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jeromestarks:
BEWARNED! THIS IS A LONG READ.

I have noticed that at some point in every new relationship or friendship I started, the person must test my love for him/her by making me jealous to see my reaction. Check out the following cases.

Case1:
When I got admission into the uni, I met this great guy that i shared hostel with. We became close friends; sharing food together, doing assignment together, washing together etc. We even went to classes and church programs together. These went on for about 4 months or so.
Suddenly, this guy wokeup one beautiful Saturday and called a guy in the next room to escort him to the launder! I was like "what!"
We use to go washing together. Why call this guy and not me? I didn't say it out. I just wondered and pretended not to care.
Before I knew it, he had started cooking and sharing food with the other guy. Soon, he became best friends with this other guy.
I kept my cool and moved on with my life.
We graduated and everyone went his way. Note, we didn't fight. We do talk once awhile but it wasn't as it were.


Case2:
I went for an interview and I met this guy there. He had a car. We got the job and became close friends.
This guy always drove me home after work. We would talk about politics, women, alcohol, life goals etc.
This went on for about 2 months then suddenly, one evening after work, this guy called another colleague of ours and offered to ride home with him. I wanted to still follow them since I didn't plan on going home alone (I didn't hold transport fare). To my surprise, this my guy said he was not going home directly. That he wanted to see someone first. The other guy hopped in his car and they drove away. They got in his fvcking car and drove away.
Demnn! I thought in my head "today ehhh, you go trek. Who say make you no get your own car?"
I was heading towards the exist when one woman in her 50s offered to drive me home. Lucky for me, she was going to see her son who happened to be my neighbor. Guess what? I got home and met my friend's car parked at his gate.
We met with my friend the next day at work and he seemed to be very observant of me. Trying to see my reaction. I greeted him normal. Smiled and walked into my office.
Since that day, our friendship cracked. I didn't follow him home anymore.
I later learnt, through office gossipers, that he wanted to see my reaction that was why he ditched me that day.

Case3: My girlfriends.
I have dated a handful of women and I can confidently tell you that at some point in our relationship (3-4months later), ALL of them tried to make me jealous.
One girl I dated on campus hugged a guy in my presence and looked at me as she did it. I didn't flinch. Days later, this girl called off the relationship.

Another girl I dated in my neighborhood told me the names of guys crushing on her. She showed me text and chats they sent to her. I didn't flinch. I pretended not to feel threatened. Smiled and said " these guys really like you ooo". The following week, this girl called of the relationship.

The third girl woke up one morning, called me and said "if another man asked me out and he is very cute and has a lot of money, what would you do?"
I replied " nothing! If he's better than me and you chose him, I will be happy for you. I can't compete or fight my fellow man because of a woman"
She literally hissed on the phone. The following month, we broke up.

There was this girl that I dated too. After some months into the relationship, she started to form busy. I would call and call, she wouldn't pick up. She would wait until I called like 5 times before she would pick and say "I'm kinda busy now please"
I stopped calling. Days turned to weeks. Weeks turned to months. And that was it.
After two months, she called me and I replied " who is on the line?" She hug up and that was the end.

Another girl who was my ex. Started showing me green light (Calling to ask how I am doing, asking if I have eaten, texting me , blah bla blah balablue). So I asked her if we can chill at my house. She quickly told me that she has a boyfriend. I said ok no problem. I requested for the guy's number, called him and we talked like friends. I then called her back and told her that the guy is a great guy. He will be perfect for her. I sent the screen grab of my chats with her boyfriend in which I told him to keep her and take good care of her because she's like a sister to me.
The moment she saw the message, she blocked my line.

The latest one was a girl whom after we had been together for over 6 months, started to tell me about a certain guy that was very caring to her and how she had grown to like him a lot. She told me he makes her laugh and calls her all the time. In my mind I was like " this one want me to struggle to impress her. You dey whine?"
One day, she brought up the guy's name as we were talking and I said "Omo, this guy will be perfect for you ooo."
Boom! That was the beginning of the end of our relationship.

Who do you think is the problem. Is it me or them?

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True love is very rare nowadays. Why?

Because we have become increasingly materialistic. Life is now much more complex than before, no time to pursue genuine love. Everything is about the money; what we can get from each other while pretending to love ourselves.

I stand to be corrected though.