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Romance / Re: Man Holds Traditional Marriage Just To Sleep With 'Hard To Get' Lady, Dumps Her by cococandy(f): 1:41pm |
Yall do stuff like this and more yet still have the mount to count body count for women and blame them having sex with men. It’s been a long time since I last considered the average naija a dude as ppl with common sense and everyday on this forum you guys keep proving it. Because everything you do in contradictory to what you say superCleanworks: pweeryambre: laplace19: bestman09: |
Romance / Re: Men Can You Marry A Lady With Too Many Tattoos: see picture by cococandy(f): 6:21pm On May 09 |
There’s someone for everyone 2 Likes |
Phones / Re: Tiktok Bans Account Of Content Creator Embarking On 24 Hours Buried Alive by cococandy(f): 6:19pm On May 09 |
Very necessary. I hope they don’t restore his account. What a foolish undertaking 2 Likes |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 6:14pm On May 09 |
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Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 5:17pm On May 09 |
Biglittlelois:you know it! Flip it any other way and they would have come together here to call women everything but children of God 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On May 09 |
Barteze: That’s my belief too. I don’t know if you’re familiar with my posts on this forum but I’m a strong advocate for joint ownership. It’s the way that men have shown they are more than comfortable leaving their women vulnerable to the grifters and outside world that’s hurts my heart. How can you be comfortable leaving the person you claim to love exposed to hostile circumstances when you can easily do the right thing from the start 2 Likes |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:35pm On May 09 |
Mid spring harvest last couple weeks I just eat the sugar snap peas straight off the vine with some peanut butter. So good 11 Likes
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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 4:31pm On May 09 |
Cornbread and smoked turkey neck collard green 10 Likes
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel Shells Rafah As Biden Vows Arms Suspension by cococandy(f): 4:29pm On May 09 |
What Israel is doing is creating more militant youth who having lost everything in this ethnic cleanse will not only be willing to die for the cause but take whoever is the way with them iLegendd: 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 4:26pm On May 09 |
safariman: But he didn’t earn it in naira. That money was probably in a hidden account there in uk before he transferred it into a Nigerian bank account for the project. |
Travel / Re: Nigerian ‘Community’ Abroad is Toxic. by cococandy(f): 4:17pm On May 09 |
It can depend on where you live. I’ve never been a part of any toxic abroad community. In fact it’s been hard to even come across Nigerians in some of the places I’ve lived. At least not enough to create a big community with. Now I’m in northern California and there are tons of Nigerians here. But get this, everyone is a professional and has a lot to lose if they were to engage in detrimental behaviors. So the community here is above board and everyone respects themselves 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 4:15pm On May 09 |
Thanks for being open minded at least Hopefully they won’t label you a SIMP for it Tallesty1: 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 3:57pm On May 09 |
Are we on the same topic? Were talking about their property in Nigeria. Since when did marriage grant women 50/50 ownership of the family property? I’m really interested to know. Because if true and it’s actually enforced, then kudos. Idaytesj29: 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 3:54pm On May 09 |
maasoap: Well Let him just transfer the all properties to her name alone and leave things that way. If he can’t do that, then we’re not the ones tearing any family apart. You guys love lies and manipulation and hate when you get called out for it. Then someone is breaking up the family. The family can only be held together when the woman is being treated like a lesser human. That’s the only condition that makes some of you men happy 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 3:49pm On May 09 |
maasoap: This we can agree on Marriage isn’t for everyone. And especially the type of marriage where the man thinks it’s okay to sideline his woman and make dubious moves on his own to keep the woman at his mercy. It’s definitely not for me or anyone I love who listens to me. Not for us! Y’all can keep it 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 3:17pm On May 09 |
shaybebaby: I’m thinking from whatever assets they have there in the uk. But honestly I don’t know how the system works; I’m thinking more from a USA angle. Your spouse can legally owe you whatever money they hid away to spend in another country. They don’t even need his permission to find it; the bank will provide the information when court ordered. It’s obviously a legal battle but unless it’s a small amount of money, I won’t just let him have it. |
Celebrities / Re: Shan George's Money Returned To Zenith Bank Account by cococandy(f): 3:14pm On May 09 |
subcbouy:yep A regular person would have had a hard time getting it back 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Shan George's Money Returned To Zenith Bank Account by cococandy(f): 3:13pm On May 09 |
I’m happy for her. A closed mouth doesn’t get fed 1 Like |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:05pm On May 09 |
jaxxy: Vitamin C. Plus other minerals 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 3:02pm On May 09 |
Klass99:😩I wasn’t even trying to be funny. I don’t know how my brain produces those phrases 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:59pm On May 09 |
Barteze: Actually that’s not true. Only the things he got while married belong to him and his wife. Pre marital property is for him alone or any kids he might have in the future 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:57pm On May 09 |
shaybebaby: I wouldn’t cut my losses. I’d take the equivalent of whatever my share is of those investments in one way or another. Then he gotta go. I don’t like dubious partners |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:49pm On May 09 |
So then he should transfer every property to her name and exclude himself since they are legally married and he has nothing to worry about. That’s would be okay. Right? I don’t know if you think you’re talking to another one of your fellow grey matter deficient scallywags Fuckyoumod: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:46pm On May 09 |
Actually if she starts now she can get what’s rightfully hers whether she goes gun blazing or not. The man might think the houses in Nigeria are protected from UK government fingers but if they are anything like the USA, his bank statements can be subpoenaed and all the money he squirreled away to build those projects in Nigeria can be re-estimated and he’ll owe her half of it if he wants to keep the properties to himself. That way she get her share and he can go live in Nigerian mansions by himself since that’s what he wants 🤨 michlins: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:42pm On May 09 |
shaybebaby:yep. Give an inch they take a mile 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:42pm On May 09 |
Only a man will see another man being a bad spouse and ask those he’s hurting to walk on egg shells around him so as not to displease him. Meanwhile he’s in the wrong from the beginning. No wonder Nigerian women hate to build with you people. I always think in my head, “why would a woman want to keep her money separate from the spouse. Is it not one family and they can all be included and benefit from it equally?” But no. Not with these types of responses. If he decides to go ahead and marry another woman to reap where the OP sowed, the best advice you guys can give her is to keep begging him. I won’t blame any woman who doesn’t want to build with you guys. Egomaniacal double crossing is the game y’all play edmasta01: 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:34pm On May 09 |
Look at the type of coddling we are advocating for a man who’s being deliberately sly to his lady. She should gently carry him along 😒 folla: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 2:32pm On May 09 |
Kobojunkie: sometimes we lie to ourselves to protect our hearts from breaking. She might already know and that’s why she is here looking for someone to tell her that she’s wrong and her husband could never. Yet he absolutely can and is already doing it to her face. If not, this topic won’t even be on NL. The moment the man noticed his wife is not being included in property that is being purchased with family funds, he should have fixed the issue immediately before she even had time to complain. So I think she knows 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 6:52am On May 09 |
I promise you that man knows. That’s his intention Odotech: 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 6:49am On May 09 |
ihavesense: So then there’d be no fuss if the woman puts all the family wealth and property in her name right? After all if she dies, the man is entitled to everything she owns. No? These are the sick devilish lies you used to deceive women in the past so they’d build with y’all and when you start misbehaving they won’t have a choice to stick with your miserable behinds seeing as they have no other choice 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: My Name Is Not On The Property We Both Contributed For! by cococandy(f): 5:01am On May 09 |
Harddiskng: But you have nothing to say about a man who’s intentionally excluding his wife from jointly owned family property. All you people love is to cheat and oppress your women. Anyone who gives them advice on how to avoid being mistreated like this becomes the enemy 97 Likes 8 Shares |
Crime / Re: Leah Sharibu Married To Two Boko Haram Leaders, Now Has Two Kids – 'repentant' T by cococandy(f): 6:42pm On May 08 |
Aren’t you a whole tub of stupidity? seanery: 3 Likes |
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