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am speechless...

Missmossy: Eeyah...the truth hurts indeed! Why break up with her even after she took it upon herself to blurt all of the act to you. Smh.

a partner who is to forgive...hmmm

Harmonyemerald: I don't like break-ups, itz hard, itz hurtful, itz depressing. Breaks have endings but break ups don't, I mean the end to a break-up is unknown except by d partner who is to forgive and in this cas itz u.

you are just a jobless fanatic ...go get a life

am not a proponent of lying but on very sensitive issues like emotions some things are better left in the dark. So you are a liar then... . lie lie baby

prettythicksme: that is why I always lie for guys ;Dthat is why I always lie for guys

such a gift...when the masses barely afford decent meals. Nigeria will get better; its just a matter of time and commitment from the people

though they dont have as much resources as Nigeria, I believe the the world bank should be right if they are comparing their growth with other developing countries with better economic advantages.

na only dem waka go...abi insider no permit. come off it, we know there is no smoke without a fire, so they should go look for the leeches

its a two way thing...guys do girls; girls do guys, so tell your friend to live up bro

if its true what do you expect...

gbawa oso ndu gi my brother...run for your dear life while you still can. there is no road there at all. you even lucky you realized on time; abi you wan make I sing you ' roxette; it must have been love' before your eye go open. my man abeg tie suzuki power bike join body, no time. you will love again, trust me. You may think you cant forget her, but trust me you will; but never get a rebound cos it dosnt work

you don't measure love in a relationship...its never a competition, rather you freely give the much you can as your heart tells you to. if you feel your partner does not love you as much as you do, just keep loving them the way you know best.

you keep emphasizing on this 'break thing'...seems you love breaks. well...every break has an end upon which you return to or what you left. I understand its human to react to things around us...just praying for guidance in my next; we learn everyday you know. I think am learning to change the traits of being over-caring, possessive etc

Harmonyemerald: Break literally means freedom from whatever you were doing. You guys were on a break of which she wasn't even sure if you guys were gonna get back together. Sometimes when ladies get hurt, they do some drastic things to get over it. Either they shop, or they get someone new.

you sef...break ni. when you wer in school, didnt you go on break. The break dosnt mean you go injure yourself, does it. Please take it easy in your defense my dear

Harmonyemerald: In her defense, you guys were on a break.

we Nigerians have no regards for our leaders...

gratieao: What about the comedian in chief
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klint de drunk has the prettiest wife I think

lalasticlala: Klint d drunk
& family

you must not wait for him to call...thats one mistake girls make. call him and ask whats happening... he could be stressed out or just needs some time off. from his response, you will be able to decipher if he still wants you or not

Mindependent: My heart is all over the place right now he hasn't even called me for a while now

yea...we were both wrong I admit.

veegirl: sometimes wen u luv some1 and d person hurts u (like keepin away 4rm u 4 3wks), revenge is always d next thing in mind or tryin 2 4get dem by bein wit some1 else (whhich doesnt actually help). Anyways d deed is done. U both allowed ur ego get in d way of luv.

according to her, her mom asked after me so she opened up...was not like she wanted to patch things up. I feel you should know someone to some extent before you can kiss them...only call-girls or cheap ones kiss at random. She didnt look like one so I presume she was double dating or was not really in love

Adaeze003: I dunno the full story so I got the idea mayb she tried to patch it up since her mom called...

Fact is, paranoia makes us do stupid things and thats why we r humans. What if she thought u moved on?

What if u found out from someone else? How would u feel then? And uhm contrary to ur opinion that she must have been double dating to have kissed a guy within 3 weeks, ladies dont need that much time to find someone to kiss... like I said, it was just a kiss... not like anyone stuck a rod in her.

I'm not saying u should take her back anyway buh thats a lame excuse to break up... my opinion...

you are a realist like me but differ based on rules we set...I have never cheated while in a committed relationship and I dont expectto be cheated on. D only thing here i REGRET is having that discussion

Harmonyemerald: Goodmorning. Again u missed my point. I didn't say kissing isn't cheating, I said that she kissed someone to get back at you doesn't necessarily turn her into an unfaithful person. Again, the best part that u miss is her honesty in all this. Do you think that if you guys work it out and sth like this happens again, that she will be honest. One beautiful thing about honesty is that an honest someone is actually a person who trust you very well to think that you will forgive the err.


Back to you, have u ever not done sth you really wish you could take back?

follow your heart...it never lies

liar...baby you harsh o...

Liability: i hope you always pray before you fuucck each other.

Nansense

this looks like someone I know...why not give us a pic without the sunglasses. moreover whats she doing with a sunglasses in an airplane; ojoro don enter am

etiosa79: Singer Ashanti pictured aboard Arik Air on
her way to Nigeria for the Bovi Man on Fire
show which will hold this friday october 3rd @ d eko hotel.

mtewwwww!!!! if I were like this I would hide my face when handsome people are called up.

Benin juju

better couched " leave my itsekiri bling bling pastor o"

Iamfrank: Leave my itsekiri uncle o

cant hold myself from laughing...

Samyj247: Put her under an oath?
You b baba lawoo? De there make pant de wear u, hahahaha

my dear please dont say that..."kissing is not cheating" what do you define as cheating then...must sex be involved before it is termed cheating. ah! girl I beg to disagree with you on that one okay!

Harmonyemerald: It is one of those things, but u seen to be overlooking the beautiful part. She told u, she was honest not minding the damage it might cause. And the factthat she kissed another doesn't make her an unfaithful person

I accept my fault of letting my ego get in the way...but its not all on the man you know! if a lady pisses her man off shouldnt she try to patch things up. Must it be the guy licking up trash all the time. you ladies always want the men to say sorry even when you are the wrong party; its not good

Adaeze003: Emmm... committed relationship u say... n pride didn't let u work out ur issues 4 3 weeks?

Stop whining jor... if u want her back go for her, if not you move on!

I am...but am working on it and getting better by the day ...believe me am better now unlike before

ladunsky: then move on.... your mind is made up so why the lingering? O boy, u emotional o.!!!

its not about kissing now; when one is in a relationship, he or she is expected to hold sacred what they share...dont you think so

eckersley: Samyj247:

I am a psychologist. Do you know why she told you? It was because, while kissing the guy, she was caught by somebody that knows you, and was afraid that that person will tell you, and she decided to just tell you, not knowing that the person did not say anything. THINK AM the truth has already set you free. Or do you want your wife to be kissed always by your gate man when you are out for work?

You are a psychologist. I'm a linguist.
The first thing a young man shd learn when he begins his journey of relating wt the female folks is not how to understand and read the map that leads to her treasure pot. It is to understand the language called womanese. It more difficult than a hybrid of chinese and arabic.
U might be together and a lady[even ur wife] says: Honey, Is that football match u're watching not boring?
An English speaking guy will just say no and continue watching.
But one who understands womanese will hear these words instead: Honey, somebody here more interesting than that soccer needs ur attention, either in the bedroom or in some other way.
Come on my people. You are not d first guy she kissed. A kiss is nothing. She's bn doing so since 5B.C. Even the Bible says greet one another with a holy kiss.
She's guilt-ridden bc she had sex[and most likely plenty of it] while u were away. Why wud she involve ur/her mother. This is what/how u shd hv asked:
1. So after the kiss what happened?
woman: We hugged
you: After the hug what next?
She might start crying[crocodile tears to draw sympathy and prevent u from asking any further]. Ignore all these.
if she prolongs this word play, know she's hiding sth

Personally, I say sth like this:
Karol. I will like u to tell me everything u did se-xu-ally yl I was away.
If u choose not to tell me, its ok by me and I won't ask u any further question.
But If u decide to do so and lie, omit or minimize ur response at any point ... so and so will happen to u.
Put her under an oath.
Again, remind her she might choose not to answer. if she takes the 2nd choice. Pls let her be. Bounce and call it quits.

in a way it was; how did you guess right...but I felt she loved me much not to go to such length

veegirl: so wats ur excuse 4 stayin away for 3weeks? Men and ego. I really do hope its not ur ego dat kept u away.

before you jump into a new arm or bed, isnt it nice to formally call it quits or in the least try to know if its really over...its different you know; if thats the case then a partner is justified and in that case does not require forgiveness; you just come back and move on from where you left

veegirl: I do not understand dis cheatin and forgiveness u guys r talkin abt. Cheatin only occurs wen u av a bf/gf and forgiveness comes in wen some1 wrongs u. So WTF! She was single 4 3wks and just played around a little. Wats d big deal? Guy i tink u're just tryin 2 justify ur actions. U say u tried 2 forgive her and move on but u keep seeing pictures.....wat freakin pictures do u see? Mehn she didnt cheat on u. And since u didnt call/text/see her in THREE weeks den u guys were on a long break and she's more dan free 2 do wat she likes. I tink dere's anoda reason y u dont want ha anymore. M not askin u 2 tell us d real reason but just b true 2 urself.