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dmg1:
I've seen the cries of some men about their wives denying them their conjugal right, I just laughed and marveled at the same time.. how can a man being the head of the family belittle himself by begging his own wife for sex ... This can never happen in my house, the moment I notice your defective behavior towards me, I'll immediately activate my 'I don't mode'. And at this point whatever you wear/do cannot attract attention...

I'll now be seeing you as a friend (just friends without feelings attached), if kids are involved I'll give you money to prepare meals and other things that will make life comfortable for my kids, and you'll not enter my room stay on your own while I stay on my own,,

And as for sex, I'm not really a fan of much sex but if I need sex, being a man always with plan b, there are so many young beautiful damsels available to do justice to that....

If I notice you're cheating, that's the day you return back to your parents house (no forgiveness), remember I didn't deny you sex, you have to finish what you ignited...
Brothers/men never be at the mercy of your spouse, else you're finished....

exactly.Any day I caught her cheating on me she is finished that day

Fahvvy:
I've always said it and I will say it again...

"If your wife denies you sex consistently for a period of time without a very valid reason, go outside asap"...

There's absolutely no need staying faithful to a woman who weaponizes a man's primary need (sex) as a weapon against him ...

you are right. A case example is my stupid wife

Helpout12345:
This is also true. Example if you are a source of the stress or worries, like you serially cheat and she catches you. She can deny you sex for months even though she still loves you.

ehn let her continue to deny the man sex na shebi na her stupid attitude push the man out to be having sex outside.let her keep wasting her time by denying him sex.the man should just get a second wife at one coded corner where he would be giving good sex.some women are so brainless.For instance my wife doesn’t give me sex when I needed one .she would say she is not in the mood all her life na that we would do till her period come.I am even tired.I am planning of having a girl friend to be satisfying my urge somewhere.

TonyBby:
That's my Big Boy gamer, you're making it lit bro.
I also play FIFA like you do right from first year in secondary School, but for the past few years now, I've not been constantly playing, I'm just focused on "indices trading, crypto and forex".
Getting stacks everyday though.

pls come teach me how you are trading indices

honour7:
You are not bleeping her well, fact I have noticed in ladies and she has not started cheating, if she starts to cheat she will be all loving,

What you will do go and take all those concussion from iya one weekend, fu...........k her brains out till she cums multiple times, all this behaviour you are talking about will disappear be doing it like this at least once a month till you drop like 2 albums,

Please don’t take it every time, just like once a month other days u can do the normal to avoid erectile disfunction

it is not about not bleeping her well.someone that usually said her libido is very low.if I have sex with her she would be complaining that she is not wet oftentimes I just forced sex her.she hasn’t cheated and she couldn’t infact.

Minjim:
To live these nowadays women take a whole lot of patient and tolerance.

I don't know whether they have meetings with each other to cultivate this terrible behaviour.

My guy as long as the attitude isn't life threatening, just be patient and tolerant. Do resort to using violence to address it.


It's lack of good home training on marriage from their parents. Most that behave like that are from broken homes

not only broken homes but some had very poor upbringing

Revolution2022:
She may not be putting this attitude when you were in the army.Did you establish the shop for her?

when i was in the NA I was still courting her but I didn’t see those attitude you know how women hide.But i resignation at the time we planned our wedding which is 2020 March.

Jamesfrank2133:
Brother you are a simp as long as you stay with a woman, quitted your career because of a hole, selling goods for her in her shop while she bangs the man next street. You know nothing I am telling you. It will hit you hard. So many narcissistic women in Nigeria even our parents

lol...who told you i resigned cos of her.I resigned solely cos of my life safety.I am in real estate and crypto as a business and I have been better for it.it is just that leaving the job made me available for her too unlike coming home every Saturday and leaving every Sunday evening.

Ola5TP:
u cant be a tough man and still be disrespecting u like this. In fact u are a simp to her. If u show her film one or two time, she will have ur fears in her heart. In this case u have to earn ur respect from her by force! To be simple damage a lot of things sometimes! Act up now and take charge of ur home

Thanks

Landmack:
What a disjointed report from a supposed simp.

Bro we can’t help you pls,I don’t even understand why you’re crying sef

I am not a simp my brother. Someone that once my head spark I would tell her she dare not go to any shop and she dares not make a move.

OwnMyself:
You left your job and you think the next thing to do is by getting married to a rude woman.. From the way put up your story upthere shows you still a young man...

Brother man
Would advise you to save up and travel out of the country
Women are not to be trusted
It's degrading as a man to go your wife shop and start selling her goods for her

Nah where see finishing they start be that
Be vigilant
She fit shock you one day
Be prepared at all times
Descendants of Eve aren't to be trusted
Safe guard your future now comrade.

yes I am very still young.I am planning on doing my masters and my PhD and move to lecturing and move into other agricultural businesses.

OwnMyself:
You left your job and you think the next thing to do is by getting married to a rude woman.. From the way put up your story upthere shows you still a young man...

Brother man
Would advise you to save up and travel out of the country
Women are not to be trusted
It's degrading as a man to go your wife shop and start selling her goods for her

Nah where see finishing they start be that
Be vigilant
She fit shock you one day
Be prepared at all times
Descendants of Eve aren't to be trusted
Safe guard your future now comrade.

very true.That is my mistake

Kobicove:
Wait I don't understand this story, you said you were in her shop selling her stuff them the next minute you said you go into your car and drove to her shop to pick her...I'm not understanding

she shop at home and another one at a metropolis (next place)

Luckysbab:
This was unnecessary for you add.

It just shows both of you have more growing up to do.

i shook my head in wonder.How does telling how responsible I am turned to messing her family or boasting here.Do you know the kind of human being I am? I am a quite,low profile man

[quote author=OMOJOHN001 post=116424357]which sex.is she the wife that would be complaining my sex is too much.is she the one that gave me time table for sex.is she the one that often starve me sex to the extent that I would resort to masturbation.infact I have taught her so many things yet all fell to her deaf ear.What I got to understand about her is that she has low sex drive and it was after i married her is when she put it to me that she doesn’t fancy sex so much and when I was courting her which i often come home each weekend cos of my military job then she do give me sex by weekend so I couldn’t know she was just pretending

[quote author=OMOJOHN001 post=116424357][/quote]which sex.is she the wife that would be complaining my sex is too much.is she the one that gave me time table for sex.is she the one that often starve me sex to the extent that I would resort to masturbation.infact I have taught her so many things yet all fell to her deaf ear.What I got to understand about her is that she has low sex drive and it was after i married her is when she put it to me that she doesn’t fancy sex so much and when I was courting her which i often come home each weekend cos of my military job then she do give me sex by weekend so I couldn’t know she was just pretending

virginprincess:
coinwarrior,it obvious you just open this tread to boast because i don't see the need of you explaining what you did for your wife's family.

oh you are that gender.you yourself look at your sloppy reasoning.Did you see me boasting there? Female gender is sth else.I only highlighted all those to show how a responsible husband I have been so as to erase the opinion of some people that maybe i have not being responsible enough was the reason she was behaving that way.

gasparpisciotta:
Patience and cash are two keys to managing a woman.

If you don’t have cash, have a lot of patience.

But don’t fall into the same trap Eve set for Adam.....

I have had alot of patience

thorpido:
Has she apologized?

she didn’t at all.she was still coming to me that will i eat from the food she brought from her shop and I just didn’t under a word to her and she went back to the bedroom and I remained in the sitting room.

gasparpisciotta:
Patience and cash are two keys to managing a woman.

If you don’t have cash, have a lot of patience.

But don’t fall into the same trap Eve set for Adam.....

I have been a very tough man as a once upon a time a soldier stationed at ikeja cantoment but I left the job cos of her and my life safety because of issue of boko haram.But I choose to be a nice and gentle man with her cos I see her as my baby I loved her and she proclaimed she loved me but she has no iota of respect for me upon just trivial things

Ok

On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about immatured nasty Attitude of my wife put up with me. I left my phone at the bedroom while i went to her shop to sell her goods to customers.on coming back inside the room I heard my phone beeping since and I quickly rushed to pick it up and I have seen about 6 missed calls of hers.As a matured man I dialed her number back and immediately she picked it up instead of asking me in a polite manner as a well cultured and manner wife .she responded arrogantly and disrespectfully to me her husband and I was totally disappointed and let down that a woman I was dieing for couldn’t appreciate my input but yet was about hurling insult at me and I responded I was inside your shop selling for you since and I expected that courtesy will tell you to atleast ask me in a warm and respectful manner where were you since.And I told her I am coming to pick you now as i said.Then i hurried into my car and drove straight to her shop and on getting to her shop .I met her shop closed and totally off her shop.I was totally disappointed and hugely disrespected.when I called her she said I cut off her call was the reason for the chidish and mannerless attitude she put up.I just drove back home and just decided to be looking at her cos I can see her disdain brainless attitude.I just left her to her detested mannerism.

- [ ] On this date August 6 2022.A day I can’t ever forget in my life about immatured nasty Attitude of my wife put up with me. I left my phone at the bedroom while i went to her shop to sell her goods to customers.on coming back inside the room I heard my phone beeping since and I quickly rushed to pick it up and I have seen about 6 missed calls of hers.As a matured man I dialed her number back and immediately she picked it up instead of asking me in a polite manner as a well cultured and manner wife .she responded arrogantly and disrespectfully to me her husband and I was totally disappointed and let down that a woman I was dieing for couldn’t appreciate my input but yet was about hurling insult at me and I responded I was inside your shop selling for you since and I expected that courtesy will tell you to atleast ask me in a warm and respectful manner where were you since.And I told her I am coming to pick you now as i said.Then i hurried into my car and drove straight to her shop and on getting to her shop .I met her shop closed and totally off her shop.I was totally disappointed and hugely disrespected.when I called her she said I cut off her call was the reason for the chidish and mannerless attitude she put up.I just drove back home and just decided to be looking at her cos I can see her disdain brainless attitude.I just left her to her detested mannerism.

adubam:
When I get home I'll look for the sachet and snap it to you.

Thanks I am very grateful.
My mail is Toluwaseun336@gmail.com

43Ronin:
U dey answer OP. OP wan SIMPly fúck person wife, e dey cook up excuses.

true.you know his type

Estherene1:
Exactly the same issue i had for years and the doctors i had appointment with in the hospitals,both government and private would not even believe when they ask questions and you tell them you have never aborted or had any sexual relationship for years. The scan tests i did then,they found liquid kind of in my pelvic region. The drugs that was prescribed for me were not working,or maybe it couldn't counter the issue at that level.I later resorted to boiling sour sop fresh leaf and sipping the water daily ,after i don google tire,it worked a bit anyways. I even thought na spiritual problem one time
I branched a very big pharmacy one day and talked with the pharmacist,the drugs were tripled expensive but it worked. Although a doctor later said it was not right to get prescription from a pharmacist.
Please i would advise your friend visit a "standard" private hospital,where the doctor will have enough time to check what is wrong.
In all,these were things i would advise your friend do in a long time even after the prescription.

*Your friend needs to use tissue to wipe instead of water,she and tissue paper should be 5 and 6. Even if she prefers water to clean,she should still use tissue afterwards.
* Any time she is at home or in her room,no pant underneath please unless she is on her period.She might not be comfortable initially,but she needs breeze to dry up any moist there.
*For now,she needs to sit up on potty frequently .Disinfectant and hot water will do.
Please let her avoid general toilets,even if the person is her sibling or spouse. When she wants to pee outside,she should stand up on the toilet seat and bend backwards,she will get use to the position later.And if there is a way she can even buy and use a potty for now,because when she pee or poo the splash from the water closet can re-ignite the infection.

pls madam ma,pls can you prescribe the effective drug you use for it recommended for from the pharmacy

adubam:
She should contact a qualified medical doctor.

But some of this infection needs local root and herbs. There's one I gave my wife after visiting hospital and treatment with no solution.

Funny enough it was just N200 and that solved the issue. I do not sell and don't mention me for it.

pls tell me on my mail sir.thanks

VillageGuyArts1:
Sorry for the late response.
Please send me a message on the whatsapp number in my signature, so we can continue from there.

ok

Solofresh2:
That is the way the society has programmed them to be.
But this your post get as he be Sha
I can't remember the last time I asked a girl out
When ever I need sex,I know how to get it

tell us how you usually get it

Come do for me and my wife

toujurs:
So you prefer a 30 year old than a 20 year old, pesin wey do you this thing, really got you.

Most 30 year old, are toxic due to numerous heart breaks. Unlike a 20 year old.

A 20 year old would stick to you, once you have inter course with her no matter who ever trys to woo her, unlike a 30 year old that is desperate to marry a very comfortable guy available.

How can you say, a 20 year old has more body count than a 30 year old, you ment

you don’t know girls of this generation yet.Do you know how men or guys fucking a girl in her 15/16 years old

YoungLionken:
If true, then she did the right thing..

Sex is too cheap (cheaper than ice cream) in this generation for a man to still force anyone against her sexual will...

how is sex to cheap this days sir.pls can you explain to me sir