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lilyheaven:
Before, I married my husband 10years ago, he wouldn’t touch me, when I asked him why? He said he was not coming for sex but marriage, I viewed it as a respect.
Then we got married, established coitus, had our first child after one year I took in again, and that was it,,, we didn’t have it anymore until 6 years after it happened again and I took in, one day I told him I would like to go for family planning, he replied me straight, that they won’t be need for it because they won’t be sex again.
I got dumped, this is one year already, not even a hug.
I feel like the house nanny, every night I feel hurt, I have begged, but he said I should reserve my energy. That he doesn’t want to kill me with sex, I don’t even know what that sentence means.

ah! This is so unusual for a man. Could he be gay? Try to develop a closer and deeper relationship with Jesus Christ .Submit to him and make him your Lord. He will comfort you and give you joy. It is well.

Ha! Nkan be! Used to be so scared watching that program at night then. After a while, I mustered up courage to change the channel...

Happy birthday. Handsome family man. Despite his popularity, he stays scandal-free!

Funny. 400k is not big money nau, even for a family man that earns moderately well! Haba! 3 kids is just 1.2 million. For a man bent of knowing the paternity of his kids, this is no big deal. You'll get there! Amen.

Curious345:
Looks like content to me .. very few men got the money for DNA test. Bruv it's 400k

Kalulu44:
Sometimes I wonder how you guys reason.
So there's no life outside of music again for him abi.
Footballers, athletes and all later Branch out into the real world of business and investment.
Be there and be waiting for his next hit while he's cashing out in his business ventures

can't you simply pass your messge across without throwing shades. Everyone is here to learn, please.

Arkmanbuddy:
I don't know how people can be this stupid, supporting the useless boy who falsely announced the death of someone's child. If this happened to the idiots dragging Adekunle Gold, would they be doing this?

Also, I think Sowore is becoming a nuisance, always jumping on every news item to trend. Such foolishness!

I understand your POV, but 2 full years in prison, without even an option of fine? Haba!

FalseProphet1:
He should donate the whole 25m to my spiritual center and the amputated arm would grow back.

This I have seen.

This guy! So you're still in ministry? 🤣

Skydiv:
The aggression is visibly present in the son already, from my observation that very day, the son was trying to cover his mum's breast with her clothes so she wouldn't be able to breastfeed his baby sister the mum pushed him away, could you believe the 3 year old boy put his baby sister's hands in his mouth and bit her? At a slight provocation, he starts scattering and throwing things away.

Na wah o! That family needs Jesus ASAP. If there is a Believer in that family, they will have to hold continuous intercessory prayers for this family , especially for the children. May God have mercy on them.

Hope the event wasn't a part of the church service, cos this would be totally wrong. I want to believe the event held after church service for a political figure like Sowore to be given a platform to express himself. Must never be part of the Sunday Church service. Make we dey fear God abeg.

They relieved her of her job. Is that not enough?

You see why many parents now accompany their children to their Jamb centres to write the exams, right?

I remember reading how many people were insulting parents who do this, saying they are raising weak kids. If this boy had had his parents with him, they won't have successfully pulled through. This insecurity is a really big issue. May the family of the deceased find solace in Christ.

It's the insecurity nowadays.

Love800:
I don't understand this escorting of a thing.

During my time, i located my exam centre myself.

Prior undisclosed heart condition... They must sha find a way to blame the victim. May the Lord comfort the bereaved parents.

free2ryhme:
Then share your own family structure that you claim is simple

Lol! Na fight? This post just confirmed that he had at least 3 wives. One abroad being disclaimed. A living one and a deceased one. A Will or legal division of assets would have made things easier.

Thought I read somewhere that his legal wife, Efemena Okedi, died 3 months after her husband, Ras kimono's passing in 2018. What a complex family structure! And no will!

Was the doctor part of the cover-up? cos if indeed the maid was rushed to the hospital, the doctor ought to know that she was assaulted having examined her.

I would have advised u to leave the marriage except for your background. You are basically towing the path of your mum, which didn't turn out well for the children . Additionally you don't seem to be financially stable since you just own a shop. And your husband seeing you still in his house might not realize the gravity of the situation, and underestimate your reactions. He will say, afterall I have begged you... So honestly the situation is really dicey.

We just judge just by seeing a 5-second clip? Na wah o! What if an inportant messge came up that she needs to respond to immediately? It is her style of clothes that is off-putting to me sef. Not her being on phone at that moment.

My first time to hear of such. What a generation!

The problem with that program is that it's not the way to Christ. It is a prayer program that focuses on healing, breakthrough, deliverance, blessings etc and as such should be done quarterly in my opinion, and not everyday.

No genuine believer will wake up in the morning and be shouting Amen to some else's prayers... Everyday, for that matter.

I mean how would that person develops his personal intimate relationship with Jesus, his Savior?

Jesus said it is a wicked and adulterous generation that wants to always see signs and wonders and miracles.

I thank my God that I have never listened to him once.

Beautiful to the eyes! Purple is the code. Congrats to every purposeful woman!

Na man u be. Show her who's the Boss. Marrying a disrespectful single mother of two. U have really tried! Don't condone nonsense abeg.

Emmy000seun:
Aswear bro, someone that already had two kids before I married her oo, to me that I haven't even marry talkless of say I born..even my mum was like as handsome as you are, do you supposed to go and marry someone with kids!!..but you know this life if you're young, have a good work, living well woman will always come around and that was when I get entangled to her with pregnancy and the pregnancy comes out to be twins..they are two girls tho, so I decide to go along with her because I don't want to b having kids up and down thinking then that all woman are the same not knowing their are evil ones out of them..but now she is paying me with this bad character 💔.. I haven't been talking to her for the past one week now, but I don't mind because she already pass her boundary,..even my mum is telling me to just overlooked it and thats her behavior, but I said to myself I will never take that..untill I come back home..and that's my priority now..so she will take full responsibility from where I stop, till I come back..

But your wife get mind o. She still insist on not apologising. She doesn't value her marriage and family. She is a very bad woman.

Emmy000seun:
Exactly reason I'm insisting on departing with my spouse if she insist on not apologizing to my mum.. imagine a woman I married legally exchanging abusive words with my mum on phone bcuz she said she talk to her abusively.. I even told her she should have call to explain to me before she took action, bcuz she knows I'm not in town but she don't see any bad in that and she insist she can't apologize and I told her that's the end between us..I take up responsibility of my kids..
Family respect should not b negotiable 💯..you can't expect to have a good relationship with me when you take my family like a pinch of salt 💔

40 years combined? Isn't that too much?

You are right. No genuine believer in Christ would do such thing. This one was just serving self and enjoying fame. He didn't know God

MaxInDHouse:
You people always fall my hand joo!

Do you think such a person is a believer at all?

How can someone who always preach to others that in Christ all things have become new {2Corinthians 5:17} take his own life for what he did IN THE PAST?😟

It's a lot of work. Where would he even start from? I don't really blame the guy. He knew his limits. The world is packed with numerous unconverted religious people. Let him face his assignment. Face them.

SpencerForbes:
Why is he scared of atheists? He didn’t even make any attempt but just gave up. If evangelism started that way, I don’t think it would have gotten to Africa. Or is evangelism only for those that have religion?

Why don't you just accept the woman's position. You just read a few paragraphs. And you are already concluding that she needs to return. She was in it for at least 12 years. Do you know better than her? She had to return to her parents', start from the scratch and still hasn't found her feet yet. Despite all these, she said she still prefers being single. I can agree with her sef cos the man has to be really vile to slander and malign her to her own children. Very bad character.

Op. Talk to your children. They are the ones with you. They see you and see how hard you work and fend for them. Tell them not to believe whatever their Dad says and talk to their father to, warning him to desist from his malicious intent. I wish you all the best.

Love800:
Be dead means alot. Might be tired of the family plan, utility bills, children welfare, inlaw dramas, communication issues. It doesn't really mean she will be dead physically. She can tolerate all these. What is marriage without conflicts! You gat to brave-up.
My stand is if the man inflict physical injuries on her body which might cause death, then she can leave.

I have come to understand that most partners leave eachother on flimsy excuses.

This one has been stealing for a long time.

Please and please do not marry that girl. You'll end up leading a sad frustrated life. Take this advise from a married person.

Op. I understand you. But there isn't anything anyone can do for you now. So just let go, please. Let go! Rebuild your life bit by bit, money Wil come, help will come. But just let go first. Don't look anywhere else. Don't blame anyone. Keep working, keep believing. All is well. You'll be fine!

Yea, but where? On the ground, insude a bus, near a gutter? Where? Honestly, your story isn't flowing.

olubunmimary100:
On my way going to church, I was going for evening program

Some drivers can be so reckless! Government should consider mounting speed bumps from Isheri all the way to Igando. May the soul of the poor woman rest in peace.

Well, you have said you are a prophet, with several years of experience. According to you, you have grown in Spirit. So you should know what this dream of yours mean or be able to pray for an interpretation of that dream.

Besides, if you have been walking with God in your secret place, I wonder why you should now require inputs from a mixed multitude of which this forum constitute. Continue your work/walk with God in private, and God will reward you openly.