I could go on and on. what is wrong with its glaring that she is a hoar...my friendn break the engagement before you go mental...meanwhile how you take clone the whatsapp |
Fashion › Re: Designers Corporate Shoes For Men by chudu(m): 3:36pm On Feb 02, 2021 |
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Business To Business › Re: AGO For Sale! 30-50k MT @166/2 by chudu(m): 2:48pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
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Business To Business › Re: AGO For Sale! 30-50k MT @166/2 by chudu(m): 12:07pm On Jan 23, 2021 |
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Business To Business › Re: AGO For Sale! 30-50k MT @166/2 by chudu(m): 3:14pm On Jan 22, 2021 |
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Politics › Re: My Predictions For 2021 by chudu(m): 3:48pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
ChiefJusticeFuc: 1. The FG will make vaccine certification a must. You will not be able to operate a bank account , travel locally and internationally with out one. You will not be allowed to have a driver's liscence issued or renewed without one. The NIN registeration is all a ruse. Same NIN that was announced by the same FG of it's discontinuance is what they want you to now have? All the NIN wahala is a compliance test towards Covid vaccination certification. Civil servants who refuse to take the vaccine will be outrightly sacked.
2. The US dollar will be collapsed and replaced by a digital currency tied to the Chinese economy . So that will surely see to the naira being scrapped and in it's place the new digital currency which you can only access with your unique ID2020 Covid certification number.
3.A major civil war will break out in the US but the Nationalists will be crushed by a multinational force led by China and the EU.
4. America will seize to be a democracy.
5. Israel will align with Sunni Arab nations and their terrorists to wage war on Christian nations. Hungary , Poland, Armenia and Greece will be occupied by Muslim armies. Christianity will be declared a hate religion and the NT banned as hate speech.
6. Iran and Yemen will be nuked.
7. The pope will denounce Christianity and Christ and call for a new age religion to replace Christiandom
8. In Nigeria , the fulani genocide will continue unabated and will engulf every corner.
9. Christmas will be banned.
10. Jews will declare their Messiah which all your fake pastors, pope and imam will endorse as the saviour of the world.
11. Donald Trump and his entire family will be executed by gulotine on the orders of Kamala Harris (the supreme leader of the United Socialist States of America).
12. Joe Biden will be arkancided before July.
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For Leasing as follows: The end user will come with the following documents
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