Chynx:


The male child thingy is not restricted to a particular race nor tribe. Your last sentence is very not necessary.

The issue of male and female children has been extensively treated here on Nairaland. You can do a little research...if you've got the time.

The necessity of having a male child is as old as mankind itself!

Google is your friend!

Gloria3389:

lolzx.... child is child be it male or female ....

ZUBY77:




There is nothing wrong in what he said.
Most of Dangotes money is made here. Cement, Sugar etc.
The dude never invested anything down here in the East. What is he afraid of? That Nigeria will break up tomorrow?

What a patriot.
There are large coal deposits in Enugu, larger than that of Tanzania by far.
I have never heard him say anything about it while we buy his products in quantum here.
Do you know how much tax we pay while buying each of his product?
And he is shipping the money to Tanzania to create jobs while his Alamajiri friends wallow in poverty.
He can become the planets richest man for all I care but we have coal here.

equlibrium:


elders are sleeping.
they will be here soon

condralbede:
Y don't he use that money and invest here in Nigeria....I thought we hv coal mining tooEven if ours is not in well shape,y don't he invest in other things?Atleast agriculture to help the unemployed graduates! #myopinionshaa

Calculia:
There is coal in Enugu, he is going to invest Nigeria money in Tanzania... ain't dat funny?


Yet he talk about one Nigeria? Which way nau?

Obinoscopy: If I were lady I won't go after guys because of their riches, no. If you do, you'd lose your respect and love from such rich men.

You'd lose the love cos they know you don't love them but their money. You'd lose the respect cos you don't even believe in yourself, you don't see yourself as capable of been independent financially.

I have seen rich men fall heavily to the ground and couldn't rise up again. If you inquire critically, you'd realise that such rich men must have married gold-diggers who was outto chop the money from the onset. Men detest such. They can however marry gold-diggers because of her beauty (to flaunt to the society and to ensure that his kids are beautiful too) but he'll never love and respect her.

What every wise lady should look out for in a guy is one with prospects and aspirations that is in sync with yours. You can be the inspiration to make your husband very rich. I tell you most solemnly, a man who became great courtesy of his wife would forever remain indebted to her and would love her for the rest of his life.

I know of guys who even borrowed to get married but are now very rich. That's courtesy of their wives. When you hear those guys talking about their wives in public, you'd see the love, admiration and gratitude written all over his face.

The adage: "Behind every successful man there's a woman" is now becoming useless because ladies are now lazy and wants to marry an already successful man. This has to stop if we want progress in our society.

I'm not saying our ladies should marry a tout or a beggar. I'm simply saying she should marry a hard working guy with prospects and aspirations regardless of whether he's rich or poor. Together, you guys can change the world .

QuiverBox:

When you say Man are you referring to your Husband or your Boyfriend?

If you are referring to your Boyfriend, then let me ask, what Morally justification do you have to demand for him to take care of you , what ownership do u have over him? Is it a right for him to succumb to you demand? HELL NO. What ever he will do for you should be consider a privilege not a Right.

If you are referring to your Husband , then he as the Man of the House has a responsibility to take care of his Household , you his wife inclusive. Even the Bible says in 1 Timothy 5:8 "any man that does not take care of his Household is worst than an Infidel"

My dear if you mindset has been that of a Guy to take care of his Babe all the time, you have to change that mindset and learn to fend and take care of yourself with or without a man, But if you are Married , please support your Husband in fending for your Household.

Men don't like Liability.

Enahi: Sorry girlfriend,dating a broke guy is not worth it most times. Am dating one presently,I won't call him broke because he is working. But He is very stingy or I don't know if its because I don't ask him for anything. Am seriously having a rethink.

OlamiB:
Must Ɣ☺u butress your point by calling me foolish?nd who says I dnt have my own money? I respect my bf a lot and I see him as my husband already

Ddy: mind u,big guys of dis days dnt settle for pple like u.we need independent ladies that will support us is tinz goes wrong cos change is d only constant tin in life.

obongproff:

Am not a prophet of doom. But I see u breaking up with him by dis time next year. Cos ur already starting d process by dis post above.

Why are u comparing him with odas? Why do u use ur friends and oda ppl as a standard ur boyfriend must attain to?

Its obvious ur unhappy with ur relationship.

Does he hav a dream or a goal dat will improve his financial condition within 5yrs? Does he hav a plan to actualize dat dream? If he does, 5 yrs from now, u wd either regret u left him or be happy u stayed.

U ladies must undastand dat being broke and being poor are not d same. Broke is temporarily not having cash but having d capacity or potential to make a lot of money in d future. Poor is having no cash and lacking d mental capacity or human potential to make more money in d future.

loswhite: are your friends not enjoying the bleeping? Are your friends taking care of the thing dat does the bleeping? If no, y then do you expect the bleeper to take care of the bleeped

ifihearam: Buying Suya for your date on a cool evening and you only concentrate on eating the onions while she eats the meat.

How romantic

ifihearam: I gave you 2 eggs to boil one and fry the other,you fried the one you were suppose to boil and boiled the one you were supposed to fry...its over.

sameer1212: marriege doen't change pple dat i dont agree my dear. hv seen thousands of bad guys/gals changed for gud afta marriege . infct if one didnt change for gud afta marriege,he wl neva change again.

zizazizu: My dear, let me advise u to pray abt it. Last week, I spoke with a guy friend of mine whom all my friends know to be hot tempered. He got married a year ago and confessed to me that he has laid hands on his wife. Marriage doesn't change ppl. If anything, it brings out the worse in them. But if u love him, discuss it at length with him before making ur decision to either go further or call it quits.

izaray: Infact, ur question should be directed to d family section, we avn't even bothered to ask d reason why he beat u

cool318:

@CoachDX
Nobody is talking aboit Ebola cos it will surely go.
How can the GOVT hear this appeal that am raising on behalf of Millions of Nigerians who have suffered terrible LOSSES .??

Osama10: This country is cursed, nothing can ever work here.