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All these just to fucck tooto.. Na wa o.

I do stare at the mirror too.. It makes you look cute and confident when going out.

demicupid:
Majority of nairalanders use the term 'OP'...and funniest is not all knows the meaning(including me)...I might just decide to start using the term also without asking for the meaning(and then I join the league of NLs who use it without knowing what it means)...we nigerians and following trend sha.

you are the original poster! Good morning dearie

Oya Pakurumo. Just kidding!

The guy no sharp joor

Chichaaaaaaaarito

Ahhhhh broda sheyi!!

Cool niqa! I love his voice.

She looks adorable... Wizzy baby loke loke!

This guy resembles the nigga wey play left back for fc porto tonight. (Bruno martins Indi)

I was so ashamed oo.. But later on, I summoned courage. Now am the boss. Who wan carry STDS

The reason is because they wanna patronise prostitute. But I can't do that sha o. Wen I get plenty babes. I don't fuucck so tey, konji no dey wori me again

See ma EX girl friend kiki. Why did I Broke up with you? Being a Playboy doesn't pay after all. Kiki, I still love you o!

Abeg wetin be scores between chelsea nd manu

Even my grandad knows cheche Ronaldo.. I don't even know who bieber is!

I love them both.. Wishing you guys the best!

She looks like genevieve.. But she is married now, while gene aint. HML dearie.

They are both cracking players.. Don't know who to choose.. I will give it to hazard, he is the talisman of chelsea. He makes hard things look so easy. Neymar complicates things sometimes.

That kid must be a chelsea fan!

Abeg who get flash drive for here..

[quote author=malonephill post=32861971]here nor be pegeant contest oh![/quote hmmm]

Kolade354:
shoroniye?

oro ni Oooo. Lol

Hazard don score for the next room o

See as I dey sweat.. How is chelsea ahead of us? Herrera, you are a beauty!

Quality #9 – Willing To Bounce Back From Failure and Do What Others Refuse To Do
The ladies man is persistent. He does not mind rejection. He is strong enough to know that his self-identity should not be defined by a woman’s attitude towards him. And in order to bounce back from rejection and achieve more success than the average chump, he’s willing to do what others refuse to do.

Quality #8 – Inviting
The ladies man loves attention. He loves bringing women (and men) into his own realm.
He doesn’t follow. He invites.
Here’s a good analogy. In opera, it seems to the audience that the opera singer is sending blasts and blasts of powerful sound waves to them. But a good opera teacher will tell you that when you’re singing, you should sing like you’re bringing the audience into YOUR world. You don’t try to sing to them. You sing to get them to come to you.
Dating is the same. Don’t just send your energy to the woman sitting across the table. Instead, use your energy to draw her CLOSER to you. Invite her into your world so that she can be amazed by it!

Quality #7 – Physically Sexual
The ladies man loves to express himself physically. He enjoys having physical contact with women and he feels comfortable using body contact to flirt with women.
The “chump”, on the other hand, tends to believe that women will think he’s a pervert if he tries to make any physical contact with them. He has been conditioned to think that he should hide whatever sexual or physical needs he has.1) Can you look into a woman's eyes with desire without getting nervous and looking away in shame?
2) Can you make out with a woman without tensing up?
3) Can you walk around naked in front of a woman without feeling any embarrassment?
4) Can you admit to a woman that you are “shallow” and love women who are hot and beautiful?
If you have answered “no” to any of these questions, then you have a lot to work on.
Remember: If you want to be good with women, then you must first become comfortable with the idea with being with a woman!
Here are two exercises for you to try:
1) Be more physical with women from now on. It doesn’t mean you have to hit on them or touch them sexually. Just have more “casual”, friendly contacts with them. Be playful and get them into play wrestling matches with you. Be a bit childish and poke them or pinch them lightly. Touch their elbows or knees when you talk. Cover their eyes from behind and get them to guess who you are.
2) Try to convey sexual communication through your eyes and body language instead of through words. Instead of asking for a kiss, stare down at her lips and then look into her eyes again. Instead of telling
her she’s hot, let her catch you checking her out. Work on expressing yourself through your body language instead of through your words.

Quality #6 – Appears To Be In Control. Another quality of the ladies man is that he always appears to be in control. He could really be peeing his pants inside, but to the outside world, he always has a big smile on his face.Of course, most of the time these players ARE in control. They control their state as much as they can to appear in control and they try to stick to environments that “level out the playing field” for them as often as possible.
This is why many players prefer picking up women in the nightclub. In the “real world”, the guy with the Porsche will get all the social proof. Inside, the guy with the most artificial social proof (such as knowing the D.J., hanging out with a bunch of hot girls on the dance floor, or wearing a pimped up outfit) will get the most women.
Outside the club, the ladies man is a nobody. Inside, he is the king of his own realm.
Of course, I am not condoning you to fake your way into a woman’s pants by building up fake social proof. It will only hurt you in the long run.
That’s why I want you to think about how you can be a master of your own realm no matter where you go.
There are people who excel (or at least try their best) at whatever they do, and I want you to be one of them.
That’s actually one of the good things about life. Most guys don’t bother to try hard. So if you try harder than most people, you will almost be guaranteed to be better than 75% of the population out there, which is already enough to score
you a lot of brownie points. If you have a lot of dedication and try even harder, you will do even better than that.
Here’s my environmental constant theory:
A successful person will always try to make HIMSELF the “constant variable” in any environment. He understands that while his environment may change frequently, his attitude towards these different environments will always be the “constant” that remains the same.
Here’s a good example:
If a man has a negative outlook on life, no matter what environment you put him in or what opportunities you offer him, he’ll probably fail.
But if he has a positive outlook on life, then he’ll survive in tough environments and do very well under good conditions.
Think about how this applies to your own state when you go out and meet women!

I know these words may sound harsh - but as you know, I always try to show reality, and reality often hurts.
Here's my suggestion:
Before you pursue your dreams of becoming the ladies man every woman wants, perhaps you should take a step back and think about how you can become a more SOCIABLE person first. Not just with women, but with EVERYBODY you meet.
Here are some practical tips on how you can become a more sociable person RIGHT NOW:
1) Go out with your friends more often.
2) Invite your friends to do things with you.
3) Hang out with the "groups" at your workplace or school.
4) Laugh at peoples’ jokes and make them feel comfortable around you.
5) Be naturally interested in other people.
6) Say "thank you" when others compliment you.
7) Don't be "too modest" when people center turn their attention on you. Thank them (rule number six) and compliment them back.
Go out AT LEAST twice with your friends every week.

Quality #5 – Sociable
Over the past few years, I have noticed a COMMON trait among men who are very successful with women.
Of all the "players" I have met and interviewed, they are almost always very sociable.
And I don't mean they are just sociable with women. They are sociable with EVERYONE they come across. No matter how "alpha" they are, they are NATURAL LEADERS that are CHARMISTIC and SOCIABLE. They can strike up a conversation with you in 10 seconds, no matter you're a hot model or just another guy sitting at the bar.
So...before you dream of becoming the kind of guy every woman wants, I want you to take a good look in the mirror and ask yourself the following questions:
1) How sociable are you?
2) How often do you meet new friends?
3) How often do you talk to strangers?
4) How often do you raise your opinion at work or at school?
5) How easy is it for you to carry on a conversation with a stranger? Not with a hot woman - but with ANY stranger?
As I always say, your love life is merely a REFLECTION of your life in general. So if you aren't very sociable with women, chances are, you're just not very sociable at all.

Quality #4 – Sensitive
Just because you are acting like a challenge does not mean you have to be insensitive. (It’s another misconception that many guys have.) Most ladies men out there are extremely sensitive to a woman’s needs. Even the abusive assholes and jerks know what emotional buttons they need to push in a woman to keep her attracted. (Think about it…if they didn’t, then the woman would just get fed up by all the abuse and leave.)
Here are some tips on how to be sensitive around women:
1) Make her feel appreciated. Tease her and act like a challenge, but make her feel appreciated.2) Give her a shoulder to cry on when she’s sad, without offering her any solution. Women usually aren’t looking for a solution when they come to you. They are looking for emotional support. (Warning: If she’s a psycho, don’t stick around. Don’t try to “save” a woman!)
3) Learn to read body language.
4) Listen, listen, listen.
5) Appreciate her for who she is. (If you don’t, why are you still with her?)
6) Pause or be silent at the right moments. This will give the impression that you’re thinking.
7) Understand her primal needs. Not the idealized version of what love “should” be, but her primal needs.
At the same time, avoid her “slut defence” by understanding what she thinks of love. (Tip: Agree with her words verbally, but communicate with her sexually!)
9) Make her really feel like a woman – without sucking up to her, of course.
10) Learn to read between the lines.
11) Always think about what women really want instead of what they say they want.