₦airaland Forum

keacy:
I'm getting frustrated with the condition my father is giving me before I finally settle down. I will be 34 years this 2018 and would have married (with 2 or 3 kids by now) since but my dad gave the excuse that he didn't like the girl.

I am the first son of 5 children, I am paying the school fees of the last child who is in med school. I have found me a wife whom I have planned getting married to by April.

Now my dad is insisting that since we don't have a home in the village that I should build one before getting married else he won't come for my wedding and will disown me.

I have already told him that I will build after my wedding but he refused.

What should I do? Going ahead with this building will make me call-off my wedding till December or Next year. What should I do My People I need Expert Advice on this.

Your father is very unfair to you. If you can make your woman understand your situation to wait for one more year, do it because if you choose her over your father's advice the old man will always dispose her but if she does not agree then you can go ahead and marry, be ready for hostility. Your father is scared you may not be able to build the house once you are married.

morgan844:
Heart Broken I Feel Cheated Despite Showing Her So Much Love

My wife still communicate and send picture to her former boy friend. even after i have warned her


This year March, I traveled outside Nigeria to look for greener pastures and I came back home by December I and my family was happy until when I saw I love message she has always sent to a certain man and i was angry. I questioned her. she said she was joking with the man and I told her that I am not happy about it. She promised not to do it again, I was able to read her message because we exchanged our phone and her messenger was in my phone.

Some days after, when I was ready to go back to my base, we prepared and she accompanied me to the park where i boarded a vehicle to Lagos and she went back home, while I was in the vehicle I notice a message from the messenger it was I love message from the guy and my wife responded the she love her to and they communicated and exchanged pictures.

I am heart broken I never knew that she could continue cheating on me. I asked her who was the guy she is charting with she told me that he is a colleague that he is making some inquiry. My wife lied to me. Before I could take the screenshot she has deleted the messages. I want to divorce her for this but we have 3 kids they are very young 6, 4 and 2 years how will this kids cope?

Call the guy she is cheating wife and warn him to stay way from your wife and report your wife to parents or guardians and see how things goes first before contemplating divorce.

Sirevangel:
Here’s a photo of D’banj’s son, Daniel Oyebanjo III, who he welcomed with his wife, Lineo Didi Kilgrow, in May 2017. The music star brought his wife and son on stage with him at a concert recently. D’banj has done a good job of keep his marriage and family off social media. Daniel Jnr is hella cute.

Cute baby, nice pix.

ijustdey:
http://thenationonlineng.net/nigerians-losing-hope-change-promised-nlc/

It is true but we still have faith in Buhari. Two years is not enough for real change.

zoedew:
President Buhari being an elected public official has a duty to explain how come
Yusuff Buhari not known to have earned such money was able to afford a power bike whose cost is put at n56Million. He owes Nigerians an explanation especially given that few years back he had so little he had to borrow to purchase party nomination Form to contest the Presidential elections!

The truth is that those in government don't always tell us the truth. They always brainwash us and succeed with it.