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PoliticsRe: Oduduwa Republic Thank IPOB For Their Support And Love As They Work Together by cocolacec(m): 1:35pm On Jul 25, 2020
SLAP44:
My Yoruba neighbours were singing this morning in front of the house "Thank you IPOB for opening our eyes"

grin grin grin
Lie lie Yoruba empire is enough to work on its own with our allies.

PoliticsRe: Oduduwa Republic Thank IPOB For Their Support And Love As They Work Together by cocolacec(m): 1:28pm On Jul 25, 2020
KwaraRat:
Foolish Igbo people, when last you entered an agreement with the Yaribanza did they hold up to their end?

I have said it before that Nnamdi Kanu is a Judas goat leading you to another slaughter.

He is not interested in restoring Biafra but instigating another brutal civil war which the Jews will leave you hanging dry while they throw their weight behind the Jihadist mob.
Kanu is lying no Odua group is working with him.Yorubas will rather work with South South and North central.

Kanu promised IPOB to actualize Biafra in December 2020.He wants to use Yorubas as a smokescreen to his impending failure come December.When Kanu cannot actualise Biafra ,he will blame Yorubas for betrayal to cover up his failure.

As a Yoruba person i will be very happy Ibos get Biafra and others gets what they wants so everyone can live in peace,justice and equality.
NYSCRe: Tinuade Adejuiyegbe Becomes First Seating Tradition Ruler To Attend NYSC Camp by cocolacec(m): 9:36am On Jul 25, 2020
Rhesusmonkey:
Ok, but I am interested in knowing if she is still single and searching, asking for my neighbor.

But on a side note, the gods must be confused, how will they allow a human who stoops to urinate become a traditional ruler.
God created Men and women the same in the physical realm with dofferent responsibilities to the society but in the spiritual realm wonen are more powerful than men.
Christianity EtcChina Orders Christians To Renounce Faith In Jesus & Worship President Xi Jinpin by cocolacec(op): 11:26am On Jul 24, 2020
China has ordered Christian villagers to renounce their faith in Jesus and worship the nation's Communist Party leaders instead.

Chinese authorities visited Christian homes in Linfen in the northern province of Shanxi in April and told residents who were on welfare benefits that they had to take down all crosses, and replace any displays of Jesus with portraits of Chairman Mao and President Xi Jinping, according to religious freedom magazine, Bitter Winter.

Any Christians who refused to comply with the demand had their welfare subsidies annulled.

One local pastor reported to Bitte Winter: "All impoverished households in the town were told to display Mao Zedong images. The government is trying to eliminate our belief and wants to become God instead of Jesus."

In one village, a Christian from the state-sponsored Three-Self Church reported how authorities forcefully eliminated all Christian imagery including any images of Jesus in his home. Officials replaced the images with a portrait of Mao Zedong.

The officials told the Christian: "Impoverished religious households can't receive money from the state for nothing — they must obey the Communist Party for the money they receive."

In another incident in May, authorities entered the home of a Christian in the eastern province of Shandong. There they posted up portraits of Mao Zedong and Xi Jinping and said, "These are the greatest gods. If you want to worship somebody, they are the ones."

In Henan's Shangqiu city, officials visited the home of an elderly Christian woman and cancelled her minimum living allowance because they discovered an image of a cross posted on her door.
The elderly Christian reported: "They tore it down immediately. Afterward, both my minimum living allowance and poverty alleviation subsidy were canceled. I am being driven to a dead end. I have diabetes and need injections regularly."

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.opindia.com/2020/07/china-jesus-christian-cross-demolish-communist-party-xi-jinping-mao-symbols/amp/
CrimeRe: Clerics Who Are Who Are Into Rituals And Raping Ladies by cocolacec(op): 4:22pm On Jul 23, 2020
Pastor Ogundipe way get University do am with me by force

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K3W2OWpupIE
CrimeClerics Who Are Who Are Into Rituals And Raping Ladies by cocolacec(op): 4:20pm On Jul 23, 2020
FACES OF ISLAMIC CLERICS WHO ARE INTO RITUALS AND RAPE LADIES

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oyi7GcqWWAg

THE PROPHET SLEPT WITH ME AND THAT WAS THE END FOR ME

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IEcR36WYJOo

HOW OBA SAMUEL AND GENESIS DEFRAUDED A SICKLECELL PATIENT AMONGST OTHER SHOCKING REVELATIONS !!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dMvrT74xIxg

GENESIS ALLEGEDLY BUILDS 30 COFFINS EVERY DECEMBER- BISI WELLINGTON

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1G2_OFv3LTI

MAUREEN BADEJO EX PASTORS' HITMAN SPEAKS OUT

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vggRRYSCcdM

Victims of Mary Olubori £50k Gold and 40 Pairs of Shoes Bought for her Cried Out In Bitterness

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iftd38MZA_4

Who is Erelu Agbaye in the Fraternity Coven of Pastor Oyedepo, Ayefele, Pastor Abiara and Others...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=os0o-zH058A

MAUREEN EXPOSE PASTOR SAM OJO AS FAKE PASTOR WITH HIS SCANDALS (Part 1)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U3eQVzXssk4
PoliticsRe: Support Nnamdi Petition On Biafra by cocolacec(op): 2:10pm On Jul 23, 2020
How petitions work
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PoliticsRe: Poverty Is Man Made by cocolacec(op): 1:15pm On Jul 23, 2020
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PoliticsPoverty Is Man Made by cocolacec(op): 1:13pm On Jul 23, 2020
Poverty

PoliticsWhich Is A No Mans Land? Calabar,Lagos or Abuja. by cocolacec(op):
Calabar was considered as the first capital of Nigeria because it served as the first capital of the Southern Protectorate, the Oil River Protectorate, and Niger Coast Protectorate.

After the chiefs of Duke Town accepted British protection in 1884, the town, which was called Old Calabar until 1904, served as capital of the Oil Rivers Protectorate (1885–93), the Niger Coast Protectorate (1893–1900), and Southern Nigeria (1900–06) until the British administrative headquarters were moved to Lagos. This was until the late nineteenth century, when the administrative centre of the Southern protectorate was moved to Lagos in 1906.

Lagos, city and chief port, Lagos state, Nigeria. Until 1975 it was the capital of Lagos state, and until December 1991 it was the federal capital of Nigeria. Ikeja replaced Lagos as the state capital, and Abuja replaced Lagos as the federal capital.

Abuja, city, capital of Nigeria. It lies in the central part of Nigeria, in the Federal Capital Territory (FCT; created 1976). The city is approximately 300 miles (480 km) northeast of Lagos, the former capital (until 1991).

Lagos seized to be the capital since 1991 ,The Ibos still see Lagos as a no mans land.That is a great disrespect to the people who have accomodated you tolerated all excesses and see you as their own to even intermarry with them.

Can the Ijaws,Ibibios claims Enugu as no manns land because it was the Eastern Region capital during regional Government?

How come Calabar and Abuja are not regarded as no mans land? Is the Yoruba tolerance becoming its greatest undoing?

PoliticsRe: Why Igbos In Lagos Must Support APC Govt- Lawmaker by cocolacec(m): 10:38am On Jul 23, 2020
Tranquillity360:
Lagos is no man's land.



Yorubas should go and form Oduduwa with their five yoruba states,if they are no longer comfortable living with their fellow Nigerians.
Calabar was a former colony of the British like Lagos but no one calls it a no mans land.Yorubas will never call Abuja,kaduna or kano no mans land.Lagos seized to be the capital in the 90’s.You can go to Abuja to claim no mans land not lagos.
PoliticsRe: Looks Like Hushpuppi Has Been Released From US Prison by cocolacec(m): 12:07am On Jul 23, 2020
Hushpuppi release details

PoliticsRe: JEAN-BEDEL BOKASSA; The Craziest Dictator You've Never Heard Of by cocolacec(m): 8:21pm On Jul 22, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Ngige To Faleke: "You Are A Small Boy, I No Get Time For You" by cocolacec(m): 8:16pm On Jul 22, 2020
EastGold:
Even though I am a Yoruba, my joy in that video is the subtle yap he took at Tinubu.


The guy has lost his value.
you are not full blooded Yoruba.
PoliticsRe: Ngige To Faleke: "You Are A Small Boy, I No Get Time For You" by cocolacec(m): 8:08pm On Jul 22, 2020
IspitonCowards:
Lagos is no man's land, cry me an ocean
Anambra is a no mans land.
PoliticsRe: Ngige To Faleke: "You Are A Small Boy, I No Get Time For You" by cocolacec(m): 8:07pm On Jul 22, 2020
Anambra APC Meeting: Labour Minister, Chris Ngige Escapes Attack

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMUPkHJrvmo
PoliticsRe: Ngige To Faleke: "You Are A Small Boy, I No Get Time For You" by cocolacec(m): 8:02pm On Jul 22, 2020
Wisdomkosi:
"You Are A Small Boy" - Sen. Ngige bombs Hon Faleke!

"You're a small boy. I'm your mentor's mate. if you yab me, I yab you back 10 times. I am a Lagos boy o. You grew in mushin, I live in VI. tah!!!! Look at a Mushin boy talking to a vI boy"


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGupHmbSX84

https://igberetvnews.com/1358987/small-boy-sen-ngige-bombs-hon-faleke-video/
Ngige is a stupid fool,i hate it when one is not proud of his origin. Ngige you are not a Lagos boy ,You are an Awka boy.
Christianity EtcRe: What Happens When a Narcissist Becomes a Church Leader? - Dr. Sam Vaknin by cocolacec(op): 6:22pm On Jul 22, 2020
Geeman23:
Lovely insights. I have always want to learn more about narcissmm in religion. If you don't mind any material book you suggest to complete this?
Narcissistic Differences in Christian and Nonreligious Individuals
https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/1942/639463cf5d615b6faca67ffd25b1d4169076.pdf

https://pro.psychcentral.com/exhausted-woman/2015/05/15-narcissistic-religious-abuse-tactics/#:~:text=A%20narcissist%20uses%20their%20religious,doesn%27t%20matter%20the%20religion.&text=Even%20those%20who%20do%20not,or%20Satanism%20can%20be%20included.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by cocolacec(m): 6:19pm On Jul 22, 2020
womenareapes:
this is what happens when you bring a Naija woman to abroad. undecided

those useless piece of trash called Naija women, when bring to abroad will start claiming feminist because the law favour them. undecided

Guys stop bringing your useless wife to abroad!

this is why I always say foreign women are the best instead of our local piece of shiit full with self entitlement mental disorder undecided


I always see this set of black species irritating! I wonder how you guys are copping with them? undecided
womenareapes never knew an ape gave birth to you.Son of ape
Nairaland GeneralRe: Psychologists Say There Are Several Types Of Narcissists: Which One Are You? by cocolacec(op):
3. Vulnerable narcissism, also known as covert narcissism
Covert narcissism is also called vulnerable narcissism. In opposition to the grandiose narcissists, these people tend to be shy and self-effacing. According to the American Journal of Psychiatry (AJP), the "covert subtype is inhibited, manifestly distressed, hypersensitive to the evaluations of others while chronically envious." They crave people's recognition and get very defensive in the face of criticism.

According to Malkin, covert narcissists are often abjectly miserable and believe their suffering is worse than anyone else's. "Yes, they may have been hurt before," Neo says, "but it's not your duty to rescue them or save them. That's boundaries, too."

4. Malignant narcissism
Malignant narcissists, just like the name implies, are manipulative and malicious. They show signs of sadism and aggression, and according to AJP, are the most severe subtype of narcissistic personality disorder.

"They get pleasure seeing people writhe in pain and discomfort," licensed psychologist Daniel Fox, Ph.D., says. If you know a malignant narcissist, Neo recommends avoiding them completely and cutting off all ties. Any attempts to outsmart them will be unsuccessful and exhausting, she explains: "They've spent their lives perfecting the craft of becoming better narcissists."

5. Sexual narcissism
Sexual narcissists "have an overly positive, egotistical admiration of their own sexual prowess," couples' therapist Brandon Santan, Ph.D., tells mindbodygreen. "They can become consumed by their obsession with sexual performance and the need for the sexual admiration of others."

Sexual narcissists are often serial cheaters, use sex to manipulate people, and may behave violently during sex. To protect yourself from this type of narcissist, your safest option is to get out of the relationship and seek therapy to help you get through the breakup with a narcissist.
Sexual narcissism is part of a three-part narcissism typing system that includes sexual narcissism, somatic narcissism, and cerebral narcissism. None of them are validated by research, but the system has been gaining some popularity as some mental health practitioners use them to further categorize different types of narcissism.

6. Somatic narcissism
Somatic narcissists derive their self-worth from their bodies. Psychotherapist Christine Scott-Hudson, LMFT, writes, "This may manifest as someone feeling more beautiful, stronger, or fitter than others."
Somatic narcissists often obsess over their weight and physical appearance and criticize others based on their appearance. They usually ignore the needs of others and prioritize their own. If you're dealing with one, Scott-Hudson says, "avoid displaying emotional responses to their behavior because narcissists feed off drama."

7. Cerebral narcissist
Cerebral or intellectual narcissists derive their self-importance from their minds, compared to the somatic narcissist who derives worth from their bodies. "Cerebral narcissists get their supply from feeling smarter, more clever, and more intelligent than others," Scott-Hudson tells mindbodygreen.
Cerebral narcissists believe they're smarter than others. In an attempt to feed their ego, they will try to make others feel unintelligent. If you're dealing with a cerebral narcissist, insulate yourself from their words. "You're never going to win an argument or get to a point where they admit you're right," Fox says, "so learn to let it go."

8. Spiritual narcissist
Spiritual narcissists often use their spirituality to justify harmful behaviors and use spiritual jargon to intimidate others, Neo explains. "You see, the narcissist needs to project an idealized version of himself to escape his broken, insecure self," she says, and spiritual narcissists use seemingly sensitive and spiritual actions as a way to elevate themselves above others.

Neo says young people or people who have experienced significant upheaval, like a move or a divorce, are more vulnerable to the spiritual narcissists' "captivating, dynamic influence." If someone you know uses their spirituality as a tool to manipulate or belittle you, separate from them.

The bottom line.
Narcissism exists on a spectrum, and there are many different types of narcissism, some that are more worrying than others. If you're dealing with someone you suspect might have narcissistic personality disorder, the best thing to do to protect yourself is to set strong boundaries and ideally walk away from the relationship altogether.

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/types-of-narcissists
Nairaland GeneralPsychologists Say There Are Several Types Of Narcissists: Which One Are You? by cocolacec(op):
People seem to be fascinated with the concept of narcissism. Perhaps it's because we're all a little bit narcissistic or know someone else who is. But before you jump to label someone a narcissist, consider that there are actually different types of narcissism. While they all maintain the core characteristics of narcissism (entitlement, lack of empathy, and a need for control), they're displayed through different behaviors and vary in degree of severity and danger.

How many types of narcissism are there?
While a person can be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), there is no clinical diagnosis for any subtypes of narcissism. Some types of narcissism have been identified and validated by peer-reviewed research, whereas other types have been informally named and popularized by various mental health professionals. Thus, there is no concrete number of narcissistic subtypes.

Clinical psychologist and Harvard lecturer Craig Malkin, Ph.D., thinks of narcissism as a trait, or pervasive human tendency, which exists on a spectrum.

Though the subtypes can't be clinically diagnosed, psychologist Perpetua Neo, DClinPsy, says mental health clinicians "can generally see patterns.” Below are eight types of narcissism recognized by experts:

1. Healthy narcissism
Yes, healthy narcissism exists. First, just because someone has narcissistic traits doesn't mean they have narcissistic personality disorder. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM-5), to be clinically diagnosed with NPD, a person has to exhibit at least 55% of the most common signs of narcissism. Many people may have traits of narcissism without meeting the criteria for the disorder. Healthy narcissism is a category of its own and is actually positive.

"Each person has a bit of healthy narcissism within them," cognitive therapist Alyssa Mancao, LCSW, writes at mbg. "A person with healthy narcissism will feel proud of their accomplishments and will want to share those accomplishments with others because it makes them feel good. Healthy narcissism is also the ability to feel a sense of entitlement and knowing that you belong in certain spaces and deserve good things. These feelings, though, are usually in line with reality."

2. Grandiose narcissism
Grandiose narcissism closely resembles the broader understanding of what makes a narcissist. In psychology, grandiosity refers to having an unrealistic sense of superiority. Grandiose narcissism thus involves overestimating one's abilities, asserting one's dominance over others, and having a generally inflated sense of self-esteem.

This type of narcissism has been tested and validated through peer-reviewed research, often in opposition to vulnerable narcissism (also known as covert narcissism).

"Grandiose narcissism is when someone's narcissistic qualities—entitlement, braggadocio, and self-obsession—are openly displayed, often at the expense of others," Neo says. Grandiose narcissists can be charming but often lack empathy. In conversations, they don't relate to people, Neo explains, but rather one-up them. This might be because they crave attention, enjoy seeing others hurt and confused, or both.

farano, Rocktation

Christianity EtcRe: What Happens When a Narcissist Becomes a Church Leader? - Dr. Sam Vaknin by cocolacec(op): 3:58pm On Jul 22, 2020
narc

Christianity EtcRe: What Happens When a Narcissist Becomes a Church Leader? - Dr. Sam Vaknin by cocolacec(op): 3:54pm On Jul 22, 2020
narcs

PoliticsHow To Break Strong African Minds: 500 Years Of Insanity by cocolacec(op): 5:36pm On Jul 21, 2020
A historical look at how The African became sick mentally physically and spiritually. This video will Prepare you for the culture shock with repatriation to the Gambia as well as the responsibilities of rebuilding a new society in the motherland.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3jyYNa-ZqdM
PoliticsBad Habits In Nigeria Et Al Will Frustrate You Beyond Belief by cocolacec(op): 4:58pm On Jul 21, 2020
This is a real look at how the average Gambian does business and its frustrating. Poverty and colonialism has played a huge part in the way people handle legitimate business. Its clear to see why their economic growth has been non existent. Be warned before coming here. It's not all roses... but your personal network IS CRUCIAL


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=89KxYk4_Lug
RomanceRe: Ghana, Nigeria, Dubai : Ritual Sex, Beastiality, Fetish Sex -The Sex Worker by cocolacec(op): 1:50pm On Jul 21, 2020
The Sub-culture of Gay White Men Traveling to Africa

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwKga5sbfl4
RomanceGhana, Nigeria, Dubai : Ritual Sex, Beastiality, Fetish Sex -The Sex Worker by cocolacec(op):
My Clients Perspective of their experience Escorting and Prostitution in Ghana Nigeria Dubai and Atlanta - the Fetishes and Westernized Sex


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wVHsQF_Djtk
RomanceRe: Please Help! I Have Over Dependent Girlfriend Relationship Is Demoralizing Me by cocolacec(m): 12:40pm On Jul 21, 2020
Olamila:
Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.

Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.

She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so.
I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.

FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.

Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things.
I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
As a brother ,It is better you quit the relationship.A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.Your girlfriend doesnt love,she will dump you the moment she finds herself a better man in her fantasy.i.e obodo oyinbo comes along ,she will dump you without remorse.
RomanceRe: "What Happened When I Followed My Boyfriend To Germany" by cocolacec(m): 11:56am On Jul 21, 2020
Lustknabe come and see what your fellow country men do to our beautiful black sisters.
RomanceRe: White German Man Looking For Black Ladies To Make Mixed Babies by cocolacec(m): 11:36am On Jul 21, 2020
Lustknabe:
Hello friends!

I am 28yo white man from Germany and I looking for nice black women to make babies with so the woman can then move and live in Germany. Making babies with man from Germany automatically means you are allowed to move to Germany, so this is your chance! So here is what I thought: You visit Germany and we meet, then we make love (very sweet and gentle, I am good lover) until you are pregnant with my baby. Then you go to government office and say you pregnant from German, so you automatically get residence permit. German government also pays you good money for having children here, because birth rates are low, very low. Then you can live here and child automatically have German passport. I think this is a great idea and win-win for all, because all I want is making many beautiful mixed babies with beautiful black women.

If you interested please write me I looking forward to make love and babies with some beautiful black women.

XOXOXO,

Jonas
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martolux:
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