CountinBlessins: You need to grow up. Two wrongs never make a right. Keeping silent doesn't make you a fool. Neither does turning the other cheek makes you weak.
Infact to react the way you are suggesting shows chronic weakness
Two wrongs never make a right?
But people who commit crimes are imprisoned and sometimes executed And even God himself promised to send sinners to hellfire. But you know better than both governments and God. Isn't it??
You're growing up with a lot of nonsensical beliefs and that's very dangerous. It's not by force to be a real man, anyway. You can continue to be the weak-ass man you've chosen to be and allow people you're not owing to insult and dribble you around.
Afodot0022: This is trash... as a man , never be scared of loosing a woman even a wife, never allow yourself to be manipulated by your in-laws hence you will be a slave in their hands, show them some little madness.... if they like they should give her to another suitor, they can only collect your wife but not your own kids, there are authorities that will get your kids for you. same thing happened to me, my ex wife took my kids to my in-law without getting my approval, since January i just ignore , now they are calling me to seek my consent. my plan is to take my kids custody from my ex and give them their daughter to eat.
INomorethief: I have tried to make them understand my situation. They don't even pick my calls anymore like I am the one responsible for their father death.
Stop calling any of them again, please
Which kind friends una get self that can't give good and real advice?
You're not owing them as long as you married her legally. They're just intimidating you and you shouln't give in to that. Stand your ground; when they are tired, the woman will return And if she doesn't, you inititate a legal battle for divorce and custody of your kids if they're upto age. No body should worry himself/herself unnecessarily over any issue in today's world, please.
Villa12: I pity you. Your wife will be given out to a potential suitor better than you while you may not have access to your kids. You think op is foolish worrying about his wife and kids. You go just become old bachelor again
He may lose the wife, but not the children, unless he doesn't know what he's doing.
No one can play that kind of rubbish game with me.
The guy is not owing them and shouldn't be forced to make any payment.
CountinBlessins: Dialogue is the way brother. Don't let emotions get the better fo you.
Travel back ands it with them and dialogue face to face. Mobile phones have ruined a lot of relationships.
Do it the old fashioned way of face to face conversation .
All will be well. Two hot heads can never resolve anything. This isn't about ego or pride. Go there and calmly talk to them trust me they will understand.
After he has been insulted and disrespected already
Men were not known to be like this. You guys are ending a worthy era, and that's quite unfortunate.
The wife should remain there, let's see who loses eventually.
Hollybratt: Hey chap My advice for you is to do what makes you happy. Imagine having a mother who act like Patience ozokwor, you will understand why you must fear Igbo women. IRMC
I didn't see where the Op mention her ethnicity
Why are some of you so useless that all you amount to is ethnic bickering and bantering
One EreluRoz will soon come and tell us that this too is the nature of women.
I'm glad you've come to the realization that your father wasn't the problem. So many other children aren't that lucky and thus spend their entire lives accusing the wrong person. What you and your siblings are experiencing now is just an iceberg of what your dad passed through in the hands of that woman. It's unfortunate he died with that burden of accusation and i wish his soul a perfect rest in eternity.
As for you, the best decision will be to leave her house, irrespective of the consequences.. After all, it's your fellow woman that said ''if i perish, i perish'' in the Bible. So, there's nothing to be afraid of.
NairaOcean: A distraught wife took to the streets, plastering posters that accuse another woman of having an affair with her husband. The posters, which she pasted on walls, lampposts, and bus stops, bear the bold headline: "Husband Snatcher, Please Leave My Husband Alone."
The woman behind the posters claims that her husband has been entangled in an extramarital affair with a woman she refers to only as "the side chick." The posters include photos of the alleged side chick along with a fervent message urging her to end the relationship.
And you've been putting mouth in national issues you're still too young to understand! A little boy born in 1994 of yesterday shouldn't be joining discussions when Nigeria's evil acts of discrimination, tribalism and marginalization are being talked about by his elders.
LegendHero: IPOB are terrorists and murderers. As a Yoruba, I wouldn’t have cared more about them until Kanu was abusing my tribe and asking his terrorists to burn down Lagos.
I don’t regret supporting Buhari, it is a democracy and it’s one man on vote. He got elected simply because more Nigerians voted him than those who vote against it. He campaigned on change, he came in and did not live up to expectation at the end. In life, nothing is 100% sure. We move on.
I campaigned for Tinubu because I believe he is the best candidate with the track record. Within a year, he implemented most of the things he mentioned in his manifesto. It is the same thing that policy analysts proposed for years as Nigeria breakthrough, but now that he implemented them, we have seen that those changes are hard on the populace.
He still has 3 more years to go, let’s see the final effect of his change on Nigerians and if by 2027 Nigerians see it is bad, they vote him out.
But you see that my one vote, I will never use it to vote the Agulu fraud Obi because he is an empty clown who have nothing upstairs. Everyman can promise to turn Nigeria to Paris, what you should ask is that, when he was governor, did he turned Anamabra to America?
Did they murder your father, you hateful, bigoted id!ot It is the bias, hatred, discrimination and ethnoreligious bigotry being shown by you hateful creatures that led to their emergence. As freedom fighters and secessionists, they might be perceived as ''terrorists'' only to you devils and hypocr!tes, but not any sensible Igboman who understands the evils your evil-minded fathers are perpetrating and perpetuating against the Igbo region in Nigeria
EreluRoz: When I get married I'll prefer my husband do the buying, I don't even want to know the price of anything, let him just be buying them while the maids cook them and I take care of him and the kids. Life is not too hard abeg.
And that's after supporting 2 useless successive goverments
floshady02: @mddarah84 20m won’t be enough and that’s the honest truth. With the very high cost of building materials now. Only your foundation can cost 4m-6m. Am also on a 4 bedroom bungalow all en-suite and already got to lintel level this month. So am talking from experience. As much as you try to corner the workers and supervisor etc so they don’t reap you. You can escape the high cost of materials which is insane now. Rods, cement, granite, 9 inches blocks, woods are so F&@king expensive.
Efuaye: Twenty Five years of unbroken democracy, how has Nigerians fared?
I remember all the events that preceded May 29, 1999. There was excitement everywhere that at last the military was exiting the political stage in the annals of our history but today a lot of people will tell you that things are not in any way better, especially in these last few years!
The question is, Where were you and how old were you in 1999?
Is this the democracy you hoped for?
Are we there yet?
Man was in SS3 then
Let's catch all those kids that have been insulting their elders here
Paraman: How can you boldly ask this IQ reducing question
Last week the MPR was raised again and a lot of other steps that is taking by the FG, but you're here asking base on what exactly
So, you're more informed than those who wrote the article and noted that the naira appreciation is not based on any fundamentals?
FYI, the recent MPR increase hasn't yielded any result so far as there's no new FDI as a result of it nor is there any recent action by the govt that has resulted in increased forex inflow into the country.
Most of you propagandists and praise-singers don't read at all.
"While this is good news, there was no data or any recognisable fundamentals either from the Central Bank of Nigeria or the Ministry of Finance to justify the latest upward surge".
oxygenator: You are the scammer writing rubbish all the time and calling someone a scammer. Do you have a phone number? What are you hiding from. You are giving false advice, wrong diagnosis and prescribing rubbish to the public. Na which hole did you come out from to be making prescription in public space. Fake doctor. If you wan see awa medical kpali one can send it to Baba Seun Osewa to show you and then from there you will see how my university '4walls' look like. Present your own medical certificate to see who authorized you to prescribe drugs to the general public. The public should know who be scammer between both of us . Ole buruku, omojatijati. You pretend to know when you know nothing.
I'm obviously dealing a death blow to your scamming business here, and that's paining you a lot
Don't worry, I'll invite you whenever I'm in Nigeria and have a patient who truly needs it. That's if you have the right facilities to deliver the therapy at the required concentration and pressure, and i seriously doubt you do.
oxygenator: Just go and rest. Is there any branch of medicine that does not use oxygen? HBOT takes the use of oxygen more than 1000 steps further.
This scammer, the supplemental oxygen being used freely in the various hospital units is different from the hyperbaric oxygen therapy(HBOT) you're talking about, in terms of the concentration of the oxygen used and the pressure needed to deliver it.
Hyperbaric oxygen therapy is only used in selected diseases as an adjunct to standard treatment protocols.
For instance, when when we use it in Plastic surgery in the treatment of Necrotizing fasciitis or non-healing chronic ulcers, it doesn't replace the standard surgical and medical treatments for these conditions. It only serves adjunctive roles.
Scammers like you turn everything you lay your hands on into a one-fit-all solutions, just to fleece people of their money.
Imagine recommending HBOT for Pterygium! I'm sure that, as non medical personnel, you don't even know what that disease condition is. Pterygium is a soft tissue growth from the conjunctiva. If for anything, excess Oxygen via HBOT will accelerate its growth to quickly cover the cornea and become a surgical emergency.
oxygenator: As far as the medical profession is concerned adding hbot gives the best result so far to date until proven otherwise.
If you did not make any research before coming here to expose your ignorance it is safer for you to shut up. If however you did any kindly write it so that the literate world would see it and follow you. If you cannot find any and you indirectly attempt to dissuade patients from taking the right decision then shame unto you. Do not delay to give your crooked advice. We are waiting.
As long as which medical profession is concerned??
Says a guy cum scammer who never saw the 4 walls of a medical school.
batistutajulio: I remember there was a heavy dust and breeze before it rains some week back. I had to run inside home.
What do I do since what has happened has happended? What is the solution to take thing away? The doctor I showed my eye images said its just small and not even yet matured. I'm scared.
If it's still small and hasn't yet encroached onto the black part of the eye(cornea), no action is needed.
But it you develop irritation or redness, you can use eyedrops, just to reduce the symptoms.
The ultimate solution is surgery when it starts encroaching onto the cornea.
batistutajulio: You mean even after a successful surgery, I can't look at a computer for a few hours with my eyes? I want to remove it and make it disappear.
The major risk factor for Pterygium comes from sunlight and dusts, and not computers.
oxygenator: Before your next pterigium surgery consider hyperbaric oxygen therapy -hbot.
HBOT encourages more blood supply to surgery site to make a better and faster healing. After surgery blood supplies are narrowed and with less oxygen wound healing is delayed while the immune system tries to compensate by increasing the fibrovascular tissues on the wound. This leads to recurrence of pterigion. To avoid such tissue reaction 5 sessions of hbot are recommended immediately after the pterigium excision.
This should be done to encourage quick healing and avoid the abnormal tissue growth.
This same process occurs on the skin. Delayed healing leads to thick scar formation. To avoid poor healing and scar formation on any wound HBOT is very necessary.
HBOT is available for those who need it.
We are HBOT PROVIDERS in PH.
Why do you prescribe this for every ailment in this world Nawaoo