Whose fault is that when you guys act like it’s an abomination to actually parent your own kids?

Anyway this is just me digressing.

And obviously not supporting one sided parenting but it seems to be what most guys want. Parenting style that doesn’t involve them actually being parents

advanceDNA:


so at the end of the day the child is still technically theirs alone......and that's all that matters......

No one says you can’t request a DNA test. You absolutely can. If she’s cheating then you won by uncovering it in the beginning before investing too much into the kid.

If she wasn’t cheating , now you’ve requested both a DNA test and a divorce. Maybe you still won. Because you wouldn’t be asking for a DNA test if you weren’t already tired of the marriage. In both cases I guess you won? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Just do whatever makes you happy bro

FRANCISTOWN:
As we all know. Women are angels.
They are the salt of the world.
The light of the world.
Without them, there will be nothing good in this world. Imma fact, they are the reason for this civilisation.
They are never capable of doing evil.
They don't cheat on their partners and even if they did. The men must be at fault.
Women get pregnant by mistake, so I understand they do get pregnant out of their will.
Pregnancy attach itself to married women, that's the reason they always don't know that the kid might not be their husbands'.

Therefore it will be a very wicked thing to request a DNA test from your wife.
I mean! She's too holy and faithful to be requested a thing of such. You know the way to the hospital so, why bother the innocent soul.

I think I now understand why women don't see the big deal in giving John's child to Ibrahim.

I think married men should also get a lady pregnant. Run a DNA test on the kid. Then bring the kid home to their wives.
They can tell their wives the kid belongs to a relative, or the kid was found at a dumpsite or road side or something.

Have the wife raise the kid until he is graduated and boom! Have the real mother show up to retrieve the child. Cook up a nice story to make the kid pity the biological mother and to insist emotions. You know what I'm saying?

The scenario above doesn't even match the level of paternity fraud.

BTW. Good can never conquer evil. Never!
No matter how much fine English we use.
The only language evil understands is another evil.
Look around you. This world belongs to evil people.

Therefore,
Drop your guard and you are dead.
Trust and you die.
kill before you get killed.
Attack as a form of defence.
You have to be more shameless to defeat the shameless.
A monster can only be defeated by a stronger monster.
Avenge your course.
The strong survives and the weak dies.
This is our reality, plain and simple.

Don't be an all round good person.

Good people are weak people.
Good people die early.
Good people are broke.
Good people are disrespected.
Good people are used.


"The kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent taketh it by force"

Meanwhile, the devil was once an angel.

Women are angels.

$30k a year is around $14/hr.

That’s A little above minimum wage in some states and below minimum wage in places like California.
If you’re going to compare, compare them with people on their pay class in Nigeria. Like People who are earning a little above minimum wage like say 50k/month. Then you have an even comparison.

If you want to compare people who are earning 30 million a year in Nigeria who are like that top 1-5 percent (I could be wrong about the percentage) then you have to compared those to the top 1-5 percent of earners in America.

Class to class comparison .

nobaga:
Blind people describing parts of a camel or elephant.

So you can make a minimum wage of 15 dollars per hour, roughly $30,000.00 a year or about 30 million naira a year!
Before you celebrate, realize that you have to pay 24 million for rent O.

Left with 6 million a year to feed, transport and other expenses like clothes. So, do you now realize how people who made 30 million naira a year abroad starve while those who make the same amount are big men in Nigeria?

Even educated one like doctors compare their salaries in Nigeria to those in the U.S as if young base doctors in the U.S do not pay rent, student loan, buy cloths etc.

Na ignorance go kill us for Nigeria.

How can someone that has 10 million naira after his savings, selling family properties out of which 2m naira go for ticket and visa; expect 8 million naira to last him abroad for more a month. The same amount that can start small business here.

Our mutual Don do.

Acidosis:


🤣🤣🤣

I’m tired

Image123:
Divorce is hated by God. All these agenda to pit one sin against another, or one evil as lesser and preferable are all works of the devil. Two sins don't make a right.

You mean to tell me if I find myself married to a man who sexually abuses children and I divorce him for it, in the eyes of God we have committed the same level of offense?

Explain your reasoning please.

I just want to understand different brains and how they operate because we clearly don’t share the same level of cognitive abilities

AsianTotal:
That Is A Very Stupid Question. How Can You Ask A Woman What She Would Do If Her Husband Abuse Her Child.
So She Is The Owner Of The Child Now, Or The Child Does Not Belong To The Husband.
To See That A S1MP Even Asked That Question Is Irritating.

Okay The child belongs to the husband.

Then what? Explain your logic to us please

NOETHNICITY:
Women can be very dumb sometimes

You know what?

I have no choice but to agree with you this time.

Because WTF is this nonsense?

Yikes

GloriousGbola:



https://youtu.be/?si=t__

Obligatory

The waste is insane I’m telling you

You believe everything the oppressor tells you?

The same lie isreal told about giving them ample time to leave troubled areas is the same lie Nigerian army will make up when it tries to find a justification for the killings.

After giving them “ample time” to leave, they still seek them out in the hospitals to bomb them, and go to their shelters to kill them.

Even in the face of your own oppression you can’t see the humanity of others.

Minime10:


Use your head onye nntu🖕
It's too early in the day to sound this foolish.
Civilians in Gaza were given ample time, days & opportunity by the Israeli Authorities to evacuate from the trouble Areas in Gaza before Isreali's confrontation with Hamas group.
Show the world where and when the Innocents women, children, old and young men in Okwuma community were given any such opportunity before they were murdered in cool blood
No just come and be capping nonsense here about Gaza because there is no corroletion.
Nobody is happy that any military man was killed, but murdering innocent civilians can not justify the immoral attack on the military. They should go after the criminals & not the Innocents villagers.

Well said.

Obviously I don’t agree with your last paragraph but it’s so odd that people can’t see the glaring similarities and the intense hypocrisy.

It really doesn’t cost anything to view all humans as equally deserving of justice and fairness. Otherwise what are we even doing on this earth?
Like what’s the bleeping point of it all?

Oh boy I’m tired.

Watianoengineer:
When Isreal was bombing every inch of Gaza just because of the actions of few Hamas insurgents, majority of the hypocrites condemning the actions of the Nigerian Army today were supporting Isreal to continue the genocide. To them every one residing in Gaza are all terrorists so Isreal's action to bomb everyone was justifiable.


Now the tables have turned and the Nigerian Army are ready to do what Isreal is doing in Gaza. A dozen or more soldiers were murdered in cold blood but you hypocrites wants the army to look for the killers and not make the whole community pay.

If you can support what Isreal is doing by punishing every Palestinian for the offense of few Hamas agent, then the Nigerian Army should as well wipe out the whole community and make them suffer for the sins of the few killers.

Dumpster diving is not a new thing.

Even some “comfortable” Americans do it from what I’ve seen.
Most supermarket chains and department stores are notorious for tossing perfectly good items and edible food just because of regulations and of course for profit. They rather discard than donate it to shelters. So they can claim the loss on their taxes.

Some divers even resell the items they dumpster dived.

dominique:
Just watched the video. Omoh!!! People are cold and heartless sha. The man literally laid down there waiting for his doom. He didn't even bother to plead for his life, his fate was as good as sealed.

🫣

I wouldn’t dare watch it

Na sleepless nights for me for a week until I can get it out of my head.

Jeez

Andy’s name was on every movie then.
May he rest in peace

And the next person will still renovate it . Just mindless callous colossal waste

Confusing. Who’s land was sold?

I really wish they can all read this and commit it to heart. But alas common sense and empathy are no match against bias and prejudice.

The latter always seem to find a way to win

Ipobfraud:
Ii don’t support soldiers killing innocent people there indiscriminately. They’re supposed to investigate and fish out those militant that laid ambush and kill the soldiers not just killing innocent people and make them paid for the price of few people.

I know most people condemning this soldiers supported Israel to kill and wipe out the whole gaza because of the hamas that’s not up to 1% of the total population of Palestines. God just want to teach us lesson fast, have you seen how it’s to be killed for the offense that few people committed? At least you people will feel what Palestinians are feeling. Because of religion Christians are happy that Palestinians are been killed, that really made me know the true aim of christians, in as much as I dislike muslim terrorist, Christians are worse . For those that still want innocent Palestinians to be killed, thugs from your locality will kill soldiers and soldiers will match in to level your community, you will no be killed, but your loved ones, immediate family will be killed so you can feel the pain.

If we wont work together to make this life a better place, we will both feel the heat.

okoroemeka:
what you are saying is your own mind,what do you expect when you kill a commander,major,captain and 16 soldiers?you will see hell,infact before the army will finish with those people I really pity them,I am.from the southeast and I know it is a very good idea to aviod anything that will put the life of an army personnel at risk,it is not worth what will follow,

What a stupid comment. If you’re from the south east and get caught in a killing that you know nothing about, I hope you’ll keep the same energy

such an easy concept to understand

Feintline:
This is 2024 .
The Nigerian army cannot be behaving like 1999.

The act of killing our soldiers is very bad and the hoodlums should be dealt with but not in this fashion of killing innocent peope in their houses.

What happened to tactical investigations to fish out the group that carried out the killings.

zikter:
Kai, the same modus operandi they used in Zaki-Biam(Gbeji town) in 2000s, they also gathered the people for a meeting and opened raw fire on them. Very crude in this age of top investigation methods

hedonido:
The Nigerian Army is a cowardly force. The most cowardly in the world.

Is it a show of "strength" to kill unarmed and unthreatening compatriots?

If unknown persons killed your colleagues, painful as it is, why not do the painstaking work of investigating, tracking, smoking them out and bringing them to justice? Is that not how the United States, Israel, and the other big guys we all look up to do it?

obinna58:
Mumu people, terrorists are killing them and they’re killing innocent villagers to scare the terrorists, so their goal now is to make the terrorists feel bad about the innocent victims they killed and stop terror for good

I’m confused because Nigeria is a total joke
The military are now the real terrorists


Poor villagers

Y’all are not well

Fiscus105:
If I'm to be in position of brother in-laws and want go public.

I WILL PRESENT IT TO THE COUPLE BY HANDLING THE KEY TO THE GROOM, BUT THE PAPER WOULD CARRY BRIDE's NAME.

if I'm in position of bride.

IMMEDIATE THE BROTHERS HANDED OVER THE KEY TO ME, I WOULD HAND OVER IT TO MY HUSBAND.

all these are needed in other not to bruise egos and to fashion in peace in the marriage, I biliv the ultimate goal of parties involved is to have long lasting and peaceful marriage.

PEOPLE DO BLAMING MARRIAGE INSTITUTION WHEN IT FAILS, BUT NOT BLAMING THE ACTIONS AND INACTIONS THAT LED TO ITS FAILURE.

What a stupid post

Do those people lying there dead look to you like they were participating in what happened?

Saturnalia:
Save Igbomotoru community? Na play una still dey play.

Those that fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it.

This is just a preview. Dem never even start sef.

Your people did not see armed robbers to kill?

Your people did not see kidnappers to kill?

Your people did not see ritualists to kill?

Na our Soldiers that are doing their best in making sure we all sleep with our two eyes closed safely at night una go cannibalize?

Since you have refused to learn from the Odi Massacre of 1999 in Bayelsa, the FG will instill into you recalcitrants, the discipline that your parents refused to teach you at home.

The nonentities that are jubilating over the gruesome killings of our gallant soldiers will get what is coming to them. It’s just a matter of time.

So we all understand unfairness and barbarism but only pick and choose when to apply the concept

The fact that you actually have to explain it to them makes me wonder

YelloweWest:


Rkelly is worse. He raped children. Neighbors wife can make her own decisions. Not kids.

Some of you boys/men are truly frightening. The comments on this thread is enough

Angelfrost:


Very backward and idiotic set of people... And they are needlessly arrogant too.

The arrogance is the only thing many of them have going for them. And they are big on shaming the sensible respectable ones among them. Maybe so they can join them or what. I don’t know

NEUDUDE:


well if she spends on me, buys me iphone 15 pro max, buys me a car. I wouldnt mind her cheating at all lol

Na so

I love how you guys praise women who accepts cheating from men as the standard of virtuousness in a woman but lose your shirts when the chicken comes home to roost.


IT WILL NEVER NOT BE FUNNY TO ME.

The highlight of entertainment

Namaster:
Can someone slap the wig off this horse-faced WHOORE?

Imagine asking men to raise a BASTARD that is essentially a BILLBOARD telling the whole world that your wife not only got diccked down by a strange man but also made you pamper for 9 months while carrying the spawn of said man.

Let's not talk about the boatload of money it costs to raise a child.

Men, listen to this:

Your cheating wife is free to have her ass slapped like a little bitch. But you don't have to suffer the constant slap on the face that is the child of an affair.

The moment you discover a paternity fraud, chase the woman and her child away. If you want a charity case, make your way to an orphanage.

In fact, ALL men should do a DNA test before naming ceremony even if they are married to Virgin Mary.

Also, can someone please slap the wig off this horse-faced WHOORE?

Readinglamp:
Watched my dad die in September last year. He had COPD. The end was crazy. I begged God to take him. He kept sweating on his neck only till it turned red.

The death rattle, his negotiations with death, the breathlessness and constant need for oxygen, swift loss of speech, unconsciousness phase. We went through a lot as a family. Shit broke our hearts.

Rest in peace S.K. I'm still very hurt. The debit card thieves tried to hack you again o. They were successful this time. I was only able to stop it from getting worse a few minutes ago. I have forgiven the thief.

COPD is a hard one to watch. I’m so sorry man.

Halcyon123:
descarado our baby is here! You can now bring the diaper

Congratulations 🎉

Metrofox:


Bring back your virginity

why?

Nairaland will really open your eyes.

That’s why I reserve my empathy when it comes to them

purples25:
If only girls can see what guys are and the horrible things they are really thinking of them when they give in to sex for the first time, in the name of so called romantic love.

It seems there is no real love on the part of the men, just calculation. Sorry for the cheating lady who thinks the guy outside loves her, meanwhile with the way guys think, he just sees her as a damaged product which he has tested.

A lot of men don't see women as human beings. Just as products with different values and uses. Nairaland is one of the factors that has helped me see that.

iichidodo:
In the far east in China,more than a thousand years ago, pubescent virgins are regarded as part of spoils of war. Tamerlane, Genghis Khan, Kublai Khan, warriors of great repute had pubescent virgins in their harems...

And Also antibiotic intervention, bacteria could easily kill you and the 5 deplorable people who liked your pedo post. But here we are. Progress has been made has it not?