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Muslim father shows Mercy to the man who murdered his son because “Forgiveness is the greatest gift in Islam,” Abdul-Mumin Jitmoud said during the hearin
The father of a slain Muslim pizza delivery driver forgave and embraced the man who was sentenced to prison for playing a part in his son's death.

During the sentencing on Tuesday, Abdul-Munim Sombat Jitmoud hugged the defendant, Trey Alexander Relford, who cried as it happened.
The father said he did it in the spirit of Islam.
"Islam teaches that God will not be able to forgive" someone until the person who was wronged forgives that person, Jitmoud told CNN affiliate WKYT. "The door of opportunity for God to forgive him is open. ... So, reach out to Him. You have a new chapter of good life coming," he told Relford in court.
In April 2015, Salahuddin Jitmoud was making one of his last deliveries for the night as a Pizza Hut delivery driver when he was stabbed to death and robbed at an apartment complex in Lexington, Kentucky, according to WKYT. His body was found lying in the breezeway of the complex.
Three people were arrested in the crime, but a grand jury chose only to indict Relford, WKYT reported. Officials say Relford planned the robbery, but he denied killing Jitmoud.
Relford was sentenced to 31 years in prison after pleading guilty to complicity to murder, complicity to robbery, and attempted evidence tampering in the stabbing death of Jitmoud.
Jitmoud's father told Relford he forgives him "on behalf of Salahuddin and his mother," who died two years before her son.
"It's been two years and seven months of suffering along with many nightmares," Jitmoud told CNN. "Whatever happens to you is from Allah. Let the believer put their trust in Him."
According to CNN affiliate WLEX, Relford told the Jitmoud family, "There's not much I can really say. I'm sorry about what happened that day. I cannot do nothing to give that back to you."
Despite this, Jitmoud reached a place of forgiveness.
"I'm angry at the devil, who's misguiding you and misleading you to do such a horrible crime," Jitmoud told Relford in court Tuesday. "I don't blame you. I'm not angry at you. I forgive you."
He said he read the Quran more often to find peace. The 51st verse of the ninth chapter of the Quran is one verse that comforted him the most.
"Say, 'Never will we be struck except by what Allah has decreed for us; He is our protector.' And upon Allah [God] let the believers rely."
After the sentencing, Jitmoud said he whispered into Relford's ear to "do good deeds" when he gets out of prison and that he has "confidence that Allah is forgiving."

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtrDH0dJFNY


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xrjocWGyjbk

UK minister Derren Brown EXPOSES: LYING, MASS OCCULT HYPNOSIS and the psychological power of SUGGESTION, the use of Guest cards, radio receivers, silly STAGED shoe adjustments, and CHARLATANS relying on temporary adrenalin rushes FAKING those they "heal", etc...
-- ALL of these are the OLDEST TRICKS in the book of these SUSPICIOUSLY PROFESSIONAL CON MEN!
"I think the saddest part of the critique is the just seeing the deep grief in Ole Anthony's eyes as he recounts the story of a young girl with multiple sclerosis who committed suicide after a faith healer told her that the reason she wasn't healed after giving him $1,000 was because she had secret sin in her life. Just about the most heartbreaking, abusive thing a so-called "man of God" could do to a child."
-- from the "Pentecostal Heresies" Facebook fan page


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kshroUx967o

The Full Documentary
False Spirits Invade The Church-Kundalini WARNING


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2X1HC-3s3uI

Kundalini energy is an ancient concept derived from Hindu texts and ancient yogic scripts. Kundalini is a Sanskrit term that translates to “coiled one,” which is why the symbol for Kundalini energy incorporates a serpent coiled around the spine approximately three and a half times. Kundalini is often illustrated using two serpents intertwined around one another as they twist upwards, ascending the spine in a circular motion, representing the awakening and balancing of each chakra.

Shocking footage of one of the worst "invasions" of false spirits that the church has ever seen. Proof that she has been invaded by counterfeit spirits on a worldwide scale. This is Part One of a documentary tracing this massive invasion - and showing the terrible impact it has had. Please share it with your friends.

Leaders and movements involved:
prophetic, apostolic, todd bentley, lakeland revival, rick joyner, morningstar, toronto blessing, new mystics, john crowder, ihop, mike bickle, patricia king, false revival, the river, bob jones, john paul jackson, sid roth, chuck pierce, bill johnson, randy clark, peter wagner, dutch sheets, pentecostal,


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCcGaTRwG_4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWeUNoR30_0

olaboy1:
And I never said they marry men from 3rd world countries out of pity. What I wrote initially was that they do it just to massage their low self esteem.

And by reading your posts I can see you are yet to tear into the skin of this society, which is understandable because we all roll in this society at different places and with different people.

Just because the white man/woman has perfected his antics and game doesn’t mean you believe everything you read from Durex condom by saying Nigerian women cheat the most. I’m sure you don’t know Swedes do juju, and you would argue that also.

If your Swedish is good I will post several links from closed forums to know what’s going on underground here. They cheat more than Nigerian women sir, and I am categorically stating this. The cheating always happen on weekends after vodka as they all told me that’s when we get so hor..ny

As for generalizations, I’m not a kid who doesn’t understand what it means to generalize, but Sweden is the only country I am not worried about generalizing about, they do not only look phenotypically the same, they act same way. Swedes know this so you don’t need to argue about this because they have all admitted this. Nigeria is 180m and we don’t look alike right? So go back and read the incest I talked about, it doesn’t just make people look alike it also makes them behave alike, we are talking genes and DNA here.

The guy cheated on is an ethnic white Swede in a 5yr living together civil partnership with his girl, just so you don’t think it’s a case of a blonde bimbo just using my African friend for sex.

While the Swedish women go for black men , their men go for mostly Thai women as brides

olaboy1:
And I never said they marry men from 3rd world countries out of pity. What I wrote initially was that they do it just to massage their low self esteem.

And by reading your posts I can see you are yet to tear into the skin of this society, which is understandable because we all roll in this society at different places and with different people.

Just because the white man/woman has perfected his antics and game doesn’t mean you believe everything you read from Durex condom by saying Nigerian women cheat the most. I’m sure you don’t know Swedes do juju, and you would argue that also.

If your Swedish is good I will post several links from closed forums to know what’s going on underground here. They cheat more than Nigerian women sir, and I am categorically stating this. The cheating always happen on weekends after vodka as they all told me that’s when we get so hor..ny

As for generalizations, I’m not a kid who doesn’t understand what it means to generalize, but Sweden is the only country I am not worried about generalizing about, they do not only look phenotypically the same, they act same way. Swedes know this so you don’t need to argue about this because they have all admitted this. Nigeria is 180m and we don’t look alike right? So go back and read the incest I talked about, it doesn’t just make people look alike it also makes them behave alike, we are talking genes and DNA here.

The guy cheated on is an ethnic white Swede in a 5yr living together civil partnership with his girl, just so you don’t think it’s a case of a blonde bimbo just using my African friend for sex.

Hej please can you post me the forum about juju.I was at an open market in Hultsfred and i could see all kinds of spells being sold.

ladylco:
That is not true, you can apply through any of the schengel countries, all you need tp do is to defend the reason for refusal, you can reapply and write explaining how reliable your documents and purpose of visit is. I had a similar experiences in the past, on one occasion, my sister whom I put in application for was refused, I reapplied and I stated her defence and she was granted then another occasion, i was involve, i just wrote them and i was called apologised to and i was asked to bring my passport along with those whom i submitted with and we were all granted. But of course all your documents must be genuine.

Dont even bother appealing as they will not even attend to it, it simply a waste of time as the appeal will never be attended to.

All the best

Hi ladylco,
I have a relative of 60yrs who wants to apply for schengen visa.She has a US. Visa and doesnot av a company.Her occupation is selling foodstuffs .she has closing bank statment of abt 2m or more

She wants to take a 4 day tour in schengen zone from US.What are her chances of getting a schengen visa and additional document she needs apartfrom the general requirement?Thanks

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lEb__mhFpVw

Isoko1stSon:
How does this connotes war in West Africa ?

Pls let dem invade Nigeria ki all d Zoo animals

You think your family members wont be affected if US decides to invade Nigeria .For your information ,the US already have military bases under AFRICOM only waiting for the right time to strike when the opportunity arises.

WHEN THE PENTAGON peers into its crystal ball, the images reflected back are bleak.

On May 23, 2023, in one imagining from the U.S. military, terrorists detonate massive truck-bombs at both the New York and New Jersey ends of the Lincoln Tunnel. The twin explosions occur in the southern-most of the three underground tubes at 7:10 a.m., the beginning of rush hour when the subterranean roadway is packed with commuters making their way to work.

The attack kills 435 people and injures another 618. Eventually, we’ll come to know that it could have been much worse. The plan was to drive the trucks to “high profile targets” elsewhere in Manhattan. Somehow, though, the bombs detonated early.

This spectacular attack, which would result in the highest casualties on U.S. soil since 9/11, isn’t the hackneyed work of a Hollywood screenwriter — it is actually one of the key plot points from a recent Pentagon war game played by some of the military’s most promising strategic thinkers. This attack, and the war it sparks, provide insights into the future as envisioned by some of the U.S. military’s most important imagineers and the training of those who will be running America’s wars in the years ahead.

The “5/23” terror attack was a small but pivotal part of a simulated exercise conducted last year by students and faculty from the U.S. military’s war colleges, which are the training grounds for prospective generals and admirals. Sprawling and intricate, the 33rd annual Joint Land, Air and Sea Strategic Special Program (JLASS-SP) brought together 148 students from the U.S. Air Force’s Air War College, the Army War College, the Marine Corps War College, the Naval War College, the Eisenhower School for National Security and Resource Strategy, the National War College, and the National Defense University’s Information Resources Management College. They collaborated for several weeks of remote war-gaming conducted via “cyberspace tools, telephones and video teleconferencing,” according to Pentagon documents obtained by The Intercept. It culminated in a five-day on-site exercise at the Air Force Wargaming Institute at Maxwell Air Force Base in Alabama.

The materials used in JLASS-SP — obtained via the Freedom of Information Act — detail the chaotic tenure of an imaginary 46th president, Karl Maxwell McGraw, and offer a

https://www.google.se/amp/s/www.rt.com/document/59edd624fc7e93e4288b4567/amp/407527-us-west-africa-invasion-drill

https://www.google.se/amp/s/static.theintercept.com/amp/the-u-s-will-invade-west-africa-in-2023-after-an-attack-in-new-york-according-to-pentagon-war-game.html

The videos posted is about a member of Mountain of fire and Miracles Ministries,Valencia Spain who got paralysed while doing church’s work(upcoming crusade) in 2010.He talked about the bad treatment he got from his church and inability to see G.O for miracles while he was in Spain in 2012.

The church in Valencia Spain was asked to pay him a sum of €250,000 as damages and compensation which was contested by hiring well know lawyers At the end of the day the damages was increased to €280,000,he had only received €3,000 so far.

He pleaded towards the end of the programme that the money is not his priority but a miracle from Daddy G.O to walk again and cater for his family as a responsible man would.


https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=88s&v=HzO_A9kxVWs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m3dTidt6TZs



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jWHuJfWRnhg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Ett4XnnBGI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=32s&v=AYxeTjrckl0


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8oXhYVm2MW8

Mr Idiagbon is rumoured to be a relation of the Vice-Chancellor, Abdul Ganiyu Ambali has allegedly taken up a new role as a professor at a tertiary school in Gombe State.



Faith on the other hand is facing a possibility of expulsion from the University of Ilorin based on claims that she falsely registered Asa Local Government Area of Kwara state as her local government of origin.

The victim, who reportedly lost her father 20 years ago is originally from Ondo State.

Abdulraheem Garuba, a close friend of her late father became her foster parent following an adoption that has seen him assume the role of a progenitor in Faith’s life.

Some camps have perceived the focus on such trivial matter as a desperate means employed by the university to punish her for exposing Idiagbon, when she should be in fact protected and praised for her bravery.


http://www.pulse.ng/gist/university-of-ilorin-in-this-institution-female-students-who-suffer-sexual-harassment-are-the-haunted-id6743301.html

Joephat:
I heard they don't conduct interview, is it true?

Yes most schengen countries dont conduct interviews unless it is necessary.

Good day everyone,AbujaNiV,LagosNIV

Please i have an old relative who is about to apply for US visa in Abuja/ Lagos.
Does anyone know how many days it takes to issue the visa In Abuja/Lagos if it is granted.

ladylco:
Put in German tourist/ business visas for my siblings on 21st sept and 26th sept respectively, visas were granted on 28th sept and 6th oct respectively

I have a friend who had applied for schengen visa 3 times this year and he was refused despite fulfilling all the requirement what do you think might be the reason for multiple refusals.

Reason is always ’Justification for the purpose and conditions of the intended stay was not provided’

How can the Church ask godparents to reject Satan in its liturgy of christening when it's hosting this sort of event?" he asked. "There are people dressed up of Lucifer! There are women and men walking around with demonic symbols."
https://media.breitbart.com/media/2017/09/satanic-show-4.jpg
Hilton also criticized the church, asking, "How is this consistent with its (the church's) mission? Did the resident clergy approve this event? … How is it possible that a sacred space can be used for what can only be described as Lucifer lauding? How does hosting a Satanic Fashion Show glorify God?"

The church was founded 1,000 years ago and rebuilt by Sir Christopher Wren after the Great Fire of London in 1666. Its current vicar is the Bishop of Fulham, Jonathan Baker.

Since the church requires that the backdrop be approved by it before an event, Hilton further asked, "Did they seriously consent to the altar being shrouded by pentagrams, goat heads, inverted crosses, all-seeing eyes and other occult paraphernalia?"

Designer Findikoglu, who grew up with Muslim parents in Istanbul, recently told Vogue magazine that she is interested in parapsychology, the occult and "magic stuff."

"I'm into parapsychology and all the occult and magic stuff, so when I was reading those books, they thought I was going to be a Satanist," she said. "I don't like how religion divides people into groups."

About her work, she said, "Most of my instinct comes from what I like and who I am. My work is mostly the things that are in me and I'm exploring. I use a lot of religious iconography — or occult symbols, magic symbols — even if I don't believe in them."

http://www.christianpost.com/amp/uk-church-apologizes-hosting-fashion-show-glorifying-satan-200249/

An Anglican church in London has apologized for allowing a Turkish fashion designer to use its altar as a runway for models who donned outfits with demonic symbolism, including inverted crosses and devil horns, for what was publicized as a satanic fashion show.
https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/09/23/22/44A37EC500000578-0-image-a-13_1506202457074.jpg
St Andrew's Church in Holborn, which was founded 1,000 years ago, was used by designer Dilara Findikoglu to flaunt her spring/summer 2018 collection as part of the fashion week, but the Diocese of London says it didn't know what it entailed.
https://archbishopcranmer.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Satanic-Fashion-Show-1a.jpg
"The parish of St Andrew's has always supported London Fashion Week. We took this booking in good faith and were not aware of the content or design before the show took place," a spokesperson said in a statement to the U.K.'s Premier news portal.

"This was obviously a mistake, and the content of this show does not reflect the Christian faith of the Church," the Diocese added. "We will be looking at our booking processes going forward to ensure this does not happen again."

It "glorified demon worship," theologian Adrian Hilton from the Archbishop Cramner blog told Premier, and called the church's decision to host the event — that included tarot card imagery and models exposing their breasts — "bizarre" because it "glorifies Satan."

Watch the video below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kc0IQN5sB5A

How can the Church ask godparents to reject Satan in its liturgy of christening when it's hosting this sort of event?" he asked. "There are people dressed up of Lucifer! There are women and men walking around with demonic symbols."
https://media.breitbart.com/media/2017/09/satanic-show-4.jpg
Hilton also criticized the church, asking, "How is this consistent with its (the church's) mission? Did the resident clergy approve this event? … How is it possible that a sacred space can be used for what can only be described as Lucifer lauding? How does hosting a Satanic Fashion Show glorify God?"

The church was founded 1,000 years ago and rebuilt by Sir Christopher Wren after the Great Fire of London in 1666. Its current vicar is the Bishop of Fulham, Jonathan Baker.

Since the church requires that the backdrop be approved by it before an event, Hilton further asked, "Did they seriously consent to the altar being shrouded by pentagrams, goat heads, inverted crosses, all-seeing eyes and other occult paraphernalia?"

Designer Findikoglu, who grew up with Muslim parents in Istanbul, recently told Vogue magazine that she is interested in parapsychology, the occult and "magic stuff."

"I'm into parapsychology and all the occult and magic stuff, so when I was reading those books, they thought I was going to be a Satanist," she said. "I don't like how religion divides people into groups."

About her work, she said, "Most of my instinct comes from what I like and who I am. My work is mostly the things that are in me and I'm exploring. I use a lot of religious iconography — or occult symbols, magic symbols — even if I don't believe in them."

http://www.christianpost.com/amp/uk-church-apologizes-hosting-fashion-show-glorifying-satan-200249/

An Anglican church in London has apologized for allowing a Turkish fashion designer to use its altar as a runway for models who donned outfits with demonic symbolism, including inverted crosses and devil horns, for what was publicized as a satanic fashion show.
https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/09/23/22/44A37EC500000578-0-image-a-13_1506202457074.jpg
St Andrew's Church in Holborn, which was founded 1,000 years ago, was used by designer Dilara Findikoglu to flaunt her spring/summer 2018 collection as part of the fashion week, but the Diocese of London says it didn't know what it entailed.
https://archbishopcranmer.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Satanic-Fashion-Show-1a.jpg
"The parish of St Andrew's has always supported London Fashion Week. We took this booking in good faith and were not aware of the content or design before the show took place," a spokesperson said in a statement to the U.K.'s Premier news portal.

"This was obviously a mistake, and the content of this show does not reflect the Christian faith of the Church," the Diocese added. "We will be looking at our booking processes going forward to ensure this does not happen again."

It "glorified demon worship," theologian Adrian Hilton from the Archbishop Cramner blog told Premier, and called the church's decision to host the event — that included tarot card imagery and models exposing their breasts — "bizarre" because it "glorifies Satan."

Watch the video below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kc0IQN5sB5A

Joephat:
I heard they don't conduct interview, is it true?

True you only submit at a vfs centre but on random occassions the embassy can call for an interview as it deems fit.

Joephat:
Please, I am about applying for one of the conferences in Norway that would hold before the end of this year.

I don't know if Norway visas are easily available. I want to know my chances of getting the visa.

I think meeting the requirements should be the priority and the ability to convince them you will return to Nigeria .

Beverly1:
Hi fellow Nlanders

I was born into Catholic faith and practice till I was 12 and I enjoyed it. My parent became deeper life member while we were living apart and now a pastor in that church. I re-united with them when I was 12 and since then I've been attending the church with them and still attend Catholic occasionally....I love the preaching from the founder of deeper life as he preaches the bitter truth but I believe most other young pastor see d church "doctrine" as commandment and so must be kept 100%.....the founder of the church addressed this issue several times but NO.

18 years on since we re-united, I'm a graduate, married and living abroad but my father still forcing his believe and doctrine on me. I considered myself spiritual but not so religious. I connect with my God easily but not a 3G church guy.

He made me and my siblings antisocial and introverted simply because he believed we shouldn't be involved in any social activities even sports. I still remember being beaten for playing soccer, he believes we would be influenced badly. Watching TV was a crime especially movies.

Fast forward to yesterday he rang my wife to check on us but the first question he asked was if we attend to church. I told him it's been raining and temperature was really low....then he started lamenting asking if I won't go to work if it wasn't Sunday,complaining about the country where I can't worship God...then to get me more exasperated he asked and insisted I tell him how many time I've been to church lately and how many times I've read d bible....I told him we've been attending but he insisted on a number.

This got me so mad that I stood up for myself under a heavy breathe as I do not want to disrespect him or hangup on him.I told him I do not appreciate being asked questions like a 10 yrs old boy and at my age I should know how to live my life and what's best for me.....he got angry and said goodbye and I guess he was still on d phone but I didn't know...I just hang up.....Now I've block him from reaching me ... planning to change my numbers.....but not any financial support. Only cutting all communication with him but not with my siblings as they mean more to me and I wanna see them through as much as God help me...

Please is this not an over reaction because I loved him as he's a very responsible man who puts the family first and strived to make us who we are. But we do not av a close relationship because of his believe even though he's been forcing it.

Never disrespect your father over some little issues as this.Honour thy father and Mother.
Just tell him what will make if happy(what he likes to hear thats all.There is no need dragging with your parent over control ,

Next time he calls you OR your wife just make him feel important and tell him what his heart desires.Case settled.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z2-uttQsDqM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Bn_LsEWK7c

Yelabechi:
I am a guy of 34 and I'm married with 2kids.
I have been going through my mom's phone for a while now and things I see on it are too bad. She has been having sexchats with 3 different men, I am most certain she has met and had sex with one of them.

Background to the story....

My dad has never been the very responsible type, a chronic womanizer and he was always hurting her because she loved him to the extreme. There had been cases where she was even arrested by the police from one of his side chicks who he sponsored through school till she graduated, also a time he brought another one home who engaged in fight with my mom and nothing was done by my dad. There are so many cases like that whom i may not be able to say much on to avoid long story.

As I write this now, he has been out of the house for the past one month living with a girl of about 24. I called him severally man to man to know his motive and he said he can't just explain it but mom has not wrong him in a way because she is a good wife who knows how to take care of her man.

My mom is very beautiful and looks younger than a woman in her fifties so it is not unexpected that other men would hit on her.

I took time to imagine walking in her shoes and I understand she is really hurt, she has asked to leave his house several, I've been the one calming her down and advising her not to leave at her age. She is independent and has a good job, and according to her there is no sexual relationship between them again.

Now I know she is flirting with these men due to loniless and several heartbreak but then, it is disgusting to me that my mom is involved in that even to the point of sending nudes, I saw all these and I am just confused on how to handle this matter.

Should I confront her or just keep mute.

You dont need to confront her
I will advise you let your Mum divorce your Dad and remarry another suitor. Your Mum has needs like companionship and intimacy .why do you think oyinbo women at 60-70 years are marrying our African guys?
There is a girl in every woman and viceversa

segxi1960:
Hello Cocolacec,
Would a reservation done via hotels.com be accepted ?.

I intend to also pick the pay at hotel option.

Would that be honored at the embassy ?
Thanks

To be honest with you im not well versed in this hotel booking stuff.I will recommend this webpage for further reading.The last time i booked for someone i did it from Bookings .com .I know some embassies dont accept bookings from such sites .You can ask the embasy for clues or vfs centres.

https://www.schengenvisainfo.com/schengen-visa-application-requirements/proof-accommodation/

Drinkwater07:
In a dilemma right now, please those experienced in these kind of issues should help me.

I lost my Job at the Nigerian Breweries Last year, While I was working I made up my mind to marry my girlfriend of about 4 years now, this December. Both of us are 30 already, we are so much in love, but my job lost really hampered our marriage plans, because she is just engaged in the Npower scheme now and my cash that I saved have long almost finished right now. The reason I did not go into business with the little money I have at that time about 400k was that My elder brother in Canada promised to send me to Canada to join there. So far he have helped me secure admission for MSc. and payed my full tuition fee and even credited my account for the maintenance which the visa officers will see in my account. He also has the plans of sponsoring me through PHD also in Canada or the UK if I want. Now as I await my Visa, there is a really big issue I am fighting right now to manage.

My brother warned me to forget about any girl I have here in Nigeria, that most of them are fair weather friends, gold diggers and desperados, and that if I have anybody here in Nigeria waiting for me while I am away, that it will be a huge distraction for me. He told me he is speaking out of experience and won't want anybody to distract me while studying and hustling abroad. My girl is definitely none of what he described, she is a very good person and is never after money, She just love so much. I told him that I don't have anybody, This is to avoid him withdrawing his financial support for me or may be doubting my seriousness to succeed.

I was planning to come back and get married to my baby after my MSc, but I don't know how my brother will see it. He will be so disappointed with me, I hold my brother in so much high regard, and right from when I was a child he usually protects me so well and doesn't want anything to hamper my success, I love my girl so much, she is everything you will want in any woman. If I don't marry her I don't think I will be happy with anyone else. None of them is aware of what is bothering. How will I solve this issue.

Before you go to Canada do your wedding at the registry and obtain your marriage certificate.Once you get to Canada and you are fully settled you can can apply for her to join you as accompanying spouse .

As a student ,you can secure visas for your immediate family (wife and children) as long as you can document on your bank statement you have enough resources to support her.
I knew students who resumed school with their families like Iranians,Arabs ,South Americans.

http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/study/work-spouse.asp
Your brother talks from his own experiences which might not be the issue in your own case.A good woman is rare to find as well as true love.Dont let it slip away from you.

ezychris:
OK boss. Thanks alot

documents proving that you have enough money for your living expenses and your journey back home. Sweden requires that you have SEK 450 (€50)per day for your visit to Sweden

https://www.migrationsverket.se/English/Private-individuals/Visiting-Sweden/Visiting-relatives-and-friends/How-to-apply.html

You can also seek advice on this forum also

https://www.thelocal.se/discuss/

nevilbot:
15 days or 15 working days? My gf is applying to come visit me in Germany for her leave and her travel date is 13 Oct. I made an hotel reservation for her with check in of 14 Oct.

When I applied for appointment, the closest available day is 25 of sept. Do you think this is enuf to meet her travel date or we should refill the online application form with another travel date?

I think the date is ok.You need 15 calender days(2 weeks) not working days.

Obinoscopy:
15 working days or 15 calendar days?

15 calender days-(2 weeks).
10 working days or shorter (2 weeks).Some people get decisions within a week of applying it all depends on the embassy.