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I am a believer. For several years in my dreams, I fight demons with intense prayers and emerge victorious. I bind, wound, cast out, destroy, annihilate, stomp on demons and evil spirits with such deep exhibition of power and always win. Occasionally, when I'm feeling tired inside the dream and it seem like the other party will prevail. I suddenly wake up.

In reality, I lead an ordinary life. I pray regularly, but not with such intensity, and especially towards demons. I have no ministry or calling, I'm just your everyday Christian, living for Christ to the best of my knowledge.
These dreams have been with me for decades. They went away for a while, now it has returned. I don't know whether I should do anything about it or just continue living the simple life God has given me. What do you think?

Pinkie2018:
Please I have a problem in my marriage. I need advice. Pls no insult.
I got married 2020 and did the court Marriage last month. My husband has been a wonderful husband and by God's grace I have been a wonderful wife and a mother. We have one child.
The issue I'm having in my marriage is anger management. When ever my husband gets angry, he says all sorts of things to me, like leave my house, you are a bad wife, different sorts of insults of which whenever we reconcile he apologizes sometimes.
He's the type that no matter the good things you do, once he gets annoyed, he abuse you verbally of which really hurts me. Last month we had an argument that resulted to a fight, her beat me like his fellow man and locked me out and ask me to leave his house. Neighbors intervened and we settled.
Something happened today. He came back home around 2.am this morning instead of the usual 11-12pm he usually arrive home. I wasn't happy, he tried to explain but I knew he was lying because my sister in-law already called one of his friends before he came back. So I wasn't happy with him but I didn't make trouble with him. So this morning I drank aju mbaise and hot drink on empty stomach, so it was affecting me and making me want to faint. So it happened that he was giving me money for something this morning but I felt like fainting so I threw the money on the floor and quickly fell on the bed. After few minutes, I regained myself and got up, all the while my husband never cared to know what the problem was. I got up and asked him for the money, he started shouting and insulting me that why will I trow money on the floor for him. I tried to explain to him what Happened, he never cared to listen. He started insulting me, saying I will leave his house, that he can't continue with the marriage, that he will kill me. Note, it's not the first time he has threatened to kill me. I don't know what to do. His family members have talked to him about this his attitude about marriage but he gets worse. Pls I need advice because this his "leave my house" and threat all the time is too much. Little issue that couples have and settle, my husband always make it a big deal. If he annoys me and I get annoyed and refuse to talk to him, he will vex and start insulting me and threatening me. Pls I need your advice, what do you think I should do? how can I change him because I don't want my marriage to crash?, we have a daughter and u wouldn't want her to grow in a divided home. Thanks

I'm.sorry...i don't see anything wonderful about your husband..he abuses you emotionally and physically and has no atom of respect for you or your feelings. He threatens you to leave, so why don't you shock him one day and do so. Leave! Maybe it will bring him.back to his senses
Maybe not. Love yourself, give value to yourself. You only have 1 daughter. Better stay alive for her. You'll be fine.

So sorry for your loss. God is Almighty. Allow him to carry you.

What a very sad story!!! Poor, poor parents!

What Nonsense! Even a father has not seen his new born baby and you talk of resuming?

Barrister026:
Hello all,

This is difficult situation for me, my mom's house has been left uncompleted since 2014 just the foundation and probably 2couch were placed ontop since then it's been there because she had to send my siblings and I to higher institution. Now am of age, doing quite well for myself. I think am finally ready to build a house, was thinking about getting a land 100 by 50 and raise 5 bedroom flats... but on the other hand that my mom's building had been left uncompleted since it's a family land, relatives are starting to say somethings and sometimes I could see the shame on my mom's face when she goes to her family compound. Almost every months they always call her to come clear it that it has become harbor for snakes and pests. So I thought why don't I just complete it for her first.


The issue here Is immediately I told my fiancee she said it's a good idea but kicked against it. That I should build mine first, before completing my mom's. That it can wait.

I also confided in a friend of mine, he said almost same thing, that my thing is different from our own. Saying am not the only one my mom gave birth to, if I complete it now I should be ready to share it with my siblings no matter what when the time comes.

I'm confused and need advice on the step to take. I would really want to complete that house for my mom I Know it would mean a lot to her..I'm really confused.

One way or the other somebody has to develop it, if I the first son don't do it now that am financially stable. Then my younger bro will do it, trust me it won't make sense that way that's just my fear.

Go to your mum. Buy the property from her BUT don't tell anyone. None of you should. Build it and let her live in it. Everyone will congratulate her and congratulate you for building for her. She will be immensely happy and both of you will be fulfilled. Anytime God calls her home, the house is yours and no one will be able to dispute it with you.

Threesha:
From DM

some people and irrelevancies sha! Of all the problems of marriage! The fact is that we post our family's pix, not for them but for us. The cute pictures we display of our kids, and the comments we receive, do our children view them? We do it for ourselves. It gives us joy. So if your wife does not even publish her own kids pix, it simply means she is content with enjoying her kids without public approval. Same reason she doesn't publish her husband's. Simple! People are different jare!

trevolady:
Thank you for the compliment, I am based in Ibadan.The gown ranges from 15-25k.No I don't do men's outfit

Oh! Ibadan! Too bad!

trevolady,

Love your designs. Not to sure how to send emails. Wanted to send one. So I'm quoting you on this dead thread. Are you based in Lagos and where? What are your price range for your ball gowns? So you also see men's outfit?

The third one is correct. You are requesting for a redesignation of your appointment to adminstrative staff. That is, you want to be an administrative staff instead, since you arent one now. You don't redesignate as, you reedesigae to.

Where did your get organic pineapple? All the pineapples they sell these days are non-organic (agric)?

FamilyAdviser:
This note is strictly for married women.

Life is all about lessons. Experience they said is the best teacher.

I got married to a lady who hardly get wet during bedroom action. I have lived with this trauma for years until one day I summoned courage and informed my grandma.

She applauded my sincerity and advices me on what to do.

She told me that during their days when there was no hospital, they use natural herbs and fruit to cure all manners of illness without complications or side effects. She even showed me a particular leaf that can make a woman not to get pregnant after intercourse.

I was dumbfounded. Well with my grandma now I'm thinking of how to pass so many knowledge I have learnt from her to others....

Back to the topic: after explaining to her my wife's inability to get wet, she asked me to invite her both of us came. It wasn't easy at first, anyway.

My grandmother asked my wife to get ripped pineapple (not agric) with honey. We went to Federal college of Agriculture and got original Honey though very expensive.

Every morning and night she will ate the pineapple then with 5teaspoons of honey.

Within 7days if I touch my wife she will squirt all over . I now enjoy my bedroom show very very well.

It is over 3years now, nothing like applying lubricant.

I'm a happy man all thanks to God, grandma and nature.




Well,

Please do not commit suicide. What you are passing through is only for a while, as painful as it is. Please live one day at a time. I have read stories of people who lose all and then rise up again. Don't kill yourself. You will bounce back, gradually. Killing yourself makes the other person win. Don't kill yourself, please. It is well.

My son is 23 years old now
When he was 3, he asked , " Mummy, God has power, big power" and I answered yes. Then he added, "and Satan has small, tintinrin power", I answered in the affirmative and continued with what I was doing.

Then my son said" mummy see", flexing his arms and showing me his muscles, " I have small power, like Satan" I burst into laughter!!!

Ooye12:
Rip why this tinz no happen for midnight

Cos no movement on an already weakened structure at night

Home94:
Where can one get the milk of magnesia
Have been looking for it for quet a while now

Big pharmacies

Righteousness2:
This is not Alimosho or Bariga in Lagos, neither is this Aba in Abia or rumokoro in rivers state.
This is not Lekki, okokomiako or Lugbe.
This is the United Kingdom, one of the so called Developed Super Power. This is Exactly what is happening right in the Whole of Europe, Asia, South America and others.

Ladies and Gentlemen, GOD Almighty is Shaking the Earth and the Nations.

It is not about Government do this or that. The Events hitting the Nations today are beyond the Capacity and Capability of the Nations.

We are in the days of Noah and Lot. It is Fire in some nations , its is Biblical Flood in others.
Folks , we are at the brink of Something HUGE. Get Ready for the Sudden Rapture or be left behind to witness the real Wrath on Earth.

No. Tribulation comes before rapture. You're getting it wrong. Study your Bible.

Ishilove:
Buhahaha! Hilarious.

I once asked my dad what copulation means. My dad referred me to my mum. Mum referred me back to my dad. Dad asks me where I heard the word from and I told him my Integrated Science teacher asked us to ask our parents the meaning.

After several moments of awkward silence, dad changed the subject and never responded. Imagine my extreme trauma when I discovered in JSS 3 that babies are born via the vagina, and not the navel as I had been led to believe all my life. I wasn't myself for a week.

JSS 3? But these are basic Inter Science topics in my days in JS 1?

Neverwill:
I didn't have to post this but I would. Thanks for your abuses when I needed advice..I guess you can't get that from strangers. When wifey gets back from the shop I would tell her. Thanks and let's never take advantage of anyone needing help

Please do not tell your wife. Trust me I'm a woman I know. Since you've prayed, God has forgiven you. Co-operate with him to heal you with time. Do not worry. All will be well. Trust God!

ahiboilandgas:
if u can show me just 1 productive contribution that u have every posted on Nairaland I will respond

like many others, I come here to learn. It isn't compulsory I contribute. You have made a lot of valuable contributions in the past, which most people appreciate. Please let's remain focus. Ciao!

ahiboilandgas:
.if na to ask where tribecra Night club or airport lounges dey .she will appear and rant for the next 10 hours or pages wasting data up and down without any positive contribution to productive topic . I done give am daily food to rant for the next hours with her stale new.....oya start button activated ..

You're not entirely blameless yourself.

chyzoo4u:
I think that sentence is wrong because, God can do even that thing that does not exist. There's nothing God cannot do, whether it exists or not.

To me, "cannot do" and God should be in the same sentence.

I thought it was only me that so dislike that slogan! Christianity of slogans! Zero power! Why not just simply quote the scripture: with God all things are possible?

Igbojihadist:
my brother this happend november last year i was arrested as a suspected kidnapper and murderer i spent 1 month in police custody i would have create a topic 4 it but i dont know to do that on nairaland, am in ondo state currently

Create a topic. Go to front-page where the categories are listed. pick one category, most likely crime. Under it you'll see create new topic. Click on this to create your topic, write your story and then submit afterwards. Tag the mod, lalasticlala.

BeeBeeOoh:
Is that why you come baf up like this??

My brother, I Taya o! for night fah!

Arry110:
COVID 19 is real, I got infected in school Just isolating and taking my drugs at home Can’t taste or perceive anything, headache and restlessness This a pic of my medication, incase anyone needs it

Get well soon.

Reachable:
Hi all, I noticed I started developing body ordour under armpit in particular.
First time I noticed it was like more than a decade ago, then was in my 20s.
So I started using medicated soaps and deodorants, at first it was a big challenge getting the one that worked for me because once I start sweating I notice that it will overpower most deodorants I used but one worked for me which is (sure for men the long one).
After some years I noticed I always have boils under my armpits as a result of high usage until a nurse adviced to stop using deodorants that it can lead to skin cancer, at first I didn't knew the cause of my constant boils was the deodorant until she told me and I stopped I noticed the boils just died off.
So I started using them again but this time sparingly, until I stopped using them like some years ago.
I was fine especially if I didn't sweat much during the day, the only thing I noticed was that if I don't shave on time I will have armpit odour or after shaving my armpits the odour will come again for some days then stop.
I was managing it like that, but was making sure I bath at least twice a day or as much I can in a day.

Recently, I was more of staying at home these days unless I have job to do outside.
Only for me to start noticing the armpit odour again, shaved and bath as much as I can yet it won't stop.

My armpits always smell like a per boiled onions some moments after bathing, I have been managing it with explorer sometimes it works depending on my activities for the day.
But it's peeling the skin under my armpits and it's hurting besides it give me boils.
Please help, what can I do?

Hello, I was in your shoes some six years ago. Roll- on gave me lumps under my armpit. so I stopped. I researched and now use Milk of Magnesia (in big blue containers) poured into Roll on bottles. it is safe and effective. Been using it since. I don't perspire and smell. and I'm a woman. Try it. cheers!