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Quality #3 – A Challenge
Of course, you should not mistaken the ladies man’s natural need for women as neediness. They are two different things.
Having a need for women means you are acknowledging your natural desire for the fairer sex and making sex and romance parts of your daily routine.
Being needy means you are performing needy actions and sucking up to women because you can’t risk losing one.
See the difference?
The ladies man enjoys acting like a challenge. In addition, women enjoy “catching him” just as much as he enjoys picking them up.
Men who act like a challenge automatically intrigue women because:
- They are less predictable.
- They refuse to be dominated by a woman’s beauty. (This automatically set them above other men.)
- They raise their social proof by acting like they are in demand. (To the human brain, a guy must be acting like a challenge because he “can.”)
- They lead women to take small steps, and each step solidifies the women’s interests in them. (“I must really like this guy if I am giving him a backrub…)
- They are more fun.
- They satisfy the woman’s primal need for wanting what she can’t have.
One thing to remember about being a challenge is that it does NOT mean “acting aloof.”
and acting like you don’t like women at all.
WRONG.
If you act aloof, then women are just going to not come to you at all. You’ll be what I call a “powerful loner.” (The guy who thinks he’s all great but never gets any girl.)
Instead of acting aloof, think of being a challenge as like playing with a cat. You throw her a little wool ball and then PULL IT BACK to make her chase after it. Then you bonk her on the head with the ball.
In “dating terms”, you throw her a compliment and then tease her when she responds.
Or you “barter” for a kiss when she asks you for a favor…
You bait and then you pull. You bait and then you pull. Rinse and repeat, get it?

Quality #2 – “Truly” Sees Romance (Or Sex) As an Important Part of His Life
The second quality of the ladies man is that he sees romance (or sex) as a vital part of his life. He doesn’t just see it as something he “wants”. He sees it as something that he needs to allocate time and resources for. The ladies man sleeps, eats, works, and romances women. Spending quality time with women is just another routine to him.
A lot of readers email me to tell me how badly they want a girlfriend. But at the same time, they are unwilling to give up work, studying, or video games for their social or love lives.
Kinda ironic, isn’t it?
Yes. It’s very important to work hard.
Yes. It’s also very important to study hard.
But playing hard is important too if you want to become a well-rounded person. And it’s especially important if you would like to become a ladies man.
In my opinion, life is all about priorities. Everyone has the same amount of time in a day. Successful people get more done and achieve more than ordinary people because they manage their time better.
Work, study, and video games will always expand to take up as much time as you give them. This is why you must learn to block time off for other activities.
Make it a habit to go out at least one night a week with your friends, and make it a habit to ‘hang out” once a week with a different woman (even as friends) for coffee or lunch. Everyone can afford to invest that much time in a potential love life.

flirting. To become a Smart Flirter, you must let go of your worries and become more playful!
Here are some examples of how you can be playful with a woman.
1) Poke her.
2) Tackle her.
3) Lift her up.
4) Challenge her to arm wrestling.
5) Play thumb war with her.
6) Give her a piggy back ride...and run as fast as you can.
7) Throw something tiny at her. Then look away and whistle as she looks at you.
Steal something from her and make her wrestle you to get it back.
9) Twirl her around.
10) Pinch her nose and shake it like she's a plush toy.
Use these sample techniques as a blueprint for coming up with your own techniques. Remember that the key is to be playful and focus on having fun instead of "getting results!"

Quality #1 – Playful and Flirty
The first quality that you need before you can become a ladies man is playfulness. I have not yet met a player who isn’t playful with women.
More often than not, guys who are not good with women are guys who are “too serious” when they’re around women.
If you’re one of these guys…well…there’s only one thing I can say to you, “STOP BEING SO DAMN SERIOUS, DARNIT!”
To put it bluntly…
If you’re playful, women will think you’re cool; if you’re too serious, women are going to think you are a “tool.”
It doesn’t matter if it’s part of your personality to be “serious.” There are times and situations in life when you have to be very serious, and there are also times and situations when you have to be very playful.
I’ll give you an example. If you were working as an air traffic controller, I would tell you to be very serious with your job and be very cautious at work.
But let’s say you’re just out on a first date with a woman after work. Then I would tell you to let go and be very playful with her!
Here’s the bottom line:
If you’re too serious with flirting, then you’re not flirting at all. Even if you follow every step I’ve told you to do and say every line I’ve taught you to say, you’re not actually

phabuloz:
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Basildvalour:
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The remaining six (6) months shall tell

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pbs4real:
not the way they luv fabregas.

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geoworldedu:
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lil kesh killed it for me...

I swear u aint gona see here.

mirexxx:
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Carrick's own got me laughing

softysparky:
Depends on the mood you were in when he called.

I went to bank to pay in some money, when I got home, a guy called and said he copied/stole my number from the deposit register.....I just weak

lol. That guy has to be the baddest guy that ever liveth

Nneka123:
Totally absurd and unacceptable to me. Why go behind my back?

And the worst, when they call, they don't say the main shiit of why they are calling, and how they got the number. Nonsense

Don't mind them...

mirexxx:
why would u collect my number Behind my back??
the annoying part is they add you on whatsapp and tell u an angel sent your number to em!
I fvcking block em right away!
idiiots!

shoro niyen?

Kachisbarbie:
No.
Not wrong @ all.

I think the major problem is just that feeling of insecurity.
We keep wondering what part of our profile the "directory" must have downloaded to you (the guy).

Y'know how guys are,e.g_ "take this girl's number, if you fit get her ehn...10k".

In a situation where the directory happens to be someone we trust and feel comfortable with, we wouldn't have much problem with it.

Not every guy is bold, we know that : though we all appreciate the chase.

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incredible6:
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lolz...

That bae is Cute.. I think y'all know who am talking about.

Am beginning to fall in love this girl...

richgang:
I'm so confuse now, I need you guys help


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That was a Red card!