₦airaland Forum

sexylassie2:
i still wonder how does feminism fit with my argument, so any woman that has an opinion is a feminist

you need to also google your ip address and location, you are in Nigeria and africa and nobody cares about your MGTOWS or redpill idelogy, you can go to the street of lagos, nobody cares, people are thinking how they will provide for their loves one, many are thinking to get married, survival is what people cares about. the real world is brutal and do not care about any idealogy, it only cares about survival and only the strong make it

and if you think there is a drastic reduction in men marrying any where in the world you are joking, people get married everyday, whether in africa, europe, south america, asia and australia, you will also get married, you can claim what ever you want claim, at the end of the day, you will get married, your parent need to see their grand kids.

Aunty use your Google chrome for once kwanu! MARRIAGE rate is depreciating in the west especially ,what's ruining now is baby Mama's and baby daddy's it's even here in our religious Nigeria.. Even divorce rate in this same Nigeria is skyrocketing marriage is not so important and mind you for that fact that you are "surviving" instead of "Living" doesn't mean everybody does...I guess ALL nairalanders are ghost ,it's ghosts typing all this Ideologies here abi?? are they not also somewhere on the streets of Lagos,PH,Ontisha ,Enugu?? People are getting married every day and much more people a divorcing every minutes that's to tell you that in this OUR WOKE LIBERAL world marriage has become SHIT as for me getting married that one now is your headache because you don't know ME

sexylassie2:
i wonder what has feminism got to do with this

una go old, you think the world care about MGTOWS and REDPIllers, other groups have come before you and they went dead as usual

this is the time of coronovirus and it doesnt care if you are feminist or redpill/mgtow, it will eat all of you raw.

akuko na ije wonderful tell me more ...the world doesn't care about MGTOWS or Redpillers but there has been DRASTIC reductions of Men marrying in The US And Europe??tell me more ...Go and Google it ..the thing is the same way the HATE of Feminism spread around the world is the same way MGTOWS and Redpillers are spreading ,for it to be on a local forum like nairaland should tell you the Gender wars has gotten serious and you KNOW IT because you sound very concerned about this Redpillers ideology

sexylassie2:
i think you are delusional, you are still a kid

the last comment wasnt about providing for any female, it was simply about you putting food on the table for your own family, contributing to your home, giving you mother or father some cash, just to show you are responsible and earning now.

anyway, you are just a little emotional baby ranting up and down, you lack understanding that is because you dont have the ability to think.

you can continue to rant here and cry daily, thinking you are doing gods work, at the end of the day, people will continue to live their lives while you die of hate and jealousy.

the only reason you are full of hate is because you wish to have what others have..you are an incel, all what you have written down are attributes of incel, continue living in inceldom, the kingdom of delusional men who complain daily and think, things need to be handed to them on platter of gold.

#redpill

bye and take care.

that very predictable shaming tactics ,I was expecting to hear you give a definition of "real men" Feminism started the unnecessary hate and madness against men the MGTOWS and Redpillers has come to finish it

Modikko:
May the wrath of Allah befall you for this statement. Ameen

lol I bet you would have stabbed him with a dagger ,you come from a land of religious fanatism ,barbarism and brutality of all kinds because of gay Allah..the Middle belt made a wise choice separating from you lots..

Modikko:
Mekunu it seems you are pained. North is North even before the amalgamation of Nigeria you met us together

You were NEVER together you were ravaged with wars preventing one Fulanni invasion or another the Middle belt didn't start fighting the barbarism of the North today.

Modikko:
North is North abeg there is nothing like core and periphery. 19 Northern States. Gbam

Oga who are you fooling there is Middle belt and there is core North even the Middle belt region has separated itself and have created an identity for itself a long time ago...Fulanni barbarians Just made it very obvious ...North is poverty and diseased ridden while Middle belt is a much more better place...87% of poverty in Nigeria is from the North not Middle belt!

Politics sef eh.... In this Nigeria politics is like a cancer that destroys anything...look at how it's crushing an ancient throne probably or arguably older than "Nigeria" and "Nigerian democracy"..

Osidazz19:
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Another fake news from the IPOB RETARDS.

lol trying to play the tribal card will only fustrate you the more ,even Elrufai said his own about Buhari, you'll still call IPOB

Have you forgotten helicopters drop guns for those barbarians? Any region that doesn't protect herself by herself na O.Y.O ...This barbarians have strong backing from the FG!

franchasng:
its a lie, career women have more sex if you don't know, so say what you know!

Most career women above 45yrs are the biggest patronizers of intimacy gadgets for masturbation aside their usual sex romps with various male colleagues and bosses and associates.

I speak because I know!!

The only women that you can say are not usually sex minded are Primary school teachers!


But you see all those your career ladies eh, if you know whatsup you will be shocked!!

Fashion designers (tailors)
Hair stylists
Bankers
Air hostesses
OAPs
Actresses
Models
Police/Military/Force women

Fear ladies in the aforementioned professions, except few disciplined ones of course

how could you have omitted Nurses,"Actresses" ?

HAKYN1:
Ojukwu understand better. Who born monkey!

Awolowo won't understand better because he was raped in jail the famous rat poison ended his bitter shame,even Abiola won't understand too Ojukwu still came to your skull mining region to campaign for Presidency you should have mined his skull if you had BALLS

If it was Onitsha now ,they would be like "O a whole Onitsha don't have fire service?" "Asaba fire fighters came to save them" whereas their own nobody or state for the region get one Fire truck

One scary stuff about our country is that EVERYTHING is politicized even basic stuffs that people should come together as one and do.

Do you just meet a woman and marry her?? you'll date do the gf/bf thingy then graduate to fiance/fiancee ,then husband and wife. Marriage is not like "the transfiguration of Jesus Christ" a cheating girlfriend will obviously turn to a cheating fiancee ,then graduate to a cheating Wife ,the earlier you people understand that marriage is not a magic place where you'll be transformed the better for y'all.

And people still think Iran is not a state sponsor of terrorism ?? See how they're exposing theirselves finally

pocohantas:
Nice thread OP. Let me add,

How many are you in your family?

If he is the FIRST SON from a family of 10 and the last 3 are still in school. They will assume their daughter has 3 children before she born sef. The inlaws will most likely see her as a competition or stumbling block. It is not easy being married to the pillar of a home.

Your siblings?

Igbo fathers be like "Umunne gi kwanu?"
He doesn't just want to hear "ahu di ha mma", he wants to hear their profile too.

"Oh, my elder brother is a doctor in the US. My younger sister works with FIRS. The one after her is an engineer in Shell"...IMPRESSIVE!

Your daughter has chances of going to the abroad to give birth. Also, when everybody in a family is doing well, phone dey ring, family dey call, you no go dey fear to pick am. Christmas in the villa would be like getaway. Not, umu Remigius mere nka, ha me nka. Ana akoheri.

Where do you base?
Naija parents don't like their daughters going too far, especially Igbos. They want where they can easily come for omugwo. This far distance doesn't include abroad o. Abroad is not far at all.

It will also help them know where their daughter has been going all the while she didn't return home for ASUU strike.

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If you wan see where Naija alpha male humble, take him to your father. E go ask you mumu question for doormot. Should I remove my slippers? You'll be like "baby just enter!!!"

Mpa GI ojikwa ego?? It's only when the girls father is a rich ,strong or powerful man that the suitors usually shiver or when they're below ,the family social class.But if the Suitor is richer and more successful in all Ramifications even probably coming to do "poverty alleviation program" in the girls family or when his family is evidently richer Na to just enter parlor keep leg for table join and the woman's father will still be smiling sheepishly and be like "ah nwa m ibiala?" "Kedu afa gi" So as far as Igbo land is concerned na who get money pass dey do the Intimidation ,but if it's the girl's father that's richer and more successful then it's usually bloody ,e be like Oral exam.

If this had happened in the East now the sufferisticated morons will start screaming HATE, BILE, Bitterness,of Easterners! Hypocrites!

My questions are who go pay? Is it we Nigerians? Paying for what we did not see or Enjoy

chival:
The girl is wrong. There are no excuses or justifications for what she did, nor do I blame the friends who set her up. Her decision to cheat was hers and hers alone, and she should carry her cross. The guy should have called it off as soon as he found out though and not allowed the wedding preparations to go on, because in so doing, he has punished and humiliated both families and people who share no blame in the girl's indiscretion.

That said, what's done is done. The girl should move on and learn her lesson. Cajoling the man into marriage will definitely backfire because he doesn't sound like a very forgiving person. He'll just make the marriage unbearable for the girl in retaliation.

Finally, women are women's worst enemies. The catty friends were obviously very jealous of her because of the England based fiance. I wouldn't be surprised if one of them ends up with the said guy.

You're the only person here that Knows what's up! Her friends definitely set her up ,how come it was a mutual friend? How come her friends were the only ones there when she was over drinking? How did the guy know? The battle for England husband was more fierce than she thought her friends set her up and then rebelled her I bet you that guy will eventually marry one of them.Finally who gave him the SUPPOSED PICTURES

Sofistcatdmoron:
bros go to first page , someone stated (Anambra boys with the money they are the money bags of the south east) go and tell him he is causing division too,

I've already told him kiddo next time don't aid Afonja divisive game on the East!

neoclassical:
What is wrong with some of you with your useless generalization? Though I am not from Abakaliki, but I am proudly from Ebonyi State, Afikpo precisely. Now, can we compare ourselves in terms of educational background, economic status or any other criterion or variable you may like to use. Enough of this disdain and insults on Ebonyians. I am in my early thirties, and I will round up my PhD program in Energy Economics a few months away. 80 percent of my siblings are Msc holders, same with many of my town people . Only a fool in his stupid thinking pattern and archaic innuendo will think poverty and educational backwardness are exclusive reserves for Ebonyians. If you think you are academically sound enough, I challenge you to a 30 minutes debate in this forum on any national topical issue of your choice. Nonsense

guy that fool is Yoruba trying to instigate divisions

MyopicMods:
Stop Insulting others unnecessary rather address the issue than throwing tantrums because even in your state is no better.

that guy is Afonja ooo

somalianprince:
90% of all the hawkers across Nigerian major cities of Lagos, Abuja, PH, Onitsha, Kano, etc, are all ebonyi people, also 80% of all okada riders at least in SE are Ebonyi. We are talking of the people that dominate the business. This is a statement of fact.

Made in Ibadan statistics . Ebonyi is currently the fastest developing state in the East your divisive tactics won't work and besides most of the people you call "gala sellers and okada riders" in 5years Tim will come back and buy your father's ancestral land and like a lazy poverty stricken glutton you are , you'll sell it and come and wail about Igbo domination here and is it not better to seller gala grow little by little into a big business man than slaughtering pregnant women in Soka forest eating their heart to get rich?

Christology:
an ebonyi indigene will happily accept that his from ebonyi , gone are those days were ebonyi was regarded as shit ...
one of the best states in Nigeria presently...

leave that Afonja demon!

somalianprince:
What are they trading in abakaleke? Ebonyi people we know are mostly illiterates, gala hawkers and okada men. Will they trade okada there?

see this monkey from Idanre caves Ebonyi people and Ebonyi state is 100% better that the skull mining ,brown roofed ritualist infested Ogbomosho and have ate human heart today??

Sofistcatdmoron:
u r very funny,, so did i lie in what i said

you're still trying to cause that divisions you're the one being a kid here because if you're matured enough you'll know that regardless of if you're right or wrong ,your statement will start Igbo division here

Sofistcatdmoron:
bros im not afonja check my previous post u need orientation ut seems u r a kid

Oga again I tell u by trying to codedly start Imo vs Anambra here on a public forum to strengthen the story of Igbo disunity ,I have every right to to think you're from the Waste

Walking bag of corruptions everywhere country now be like chop and clean mouth ,carry your own loot dey go that's how it is now!