Good evening all,

I met Eniola mid last year during the covik one nine brouhaha. Trust me, ever since then, Eniola have remain a good gal.
During the weekend, she comes around my place to cook, and to sort out my laundry. I'm 36, she's 27. A single mother.

Eniola makes it an habit of kneeling down when it's time to serve me my food, as it was done in the time past. What else can a man wish for in this so called 'woke' generation?
She's respectful to my immediate family, and even kneel down to great my eldest sisters.
Eniola is just so nice, which I'm appreciative of. Can you imagine? This gal gave me part of her August salary, and when i enquire what for: "Since the landlord has decided to increase the house rent, add this one to what you will be paying him next month." She said.

But now, my reservations are these:
Should I go ahead to get married to her, as per she's a single mother?

Won't i be accepting and embracing mediocrity, and substandard product as she's factly not a virgin?

Won't i be contributing immensely to the decline of a virtuous and traditional woman; who is meant to have her hymen sealed before marriage?

Why should i marry a single mother in a situation whereby the biological father of her child didn't wife her up? Ok, fine. Let's say he's 'irresponsible', but why then, did she open her legs widely for him, when it's obvious they ain't getting married soon? Ok, fine. That's 'irresponsible' on her part, so, why should i then marry a seemingly virtuous irresponsible woman?

This is the same gal that always quarrel with me anytime i ain't going to church, yet, she had a child out of wedlock, even after making sure she attends all her Church weekly programs.

In a nutshell, these are what I have issues with:

She's not a virgin
She's a single mother
She's active on all social media platforms, except from OnlyFans; at least, i ain't aware of that yet.
I don't want a situation where by when she has issues with me, she will do an Anita Okoye, Annie idibia on me.

Your contributions will go a long way,

Hahaha kneeling down? What a way to catch a mugu

See op lemme tell you this??
1) forget virgin marry, u can't see dont decv ursef

2) she's stil responsible in my tinkin as she didn't abort the baby, others would have aborted it and won't tell u that they have terminated two or three pregnancies in the past, at least she has human feelings

3)forget the kneeling down tactics, shes just trying to hook u down, if she's dat good why did her first love run away??
See, not all runaway baby daddy are irresponsible ooh, many women are toxic to chase men away, but wen they come to their senses dat is wen dey wil be treating their next maga like a king, but wife her finish aswear u go hear shege!!

4)forgwt number one above my brother, u cant see unless u want to become a pedophile at 36, what u wil see outside there are refurbished girls, but just ignore the past and focus on the present and future if the girl is good.

5)i didn't say u shou leave eniola o as u re the one plying trade with her, so u know her more than us. But apply sense where necessary. Me sef dey battle with my own gf past here, but wetin man go do

Ire o,

Bennysam:
Hahaha kneeling down? What a way to catch a mugu

leave Op

Retreat bro.....I repeat Retreat!!!....Okafor's law of CongoElasticity has been sighted. 800Meters away.

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First, I am strongly against premarital sex! I also hope you aren't seeing it as a normal thing.

Eniola makes it an habit of kneeling down when it's time to serve me my food, as it was done in the time past. What else can a man wish for in this so called 'woke' generation?

Eniola may really be a good lady..but, I have seen a lot of women do anything for the trophy of walking down the aisle. Don't get me wrong, she might be a good lady.

Won't i be accepting and embracing mediocrity, and substandard product as she's factly not a virgin?

Virgins in Nigeria are not up to twelve. Know this, know peace. Value the woman who tells you the truth. We all have our handicaps.

This is the same gal that always quarrel with me anytime i ain't going to church, yet, she had a child out of wedlock, even after making sure she attends all her Church weekly programs.

Everyone makes mistakes.

She's not a virgin
She's a single mother

Are you a virgin?

If you are not, with due respect, shut the fcck up okay?!

She's active on all social media platforms, except from OnlyFans; at least, i ain't aware of that yet.

Are you not active too? You even know OnlyFans! Oh son of man, why trying to cast the first stone?

I don't want a situation where by when she has issues with me, she will do an Anita Okoye, Annie idibia on me.

Oga, what actually do you want? Marriage or celebrity fake life?

Can you imagine? This gal gave me part of her August salary, and when i enquire what for: "Since the landlord has decided to increase the house rent, add this one to what you will be paying him next month." She said.

Ok. Not new. Next? Just don't except it's a routine in marriage.

She's respectful to my immediate family, and even kneel down to great my eldest sisters.

It is only the Yorubas I know who do this traditionally as a sign of respect..which is fading tho due to the jet age. But if she is not of the tribe where it is traditionally done, I don't want to sound like it's all a muse-for-the-cam thingy.

I apologize if I were too outspoken.

You are welcome.

Don't get carried away by her excessive courtesy and niceness. Fantasy and reality are two worlds apart

Is that not the kind of “non-feminist” woman you guys want?

Wife her joor. You be virgin yourself?

Let the countdown begin

First of all, are you a virgin?

From your write-up does she co-habit with you?

I wonder why women keep falling for these satanic mysoginsts who just want to use and dump them .

OP
You are not a virgin m
Stop badmouthing her.

If you love her and feel you can take care of the child with court papers giving u full right over the child.

You are good to go.

Until den stop sleeping with her and badmouthing her online

Cuz u ma no clean

solaniumgel:
First of all, are you a virgin?

From your write-up does she co-habit with you?

No.

jaeyking:
OP
You are not a virgin m
Stop badmouthing her.

If you love her and feel you can take care of the child with court papers giving u full right over the child.

You are good to go.

Until den [b]stop sleeping with her [/b]and badmouthing her online

Cuz u ma no clean

Count me out of court marriage. I won't like to get the govt involve in my marital life.

Please, pinpoint where it's written that we do have sex.

Awaiting your response, sir.

I expect to see where you write about her shortcomings but I find none so she's good to go boy but the question you mus ask yourself is can you marry a single mother?

chatinent:
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Virgins in Nigeria are not up to twelve. Know this, know peace. Value the woman who tells you the truth. We all have our handicaps.


I apologize if I were too outspoken.

You are welcome.

@embolden, this is what we will be saying until virgins go into extinction.

I think when men start placing the bar high, with virginity as a prerequisite, the gals gonna have a rethink.

ThiagoKid:

No.

Okay. That's fine. Have you prayed about it?
Within your heart of hearts can you accept the child as your own and not maltreat the child tomorrow?
People can change and marriage no be beans so you really need to be careful about this. Have you asked her the circumstances that led to her being a single mother?
Anyone with a bad character can misbehave but a pretender is worse.

ThiagoKid:

@embolden, this is what we will be saying until virgins go into extinction.

I think when men start placing the bar high, with virginity as a prerequisite, the gals gonna have a rethink.

Oga, virginity has nothing to do with making a good wife.

Yes, I hold virgins at high esteems...however, it's men who deflower them too!

solaniumgel:


Okay. That's fine. Have you prayed about it?
Within your heart of hearts can you accept the child as your own and not maltreat the child tomorrow? NEVER!
People can change So, i should wait till she change? and marriage no be beans so you really need to be careful about this. Have you asked her the circumstances that led to her being a single mother?
Anyone with a bad character can misbehave but a pretender is worse.

Find my response in the red text.

chatinent:


Oga, virginity has nothing to do with making a good wife.

Using this your logic bro, you're implying that a h0e would make a good wife, in it stead?

ThiagoKid:

Using this your logic bro, you're implying that a h0e would make a good wife, in it stead?

No, I am inferring that a virgin can also make a bad wife.

Bennysam:
Hahaha kneeling down? What a way to catch a mugu

Even at that, how many gals go make attempt to kneel in this present time?

chatinent:


No, I am inferring that a virgin can also make a bad wife.

while a h0e can also make a good wife. I dig you, bro

Thanks.

ThiagoKid:
while a h0e can also make a good wife. I dig you, bro

Thanks.

If we tag people who do those things as hoes, man, we are the farmers!

ThiagoKid:

Find my response in the red text.

When I said people can change, I actually meant in this context that they can from seemingly good to worse hence the reason dor the last sentence about pretence.

BRO, ONE ADVICE!!! CHECK HER PHONE WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE. YOU WILL LEARN MORE FROM CHECKING HER PHONE IN ONE HOUR THAN ANY ADVICE OR THOUGHTS IN YOUR HEAD. IT'S BETTER TO CONFIRM WHAT SHE DOES ON ALL THOSE SOCIAL MEDIA APPS. TRUST ME YOU WILL BE SURPRISED AND BE PREPARED MENTALLY TO SEE SHIT!!! LOL... YOU KNOW NOTHING

ThiagoKid:
Good evening all,

I met Eniola mid last year during the covik one nine brouhaha. Trust me, ever since then, Eniola have remain a good gal.
During the weekend, she comes around my place to cook, and to sort out my laundry. I'm 36, she's 27. A single mother.

Eniola makes it an habit of kneeling down when it's time to serve me my food, as it was done in the time past. What else can a man wish for in this so called 'woke' generation?
She's respectful to my immediate family, and even kneel down to great my eldest sisters.
Eniola is just so nice, which I'm appreciative of. Can you imagine? This gal gave me part of her August salary, and when i enquire what for: "Since the landlord has decided to increase the house rent, add this one to what you will be paying him next month." She said.

But now, my reservations are these:
Should I go ahead to get married to her, as per she's a single mother?

Won't i be accepting and embracing mediocrity, and substandard product as she's factly not a virgin?

Won't i be contributing immensely to the decline of a virtuous and traditional woman; who is meant to have her hymen sealed before marriage?

Why should i marry a single mother in a situation whereby the biological father of her child didn't wife her up? Ok, fine. Let's say he's 'irresponsible', but why then, did she open her legs widely for him, when it's obvious they ain't getting married soon? Ok, fine. That's 'irresponsible' on her part, so, why should i then marry a seemingly virtuous irresponsible woman?

This is the same gal that always quarrel with me anytime i ain't going to church, yet, she had a child out of wedlock, even after making sure she attends all her Church weekly programs.

In a nutshell, these are what I have issues with:

She's not a virgin
She's a single mother
She's active on all social media platforms, except from OnlyFans; at least, i ain't aware of that yet.
I don't want a situation where by when she has issues with me, she will do an Anita Okoye, Annie idibia on me.

Your contributions will go a long way,

She bends the knee!!!! Impressive, last of her kind.

If you don't love her...allow her to go...I need a mature lady...I don't care whether she's a single mom....

chatinent:
Viewers discretion is advised; I don't mince words.


First, I am strongly against premarital sex! I also hope you aren't seeing it as a normal thing.



I apologize if I were too outspoken.

You are welcome.

You get sense, bro

So you knew all these and still went ahead to smash her

Op,the solution to your Problem dey for middle of sea.....You better free that banny for a guy who'd respect her for who she's and not a Nigha like you who's already disrespecting her for what she did in the past......

Las las,na single mum and a non-virgin she be...she no kill person

Single mother! Don't b f*oled with kneeling down

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

I done see this kind she do em for my cousin were come back from US that girl de kneel for everyone las las she go do juju de control baba , no be small prayers break em . Dem no even know say she don born 6 for different men .

ThiagoKid:
Good evening all,

I met Eniola mid last year during the covik one nine brouhaha. Trust me, ever since then, Eniola have remain a good gal.
During the weekend, she comes around my place to cook, and to sort out my laundry. I'm 36, she's 27. A single mother.

Eniola makes it an habit of kneeling down when it's time to serve me my food, as it was done in the time past. What else can a man wish for in this so called 'woke' generation?
She's respectful to my immediate family, and even kneel down to great my eldest sisters.
Eniola is just so nice, which I'm appreciative of. Can you imagine? This gal gave me part of her August salary, and when i enquire what for: "Since the landlord has decided to increase the house rent, add this one to what you will be paying him next month." She said.

But now, my reservations are these:
Should I go ahead to get married to her, as per she's a single mother?

Won't i be accepting and embracing mediocrity, and substandard product as she's factly not a virgin?

Won't i be contributing immensely to the decline of a virtuous and traditional woman; who is meant to have her hymen sealed before marriage?

Why should i marry a single mother in a situation whereby the biological father of her child didn't wife her up? Ok, fine. Let's say he's 'irresponsible', but why then, did she open her legs widely for him, when it's obvious they ain't getting married soon? Ok, fine. That's 'irresponsible' on her part, so, why should i then marry a seemingly virtuous irresponsible woman?

This is the same gal that always quarrel with me anytime i ain't going to church, yet, she had a child out of wedlock, even after making sure she attends all her Church weekly programs.

In a nutshell, these are what I have issues with:

She's not a virgin
She's a single mother
She's active on all social media platforms, except from OnlyFans; at least, i ain't aware of that yet.
I don't want a situation where by when she has issues with me, she will do an Anita Okoye, Annie idibia on me.

Your contributions will go a long way,