ezychris: Thanks bro... What about using the account statement of my sponsor here in Nigeria?
It is better you use a bank statement in your name as an adult.Try build an impressive bank statement over some months i.e engineer who earns N300,000 /month
Please how long did it take them to process his Danish Visa Application? I have an application with them since the 15th of August and I haven't heard anything from them and the travel date is next week Saturday (9th of September).
I think it took 2 months because they had technical problems last year.
ezychris: Please guys.... I intend to visit a family member in the schengen area. I'll like to know if I would still be needing my account statement for a schengen visa if my host has opted to be my sponsor and provide theirs. Cc ladylco, eluquenson, cocolacec
I think its better you provide your own bank statement and not sponsor.A friend recently got denied for biz visa in denmark despite using a danish company as sponsor.
Europe is currently battling with migrants influx and asylum seekers so the embassies are extra cautious nowsadays.I think its better you apply with an older relative like a pensioner as someone accompanying the person.Lets see what others have to say.
ebyjoyken: I feel so sad, I summited the relevant documents all genuine. yet they refused me. please who can explain this reason to me in a lay's man English " The information submitted regarding the justification for the purpose and condition of your intended stay was not reliable"
In this exclusive encounter with Asabe Afrika TV, legendary theatre man and movie icon, High Chief Jimoh Aliu (MFR) aka Oba Asa lectured men, especially African men and particularly his tribe, the Yorubas on the implications of sleeping with a woman and telling it all which is famously known as "Kiss and Tell".
The 82 years old legendary theatre icon and traditional medicine practitioner gave cogent reasons why such acts lead men to self
dna4ril: hello gyz! I am in an emotionally demented state of mind now, due to a relationship of 6yrs and counting I have been in,such as I treasure so much and I foresee is about to crash. NEED UR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE.....Those who hav been in a similar relationship and have survived should pls share.Pls lets keep it professional.My heart is pounding as I type this, Make no joke of this. and If you ev got no chill , dont bother cos this is quite an epistle.
Kk 2011,we met in our 100 days, I was 21, she was 19. she was so amazing and still is, I fell in love immedaitely, with my swags and all she couldnt resist. we were best friends, she helped me severally in many ways, I did too. fast foward to final yr, I gave her my first kiss and all apart from sex. I loved her to want to marry her so even when i had the chances it wasnt much of a temptation to resist. I had a first class , she made 2:1.... service yr came, I was posted to taraba, she worked her way to PH where she stays, lets I forget, we met in a private university and her parents are quite wealthy, this I didnt no until we had fallen in love, she said she delibrately hid that from me.Anyways orientation camp camp 2015, I was posted to TARABA state. I couldnt bare the feeling of life without her, I met no real friends, I was alwys calling her , we were tied together apparently. so she spoke t her mum to help in directing my posting...
I thought it was a joke, put in for redeployment and Ph I went. We finally had the chance to see each other again after school.I was lucky enough that the house I eventualy got to stay was just a minute distance to her house. We were really close that one yr, I went to her house like Kilode, her mum,siblings all saw me and i felt the warm rception.Just for those who ar thinkg that I eat her "pekkus", I didnt stil, all the "close toos" why cos I felt I sholdnt If really loved her, thats my opinio sha...I mean apart from this incidencs there wer times in school , when we went out, alot so thats just me.
Service yr gave me the chance to know this girl really well, so much so that when I was leaving her i said to her,dupe. lets assume thats her name. ''Dupe I can confidently leave you now" As against my inability during orietation. cos we had knitted together in several ways in those yrs, thought and planed our future, prayed together, disgreed and agreed etc, you gyz no all those things na....
Aiit,now late 2015 I left Ph back to the west, leaving her with her parents...I mean life has started in real sense. I started applying,dint get a job, lets I forget I took my professional exams while in ph with her so you dont think am an NFA, Ihave alwz been that ambituos gy, i mean one of the reasons I know she fell in love with me back den in sch. By early 2016,I took up a voluntary job, got some experience and rcommendation that led to my first job of about 80k.....She was happy for me an all, so i was but I knew within me, I hadnt found the right job that will sustain the life I need to leave if I will end up with her, so I pressed on more... Meanwhile In the passage of time, now that the relatioship is now long distance, I made sure I visited her Once in 3mnths ..I go to Ph to pay her a visit of days, meet her , her parents, I didnt meet with her dad until after service yr..After meeting him in one of the occasions of my visit, he will hand me full cash as TP back, I felt rlunctant collecting it , but then, I thought to humble mysef.
Things went fyn as time passed asided the once a while minor issues that prop up due to distance and when I see tht its becoming an issue , I know its time to pay a visit. On my home front, I had told my parents about her, My mum seem receptive of her as an "OMOLUABI" but my dad ......hmmmn Undecisive, U no men and their ways ...She got to meet my parents and siblings On our convocation day and since then shes been checking once a while and all,just like I have very good rapor with her mum.
Genngeenn.....Then Late 2016 she mentioned travelling abroad for masters, she has been working a while. I liked the idea even thought there and then I felt waaoooo...its gonna be a diff ball game.Anywz , I encouraged her, supported her sef, remembering Closing my account to buy her a pair of White Nike Trainers.....such as I av not worn mysef....What men do for love and gave her on the night before her dparture . She left may 2017 and I was with mixed feelings, but with the lady I had spent one yr fully with , sch life experience nothwithstandind ,i Felt all will be well.
So I got encourgaged mysef, picked up my cv and started applying, recently I got anther job , almost twice of my previous pay....I felt am begining to be in shape for this my girl....cos looking at her background, we are leagues apart though we met at a top rated private university, But then this girl has been like a queen, character, beauty, homely, she can cook for the middle east.....lol, godly, there were many times she helped my sexual moods and all, can go on and this is the reason why I treated her so highly, I built my life practically around her....
She relocated and almost immediately things changed....she kept a distance and we werent i comm, it took me a while to realize that I was been too greedy , I mean she just relocated for study, she will need time to settle, register, no her ways around and all. When I got this, I gave her time and really she came around. comm was alot better, we began chatting more, calling , even vedio....I then was able to assist her in some of her assignments.......
But lately , In the past One month, what used to be a source of joy to me, is begining to be a source of worry....... We quarell now more often than not at lttle things she abuses me by disrespecting me ,,the ladies mght not fully grasp this......She ignores she determines when we talk and when she leaves.... she no longer conects , that chemistry is lacking , thou we talk, we dont communicate she doesnt rely my sexual words like geting all dirty and all there is alwz an excuse for anyting she doesnt make explanatins except asked.. I gave my sis and mum her Uk no to call her and check up on her, she ignores my sis and mums call She can shout at you, what sm ple can nagging, So many , can go on and on
I tried talking to her once and telling her how I felt, she poured it out on me, not seeing any fault on her part....I have seen my self suffering so much and am wandering, is this the dead end or just another phase...I have thought a break up with her times over even though i still care , but am wandering may be Its me, misinterpreting, been quick to judge, or may be its me suffering with Low self esteem that , I think am not fit for her, I mean I live a responsible and simple life nd to God be the glory, I have a good job....I have also thought may be painfully its time to move on, our lifes have taken diff courses, but then i ask , is that a reason to just jettison 6 lovely yrs of being with her, maybe shes found a new attention ova dia, i HAVE PRAYED PRAYED PRAYED for those who will say go and pray, I have, there as even one night recently I thought to whine God, I said. " God if you can just speak to me in my dreams tonyt about who this girl really is before i take a decision , I will speak to -- no of persons about who Good a God you are" Am sure God was laughing at me , COs i woke up miserable feeling and hearing nothing, But i will still persist, I have an idea he rewards those who seek him diligently....If I can get that Info, then I know My problem is solved....but in the interim PROFESSIONAL ADVICE ON WHAT I SHOULD DO PLS......... Thanks for those who read through.....
Mr loverboy i understand your plight very well.I feel she might be lonely in a new environment and stressed out with school work et all.Why dont you try apply for a visa and pay her a suprise visit. If she truly loves she will not mind which level you both start from.Have you proposed marriage to her before she left Nigeria?
I am a poor man's daughter, But I'll fill your life with laughter, You don't have to search any longer, You'll never find a love any stronger, Uuuyeah.
I don't care about a fancy car, I want you just the way you are, (just the way you are!) I know your heart is made of gold, You warm me up when it's so cold
Come on and take, take my love is free, I just want you to be with me, Take, take my love is free, Please honey, come stay with me,
What good is the time arguing, To me doesn't mean a thing, I don't care if you have no money, Coz money can't buy me honey,
Even animals aren't this bad.. we humans especially blacks have lost it.
Rituals sacrifice is a global evil encircling the world. Whites are no better in this aspect.Search for this video on The Candy girl -Fiona Barnett(Australia) on Youtube you will be amased about what she says.
I remembered watching a documentary about Albania where Men,women and children are kidnapped for either sex traffiking and organs harvesting.
As long as there are Satanist amongst us things like this will continue to happen .Only Almighty God can protect from the evils of the World.
MissRaine69: I am sure that's the plan eventually but FIRST one must get into Germany.
Marrying a German woman is not the priority but to seek asylum because Germany has the best asylum package in Europe as well as good job prospects.Eritreans have a high chance (87%) of getting their asylum request granted in all of Europe same as Syrians.
MissRaine69: I am sure that's the plan eventually but FIRST one must get into Germany.
Marrying a German woman is not the priority but to seek asylum because Germany has the best asylum package in europe as well as good job prospects.Eritreans have a high chance (87%) of getting their asylum request granted in all of Europe same as Syrians.
Moyinoluwa35: i weak for islam...God preach forgiveness..humanity is cruel to each other.
Pray such incident happen to your own chid then you can preach forgiveness.Only the one who wears the shoe knows where it hurts.The accused killed a human being so his punishment is death.
lisbonabdulahi: Hello Nairalanders, please I need you advice before I finally end this marriage. I know I was at fault at the beginning for not stamping my authority , I showed her so much love, because she is a product of a broken home, I wanted her to know there is much more to life, now she has turned my love to foolishness, I do not want my kids to grow up without a father. That is why I have been very patient, but now … please read on.
I have been married for 11 years, with 4 kids. The truth is that we have never had really peace in the home for these years, everything is trouble, from the way I talk, eat, dress, use the toilet and sleep, just name them. The situation has been bad from the beginning, but the last three years has been hell for me and the kids, my wife shouts and complain over everything, she cannot go one full day with Joy, there is always one thing that annoys her, she has to be right on all issues, The very sad part is that whenever she does anything wrong and I ask her, there will be trouble, she will refuse to speak with me for as long as she like. We can go for weeks without really speaking with each other she enjoys it, she does not just bother at all. Each time these things happen, I am always the one that try to initiate peace.
I will like to give only one example to summarise everything going on in my home: two years ago, she will just leave the home without telling me, I called her and told her it is not right, she replied me promptly that it is her life, I can’t control her, and it is my life as well, I should do whatever I like with it. well I thought it was anger, however, I never mind, anytime I want to leave, I make sure I tell her till one day she called me and tell me that even if I keep informing her about my movements, that she is not going to change, she is not under any obligation to tell me where she is going to. My people, for two years counting now, that is how we have been doing it, we just leave without telling each other. BUT OCCASSIONALLY FOR SOME REASONS I DON’T KNOW, SHE WILL JUST TELL ME SHE IS GOING OUT TO XYZ.
She always insults me and even the kids, for any mistake they make and she never fails to tell them that they did not inherit their bad character from her, that they inherited their character from me, she says this consistently even when I am there. There is no insult she has not poured on me, I have had to explain to her mother severally but the woman is simply helpless, her mother is dead scared of her. She exhibited some of these characters during our two years of courtship, but her mother and some brethren advised that she will change after marriage. She is always complaining of being tired, meanwhile, I do the dishes, do the vacuuming (sweeping), cleaning and other domestic duties, even when she cooks, I have to cut the ingredients and all that, in short she rarely cooks. We sleep in different rooms for 4 years counting now, occasionally I try to go to her room to initiate sex, but 99% of cases she chase me away, sometime she locks her door. She stopped me from sleeping in same room with her, when I asked why, shy did not say anything but after 4 months she said it was because I was snoring at night. Trust me anytime I am opportune to make love to her I make sure she climaxes…
It is so bad that even her sisters sometimes rebuke her in my presence, presently, she is not in talking terms with any of her siblings, and this has been on for the past three years. I am stuck with this lady, her mother cannot talk to her, no family member she respects. She is a loner. To the extent that she makes friends and they always break up, she has no real close friends, even if they are close, trust me, before 6 months the relationship has gone sour.
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lisbonabdulahi: Like I said, I do not want my girls to grow without a father, just like my wife there mother
Is your wife finish or a Nigerian? I think you and your wife need to go for a vacation like 7 days without the kids to another city or country to spice us your married life.
Jaynom: Hmmn. Women! ..... Fear Them. Why Didn't she just divorce the Man? Why didn't she elope with her Lover? Why kill the poor man? Men that would kill their wives for their mistresses are rare, heck! Only a rare breed of men would dump their wives for their their lovers. But women? Fear Them.
Some Men kill their wives for mistresses too and even claim life insurance benefit after the crime.It happens in advanced like America.
I had a chat with someone who's working at a filling station (petrol station) days ago in UK and she earns £1000 in a month . Imagine when you change that to our Nigerian currency . OKAY, LET'S DO A LITTLE MATHEMATICS
£1pounds = #300 Naira (definitely more than this )
She earns 1000.
1000 × 300 =300,000
So SHE EARNS 300K EVERY MONTH .
Tell me why wont she be happy and proud of her job, she have bills to pay and she'll still keep some change for feeding and savings ....you're a graduate right ? tell me what bills you want to pay from 15k per month and where is your savings ...lol Here in Nigeria, I can't even walk up to a lady that works at a FILLING STATION andwoo her , I will be told I just finished downgrading myself....gosh. HOW I WISH MAKE I BE ONE PETROL SELLER FOR UK, I GO DEY SAVE 200K EVERY MONTH ...HOW MUCH BE THAT FOR 1 YEAR??
Unfortunately You can only afford to save 200k if you starve and sleep on the street in UK. Half or more of the £1,000 goes to rent,gas and water depending on his locality.The rest of the money will go to feeding,buscard fare ,family demands etc.How much do you think you can really save after all this?
olokeded: The Federal Government has approved the closure of five foreign missions and embassies, Minister of Foreign Affairs, Mr Geoffrey Onyeama said.
Onyeama told newsmen in Abuja on Thursday, but he did not name the affected embassies or missions, but said the process for closure was underway and was also subject to the approval of the president.
“We do not want to indicate the embassies that will be closed yet because we are in the process of submitting the proposals, the cost analysis and also the political analysis we did to the president.
“When he sees that, he may or may not want to close some, so we have not yet reached the stage of closing some,” he said.
The minister also reiterated that the closing missions abroad were “extremely expensive”.
“The expense, costs of closing embassies is so high and prohibitive but in the long run it will more economical.”
The minister, on April 10, told NAN the closure of Nigerian missions abroad is inevitable.
He admitted that it is expensive to close a country’s embassy but quickly added that in the long run the policy will be beneficial to Nigerians.
Onyeama stressed that the reduction of Nigeria’s foreign missions remains on the agenda of the Muhammadu Buhari administration.
Buhari had said at the inception of his administration that the Federal Government will reduce the number of missions to save cost.
Nigeria currently has 119 foreign missions.
Onyeama said: “The government is following up on that and we have sort of prepared the roadmap; we have started the implementation of that and made also recommendations in that context.
“Paradoxically, closing missions is extremely expensive. At first sight it seems obvious that you close it you are saving cost but you will actually find that the cost of closing is almost prohibitive.
“But in the long run it will be cheaper, but in the immediate and short term it is expensive but we have started the process,” he said.(NAN)
REGULATION (EC) No 767/2008 OF THE EUROPEAN PARLIAMENT AND OF THE COUNCIL of 9 July 2008 concerning the Visa Information System (VIS) and the exchange of data between Member States on short-stay visas (VIS Regulation)
6. One or more member state(s) consider you to be a threat to public policy, internal security, public health as defined in Article 2(19) of Regulation (EC) No 562/2006 (Schengen Borders Code) or the international relations of one or more of the member states). • You have submitted fake or false documents and / or made contradictory statements. • You have attempted deceit. • You have a negative entry in the AZR (Central Register of Foreigners); as long as this remains, it is usually not possible to grant you a visa.
7. Proof of holding an adequate and valid travel medical insurance was not provided. • You have not submitted any adequate travel health insurance (minimum coverage sum of 30,000 euros / all Schengen states).
8. The information submitted regarding the justification for the purpose and conditions of the intended stay was not reliable. • You have made contradictory statements on the purpose of stay.
9. Your intention to leave the territory of the member states before the expiry of the visa could not be ascertained • The Embassy has to work out a return prediction. The documents you have submitted or your other information were not sufficient to predict a positive result as far as your intended trip is concerned. The Embassy takes amongst others the following facts into consideration: • The family ties to Ghana (spouse, minor children, guardian-unions etc.) • The professional binding (existence of a fixed employment relationship) • The economic bond (regular income from rents or real estate assets) • The employment relationship has not been established / confirmed. • Proper use of Schengen-Visa in the past • Changes in the personal situation since the granting of the last Schengen-Visa
Please note that the above list refers to the most common causes of a visa refusal. It shall therefore not be taken for an exhaustive list.
1. A false/counterfeit/forged travel document was presented.
2. Justification for the purpose and conditions of the intended stay was not provided in particular is considered to represent a specific risk of illegal immigration pursuant to Part V of the Common Consular Instructions;. • The relevant documents (please see visa requirements) were not submitted. • The documents submitted could not ascertain your purpose of stay. • The existence of a family relationship was not substantiated with adequate documentary evidence • The requested duration of stay is not consistent with any leave entitlements. • The previous visas granted on the invitation of the same host have not been used to enter Germany, although the visas have been given for this purpose. • The flight and hotel reservation submitted has been canceled in the meantime.
3. You have not provided proof of sufficient means of subsistence for the duration of the intended stay or for the return to the country of origin or residence, or for the transit to a third country into which you are certain to be admitted, or you are not in a position to acquire such means lawfully. • You have provided no or insufficient evidence for having the financial means for the duration of your stay. • Please have a look at the visa requirements and the information concerning your specific travel purpose. Please prepare the documents in the requested manner in case of a future application. • Please note that only a simple bank confirmation without bank statements for the last 3 months is not sufficient as proof of financing.
4. You have already stayed for 90 days during the current 180-day period on the territory of the member states on the basis of a uniform visa or a visa with limited territorial validity. • Generally, you are only allowed to stay 90 days within a period of 180 days in the Schengen-Area. The validity of the requested visa would exceed the maximum period of time of 90 days within 180 days. • You did already stay longer than 90 days within 180 days in the Schengen area.
5. An alert has been issued in the Schengen Information System (SIS) for the purpose of refusing entry • You have a negative entry in the SIS; as long as this remains, it is usually not possible to grant you a visa.
Travel › Re: Reasons For Schengen Visa Refusal (explanation) by cocolacec(op): 11:29am On Sep 02, 2017
