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Another example.

Guy A did something wrong. his girlfriend say to abuse him. he keep mute and bears it all. (breeding insults)

Guy B does the same thing. The girlfriend starts to rant. He quickly shuts her up. "Will you keep quiet! I did something wrong. Is that an avenue for you to talk to me anyhow?" (Sharp Pruning)

If Guy A continues like that his girlfriend will later lack respect for him.

Yeah, but the second example seems a bit off though.
It more of a yes ladder where you agree a person so much that it feels strange to disagree.

Read slowly it will help you visualise if you're in a hurry then you shouldn't be reading it in the first place.


Imagine you're a shy guy and you are to call a lady. with your cold feet and pounding heart you muster courage and walk up to the decent girl. you touch her then greet. She then look at you smiles and greet back. You feel refresh. State your purpose then leave.

Next time if you're asked to do the call her again it will be so easy for you to do the same.

But imagine you walk up to her touch her and she immediately screams "Don't touch me!" or stuffs like "Excuse me, Don't in your miserable life ever touch me again!". Sure you will have to think twice before touching her next time.

I'm going try and give more examples so you get the concept more.

But for now it's still underdevelopment If It were to be guy like Ilegend he would make a book and make money out of this.
Ilegend if you discover how powerful this concept is and decided to put it a your book please give credits. and cash yeah cash! Cash is good!

Breeding --and--Pruning


Breeding as a tool in relationships is a very interesting concept. Which has been around for like God know when, and today we shall be bringing it to the limelight for us all take note of.

It is something that should be considered before of going into any relationship. The concept is very simple you breed/encourage behaviors you want from and prune those you don't.

To help you grasp the concept I will be giving some examples.

Chimezie198:
if na to say I love you go make you achieve what you want, carry go

God forbid! even jokingly sef!
Okay wait I can say it as a joke.

missjo:
What buffoonery is this?

can you please do me a favour of adding 1700 to 88.
It won't kill you I promise.

MariaLavina:
If you really want and love her, you shouldn't have a problem sacrificing those words for her.



Wait self, you no get money to offer, you no get good words to offer. Wetin you dey look for in relationship?

I don't love her. I can't even love any girl, it like a sin. I just use relationships as a tool.

Fountainofyouth:
So you don't want the relationship to die instantly, it's not a honeypot relationship, and you don't love her, so what exactly do you want from her?

what if I say I'm just toying around for fun. :-/

missjo:
How is what u need my problem playboy¿

Girl you're on my thread and I'm like the Lord here. So stop derailing. It an order not a request.

I wish you no harm bro, just a piece of advice from a heart that cares.

That so nice!

MariaLavina:
be with a slay queen whose love language will likely be gifts Or be with a prostitute who doesn't want/value commitment either.

Scrap those two I have no money to spend on whores

Lol I gave you three options, be with a lady with other love language exclude the one you dread

You don't understand I really want this girl. Not desperate tho.

missjo:
It's really as simple as this. These guys are fond of leading innocent naive girls on with chummy chummy behavior & getting her all mushy mushy, then go on to complain when she starts asking that sort of question

Okat, I don't need this kind of comment here.

KinzyeWriter:
Do you love me?
You: Yes, It is not love.

I don't understand the 'it not love' part..
Anyway thanks for helping out.

Chimezie198:
Whether you tell her that you love or not , breakup wey go happen go still happen.

At least, I would have achieve what I what to achieve.

MariaLavina:
Then don't date someone who will ask.

Like seriously?

Go for slayqueens and prostitutes.

Okay, I do not seek honey pots, honey comb or whatever you guys call it. Maybe I do a little but it not the main purpose of the relationship. And I can never go that low for slay queen let alone prostitutes.

WaywardSon:
Take control, set the rules of engagement. Let it be known that you're just after canal pleasure. This will save you from unnecessary wahala.

If she's still clueless and asks then tell her the truth. Don't lie and no matter what happens or how sweet her honeypot is don't tell her you love her if you really don't. That's a mortal sin

this is not a honeypot relationship. This is a like a romeo, Juliet romantic relationship where the girl wanna make sure she is not into the wrong person. Tell her you don't love her, the relationship dies instantly.

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tensazangetsu20:
Just say you love YouTube. Always try to evade and answer something else but never ever answer this question directly. It's a trap.

yeah it a huge trap, I can imagine myself saying

ubunja:
lmfao. I love You........ Tube.

She laughs then she talks in a more serious tone 'do you love me or you just wasting my time?'

Blackivy27:
Simply dont encourage her.

tell me more please.

Darkseid:
The title should be how to make good conversation with an "angel". By the way OP, let me show you how the chat will most likely go

Guy: So what do you like to do when you are bored?
Girl: nthn

Guy: oh.. hmmmm.. what kind of music do you listen too? You look like the kind of girl that listens mainly to blues. Am I right?

Girl:hmm

Guy: oh.. Okay when it comes to naija songs which artists do you love the most?

Girl: Wizkid

Guy: hmmmm... Okay if you were to choose between dating a guy like Wizkid.. that is short but with money, or a tall guy who is average financially which would you pick?

Girl: y do u ask

GUY: so money is probably the main thing right?

Girl: yes

So there you have it

I'll will just slap the girl, for wasting my time.

More on the matter

Tone also matter as it conveys the emotions. Yeah you tone tells her if it a witty comment or a serious question.

And don't forget to brush your teeth. Nothing kills a convo' fast more than stinky breathes.

Christiano25:
Lol

Is this an answer?

. still waiting, 'tis night.

Blackivy27:
love?? Lolzz.

Can't read all the post. Blackivy27 are you a guy or a guy?

So guys how do I intelligently bypass this question without ruining the relationship. Some will even go ahead and ask why do you love me as if I said I love them.

4. lastly it's a public forum so ideas can be debated with hope to ensure better relationships for everyone.
(note: only sensible opinions are welcomed. bitter people stay off! )

The Purpose of The Cockerel

1. To help young, inexperienced people find their roots, know their flaws and see how things work
2. To help people not in the above category improve their relationships and sharpen their skills
3. Actually the main purpose of this series is my self development not yours but mine. By writhing it sticks to my head more so I don't easily forget, I develop my writhing skills,it motivate and I can easily refresh on old ideas. So this is not exactly reader targeted and you can simply dance to an attention seeking thread.

Commin'

Enemyofprogress
Enemyofpeace

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Now it up to me to make sure my gal(target)has no reason or whatsoever not to choose while being the an option she wouldn’t like to miss.
BTW this is my first article, and I started writhing it without a purpose and since we have managed to land here, let call it a day…

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