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I think lots of woman have lost insight on what it means to be a woman. our internal beauty is nothing when compared to our external beauty. We have let civilisation and sophistication cloud our morals and we tend to concentrate more on improving our looks more than we improve our personalities yet we yearn to be loved and have someone to call our own,we practically labelled every man as all the same without reflecting on ourselves to see how we contributed to our failed relationships and how to build a better and lasting one. It won't do us any harm to consider once again what men desires in a woman. So men in the house please throw some light. What do men desires in a woman they would love to keep. What personalities do u seek in your potential spouse. Thanks

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My candid advice for artists like ADO: work on your self esteem,gr ab some more formal and informal education,and finally find a suitable career. Actually get a life

elvis10ten: My name is Elvis Chidera, a 14 years old SSS1 student of U.V.A (Ultimate Victory Academy),
Rumuodara, Portharcourt. I am a programmer. I started learning programming at the age of 11 years (the basic things). I know java, php, j2me and a little python.

Last year i decided to build an app for mobile phones, i thought of something that is needed in the society and its within my power to create a solution for and i came up with Xmx Me. It is an app for j2me enabled phones used for sending sms at a reduced price.

It took me the whole of my third term holiday to build + more three weeks, i missed classes due to the development of the app. I got featured on techmoran some months after launch http://techmoran.com/2012/11/11/xmx-mebulk-sms-app-developed-by-a-14-year-old-boy-from-port-harcourtnigeria/#sthash.q09KV9e5.dpbs . After many months of running, i discovered some bugs in the application. I tried fixing them but i found out that i couldn't do that with my phone. I learnt programming with my phone and up till now i still use it for development. I use a nokia 2690 with a j2me compiler known as (J2ME SDK MOBILE www.mumey.wen.ru). With more people moving to android and ios i knew i was out of shape and outdated. For the past 3 months i have been looking for a pc so i can build more apps that solves peoples problem and debug Xmx Me, i was so close in getting the pc => i took an iphone from a friend to sell it and get a pc(fairly used) and pay him back later but i lost the iphone in a place i went to charge it so i can sell it the following day. That was my last option and personally i can't even raise up to 5000.

This financial limitation can make me sell Xmx Me, but i don't really want to (sometimes i feel i should sell it sometimes i don't) because i know Xmx Me has a brighter and better future with me. Right now, am still
looking out for people so as to raise the money for the laptop and if i don't get
people that can help me, i might have to sell it (which i don't want to do).

Please i need your advice. I don't want history to repeat itself it my life, i once had a great interest, love and passion for robotics and any thing about building stuffs before but for this same reason(money) i don't know how i left it. I built a bristlebot, crossbow and other misc. Things, i learnt alot about robotics (especially societyofrobots.com) going down to building a robot shark, but i can't remember how i lost interest after realizing after one year i couldn't get a microcontroller, a sensor, a motor(electric fan) and a pc. Please help.

I am selling Xmx Me(app + site). The site is www. . I make about 2k-6k a month from the site without advertisement. The app have different ways of monetizing it with ad. Xmx Me enables people send sms at a reduced price which is adjustable by you. Some of the uniqueness and features of Xmx Me are: 1)It has a light and easy to use ui. 2) It uses little bandwidth thereby minimizing bandwidth cost. 3)It has a phone book utility option which allows mass selection of numbers from the phone book/contacts. 4)It has a service page which is dynamic and can offer things like jokes, fixtures, etc. The services page also understand and interpret a scripting language built by us known as Xscript which can make a page more dynamic and beautiful. The things that can be done with the Xscript currently are bold text, underline text, line break, italics text, input forms, submit button. 5)Multiple receipients support. We have 110-250 unique visitors per day. Reason for selling it: i no longer have time to manage it. Interested buyers should contact me here or through my email elvis.chidera@gmail.com with the price you want to buy it. I want to sell it for about 30,000. Saw this in your posts. Sounds like both stories contradicts. If u make 2k to 6k in a month,u can actually save em and get a lappy. The former said u wana sell cus u dnt hv time and here u are talking abt finance. Anyway,I have an entirely different proposal you may like,would fetch quite some cash. Am in pH too,let's hook up. Cindymaybaby@yahoo.com

elvis10ten: My name is Elvis Chidera, a 14 years old SSS1 student of U.V.A (Ultimate Victory Academy),
Rumuodara, Portharcourt. I am a programmer. I started learning programming at the age of 11 years (the basic things). I know java, php, j2me and a little python.

Last year i decided to build an app for mobile phones, i thought of something that is needed in the society and its within my power to create a solution for and i came up with Xmx Me. It is an app for j2me enabled phones used for sending sms at a reduced price.

It took me the whole of my third term holiday to build + more three weeks, i missed classes due to the development of the app. I got featured on techmoran some months after launch http://techmoran.com/2012/11/11/xmx-mebulk-sms-app-developed-by-a-14-year-old-boy-from-port-harcourtnigeria/#sthash.q09KV9e5.dpbs . After many months of running, i discovered some bugs in the application. I tried fixing them but i found out that i couldn't do that with my phone. I learnt programming with my phone and up till now i still use it for development. I use a nokia 2690 with a j2me compiler known as (J2ME SDK MOBILE www.mumey.wen.ru). With more people moving to android and ios i knew i was out of shape and outdated. For the past 3 months i have been looking for a pc so i can build more apps that solves peoples problem and debug Xmx Me, i was so close in getting the pc => i took an iphone from a friend to sell it and get a pc(fairly used) and pay him back later but i lost the iphone in a place i went to charge it so i can sell it the following day. That was my last option and personally i can't even raise up to 5000.

This financial limitation can make me sell Xmx Me, but i don't really want to (sometimes i feel i should sell it sometimes i don't) because i know Xmx Me has a brighter and better future with me. Right now, am still
looking out for people so as to raise the money for the laptop and if i don't get
people that can help me, i might have to sell it (which i don't want to do).

Please i need your advice. I don't want history to repeat itself it my life, i once had a great interest, love and passion for robotics and any thing about building stuffs before but for this same reason(money) i don't know how i left it. I built a bristlebot, crossbow and other misc. Things, i learnt alot about robotics (especially societyofrobots.com) going down to building a robot shark, but i can't remember how i lost interest after realizing after one year i couldn't get a microcontroller, a sensor, a motor(electric fan) and a pc. Please help.

I am selling Xmx Me(app + site). The site is www. . I make about 2k-6k a month from the site without advertisement. The app have different ways of monetizing it with ad. Xmx Me enables people send sms at a reduced price which is adjustable by you. Some of the uniqueness and features of Xmx Me are: 1)It has a light and easy to use ui. 2) It uses little bandwidth thereby minimizing bandwidth cost. 3)It has a phone book utility option which allows mass selection of numbers from the phone book/contacts. 4)It has a service page which is dynamic and can offer things like jokes, fixtures, etc. The services page also understand and interpret a scripting language built by us known as Xscript which can make a page more dynamic and beautiful. The things that can be done with the Xscript currently are bold text, underline text, line break, italics text, input forms, submit button. 5)Multiple receipients support. We have 110-250 unique visitors per day. Reason for selling it: i no longer have time to manage it. Interested buyers should contact me here or through my email elvis.chidera@gmail.com with the price you want to buy it. I want to sell it for about 30,000. Saw this in your posts. Sounds like both stories contradicts. If u make 2k to 6k in a month,u can actually save em and get a lappy. The former said u wana sell cus u dnt hv time and here u are talking abt finance. Anyway,I have an entirely different proposal you may like,would fetch quite some cash. Am in pH too,let's hook up. Cindymaybaby@yahoo.com

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nenergy: The curse of humanity...we never learn from the experience of others..
..we seek ours!

Facebook Murder Victim Cynthia Osokogu Died of “Asphyxia,” Says Lagos Pathologist
http://saharareporters.com/news-page/facebook-murder-victim-cynthia-osokogu-died-%E2%80%9Casphyxia%E2%80%9D-says-lagos-pathologist

Yea I gat dat news too and they are two different things by the way. In all of those cynthia dem stories,they went to meet the guys or were picked. This guy has never been here,he just came back 3 months ago from london. We'v been friends all tru. He sent money to ma account to book a room 4 him,I picked him frm d park and took him to every offices he needed to go. So hw dumb can a gal who has been with a guy for a day,held his fone while he was in a meeting,knw all the ppl he met and booked a roomn for him in a place he doesn't knw, hw dumb can u b not to tell his motives. B4 I agreed to stay bak with him,I already knw enuf to be certain dat am not on harms way. And he asked me to stay back cuz he felt uneasy and bored. The attendants hardly understood him,I had to interpret in ma native dialect. All the same thanks for your advice but am not stupid. I was pretty sure of him b4 I stayed back

jay bee: I can see that 'em questionable remarks haven't been one directional has earlier thought.
Can i now please plead with you guys to call a truce. Throwing shots at fellow human is so not kool so please let the truce work.

Thanks both for your anticipated cooperation

I can't open my topic anymore,why is that? But I still see new notifications. Topic was "does a guy have to say"be my girlfriend" https://www.nairaland.com/1336550/does-guy-say-girlfriend#1336550.16

Serendipity: women can be contumacious, unregenerate and incorrigible.
So, after the ''the cynthia Osokogu's saga'' you still had the temerity to go and visit a virtual friend and an E-quaintance at a hotel room knowing full well that you are the weaker sex?

Yea,about that. At least I got to know him more throughout the day we spent together,he came for an official visit in the school,had a couple of meetings with the VC and other executives,I was the one that took him around and helped him with places so before that night I was pretty sure of him and his motives.

I don't have the guts to ask him. He is 29 and am 23

I meet this guy on a social network and we later met. Couldn't deny I fell for him instantly but am not the type to lose my self control easily. I know he likes me,he also did mention that he enjoys my company and is attracted to me but I don't know if the attraction he meant was sexually or does he want a relationship. Anyway here is the details; he stays in a different state and he had something that brought him to my state so he had to lodge in a hotel and I came to see him there,we spent the night together and tho he made some sexual advances which I resisted,he didn't press any further. When I was leaving in the morning,he said he was gonna call me when is about to leave and he did called and also called when he got to his state. We have been chatting online since then,he never did call again till when I mentioned I would be happy to hear his voice again,I don't know if that's because we do chat,personally I still prefer calls to chat. I don't know if he is on the same page with me,I would love to date him but I don't know if that's what he wants. What do you think? Ask me any further questions you deem necessary. Plz don't be abusive.

My boyfriend is a Nigerian but he is based in china. I love him but am having a hard time dealing with the fact that he already had a son with a south african woman there in china. He said they are no longer dating,that she is just his baby mama and the lady has moved to Hong Kong. Well,the thing is that we are planning to get married and anytime I raise up the issue he wave it off saying that will not be a problem since the lady is not from Nigeria. I asked him why he didn't marry the lady and he said its bcus he wants to marry a Nigerian and when I asked him if he trully loves her,he waves the question and replies me saying it doesn't matter,that what matters is that he loves me. Am worried,he might still be inlove with this lady and how this whole thing will turn out bcus I have never dated someone with a child or know someone whom did that could enlighten me. Please if you have been in a similar position can you tell me how it all worked out. I need a candid advice. I really love him but it just too complicated.