₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Register • Login • With Google • Trending • Recent • New

Stats: 3,344,123 members, 8,510,238 topics. Date: Friday, 30 October 2026 at 06:18 AM

Toggle theme

Cococandy's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Cococandy's Profile › Cococandy's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 1457 pages)

Career › Re: Nigerian Lady Kicks Against Employees Who Pay Their Staff Less Than 70k by cococandy(f): 3:18pm On Sep 15
Then they can’t afford to be an employer.

I don’t know who has given people ideas that they all can be entrepreneurs and employers when they themselves aren’t even doing well enough to sustain themselves let alone others.

Close the business or employ yourself alone if you don’t have enough money to pay the employees.

stainlink:
Cases are different.

There are employers that barely get up to the 70k as profit at the end of the month.

Say, an employer that run a business center in a remote location or a petty food seller that has a small stand somewhere that can barely feed the family.

How about a private school that has few students and a sizable number of staff.

Location and circumstances should be used as part of the condition to make conclusions
Career › Re: Nigerian Lady Kicks Against Employees Who Pay Their Staff Less Than 70k by cococandy(f): 3:12pm On Sep 15
tiswell:
How many companies does she own,and what's the staff strength huh
Silly question

If you can’t afford to pay minimum wage you can’t afford to have employees.

Employing 10 people and paying them 50k each when that salary should ideally pay only 2-3 people (and still won’t even be enough for them to survive) is not a flex.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 2:29pm On Sep 15
budaatum:
Maybe you stop focusing on it.

Nothing it says is concerning.
No I feel like responding to him.

I’m quite capable of blocking him like bemeruca, kacynski and a bunch of other blocked trolls here, also quite capable of ignoring him like others whose names even irritate me to type.

budaatum:
Makes me wonder why some here allow themselves to be so trolled by them as if they have thousands of votes when they actually have less than 0.2 votes between them.
If I’m responding to him is simply because I want to.


Of course his opinions don’t matter and he can’t vote anyway. As is applicable to a lot of posters here. He just happens to be the most delusional irrelevant one and it’s amusing. Allow me to be amused .

Also, if I only spoke to those who can vote and aren’t trolls, I’d be bouncing ideas back and forth with only ijebos (which is great cos he’s great) but we wouldn’t need this whole thread for that.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 2:05pm On Sep 15
basilico:
They do concern me ,I have relatives over there
Very close.
My children might also end up there,so who knows I might bump into you one day.
While you call whites racists, you Americans tend to look down on those you left behind .
Your children might be immigrants one day?


You sit in your cubicle and champion an immigrant-hostile society knowing that the result of it is something your children might have to deal with in the future? Color me surprised.

In fact I’m not surprised actually.

@bold your insecurities are yours alone.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 8:15am On Sep 15
Focus on your own life where you are

Americans immigration problems do not concern you

basilico:
The detention centre in my opinion was to encourage people to take advantage of the cash handouts to self deport.
The conditions there are verified by human rights groups and DOJ. Don't call them concentration camps, ,this is a democrat sound bite.
I think you live in a suburban neighborhood where criminal aliens aren't around. Which means you can proudly say they also have a spark of divinity in them while they havent eaten your goat.

Kilmar Garcia, I bet you he will.still be deported one day,, he is a human trafficker. Biden FBI ordered him released after he was caught ferrying illegal aliens ,the car owner has been imprisoned for ferrying undocumented persons. Kilmar is free because an Obama judge used every loophole and security of his tenure to impede ICE .
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f):
Right. Vicious killers Like Abrego Garcia who is the head of all the gangs in Latin America according to trump and a poorly doctored AI tattoo.

I can call you whatever I want and say you deserve to be locked up for life or eaten by alligators since we are in the era of talking out of peach holes.

I can say you’re the ring leader of an African terrorist organization and justify any harm done to you by people who wish you ill.

You’re not the only one who knows how to twist reality to fit their agenda.

I don’t do it because I’m not a self-appointed troll who has chosen to give up my humanity in the process of worshiping a renowned molester

@bold, awesome. We don’t welcome henchmen into govt service. All newly recruited ICE agents under this administration should be ashamed of themselves.

basilico:
The choice of a detention centre is entirely upon Florida..Some of those who are held there are vicious killers who have committed terrible crimes back home.
Maduro didn't see the need to pay for prisoners upkeep so he freed them and sent them to Biden open arms.

You can virtue signal saying the illegal aliens should be held in luxury hotels until they rape your child.
The conditions at the detention centres are humane and not concentration camps you claim they are. This is a popular leftist talking point.

Your own state has passed a law banning anyone who has ever worked under Trunp 2.0 in ICE CBP or DHS immigration efforts from ever getting employed by California state bodies. A feeble mind interierts that as ICE, DHS or CBP are rogue terrorist bodies not statutory bodies enforcing laws Congress has passed.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 6:52am On Sep 15
IjeBos:
It's a party full of trolls and emotionally underdeveloped adults.
They think they have the monopoly of being soulless and evil. That’s why when someone reciprocates an inch of evilness back to them they act shocked like it’s the end of the world.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 4:45am On Sep 15
Wow so noble of you.

You think an illegal immigrant (a civil offense btw) deserves to be harmed if they try to escape a concentration camp. I mean they tried to escape inhumane conditions as is a natural human response. What did they expect?

Aren’t you an angel?

You despise liberals? You’re inconsequential to liberals. I wish there were a liberal on earth who gaf what you think of them.

It’s only right for you to be held in the same conditions you wish for others. May what you want for others happen to you! If that doesn’t sound like a good thing to you, then maybe you need re-evaluate the deep hatred in your heart.

basilico:
I despise liberals I don't want them dead.
I despise Izzlam too,I want the ideology debated openly and declared a specify threat .
I don't harbour hatred against people who don't see things correctly . I'm always posting links and screenshots so that feeble minded liberals get to know they are being manipulated.
If I should mention Alligator Alcatraz, Noone should be harmed by them.. Unless they try escaping .




I seek to convert not to condemn liberals
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 4:13am On Sep 15
Right winger sat on this very thread and jubilated at the idea of alligators eating immigrants.

You held tours and sold merchandise like it was Christmas Eve and you couldn’t be happier .

Those of you who are their low-level mouthpieces sat here and called us emotional for pointing out how dystopian your party had become.

I don’t think you people have any idea the magnitude of soullessness that has become characteristic of your party.

And you want to condemn someone who’s speaking the exact language you speak because she said you should be held in concentration camps that you wished for immigrants to be held in?

Are you not amazed at your own lack of insight?

Basilico?

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 4:09am On Sep 15
basilico:
At least you've now made it clear you hate Trunp supporters and want them dead.

Can you be trusted to medically care for a Trump supporters?.
You’ve made it clear you hate liberals and want them dead.

Can you be trusted to exist among polite society?

How do we know we shouldn’t lock you up and throw away the keys before you become a danger to those around you because of your hate for liberals?

I mean since we are just saying stuff?
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 1:24am On Sep 15
basilico:
I don't think you understand.
She didn't mean that the Trump supporters should visit the Dachau concentration camp personally

She wished they were all murdered horrifically .
She wished no Trump supporter should be living.
That is what you wish for leftists.

You celebrate when ICE murders them in the streets.

You describe people who denounce Gaza genocide terrorists and you praise Trump/Netanyahu for eliminating terrorists.

You’re no different and it’s on brand for you not to see your own hypocrisy. Typical.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 10:47pm On Sep 14
Democrats were not the ones rejoicing over feeding immigrants to alligators. Alligator Alcatraz was a thing let’s not forget. Stop projecting your wickedness onto us.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 9:20pm On Sep 14
The issue is not even whether this is happening (mind you I don’t doubt that it’s happening. Criminals are absolutely paying this administration for pardons).

It’s that fact this administration has created an environment where this is a thing that doesn’t cause immediate dismissal of anyone involved and subsequent jail time. Unheard of.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 7:38pm On Sep 14
basilico:
Smug North Carolina liberal visits Dachau concentration camp where Nazis killed 415000 Jews says that's where Trump supporters belong.
This is what you guys wish and support for other people.

I want to live in a where people get the same treatment they wish upon others.

Maybe will teach them a thing or two about compassion
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 2:11pm On Sep 14
Mumbo Jumbo
basilico:
You picked the ideals of the far right conservatives.
I picked the ideals of the far left also
They don't breastfed because boobs-boobs have to be pointed.
They can wear pink wigs.
They want abortion pills sent to them.via mail any time.

African women are conservatives in nature .I've been to Uganda where marital promiscuity is the norm ,the women dress to kill for dinner and they still kneel down before their "loving* husbands.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f):
Yea another woman not long ago killed her kids in a psychotic episode or something of that nature as well and it hardly made the news at Lindsay’s level. And no one even gave her the benefit of the doubt like this case.

If I didn’t know better I’d say the prosecution wanted Lindsay to walk free because of how badly they bungled it.

The other lady was black though so I’m sure a lot of people are making the connection that Lindsay’s race might have been what earned her compassion from a bunch of her supporters.

You know how they never agree that racism is a thing in America but we have stuff like this happening.

IjeBos:
Thanks for the recap.
That's very interesting.
It happened in my state but haven't followed it.
I see why it made national news.
Will have to catch up on the details.

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 4:09am On Sep 14
basilico:
By the way,are you those liberal types who won't breastfeed your child so that you don't have fallen twins going South?
Trust a conservative man to be a weirdo for absolutely no reason. Why are you worried about my bre*sts? Just out of the blues. What’s even the connecting thought process here?

Just having a normal conversation and bam! They hit you with weirdness. 😬😬😬
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f):
Are you sure you don’t care? Because the only people making this case a political party issue are you guys on the right.

Y’all have gone as far as asking for women’s voting rights to be rescinded. Such “dwim” witted behavior.

People are saying the prosecution’s case is not adding up and rightfully so. They have failed to convince majority of the jury on the merit of their case because they believed the only person alive and awake at the scene of the crime instead of actually doing a proper investigation.

They’ve muddied up the waters and because of them, those kids may never get true justice even if she did do it.

And instead of you people to use your thinking caps as intended, you’re emotionally spouting all over the place and blaming “the left” in the most asinine thought process imaginable.

Tell me again how you don’t care about what political party anyone belongs in.

basilico:
I don't care if she's liberal, conservative white,green or yellow

She strangled her 3 children one after another..
The black juror went into the details of how long that must have taken ,the 11 were aghast.
I would like those jury members to be asked point blank if they can live with her in the same house for a start.

I don't know which school taught you to make up stuff about what your political opponents must be thinking.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 3:48am On Sep 14
Nobody notified the public that this was a case between left vs right. The webs y’all love to construct and weave yourselves into.

If anything one would think that since she’s a white woman, whom you people love to pamper, cape and feel sorry for, that it’ll be a party thing for you guys to support her. Matter of fact he’s probably the leftist in this dynamic and she’s likely a conservative given she’s white and middle class.

I forgot that you love to twists yourselves into boxes no one designed for you and start crying about stupid things that one said had anything to do with you.


basilico:
The lone black juror had been doxxed online. Ron de Santis has offered him asylum in Floridai.
Ultimate proof that the left is inherently evil .

A man was conscripted into jury duty by the government. He performed his civic duty and followed his conscience, refusing to acquit a woman who confessed to systematically executing her three children. The defense attorney immediately launched a public smear campaign against the juror. Soon several other jurors joined the campaign. Then the media. Even the defense attorney’s wife has joined.

Now they’re doxxing the man, digging into his past, contacting his family, showing up at his house. All of this both to punish him for refusing to go with their program, and to pollute any future jury pool by making it clear that anyone who votes to convict Clancy will have their life destroyed.

It’s truly one of the most outrageously evil things we’ve ever seen from the Left, and that’s saying something. A direct assault on the integrity of our justice system. They are burning down every boundary and standard in their path. And doing it all for the sake of a child murdering psychopath. Unfathomable
.


If there's a retrial the jury knows what verdict is acceptable.
If she's is found not guilty she will renanded in a mental asylum.Until a doctor proves she is Okay to resume normal life.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 3:34am On Sep 14
basilico:
Ignoring what Talarico said with his own mouth.
Y’all are “factual and logical” until the facts and logic are staring in you the face.

White men ARE the greatest source of terror in America. If they don’t like that fact, they need to stop raising serial killers
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 3:19am On Sep 14
basilico:
.
Studies can come up with any proof thst you want
I
I’m sure you think that
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 2:42am On Sep 14
bayelsaowei:
As in.

They never get to settle down to assess the long term impact of some of the hasty decisions made by Trump and his team.

Peoples lands about to be seized..
You know they’ll still blame the immigrants instead of their daddy Trump. 😀
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 2:26am On Sep 14
bayelsaowei:
The combination of efforts to restrict voters from selecting their choice of leaders is alarming:

1. Gerrymandering
2. save act
3. Executive order on mail in voting
4. Deployment of ICE

The GOP is scared as hell.. they know they’ve performed abysmally in every way.

So the only option is to cheat.

😂😂😅😅
I would love to know what a Talarico win would actually mean for Texas and why they’re so afraid of it.

Is it simply an “owning the libs” thing? Or do they genuinely believe that the melting wax figure dude is better. By what standards?


I never paid attention to their politics until I discovered how obsessed they are with California and other blue states.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 1:20am On Sep 14
I just know this conservative loser that can’t get a woman without lying is not mentioning my name, is he?
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 1:19am On Sep 14
He said it best

Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 12:48am On Sep 14
Women don’t support abusive women when they commit heinous crimes. Case in point all other cases of domestic violence by women that have gained attention and were condemned by all and sundry.

But conservative men? Many of them are champions of supporting criminal minded men. I’m gonna need supporters of PDFiles to sit out the conversation while the court handles the matter.

: A meta-analysis of 37 studies found that males endorsed violence, rape myths, and victim-blaming significantly more strongly than women. Rape myths include beliefs like blaming the victim, minimizing sexual violence, or excusing the perpetrator.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20065313/

There is an entire area of research called “male peer support theory,” which looks at how groups of males normalize, excuse, encourage, or fail to challenge violence against women.
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1043986208315483

Another meta-analysis found that males tended to judge victims of male violence and rape more negatively and attribute more responsibility to victims than women did.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26446194/

A 2021 study found that males were more likely than women to blame sexual assault victims, excuse perpetrators, and endorse sexist and rape-supportive beliefs.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32339090/

A large 2025 meta-analysis covering 40 studies and more than 12,000 males found that sexism, traditional gender-role beliefs, and rape-myth acceptance were associated with more victim blaming, less belief in victims, less perpetrator blame, viewing the assault as less serious, and supporting lighter punishment.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40542693/

Research has found that male perceptions of what other males approve of can affect whether they intervene when another males behaves sexually aggressively. In other words, male peer norms matter.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19401602/

A systematic review and meta-analysis also found that male peer approval of sexual violence is a risk factor for male sexual violence perpetration.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33176596/

There is even research specifically on how abusive males use denial, minimization, justification, and victim blaming to explain their own behavior.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37702188/

And this is not limited to internet comment sections. UNICEF actually tracks attitudes about whether people believe a husband is justified in hitting his wife under different circumstances because acceptance of those beliefs is considered a measure of social norms surrounding domestic violence.
https://data.unicef.org/topic/child-protection/violence/attitudes-and-social-norms-on-violence/

Norwood & Coen (2024), “His fight or flight kicked in and here we are”: Investigating the construction of a perpetrator within a dark fandom, Psychology of Popular Media.

Researchers analyzed an online community discussing family annihilator Chris Watts. They found that male participants frequently constructed Watts sympathetically, emphasized his positive qualities, and portrayed him as a victim reacting to his wife or circumstances. This is one of the clearest studies documenting an online community rationalizing or softening responsibility for a male family annihilator.

Sisask, Mark & Värnik (2012), “Internet Comments Elicited by Media Portrayal of a Familicide-Suicide Case,” Crisis.

Researchers analyzed 6,333 online comments responding to news coverage of a familicide-suicide. Comparing male to female comments, males were significantly more likely to justify and excuse familial violence, exclusively when committed by males.

O’Brien & Culloty (2022), “Reporting familicide-suicide in broadcast media: An Irish case study to inform better practice,” Journalism.

This study documented “perpetrator exoneration” in reporting after a male killed his family. Coverage repeatedly emphasized the perpetrator’s positive character and circumstances in ways that softened responsibility. Male community and religious voices were often privileged over expert analysis.

Wright, Eriksson & Bond (2025), research on social-media responses to intimate partner homicide, Journal of Interpersonal Violence.

Participants were shown intimate partner homicide stories and asked to write the kind of comment they would post online. A majority of male comments contained victim blaming. The researchers included sympathy for or excuses for the murderer within victim-blaming responses. This supports the observation that homicide discussions frequently include comments rationalizing the perpetrator or implying that the victim contributed to her own death.

Koepke, Eyssel & Bohner (2014), “‘She deserved it’: Effects of sexism norms, type of violence, and victim’s pre-assault behavior on blame attributions toward female victims and approval of the aggressor’s behavior.”

This experimental study found that when males perceived stronger hostile-sexist attitudes among other males, they became more likely to blame female victims and approve of male aggression. This provides experimental evidence that male peer environments can reinforce victim blaming and increase acceptance of men’s violence toward women.

DeKeseredy and colleagues, research on Male Peer Support Theory.

A substantial body of research on male peer support shows that groups of males consistently provide one another with encouragement, justification, normalization, or excuses for violence against women. Male peer networks can reinforce beliefs that women provoke abuse, deserve punishment, or are responsible for male violent reactions.

“What was she wearing?”
“She probably provoked him.”
“She was going to take his kids.”
“He just snapped.”
“She ruined his life.”
“He’s actually a good guy.”
“Boys will be boys.”

These are not random isolated attitudes. Researchers have been studying the social normalization and justification of male violence for decades.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 12:44am On Sep 14
grin
bayelsaowei:
Border wall about to cause casala oo..🤣🤣😅😅..

Build wall, build wall!!!!

Trump always causing issues for his supporters.. why na.. they can’t even breathe well..
Team “Don’t tread on me” are about to get treaded upon heavily
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f):
All I’ve learned so far from this case is that the police came to the house where three children lay dead in the basement and their mother was unconscious, with a temperature of 80+ degrees, a crush thyroid and unable to speak.

And all the investigation they did was to accept what he said as fact and did not dig deeper.

I know there are several legal technicalities at play here being that she woke up and was told that her husband said that she said she killed the kids and tried to kill herself. She accepted that likely false memory seeing as she can’t remember anything else that happened.

And according to him, she supposedly tried to kill herself by ingesting some drugs, cutting herself in the wrists and neck and then throwing herself from a window?

Okay. lol

May them babies rest in peace. The law enforcement failed them by not doing proper investigation.

“Patrick said” is not evidence of anything.

IjeBos:
I'm not sure about this.
Haven't reviewed the case, but I'm sure no one wants to find someone who killed 3 children not guilty.
The problem is the law is the law. And jurors are bound to obey the law. (though I am also comfortable with jury nullification in some cases)
If they believed she didn't have the mens rea due to insanity to commit the crime, then they should have voted not guilty.
But it doesn't mean she goes free, probably will be committed for a long long time.

From my quick reading she didn't seem to be mentally stable before the killings and so it seems 'Not guilty' was the appropriate judgement.
The lone juror seemed not to be focussed on doing his duties as a juror or wanted to nullify the jury.
Again, this is based on a quick reading of the facts.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 11:03pm On Sep 13
They’d never win in any free and fair election.
That’s why they have to suppress votes every election. If they don’t cheat they’ll have nothing.

And they’ve never won any popular votes regardless of what the last election tampered by Elon says.

They know it and we all know it.
All their ranting about election fraud is projection. Like everything else they do.

bayelsaowei:
It’s really sad what’s happening in Texas.. are the republicans that afraid of the vote of the people? The fear and anxiety is real.

They’ve deployed a combination of everything to deter voters from making their choice..

It reminds of what Yahaya Bello ( the former Kogi state governor) did to rig the elections in that state on behalf of Tinubu. ..Road access and routes were excavated/destroyed to prevent voters from reaching their respective polling units.. 😂😂🤣🤣..

The fear of Telarico In Texas is real..
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 8:49pm On Sep 13
Modern day Republicans would’ve called Mary a victim for complaining about this.
Before she ever wore a nurse's uniform, Mary Eliza Mahoney spent 15 years as a cook, maid, and washerwoman inside a Boston hospital not because it was her dream, but because it was the only door left open to her. Every nursing school in America turned Black women away. So she waited. She worked. She watched.

At 33 years old, she was finally admitted into a grueling 16 month nursing program one of only 40 accepted, most decades younger than her. The days ran from 5:30 in the morning until 9:30 at night. Lectures, wards, surgery, childbirth, endless labor. Of the 40 who started, only three graduated. Mary Eliza Mahoney was one of them.

In 1879, she became the first African American in United States history to earn a professional nursing degree. She spent the rest of her life fighting for every nurse who came after her proving that dignity cannot be denied forever, only delayed.

Some doors don't open. They have to be broken down, one exhausting year at a time.
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: Trump Is The 47th President! by cococandy(f): 6:55pm On Sep 13
IjeBos:
This is all on Congress.
Congress should have been on the forefront of regulation on this so that this can happen safely.
But Congress is purposefully broken.
They said we were haters who are jealous and against billionaires because we RIGHTFULLY said these things should be regulated. Sigh.

The AI bubble and rug pull has begun.

I hope they apologize to their investors if that’s any consolation.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 (of 1457 pages)