were u dey buy ur weed ?

funny country , funny people

Bro I'm face with a similar suitation ,the is this girl I've been dating for about a year now ,we were really in a committed relationship then suddenly she started asking stranger ,she refuse to come visit,she only makes monetary damands ,even on her bday she was not available for me.my instinct told me she was having an affair but I kept on making excuses for her my head .I was so emotionally heart broken cous I've picture life together with her. After her birthday passed she then showed up ,and boom I got the shooker of my life wen I checked her phone while she was using the toilet ,she has been sleeping with a guy she met barely 4weeks ,goes to the guys place ,party together and was even with the guy on her bday .I was so mad n angry ,she started pleading and begging , I just told her to leave ,she refused ,I didn't want to push or force her too cous I have so much respect for ladies ..i vented in words ,called her name n vow never to have anytin to do with her again ...I was so bitter cous I never cheated on her since we've been dating ..funny tinz is she isn't working n has been fully depended on my income .she later left the next day calling friends to beg me ...I refuse ...but the sad thing is I was in pain But still love her ...I felt I needed help ...I was down for weeks,started affecting my work ,I lost peace and sleep ....she kept on begging telling me how hurt and miserable she was saying it was just a mistake that will never happen again ,then I felt petty for her n accepted her back , now I get jealous ,insecure and doubt almost eveytin she says to me ...the relationship doesn't feel the same anymore ...I've been tinking for days now whether or not to breakup with her entering the new year ...

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pocohantas:
The earlier you guys understand that not so many undergraduate girls are very pro-marriage, the better for you. Once you spot that one who is very much interested in the fast life, pull the plug immediately.

Her parents told you both to come to the VILLAGE? You think if her parents had enough to be giving her, she would bother herself with you?

It is painful my dear, but your wife is in her hoe-phase. Some skip that phase, some spend few years in it, some stay a decade there- even do spillover.

You need to have some self-respect. A grown ass man following two fcking undergraduates to hear their conversation?

You guys don't hear word. You remind me of my colleague and that tin-tomatoes-headed girl he was pursuing. One small 200l girl. The way the girl did his heart ehn, she passed it through shredder.

Go find one afternoon newspaper that has her life figured out. Someone that will bring in tangible and intangible resources to the relationship. That way when she wants to throw it all away, she would think of how it would hit her own balance sheet.

. I hardly comment here but dis 1 gat me cracking 'she would think of how it would hit her own balance sheet '

johnkay1:


I no fit withstand those things. Even one group leader was accusing me of being too soft, that the former CO have some boys that he will buy drinks for and they will help him rough handled them till they pay.

I just smile in my mind I said what if they rough handle someone and he/she die, who will bear the brunt?

Being broke is better than being a murderer.

Guy we gats b friend I swear u damn funny .....no b lie ,I do am o,i b get boys even police wey I dey buy drink to help me do recovery .. I'm a bm now after all the suffering

johnkay1:
I tried working as credit officer for just one month. I could not bear the pain, I willingly resigned despite not having any other means of livelihood as at then.

One particular scenario bother me so much then. A woman (secretary to a group) borrowed 100k, she used to further equipped her shop and after two months her her shop was burgled and almost everything was taken away by the burglars. She ran mad instantly because she borrowed money from three different microfinance institutions to equipped the shop to the level it was then.

When I took the case to my Branch manager, he said insurance cover only the dead member with death certificate. Therefore, I must get the money back by all means.

I just honourably resigned, thank God I was not the one that signed their disbursement form. I inherited the group.

......lol.,guy u got me laughing hard ,asin ehn u b bad guy ...now I believe u actually worked dere..na people like u dey create problem for bm run ...

I can completely relate with this writer cous I presently work with 1 of the mfb as a branch manager ,I started as a credit officer ,the truth is mfb don't show mercy cous as a credit officer an unrepaid/defaulting loan becomes the trouble of the CO cous the money will b deducted from his/her salary ,imagine a CO havingover 300client base and 20default client with with weekly installment repayment of 2500*4weeks*20client=200000...this money will outrightly be deducted from there salary if at the end of the months the money doesnt come in from the member ....its funny but its the truth....n once ur default portfolio is high u can't get promotion.
I pass throught this hard method and survived ...thinking when I become bm since I'm not directly liable it will b better ,but trust me it's even worst cous wen a CO abscond from the default u too becomes liable, that explains y mfb have zero tolerance for default cous weather u like it all not u must continually disburse new loan with defaults or no defaults...and no body will be happy to work n at the end of the month noting to show for it .....if only members can comply and apply the loan to judicious use ...alot of members are also benefiting form this loan packages ,let's also tell the good part of this loan empowerment ,government alone cannot do it

Mr man or whatever ur name is ,don't ever force ur opinion down our throat ...saraki is OK for me,so just vote and lemme vote...ode!i

Nice right

Without uduaghan on Dat d list, it's never complete... Dat guy thief delta money no b small... Ibori own dey learn for him side... Effc start already

magicalBae:


Ladies who usually say that are those set of ladies that never add a drop of water to an ocean.

A supportive woman don't brag over stuffs like dat no matter what but if d opposite buy a recharge card of #200, she'll remind u d date n time she bought it wen u 2 hav lil misunderstanding.


U suffered with him b'cos

*u asked him for 10k n he gave u 4k ?
*u asked him to take u out n he said not dis weekend ?
*u don't get t'fare at times wen u pay him a visit?
* u asked him to buy u iPhone6 n he got u BB10? ..... nonsense!!!!

U're nothing but a liability to him.

magical take a kiss. U so right

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NewNigeriaMind:
This is no news, we have always known the south east is the most backward region in Nigeria. Even the North with the poverty is cleaner.

Take Nimbo community for instance, the whole town is made up of mud houses with no tarred road and Enugu happens to be the Capital of SE, HOW MUCH MORE THE HELL HOLE CALLED ONITCHA

my broda ur ignorant disgust me..... I'm yoruba bread in warri, schooled in d west n servers in d north Jos. I can categorically tell u onitsha is not in anyway uve described it... Dey r lots of high/tall building, infact I can tell u it's d trade mark of d place cous I've been working dere for 3years nw... Just leave Dat ur small village n try to travel b4 jumping into conclusion, I just wonder wat u getting so much likes for.... Mtchw

Chanchit:
So this man put the small girl for family way before he waka! The girls market value never crash sha.

crash fire.... Abi she don even boost her CV... No going below a governor again, maybe na our next president go marry her.

Funny comments everywhere.... But wait o gay n hiv.... Hw guy dey manage love n fvck guy.....it beats my imagination

favoured234:
If I was the babe I will NEVER date or marry you
1. You trust your prophet so much
2. No one knows tomorrow.
3. When challenges comes up in the marriage (yes they will always do) you will remember that you were warned and run to look for another prophet to seek solution.
4. You mama no even like me..
5. Life is already difficult in its own way talk more of entering a somehow difficult marriage

babe u sounding exaltly like her.,same tinz she said wen b breakup happen but we still find oursef loving again... Just gonna take it to God personally now... Tanks anyways, I appreciate

Treasuredlove:
oh Mr commodorejydes, let God speak to you directly, we are in the latter days and most of these prophets colour their prophecies with their personal opinion. I have witnessed where a prophetess outrightly told a man that he married the wrong wife because she personally didn't like the tribe the woman comes from and then, may I add my own personal experience of two prophets on different occasions telling me one rubbish 419 guy was my `husband` because they were carried away by his outward', deceitful personality. I simply told them I never see vision.....I mean.
As for your mom, if she isn't giving you any good reason about her reservation except based on the fact that the girl is eshan, then I do not think that is reason enough.
please, pray about it. Let the Holy spirit lead you in the right way to go

dear I cannot tank u enuf, I had to read ur responds over n over again... N I felt some peace, Tanks im realy taking it to God. Tanks

Alikote:
nigga use ur brain ,ask ur self what has been the percentage accuracy of all former prophetic massage given to u by same church or pastor ...if its 95 percentage the probability is high.....my nigga told me a whit garment pastor told him he saw a vision of him in a foreign land with white guys 10 yrs ago ..this guy no get passport no money but this nigga works for a Nigerian bank in china now he told me ten year ago he was 19 year old ...2 the same nigga told me the same pastor told him he saw a vision of him with a white lady as wive not a Yoruba woman the guy was engaged to a Yoruba chick but it crashed now he is seriously dating one Nigeria born eyptian lady ,they could have wedded last month but he was delay it .....those white garment churches na jass ,men or what ....or coincidence ....lastly he will become .....of his state no sign yet but am observing

Tanks Bro very insightful.... So appreciate

flokii:
@OP how do you know she's still a virgin?

was it revealed too.. pls answer o

Bro @ least sometin to make me laugh.. Bro let's no dwell on Dat, we dated for over a year so I know for certain

Ifakiland:
go and marry d prophet...oponu.

bross Tanks but y d insult na.

STFUareyouGod:
Hmmmmmmmm

No pastor can stop me from marrying whoever I decide to marry

But since yur the type that believe the opinion of your pastor/prophet on who you should marry, you should have cut off every form of 'close' friendship with the lady.
She's human, so you are. And considering there was no problem before the breakup, it's certain there'll still be emotional attractions and feelings. After the breakup, you shouldn't have allowed yourself get so close to her. You didn't let her move on. You gave her reasons to hold on

If you want to take her back, do that now. If you still going to follow your prophet's sermon, then you have to stay away from her and cut every attachment with her. You have to let her move on

nice 1 Bro, u really understood my senero, just like u feeling my pulse... Tank for advice

NiRfreak:
What if the prophets were wrong. What if your mom colluded with the prophets. Why not do your research and findings yourself. Why were you so in haste to break up with her without further enquiry. Always remember you are going to live with this woman and not your mother forever and your mother wont be alive forever to always influence your decision. Its better you make your findings by prayer, fasting and seeking spiritual guidance even without the knowledge of your mother for confirmation.

Tanks boss same advice I've always got, Tink it's definitely d way