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Tosinex:
We started dating like 6 month ago.. I just discovered that whenever I give her something like money, stuffs like that things work out for me, my business boom, if she ask something from me and I don't have and tells her that I don't have, she says ok, she doesn't bother and before that day ends I will get multiples of what she ask and then give her... Am just kind of surprised about the kind of human she is because its the first of her kind that I've met and dated.

Wetin u dey wait for? Ur miracle dey B4 u.

tblaq:
Nlanders please some thing is happening which we are all scared of,my Best friend dated a lady for couple of years they started their love affair from year one and graduated together same year and they both work their NYSC posting to Lokoja.

After the service year,my friend got a job with one of the communication company and was transferred to Lagos,when leaving for Lag my friend called me and his younger brother and ask for one favour that we should both promise him that we will always check on this girl and take care of her which we promise him.

After one year in Lagos,he called me and told me he can no longer continue with the said girl and immediately I ask him why and he said is a long story that he will not want to share with any body not even his family member.

My greatest surprise is when he ask me to come to Lagos last year for his introduction which I went,the night I arrive lag I still ask him why the sudden change of mind,beacuse this lady still call him and belief they are still dating and he repeat and said guy just forget that matter.

Hmmm the problem now is that my guy is getting married this easter and this lady is now aware after so many lies from my friend and his families,the greatest shock and fair is that the lady now uses my friend invitation card as her DP on both whatsapp and BBM and wrote 'congratulations my baby Boo and I can't wait for this day to come'!!!

I told my mum about it and what she wrote and my mum is now insisting that I will not attend such wedding that she is a woman and know what a fellow woman can do,especially in this kind of situation after so many years of relationship,even his own parents are scared

I beg make una advice me ooo bcs na me be him Best man ooo and I follow tell the girl say me no no about the wedding!!!!

Bros! Bros!! Bros!!! How many times I call you? Take cover. On the day of the wedding originate running stomach, infact a day b4 the main day acquire sickness. I don talk my own.

cruzita:
well is the child not his?why can't he do it?if he doesn't do it for his wife ,who will he do it for?

Now the child is his', after delivery now the child becomes her's. God is watching.

[quote author=cruzita post=43302155]well is the child not his?why can't he do it?if he doesn't do it for his wife ,who will he do it for?[/quote
Now the child is his', after birth the child becomes her's. It is well with men.

Marriage should be base on trust be u christian or muslim, there was nothing linking court marriage to the BIBLE or QURAN. Court marriage is not based on trust. My own thought.

Tolany25:
I am female, I will be 30 this year December but I find it so hard to get married. I avoid any man that comes my way just because I am afraid of sex. I always try to have sex once in a year but I still can't help it. This is something I can't even tell my mother and she's really looking up to me just to get married and bear my own children as all my brothers and sisters are all married but it seems she
loves me more because I don't get it. I am writing this letter with tears running down my face. I don't want a man I will be staying with but it's so hard for me to tell any man that comes my way. I just need to see my own child and be happy with them. There's no point in getting married and end the married in no time. What's the point? People see me as somebody who sleeps with a lot of men for money but they won't understand. Please, any man who is ready to do this can hook up with me...

The mods should please help me move this to the front page because it's a matter of the heart.

May be try a sperm bank.

LaurelP:
Girls like her don't change, believe me. That belief has been ingrained in her probably by her mother or a very close friend, so you'd be wasting ur time.

She is the type that would not like to see u help ur relatives, just focus on only her and the children.

Indeed u are a seer. I concur

AVRecruit:
Many women have turned State sponsored divorce laws into a lucrative business. Find a well to do man or a man with potential, after several years or a decade, file divorce. You get to keep his house, alimony and child support payments, half of ur future income goes to her while she sleeps with other men!

im not sure what the laws are in
Nigeria but guys wise up, only do traditional lest u part with ur landed property and union bank shares!

For white wedding just call pastor to pray for u.

I concur

A promise is promise.