Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 4:43pm On Mar 25, 2025 |
[quote author=Wimkeh post=134703600]Sorry I can’t access the email I used here. It’s a fake email I used to register. Email only last for 10 minutes. Unless you drop your email here and I’ll email you. I’ll let you know when I’ve got the email so you can delete it |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 4:04pm On Mar 25, 2025 |
Wimkeh: It means your love muscle is weak. From your original post, you don’t have problem with blood flow cause you can actually get it up or a bit erect. But it’s the job of those muscles to trap the blood in your penis. It’s weak so it can’t do its job.
Drop your email. I want to communicate via email. I’ll have to drop some videos and pictures to explain a lot of things. I Emailed you |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 4:03pm On Mar 25, 2025 |
Odebayo4010: You have to stop masturbation totally,try to seek for medical check up, you cause this by your self,go to hospital and explain your self to them, coming here can't solve your problem, Try to chewing miracle leaves it works to reduce heatbeat Which one is miracle leave? |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 10:14pm On Mar 24, 2025 |
Wimkeh: Okay. We've identified your problem. Your problem is more muscular than anxiety. So it's easy to fix. Although you always catch me at a wrong time. I'll update you tomorrow, I'm kinda handling a job right now.
Just know that your problem is not psychological, it's not porn, it's not masturbation. It's none of that. Although none of that is good, but there's a reason people watch and do those stuff and still perform flawlessly in bed. I'll show you with pictorial explanation tomorrow. Okay. Btw, what if it's flat? |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 9:51pm On Mar 24, 2025 |
Wimkeh: Okay. I can’t post picture. I need you to do a physical exam on yourself. I need you to check that space between your balls and your anus. Check it and let me know if it’s flat or not Flat bro |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 8:34pm On Mar 24, 2025 |
Ibkay32: Let me set my timer, I will be here too lpl  Lol...  |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 6:02pm On Mar 24, 2025 |
Wimkeh: Dude it took you three days to come online. Anyways, I’ll wait to see if you’re still here. Reply to this post I dey active for night bro. Say 9pm. |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 12:44pm On Mar 23, 2025 |
Wimkeh: I want to post an image on this thread with a question. But it’ll be when you and I are online.
That will determine if we move forward You can, will see it ASAP |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 7:44pm On Mar 20, 2025 |
Wimkeh: Your BC and IC muscle is very weak, that’s why you can’t hold erection. It has nothing to do with anxiety. That’s why even when you achieve penetration and your anxiety goes down, you’re still soft. It’s cause your penis muscle is very weak.
Most people here don’t even know they have very strong BC and IC muscle. Everyone gets anxious before sex, but that shouldn’t make you soft.
There is a penis muscle and you have to train it very well and condition it so it’s not tense from over training (by doing stretches that affect the perinium). Or else you will have very strong erection but will be cumming fast (another problem)
Now, there are exercises that can reduce cortisol (stress) in your blood, which makes your heart to pound really fast before the act and puts you in a fight or flight mode ( which is not a good mode for sex. You need to turn that off to be able to have sex easily)
I’m not going to dive into that until I know you’re interested.
I had all your symptoms before, from A to Z. In fact I had to check if it was me that wrote it cause it’s carbon copy.
But I solved all of them by carefully studying my body in relation to other healthy men. Whatsup bro. I think I need some dose of your knowledge |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 7:44pm On Mar 20, 2025 |
SuperOnyi:

Any improvement? Yeah! Slow and steady. Been pushing it. |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 10:07pm On Mar 14, 2025 |
But I solved all of them by carefully studying my body in relation to other healthy men.[/quote]Always open to learn new things |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 10:05pm On Mar 14, 2025 |
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Travel › Re: Applied For My Passport Online (DIY).. Updated (Passport Received) by Columbine(m): 6:14am On Feb 27, 2025 |
Iamsane: Please how much is 32 pages now?
DIY WAY 50k plus online bank charges 52k, total |
Travel › Re: Applied For My Passport Online (DIY).. Updated (Passport Received) by Columbine(m): 10:11pm On Feb 14, 2025 |
[quote author=ekitimanalways post=133800964]No, do not use the birth certificate issued by a hospital, but use age declaration (attached with one passport-sized photograph and duly endorsed by a Commissioner for Oaths) or an official birth attestation certificate from the
Pls can one change venue for capturing as I happen to be Currently far from my initial venue? If possible, how can I go about it? |
Travel › Please urgent! Is Change Of Passport Capturing Venue Possible? by Columbine(op): 12:39pm On Feb 14, 2025 |
I happen to be currently staying far from my venue for passport capturing, is there any possibility of venue change?
And If possible, how can one go about it? Only saw day and time change but no venue in the portal |
Travel › Re: Applied For My Passport Online (DIY).. Updated (Passport Received) by Columbine(m): 12:07pm On Feb 14, 2025 |
Can one change venue for capturing? as I happen to be far from my initial venue. And if possible, pls how? |
Travel › Re: My International Passport Renewal Experience – How Long Did Yours Take? by Columbine(m): 6:59am On Feb 14, 2025 |
morrisono111: I received my passport 1month after Biometrics at Warri Office.They called me thrice to pick up my passport.I must commend the Minister of Interior and the immigration officers for doing a great job.
I paid 52,000 naira only for 32 pages using DIY without any extra cost. Pls where is the warri office. As I have booked for appointment. Chose warri, but the location I saw seem far to the warri I stay. As I saw; warri, ogwashi-ukwu Road asaba. How come? |
Travel › Is Price For Passport Renewal Same As Fresh? by Columbine(op): 5:56pm On Feb 05, 2025 |
Can someone help me clarify the two |
Travel › Re: How Much Does It Cost To Get A Nigerian Passport And How Quickly? by Columbine(m): 10:19am On Dec 20, 2024 |
ApostlePaul14: I did mine July ending when it was still 35k for 5 yrs. I applied online and did d necessary printout. After I did d capturing, it took 4 wks and 5 days for me to get it. I didn't pay extra fee for express I'm having issues where one has to upload a passport as it's always not meeting the criteria. How did you navigate that phase? |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 5:54pm On Oct 11, 2024 |
iLegendd: Everybody with their problem. I have the solution, but not in the mood to talk. Help a bro, brotherly |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 6:04pm On Oct 10, 2024 |
Nicoddemus: The anxiety whatsoever is the reason will subside with time if only you're consistent and the girl sticks around till you overcome. It's a psychological issue as a result of not being used to women Exactly! But for how long? |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 6:03pm On Oct 10, 2024 |
motionarena: Will help you as I have been thru this has nothing to do with Masturbation First whats your age? 29 bro. All these introvert, churchy kind of person with little or no exposure. Never imagined being in this shoe |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 11:54am On Oct 10, 2024 |
Starboytwo: How about you deliberately not have sex and still invite her over. Cook, movies, play, do everything except the DO.
And see how your body reacts. She's been around and we've been doing all that. Which I normally get erection intermittently. But if it's time for the actual intimacy, everything jumps up. Like fear or anxiety. Can be depressing atimes |
Romance › Re: I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 11:46am On Oct 10, 2024 |
2special: Hope you don't engage in masturbation Actually I do. But it's been a while now. |
Romance › I'm Having Performance Anxiety by Columbine(op): 11:21am On Oct 10, 2024 |
I'm having serious problem of acute performance anxiety.
I find it difficult to sustain or even get an erection due to anxiety as my heartbeat increases, sometimes my hands begins to shake.
But the moment I am able to penetrate, the anxiety reduces as I will now be able to maintain the erection. Though not strong enough of which sometimes not even for long.
Now I just found a girl I'm planning to take serious, but this anxiety is killing the relationship. On two occasions we were supposed to have sex but I couldn't make love to her because my di*ck will not rise. No matter the level of pre-intimacy.
She has to come around to spend a week with me to help me relax but all to no avail, as my heartbeat increreases during the pre-intimacy. Causing my di*ck to remain flaccid.
I do have morning erections, and intermittent erections when I'm alone and all that but not with my babe or any other lady.
whenever she comes around my heart always pants. Infact, having the knowledge that a girl is coming to visit, makes me too anxious that when it's now time to perform, my heartbeat increases and all that that comes with anxiety.
I have had to take a can of bullet to calm my nerves down but didn't work for me.
I don't know what triggers the anxiety; maybe fear of under performing, spiritual indoctrinations as I grew up in a religious background/environment.
Anyone has experienced this before? what can one do? Are there medications for it?
All the exercise, diet etc suggestions, I've been following them for a while.
Though my background may have played a role as I was more of the churchy type. But there are exceptions. |
Travel › Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by Columbine(m): 8:55pm On Mar 06, 2024 |
missyojo: It requires passport when you apply online. Okay, thank you. |
Travel › Re: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by Columbine(m): 1:48pm On Mar 06, 2024 |
missyojo: Yes you should, my sister did capturing in January and it was ready on the 7th of February. I registered second week in February and did capturing on the 28th of February, I will check back by ending of this month. Just maybe it depends on the state that the capturing is being done. Does the online application require passport? Or the passport is required when one gets to the immigration office for documentation? |
Sports › Re: Mozambique Vs Nigeria; Int'l Friendly (1 - 3) On 16th October 2023 by Columbine(m): 4:27pm On Oct 16, 2023 |
Please link, ASAP Let's shout together |
Health › Re: Sperm Talk by Columbine(m): 2:32pm On Aug 05, 2023 |
I doubt you're married or independent but you're here spitting venom on whom you've not seen before.
I laugh when people blame village people, it may exist, but most of the things we face are as a result of what we've done, be it in mind, in words, or in actions. Ignorantly or knowingly.
I rest my case.
BTW, this lagos everybody is talking about, people are getting poorer in Lagos, people are getting richer in lagos, it all boils down to what one has to offer.
Say no to tribalism! Be kind! |
Romance › Re: Warri! My New Environment by Columbine(op): 2:07pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
brain54: You stay in istekiri…? 
JJC! Lolz... which side for warri be your base? |
Romance › Re: Warri! My New Environment by Columbine(op): 1:26pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
sageb: It's Ode-Itsekiri(a suburb in warri) Itsekiri is a tribe in warri/Delta. Know the difference between the tribe and place. Pardon my ignorance bro. |
Romance › Re: Warri! My New Environment by Columbine(op): 1:23pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Divay22: Nah.. It's far though. But it's within PTI and environs PTI, around shoprite? |