₦airaland Forum

LilMissFavvy:
How were you treating your wife, lets start from there

chopnaira:
Same in North America and many other African countries. Any renovation that could affect the structural safety of a dwelling will need permit.

Tap0lane:
How is this news or maybe it is to anyone that as never built or renovated a house in Lagos before. I knew this over 5 years ago.

Mercylike:
May it not be possible in Jesus name.

You will Continue wit her and her family will keep frustrating u. Amen

Deeegbee:
Funny comment but can you give reasons why he should run from the latter. I want to learn, at times you have like 4 different quotes for a particular task and you end up as a confuse man. My rules most times is to buy only 75% materials of what they quote because of past experience.

Iriruaga100:
Go with your site engineer. Buy half of everything he requested for first and supervise the job. Run from the alternate engineer as fast as you can.

Kyng1:
So, no solution? But If I choose to quit the marriage will the family agree to return my bride price?

Kyng1:
I have lots and I mean a lot of recordings of her suicide attempt, but I don't trust the police because of what happened to me last year. They're crooks and answers to the highest bidder only. Someone sold a land to me double the amount that he has already sold to someone else. My sister got him arrested, he was in cell for barely 24 hours when his father came to bail him, the police bailed him without my notice without my notice or knowledge with immediate effect, until date, I didn't get a penny from my money.

emmeyen:
Of course it doesn't. But as soon as the man becomes widowed, he barely knows what to do with his life. So you see him looking for a new wife already barely three months after loosing the "useless wife". Marriage truly does not benefit men. Una go dey alright by God's grace.

jazzman7711:
The 1.4 billion dollar 2nd Niger Bridge Buhari built for you people, what did he get but abuse?

You're even lucky he built the bridge that PDP refused to build for 16 years.

If I were him I would have used that money to build something more useful to the country.

Worthless things.

post=129987549:
See Graphic Photos Below:

Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/5/missing-father-of-three-found-stabbed-to-death-in-kano-2.html

Hezzyluv:
RIP to the fallen heroes.

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Ladydee30:
Hi everyone pls I have a question about the Japanese visa…. I applied on Wednesday and all my documents where complete and well submitted but few minutes after leaving the embassy I got an email from the embassy saying all documents are complete except I didn’t attach the COE application form to the other supporting documents used to obtain my COE from my employer, that I need to attach that so I replied to them saying my employer applied for my COE online hence there was no physical application form but I did attach the receipt of the application that was sent from the immigration saying my application was received and is being processed but I can’t help but worry if that will affect my chances of getting the visa

And also my employer has to reach out to the immigration if they could issue an application form but they said that would take one month so right now we are just waiting for the final verdict from the embassy. should i be scared or worried.

I will appreciate any response that would help pls

123yes:
what do you know about drugs fool

realtekweb2:
great

jazzman7711:
Says an IPO.B Emergency Nigerian.



But it was the Lagos state govt that built the railway.

Did anybody tie your state governor's hand?

Or they don't they receive federal allocation like others?

Have your governors finished building mansions in Texas, before worrying about building railway networks?

Stupid idiot.

Pending:
I am reflecting on my life, and just can’t but wonder how jealousy is a self-defeating trait most people possess.

It happens that I lost my parents at a tender age (mostly relating to spiritual attacks from those who don’t want my dad’s progress, and my mum follow soon afterward)

My dad mum had only two male children for my grandad, so we literally have only one man left to call a dad. But, he lives far away in a different city at that time, so my maternal grandmother took us in and we live in the village with her.

However, my uncle does send money for our education, but I think the money is not always accounted for so my uncle’s wife pressure her husband to bring us over. She loved us very much then and took us like her children.

However, something happened that will change my experience living with them.

My uncle is a man that dreams, and his dream does come to pass. So, he dreamt that I grew up to be very successful to the extent that his children all depended on me.

He told his wife, and a new type of demon enter into her. She became a devil.

I once overheard her fighting with her husband over the dream. She so much insulted him, saying he shamelessly dreamt that his brother children succeed over his children and he is happy about it.

She changed towards me in particular. She so much hated me and did everything possible to make me feel like an imposter. We the children all live together like siblings and love each other, but she sowed discord among us.

She didn’t want me to continue with my education if she had her way, but God always help me and I at least finish my secondary education over there.

She even go naked to tempt me.

There was a time she stopped sleeping in her husband room and came to sleep in our room instead. She will have her bath and put on wrapper that will later come loose in the middle of the night.

I am the type that always wake up at night to urinate, so I do see her lying naked, but will ignore believing she got careless from tying only wrapper to sleep. However, I got to know it was a trap to implicate me when she one day vouch for me that I am not a pervert when we had a female visitor that was to use our room.

Those are some of the things she did. But, I scaled through. However, I began to challenge her as I grow older, and scared that she no longer have control over me finally have a way to send me back to my mother’s people. My brother left soon after on his own because we were literally being treated like a slave in our own uncles house.

I enter the street on my own, did a lot of menial job and use my educational knowledge to learn a digital skill, which finally pave way for me to be independent.

Although, I am still struggling, I believe all will get well some day.

Now, back to the self defeating trait I said initially.

Her children are currently in higher institutions (I also hope to gain admission this year by God’s grace, and I believe God will see me through). But her worst fear is already coming to pass.

The economy is currently not smiling on anyone, so she can’t always send money to her children in school. When they are in need, they contact me. Although I don’t have much myself, but I always have some savings whenever I work, and I send the little I have.

However, is it not better if she has supported me from the beginning?

The reason I am still struggling is because I had zero support. I had to fix my mental health (which I am grateful for sending me the right help) deal with the cold outer world and manage to utilize the little resources I have to start providing my digital skill.


But if I have the right support, I would have grown really fast. And everyone will be more comfortable, because I can’t ignore my siblings if they need my help.

The whole jealousy stuff is just self defeating in my opinion.

Paraman:
Tinubu is on the right path

Tinubu till 2031

tuzeriouz:
Don't be a puss*, bro!

jazzman7711:


This man's attitude is highly commendable, and reminds us all that not all Igbos are crazed, angry Obidients.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0xlZSz__gU&ab_channel=KennethNwache

ELKHALIFAISIS:
I made same mistake and I have learnt my lesson.. I made this young man over 3 years ago and i told him about my plan of developing my second home, 5 rooms ensuite... He has been pestering me to start start start but I still insist I must be there before I start anything, I came back last year meet this motherfucker but due to limited timing I didn't start... Last 2 months he's on my neck to start , I told him.... We are already In rainy season let's wait till November that am not in hurry but he keeps gingering me until I said ok, oya I will pay u from foundation to deck leveling... You bring Ur worker I bring materials. He charged me 2.5m which we later agreed to 2m but with condition I will pay after completion of each stages, he refused I must pay him at least half of the money , since I paid this guy the only time he visited that side is when they are marking the land for foundation, and when they are forming foundation block.... He disappeared, only on phone he gives order.... They work today and in next few days they will not work,..... Out of 110 bags I bought 11 have kicked, the foreman handling the job has abandoned the work because he's owning labourers and not even paying anyone and when I asked him he will say he will pay them when they finish, for over 7 weeks now they are still in foundation levels, everyday am calling , threating , shouting , I'm losing it because i never expect it this way being young guy for that matter..... Am thinking of abandoning this project because its giving me hard time.. even the culvert he do for me with 500k has collapsed and when I told him he started laughing and said we will do another one ....

Redman44:
One carpenter is showing me shege at the moment. Made a mistake of paying him upfront . He has not finished the job. I am just pissed off.

alizma:
The moment you tell me you paid in full before the work commences, I become careful when it comes to trusting you with valuable things. This is not because you are bad but because you still lack significant knowledge of what real life is all about. This is not the time to become emotional, this is money we are talking about and in real life, no single individual will tell you that he likes working for working sake. People work basically in exchange for something in view and once that thing (money or commodity) is no longer in view, working becomes a kind of punishment or even consider a kind of 21st century slavery.

Toluwalase12345:
That shouldn't stop one to pay in full if the full money is in the account. It also reduce stress and headache for the one that own the job.

pragmatistm:
I can't agree less especially the building works

tiswell:
Pay your workers,they aren't slaves.


Once a Nigerian gets small upgrade,as in boss or employer,dey tend to feel like demigods

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gbengene1234:
Are you duly informed about what brought this war?
When you're been pushed to the corner, won't you resist your oppressor even if you know you have less chances of winning. Atleast, you'd put up a fight so that the whole world can be informed and come to your aid. My problem with the Hamas was why the jubilation over a small victory when you know the repercussion of what you did will be greatly severe. Indeed, the Israeli had taught them a great lesson and it's high to they too shield their swords. Been a Christian is not why you shouldn't advocate for peace for the benefits of the both parties regardless of anyone been a superior in the war.

House34:
We own not only african store ,we also have many nigeria churches now in canada more than india or chinese business or companies.