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prettythicksme:
la click,la bend

your p

AzontoGhost:
all becos of Lepasharon my student...

hehehehe... wish u the best

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Gurgle:
Yeah OP youre right but the thing is that

the stereotypes, however damaging, have some 1% element of truth in them

As I have said before I don't think its necessarily a problem

Every single country in the world has regional and tribal stereotypes, its part of human nature

If you go to Italy you'll find that even different cities have a big dislike/ distrust of one another, although theyre all Italians

The thing is that as Nigerians we tend to overdo things, its just how we are. We're just "hot" like that

Its one of the things that both makes and breaks us. Although the world normally ignores Africans, we are known all over the world, for both good and bad reasons

The solution is just to try and tone it down, I mean our categorizing and dismissing of each other, for the sake of humanity

because it will never truly go away

well said Gurgle. i totally agree with u. that is like the major reason y i need Nigerians to calm down cos this is doing more harm than good. Strong emphasis should be laid on this. if possible in institutions

AzontoGhost:
move to your blog then! lol

u dey show urself abi

donholy28:
So u fit betray person 4 money

God! Can't u read simple english

I said [size=20pt]FALSE BELIEFS[/size]

carzola:
4. The Ibibios are known to be very tribal and are very loose when it comes to moral values such as sex-life.



who ever said this must have been smoking coco yam leaf..

U may be different( that's if you are Ibibio) but u can't tell about others.....

donholy28:
…Op Igbo man don betray u b4...see as weed way full ur head no dey allow u think.

Thank u sir but majority of Nairalanders will agree with me that this is the perception that so many have about igbos. I am actually igbo for your information.

This subject has been on my mind for some days now and I really want to use this medium to reach thousands of Nigerians who will In turn help me reach other thousands, if not millions of other Nigerians.

This subject is proven to be detrimental in so many ways and its negative impact can never be stopped except it is adequately pointed out.

Now follow me as I point out a few of them….

In Nigeria, different ethnicity and tribes has been known for different moral, physical and domestic practices and some of them have become false beliefs that people hold on steadfastly to.

For example:

1. The Yorubas are widely known to be dirty people and also love to be aggressive.

2. The Igbos are known to love money and can betray anyone for money.

3. The Hausas are known to be naturally aggressive and love to fight for no reason.

4. The Ibibios are known to be very tribal and are very loose when it comes to moral values such as sex-life.

5. Some part of the south-south, e.g Rives and Bayelsa are known to have this polygamous nature and the women are seen as people who cannot stay in marriage or cannot stay with a man.

Let me pause because there are lots been said about different tribes that I have never heard. Let’s analyze; to an extent, these beliefs seem to be true, but don’t forget that man is a social being and he works with his brain and environment.

I personally met this cute lady a few weeks ago, we got talking and I got to find out she is from Mbaise in Imo state. If u have an idea of how people see the Mbaise people, u should understand better. When she told me that, in my heart I was like “WTH!!! Mbaise is surely a NO! NO!” I had to take some time to ponder over this and I said to myself “hey dude, don’t discriminate”. Now we are pretty good friends tho the future is quite uncertain for now. ;-)

Sometimes when one is born into any of these tribes, he/she inherits those beliefs by mindset. And before you know it, he/she acts towards that direction.

That’s not much of a problem tho, but where the issue is now is this;

When a man wants to get married to a lady, he get demoralized by friends/family about the girls tribe. E.g the lady may hail from Rivers or Bayelsa or even one of the Yoruba states. If he is not a strong-willed person, after the points have been fully bisected and explained by the so-called family and friends, he will have a change of heart and quit the marriage.

Same goes to business, when you want to give someone an opportunity to manage the monetary part of your business, and you hear that he is an Igbo man/woman, it takes an amazing level of trust to make that employer give that job to him/her. Just giving basic examples and I believe there are worse cases that has happened based on this same factor.

The bottom line is this, we really need to change our mindset towards people’s tribe and what has already been believed to be true about their tribe.

If we do this, it will definitely salvage lots of things in this our beautiful county. There are lots of single ladies/men, unemployed youths and so many suffering simply because of these discrimination. We have to save people from this and make this country a better place for one to live in.

Originally posted by Chuzzy owner of www.chuzzyblog.com

http://www.chuzzyblog.com/2015/07/hazards-of-ethnic-discrimination-and.html

Agrika:
That's so true, nice one o.p

Tanx.. just wish majority of Nigerians will come to this understanding

wahles:
Mods go prove u wrong now

They are yet to prove me wrong bro

Make i balance here first

wahles:
Here incase dz makes Fp#

Most times informative posts like this don't make front page on nairaland...

safe trip man....

Freemanan:
:-Follows him out

Where to?

[size=60pt]Money rules the world [/size]

No. 3,7 & 9 are sure things!

Okay

wahles:
Here incase dz makes Fp#

see boys

This subject has been on my mind for some days now and I really want to use this medium to reach thousands of Nigerians who will In turn help me reach other thousands, if not millions of other Nigerians.

This subject is proven to be detrimental in so many ways and its negative impact can never be stopped except it is adequately pointed out.

Now follow me as I point out a few of them….

In Nigeria, different ethnicity and tribes has been known for different moral, physical and domestic practices and some of them have become false beliefs that people hold on steadfastly to.

For example:

1. The Yorubas are widely known to be dirty people and also love to be aggressive.

2. The Igbos are known to love money and can betray anyone for money.

3. The Hausas are known to be naturally aggressive and love to fight for no reason.

4. The Ibibios are known to be very tribal and are very loose when it comes to moral values such as sex-life.

5. Some part of the south-south, e.g Rives and Bayelsa are known to have this polygamous nature and the women are seen as people who cannot stay in marriage or cannot stay with a man.

Let me pause because there are lots been said about different tribes that I have never heard. Let’s analyze; to an extent, these beliefs seem to be true, but don’t forget that man is a social being and he works with his brain and environment.

I personally met this cute lady a few weeks ago, we got talking and I got to find out she is from Mbaise in Imo state. If u have an idea of how people see the Mbaise people, u should understand better. When she told me that, in my heart I was like “WTH!!! Mbaise is surely a NO! NO!” I had to take some time to ponder over this and I said to myself “hey dude, don’t discriminate”. Now we are pretty good friends tho the future is quite uncertain for now. ;-)

Sometimes when one is born into any of these tribes, he/she inherits those beliefs by mindset. And before you know it, he/she acts towards that direction.

That’s not much of a problem tho, but where the issue is now is this;

When a man wants to get married to a lady, he get demoralized by friends/family about the girls tribe. E.g the lady may hail from Rivers or Bayelsa or even one of the Yoruba states. If he is not a strong-willed person, after the points have been fully bisected and explained by the so-called family and friends, he will have a change of heart and quit the marriage.

Same goes to business, when you want to give someone an opportunity to manage the monetary part of your business, and you hear that he is an Igbo man/woman, it takes an amazing level of trust to make that employer give that job to him/her. Just giving basic examples and I believe there are worse cases that has happened based on this same factor.

The bottom line is this, we really need to change our mindset towards people’s tribe and what has already been believed to be true about their tribe.

If we do this, it will definitely salvage lots of things in this our beautiful county. There are lots of single ladies/men, unemployed youths and so many suffering simply because of these discrimination. We have to save people from this and make this country a better place for one to live in.


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AzontoGhost:
say it again chale!
I will start utilizing my cane soon

Not in my thread

Emvin:
u make sense bro....
I admire ur business sense...

Na wetin u use do ur beard abeg... I wanna start keepin mine dat way

Natural things... just shave when necessary

safarigirl:
nna, don't mind these jolosi boys on NL, you're a fine fresh boy, you look very healthy for a blogger, we're used to skinny, semi-gay dudes forming 'bloggers'. Abia guys no dey disappoint

Lemme goan check out ya blog sef

i greet you

englishmart:
go use am collect money from bank na

Okay bro. Thanks

Shebarh:
and funny enuf dis girl no longer frick most people again

are you very sure?

Nicki once again gave her male fans and prolly some of her female fans an awesome show last night at Splash! Festival in Germany. The rapper and her girls wore a sheer costume comprising of black lace veil and a sheer wrap skirt, which she later peeled off.

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englishmart:
self acclaimed

Still waiting for who is gonna dispute that

ba7man:
Guy forget cuteness and get money.

I you are smart enough, you will know that the intent of this post is to make money.

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