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Family / Re: What My Fiancee Said Is Bothering Me by chudu(m): 10:09pm On Feb 19, 2020
DanTunde:
I had to create a new account to post this.
I was having a discussion with my fiancee the other day, I asked her what if we got married and I beat her one day. She laughed and said, that any day I would raise my hand on her she would either poison me or ruin me so bad.
We have been dating for 2 years now, and our wedding is scheduled for April.
Since she said this, I have been having a serious rethink. What if she means what she said, cause my fiancee is pretty determined?
you have mental problem.instead of you to engage her in fruitful discussion about the future it's beating a woman like a tout you are thinking of. Try it and you will be the devils PA in hellfire

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Career / Re: Woman That Manufactures Hand Brake Manually in Nnewi (photos) by chudu(m): 12:38pm On Feb 07, 2020
kestolove95:
Fake product
Poor man....what have you produced?lazy Nigerian youth

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Investment / Re: Manganese Ore Wanted by chudu(m): 8:12am On Feb 05, 2020
Ok
Politics / Re: Buhari is concerned over insecurity - Lawan, Gbajabiamila by chudu(m): 8:59pm On Feb 03, 2020
Car Talk / Re: I Need Hilux Vehicles To Buy by chudu(m): 4:22pm On Feb 03, 2020
famouscargo4u:
I need Hilux vehicles in Abuja to buy. If you know how I can get this, get in touch.
what about nissan NP300?
Politics / Re: FUNAM: Fulani Claims Ownership Of Land From Sokoto To The Atlantic by chudu(m): 8:02pm On Feb 02, 2020

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Religion / Re: Oyedepo Owns 5 Private Jets, 3 Universities, Only A Fool Will Pay First Fruit To by chudu(m): 10:11am On Jan 14, 2020
so what do you have to show as per the wealth you have gotten.
Autos / Re: Honda Accord For Sale In Abuja FCT 800k slightly negotiable by chudu(m): 9:39am On Jan 13, 2020
gmacnoms:
��. Look at the thread again with proper care and send your apologies
go hug transformer
Autos / Re: Honda Accord For Sale In Abuja FCT 800k slightly negotiable by chudu(m): 7:03pm On Jan 12, 2020
gmacnoms:
it's enugu spec �
you are foolish I asked a question. You are selling your accord becos it has bolt joint problem prospective customers don't buy this Honda accord the tyres pull from the joint without any sign
Autos / Re: Honda Accord For Sale In Abuja FCT 800k slightly negotiable by chudu(m): 12:26pm On Jan 12, 2020
bjoks4real:
Honda Accord 2005 Model
Interior and exterior okay
Engine and gear working well
Buy and drive
Nothing to fix
Contact 08036246008 now
800k asking
is it American spec
Business / Coal by chudu(m): 5:39am On Jan 06, 2020
Coal supplier with a mine and have trucks. Whatsapp 08064413846.if you are not ready for business don't contact me. Thank you
Business / Re: We Want To Buy Coal In Large Quantities by chudu(m): 10:11pm On Jan 05, 2020
Coal supplier with a mine and have trucks. Whatsapp 08064413846.if you are not ready for business don't contact me. Thank you
Business / Re: Coal In Large Quantity by chudu(m): 10:11pm On Jan 05, 2020
If you are interested or have foreign partners that want to buy coal site.. Whats-app 08064413846.if you are not ready for business don't contact me. Thank you
Business / Re: Where Can I Buy Coal In Commercial In Nigeria by chudu(m): 2:40pm On Jan 05, 2020
Coal supplier with a mine and have trucks. Whatsapp 08064413846.if you are not ready for business don't contact me. Thank you
Celebrities / Re: Photos Of Nollywood Stars Who Relocated Abroad (What They Look Like Now) by chudu(m): 6:36pm On Jan 03, 2020
lalasticlala:
Hanks Anuku

After his ordeal with drugs, the bad boy actor got born again and now lives in Ghana.
he lives at asaba
Romance / Re: Am I Making A Mistake? by chudu(m): 6:57am On Dec 17, 2019
dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

once a woman beater always a wife beater.
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what part of asaba do you stay?
Investment / Gold by chudu(m): 2:14pm On Dec 09, 2019
If you have a gold site for sale do let me know asap....chat me up 08064413846
Business / Re: Vessel Needed For Hire by chudu(m): 6:35pm On Dec 08, 2019
healthserve:
Dredger?
no blc Bonny light crude
Business / Vessel Needed For Hire by chudu(m): 6:12pm On Dec 08, 2019
Vessel needed for hire(black).treat as urgent. Whatsapp 08064413846
Autos / Re: Extremely Clean Hyundai Elantra 2012. Registered by chudu(m): 2:43pm On Dec 05, 2019
whats the mileage
Autos / Re: For Dealers: 2003 Corolla Sport Selling @ 850k First Body by chudu(m): 3:09pm On Dec 04, 2019
this is a coffin

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Technology Market / Re: Service No Longer Availlable by chudu(m): 3:39pm On Dec 02, 2019
Mak4web:
Convert your airtime to cash: MTN, Airtel, Glo, 9mobile
how?
Business / Airtime To Cash by chudu(m): 3:14pm On Dec 02, 2019
Please i need help to convert my airtime to cash....my share and sell does not work
Business / Re: Abakiliki Rice by chudu(m): 1:21pm On Nov 12, 2019
chudu:
Buy stone free abakiliki rice.50kg 20,500,25kg11,000.we deliver only in South south and south east. interested send me a whatsapp message 08064413846
Business / Re: Abakiliki Rice by chudu(m): 4:07pm On Nov 08, 2019
[quote author=Juicyjuice post=83852037]Am interested. 50kg N19,000,25kg N9,500.Ecluding delivery cost
Business / Re: Abakiliki Rice by chudu(m): 4:51am On Nov 08, 2019
[quote author=stevo4them post=83834169][/quote]9500 per bag excluding delivery

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