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PoliticsRe: PMB In Imo: Residents Line Up To Welcome The President by Cijo: 10:36am On Sep 09, 2021
[color=#990000][/color][quote lol you Sabi the business author=FatherCHRISTMAS post=105636604]Omo see crowd shocked I have never seen this kind of crowd in my life shocked shocked

These ones no gree sit at home
Mobilization fee go be like 7 to 10k todaygrin grin[/quote]
CelebritiesRe: Ned Nwoke Held Sports Competition For His Wives And Kids Including Munir by Cijo: 4:05pm On May 12, 2021
This 1 off me oh!!!!

PoliticsRe: Unknown Gunmen: Ebonyi Government Ends 7-Day Fasting & Prayer (Photos) by Cijo: 9:13pm On May 09, 2021
Some of them follow dey destroy this country all they follow is money!!!

RomanceRe: What's The Worst Thing Your Ex Ever Did To You? Share Your Experience!!! by Cijo: 4:00am On Apr 29, 2020
Me i forgave two times. The ones i knew about oh...[color=#990000][/color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]
RomanceRe: She Is Always Speaking With Her Ex by Cijo: 4:21am On Apr 04, 2020
AfroKnight:
Let me paint a picture.

She continues to contact her ex without hiding it from you. You begin to think she’s at the least, honest with you cos she is not concealing this fact. After a while, you get worried at the frequency and nature of their conversations. So you complain about it. She becomes defensive almost immediately. She tells you there’s nothing romantic between them, that they are just friends. She may even imply (or declare outright) that you are insecure. This jab hurts you but “love” compels you to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Little by little, you are conditioned to condone this unusual friendship she shares with her ex. You raise your suspicions and she shuts you down again and again. Then she begins to call you a controlling and intrusive partner. She says you are letting your insecurities drive you.

Meanwhile, she’s having steady sex or going on dates with her ex. But you’ve been browbeaten to accept the lie she feeds you. Until one day she makes a mistake and you catch her red handed and then she gets angry or teary eyed and she walks away from the relationship, claiming that he seduced her in her moment of weakness or some other bullshît like that.



Bro, you are leading yourself to this bus stop. It is the worst feeling, when your gut tells you something and you fold your arms and watch it metamorphose into a nightmare. Make it a binary solution. She either limits her contact with her ex drastically or you breakup. If you condone nonsense she will take advantage and ruin you.
You have said it all my guy. "If you condone nonsense she will take advantage and ruin you"something like that is happening in my relationship now.at first you be like is( ok) when you can't take it anymore and tells her to stop, my man you don enter oh.that's 1 of the mistakes I made today in my relationship and is still hurting me.
RomanceRe: She Is Always Speaking With Her Ex by Cijo: 4:04am On Apr 04, 2020
aimuan:
lol.not like that.just that I am not that fuuking fuccking guy..I was raised as Jehovah's witness,even though I am no longer their member but the training I got there still remain intact..So I don't Fancy formication like that,and I am also very discipline when it comes to dealing with women.
Use your head before person use an for you.
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Poses With The Fela Kuti Family by Cijo: 12:16pm On Oct 16, 2019
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