₦airaland Forum

LadyD22:
I'm seriously rethinking this marriage of a thing

I like you young babe.can we exchange digit

LUAN1:
you have been scammed Op, many Nigerian girls are using this borrowing format to scam any guy who SIMPed around Them, this happened to me too few weeks ago, met this girl which I liked so much, I asked for her number she refused, I Ignored her for a while, after many months she came by herself to give me the number, the moment she gave me the number my instinct told me that she wants to bill me because she probably saw me as a SIMP, that same evening while we were chatting, she started the billing, she indirectly asked me of 3k saying the Chase her sister out of school that she wish she could get 3k to send to he sister, I Ignored her, month later, she messaged me to help her with 1k to complete something, I Ignored again, few months again she massage me again to borrow her 5k that wen she come back From work she will refund it, I Ignored her the 3rd time , that was how she stopped chatting with me. Girl where no dey gree come my house,

you are the kind of guy i liked

PavillionEnergy:
The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.

In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.

I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.

I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods.
She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.

In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.

I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money.
I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.

She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.

How do I get the money back?

abeg take ur lamentations away from us cos you a compound fool to have learnt a girl money in such. Big dead brain fool!!

Sweetplum:
What do you wanna say

it is private discussion dear

Sweetplum:
No value,no moral, no body control.
The story look like a fiction. But it can happen in reality.
Am ashamed of this generation

I sent you a dm

YOUDARE:
Op start detaching yourself from her immediately,you will be screwed over soon enough. the fact that she goes out on dates means that she's just managing you at the time and is looking for a replacement.you are just an option to her .


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myrygurl:
Ohh really, how are you coping?

I do take my mind off sex and start wishing I knew it b4 I married her

myrygurl:
Thanks.
I think men prioritising sex in marriage is what makes women fall out. Expecially when the woman has low libido

just like the case of my wife that has low libido

Rubyjade:
Oga na you and not your friend.

That is how ur level of reasoning can go,sorry. Have a well broaden exposure of life.

Rubyjade:
How you know so much about your friend baffles me?

Nigerian mentality smh.what has knowing too muc......h about my childhood friend got to do with you?! Huh

henndukwe18:
tru tlk, she must hv been seeing anoda man who satisfies ha

That wife is not seeing any man outside my friend said so and from my clinical observations she is not bleeping any man outside.Don’t say i and kayode are fools.there are reasons for saying such....kayode track all her movements and hack into her wife Facebook and WhatsApp because he is one of the best cyber security expert at NA back in those days .so it is very easy to spoof all her wakawaka and he found nothing.Even from what he showed me i can see so many men sending friend request to his wife on Facebook and she wasn’t responding and she was always showing to her husband. But what kayode can not say is how long she has been having sex b4 he met her.kayode always believe the girl is not a wayward girl cos she had tightness when she met her for the first time as a man and she even had tears.But my concern is she may have been exposed to some rough sex b4 meeting Mr kayode which may be where she had the knowledge of kayode doesn’t know how to Bleep .what concerned MR kay is he want to know some deep secret that his wife is hiding from him.My own is to help him know that too so that he do not walk in the dark.You can wonder why i and kayode can talk sensitive things like this...we are childhood friends from primary school to university and we still worked at NA together then when we entered via short service b4 leaving.

Favfables1:
OP....
There are two extreme behavior every girl who has been raped before will portray...

It's either they become overly promiscuous or they will never enjoy sex with a man, and this behavior will continue through out their entire life unless they heal properly...

So let's assume that your friends sex game is top notch and his wife isn't promiscuous, one can then conclude that she hasn't really healed from the past trauma of abuse...

I know you maybe thinking that, "but it's being long na", I put it to you that the psychological implications of abuse doesn't necessarily go away with the passage of time ...

May I suggest that your friend have a discussion with his wife and let her tell him what he can do to be better in better, if he does that and still she makes the same statement, then they better visit a counselor/psychiatrist ...

i love your intelligent pieces.This is what I told kayode.But I was even thinking having such nasty experience at 5years old should have been erased off cos that age was too low and all things done then should have been forgotten.My mere observation of the girl says she is not promiscuous at all.Even the two boyfriends she had then....she had one immediately she finished her secondary school and there was no intimacy btw them according to my friend based on what the wife told her and what he also confirmed by trying to be a friend with that first former boyfriend .The second guy she had was very promiscuous,that one was a teacher and when the wife was with that one that guy always pester her for sex but she use to always tell him since they are marrying each other they are waiting till their night of wedding day b4 they would have it and this led to the guy fucking small small girls that were very smaller to her and when she caught him with those things that was when the now my friend wife leave the relationship and she met my friend kayode.Kayode also confirmed all these that the wife said about the guy she had as her second boyfriend because my friend tried to call the guy and pretend as friend to him.infact the guy was invited to their wedding but he didn’t come.The guy wanted to be threatening my friend but when he knew he is a soldier he ran away.My friend wife said assuming she had sex with that second boyfriend that is what the guy would have used to destroy her marriage to the my friend.My guy happens to be friend to his wife friends and from their mouth he confirmed how bitter the second guy was but unfortunately he was unable to sleep with her all through their being together.So based on these i and kayode felt the guy is not promiscuous but he was not cleared why the girl would always tell him *e no sabi Bleep* despite the fact that the wife is the first person to always say she is tired in the midst of her dick enjoyment.I told my friend to engage her in talk as husband and wife.But the wife said it is not she didn’t enjoy her husband dick but she is always getting tired easily in the midst of enjoying his dick.

Hello Nairalanders!!

There is sth I want to seek your general views on based on your life experience as regards to woman of today.
I have a friend whom we both worked at Nigerian army since 2017 to 2020 that we both resigned.
This my friend married in 2020 to a young girl of 23years who is said to be a circumstantial virgin based on her narrative that the girl had had just 2 relationships b4 he met her and during short stint in those relationships none of the boyfriends had had sex with her but they only kissed.The girl said she only lost her virginity at age of 5 years when one mad man used biscuit to tricked her and inserted his long dick into her.My friend said the young girl confessed that to their church pastors.To cut the story short,my friend believed this girl had not been having sex all through her growing up until that unfortunate incident.But there is always one thing that my friend said it usually baffled him.He said when he is having intense sex with this girl,the girl would just said *you no sabi Bleep* and you don’t know how to play.my friend use to say this statement baffles him and he would start thinking maybe this girls may have been bleeped by some badboys in time past b4 he met her.And another remark my friend give is that he use to Bleep this girl to stupor to the extent that the girl usually run out on the premise that she is tired.My people with vast experience what can you say of this now 24years old girl that my friend met and married.I want to believe in all honesty this girl must have had hard Bleep at some point of her life for her to be saying this.

Youngjohnosas:
Bro the stuff is very annoying, same thing happened to my cousin, the girl is tall and beautiful, my cousin truly loved her and was overly protective of her but was always insulted in return.

Every passing Day, it was always like “do you know the number of cute and rich guys that are asking me out”, “if I leave you today I would get married in the next six months “ .

It’s over 6 years now and babe is still searching for a serious guy while my cousin is married.when she experienced the coldness outside she did crazy things to reconcile with my cousin, very weird things and her pride took an all time low. Baby became an automatic born again but it was too late.

Really not trying to shame her but her exaggeration and pride then was way too much and could put someone into depression.

Her eyes don clear now...lols

pansophist:
Where to go in Nigeria or?

i meant where do you said you would go to find good girls

pansophist:
Which one be fornication here? you catch me for ashawo house? Take your time bros, make I no go invoke amadioha. I dont do those stuff. I don grow far above hedonism, I am motivated with far far more deeper stuff that nourishes the soul, not the flesh. Man shall not live by bread alone na my life principle. Na only a foolish man de come nairaland come find woman lol. Good women full everywhere, na naija passport just fork naija mehn up, so dem get limited options if wetin dem de see around no too de good for

Relationship for naija de heavily monetized, it is honestly not my cup of tea. As per good women, dem no de find them. if I want one now, I know where to go, stay for like few months and I go meet one wey set. So no worry about me, ayam very alright. Anyways I no be bricklayer, so I no know how to build. A man strategy suppose to de with a woman wey go meet him half way, not to go carry an unrefined adult, then believe foolishly say na him job to build. Suffer no de tired you? Self-development na individual journey, just like salvation, you cant do it for someone, unless you want be a victim. Why go cary raw material when a lot of finished products full outside?

greetings baba,where will you go baba to find finish and polished girls in three months to knot tie with

MistaCode:
That's how they are so shameless...I normally run tutorials in my University days back then, some of this ladies prefers to pay in kind...well, I chaw some tho

how sir....give us gist

Heavensent01:
my woman is a very busy woman, I'm too but not as much as hers, of course I catch cruise on Facebook and most of those getting carried away with my cruise are mostly married ladies



one visited me last week, I make sure we meet at the bar close to my area because I know privacy with her could lead to sth avoidable, this is a lady that her husband established, she had shops, there was a time her daughter was sick, do you know this babe still leave her sick daughter with one of her staff to visit me, very clean tall lady.



I have no reason to cheat on my wife and she possessed what I want in a lady, so I quickly judge myself what if you're the husband of this lady?



when you jam a lady that her husband/bf give little attention you can easily manipulate her emotions but that's for disloyalty lady

thanks I know understood well