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DONSMITH123:
He said that the defendant assaulted the complainant by dragging her by her trouser, carried her to his room, forcefully tore her zip after struggling with her and pushed her to the bed and had sex with her without her consent.




In as much as i strongly condemned the acts, i have some reservation.

1. Madam why you follow the man until you enter him room?

2. Am sure you are blindfolded or your mouth is tied as well that you could not shout for help.

and as for you Mr Broadcaster, if that stuff hungry you according to OsusuMustFlow, why not go for commercial sex hawkers.


I hereby sentence you to 100 strokes on your John thomas.

Victim Blaming as usual.

sunnydayasaba:
This looks like a cooked up story.

She was dating d guy online, How did u find out he was dating ur sister too?

She also claim she excused herself from a friend to see d accused, how then did she end up in his house?

she just want to tarnish a young mans image.

Some girls sha.

They young man pleaded guilty and also agreed to some sort of friendship with the girls sister.

No doubt that this story is true

Omolite:
I dnt blame her 4 divorcing her husband bcus d bible did gve infidelity as d only ground 4 divorce. But at least as a role model she should have been able to stick to her marriage nd make it work.

Lol!. Suffer abuse till she dies right?

Hopefully Buhari can give all these jobless youth jobs and therir #5000 so we can hear word.

Agberos are local terrorists

itsMrIke:
I am sure some people will come here and say this is Buhari's fault

This is very Stupiid.

Ajala the traveler,

Your country is on fire, Boko Haram is bombing as usual in the North while Biafrans are burning buildings in the East.

Yet..no word from you.

Nothing, no plans on managing the situation!

Shame

safarigirl:
nobody called her trash. If you're old enough to shag, be old enough to care for a kid. You were born in a patriachal society so why act like you dropped from Heaven? I'm 21 and I have NEVER had sex neither have I considered it, am I immortal? Stop excusing immorality in the name of modernity. As long as Genevieve isn't throwing her daughter in my face, I can't say a word of her. Does a jury judge a case that hasn't been brought to public notice? You asked where her dad was, well her dad is a dead-beat and her stepdad has traded family time for money. Or have you ever seen him? Na you ask for papa

OK.. You really have it out for Mercy Aigbe. Na you sabi

SAMBARRY:
I taya o
And even the moral is fake sef

The thing tire me, look at all the stupid excuses they are giving for rape and paedophilia.

Some people disgust me

safarigirl:
it's you who mentioned my parents first and assumed that I come from a poor background because I don't dress like Kim Kardashian or I don't support people dressing kids inappropriately.

You don't ever involve people's parents online, it's a bad format to use. I compared her ways to fellow celebs, she's obviously doing something wrong. You may not realise that because you're obviously one of the many men who have no idea how much some of us women struggle and fight against objectification.


Except she wants her daughter to end up like one of the slutty Kardashians, no sensible mother presents a female child in such light......she should use her experience positively

Slutty Kardashians with a net worth of over 100 million dollars. Money that you will probably never make being your classy self.
Kim Kardashian is happily married with a family and you are here bashing her for no reason other than her sin is different than yours.
You lots try to claim moral high ground because that's all you have.
You know nothing about mercy aigbe or how's she's raising her kids.
Its sad and pathetic that you are sexualizing a minor

Generals03:


What the fan said was necessary. What kind of mother post pics of her daughter in a scenario that always makes the daughter appear like an empty barrel and a little harlot?

It makes no sense to me especially when correct celebrities like Omotola post pics of their daughters wearing a doctor's coat, pilot's uniform etc or in a forn portraying innocence and a bright future.

Well I'm not surprised. People like you do not pay attention to such details. And like they say, birds of a feather flock together.

Or are you not the same woman I arguee with sometime back who was posting pictures of her daugher in bum shorts and bikinis or something like that?

May God have mercy on you.


Amen.

So her daughter looks like an harlot in that pic? Dirty pedos in Nigeria.
Its a shame

safarigirl:
you don't dress kids in clingy clothes, it's inappropriate.

If they must put make-up on, it should stop at white powder and gloss.

Preferably no loud jewelry.

Most importantly, as a celeb, keep your kids away from social media. It's OK to make your child your friend, but your most important responsibility is being a mother.

The fact that someone alludes sex to your 14-year old kid is all you need to stop posting suggestive pictures of her.

I get that she did the right thing by standing up for her kid, but if someone is calling your kid a ho, she probably looks like one

Lol.. You dress children in nice clothes simple. Control your dirty mind. This is the kind of thoughts that those stupid pedos are using to justify their dirty actions.

Besides rape is not about dressing or sexuality, its about power and dominance. They are not doing it because the girl is sexy. This is why young toddlers are raped.
Get your mind out of the gutter. All these your explanation will not hold place if you rape that young girl. The judge will send you to prison if you do, no questions asked. You should know better than sexualizing a 14 year old.

safarigirl:
weaves, make-up, clingy clothes....on a 14-year old? Who dey look the girl? Tomorrow people will shout paedophile, whose fault is it?

Has Mercy ever posted a picture of the girl's result? Every time fashion, hair, make-up.....she should go and ask Omotola how to train a daughter if she doesn't know how to. At least Omotola's daughter was 16 before men started dragging for her on social network and the girl was Head girl of her school. Genevieve has an adult daughter, people barely know what the girl looks like. Mercy isn't the only one with a pretty daughter, Omotola's own is even prettier and older, but we no dey see them.

Maybe this is how the Mercy's mother trained her before she had a child out of wedlock.


We shouldn't use modernity and the quest to be a chic mom to expose kids to a harsh world. This is not a good way to present your teenage idaughter, this is the Kardashian way

If a young adult man cannot control his desires towards a 14 year old girl. Then he is the one with a problem.can't believe you as a woman would support slut shaming and victim blaming of a young woman.

With the news of rape everyday on nairaland towards young girls, I cannot believe you are supporting pedos. Its sad and insultive to victoms out there who have been predated on

Shame on you.

What is the right way to present your daughter, her hair is nice, clothes are proper.

Nigerians and their high moral horse.

omoplaycool:

Why build foundations when we can just lay the blocks on each other and live in the house ?

Abi ooh

The last time they had one of these court dates. Tb Joshua did not show up.

Secondly, I don't see any reason why Tb should be charged with anything. Its the engineers who should be held responsible.

I agree with him, the president of Nigeria didn't pass mathematics too.. Yet he is running one of the largest economy in the world.

why set standards at all? We are already living in a free-for-all country.

bettercreature:
Lol fake people!,they are the same people drinking 200,000naira wine,buying all the expensive things in this world but its damn difficult for them to buy Original modern pot of less than 30.000naira

Its the pot that you like that you buy. Some people prefer older types of pots some of them don't burn food quick.. Stuff like that.
It's not always about money.

Tpave:
Modern woman. Receive modern brain too as you're quick to abuse. I know that you're the one controlling your husband if you even have one. Thank you latest baby. I don't even know why iI am responding to a f****l like you.

I don't understand what is wrong with the picture. Should both parties take care of their home?

SamjohnnyB:


Send screen shot of the message or I don't believe this.

But my believe now is that u want attention on NL. Now u have it.... I know the story is fake, u are just doing this for fun.... Three topics about the same issue in a day.... Maka why na?

Proof

This is the text between Yakub and I today.

[b][size=13pt]Yakub : I don't care if you are seeing someone else, I'll do anything, please you are all I have. You can see other people but i'm still your boyfriend. I don't want no one else.

Me : No, I cannot do this to you, you deserve someone faithful to you. I am sorry. I am not going to marry you. Let's end it now.

Yakub : Babe I want you in my life, you are so special. All I ask is not to know the details and keep that life separate from me. I love you too much.

Me : This is not a normal reaction Yakub, you just caught me cheating.

Yakub : Well, I gave it some thought, you just had sex with him, no different from watching porn. A hot girl like you has needs. I just enjoy being with you . You are not a bad person, You are a sinner like me. I forgive you completely and will never ask about him. You did me wrong but no sin is greater than the other.

Me : Why are you risking everything for me?

Yakub : If I had my time back, I would never had told you I read the text, I would have remained quiet about it. All I want is to be there and take care of you. Don't feel guuilty, Its satan making you feel this way. I don't want to loose you because you got hornyy[/size]
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What do I do now?

Please read my new post.

SamjohnnyB:
I guess u are a rich girl...

I am comfortable financially But Yakub still makes more than me. Money is not a factor in our relationship.

The reason why me and Yakub will not work out is because he had a kid and I did not see myself wanting to become a step mother at a young age.

The incident that occurred was with his child's mother. She came over to my house and almost beat me up saying I took her man. Luckily Yakub and my neighbours where around to restrain her. After this incident, I should have left but he begged and begged.

The only reason I stayed was for my car. My car broke down and it was very bad. Yakub is a mechanic. I bought a new one almost immediately with my own money because I need a car for my job. Since Yakub fixes cars, he told me not to sell my old car that he would rebuild the engine.

He would make it more powerful. I think he even wants the car sef after he fixes it. My whole backyard is full of car parts. I might as well let him finish it. This is the project I was talking about.

I have been very open With Yakub, all these things I have said, he knows. Including the cheating part. He does not care.

I only asked for a way to end this because he won't leave. He's willing to allow me see other people.

Can mods move this to front page.

Lalasticlala.

tiwiex:


Thanks for replying and being civil about i . I see you missed some vital info that could have given us context. The project was a personal car project. The challenge was that he had a kid. Finally he is a mechanic. Did you know he had a kid from day one or he told u after after? If he told u much later and it is a deal breaker then no issues. Are u guys from the same social strata? That is an issue 90% of d time unless we wan pretend. U said he is a mechanic. Like a Naija mechanic or also a graduate?

With d extra info, it does not look so bad. But it seems u still wanna eat ur cake and have it. I guess d sex is good and he is a nice guy so u feel guilty. Or u even love him more than the new guy but the social strata might be a challenge. Life is hard sometimes. No one can advice u much but don't make him hate u. Sit him down and talk to him. But I suspect every time u see him u guys have to bleep. Babes, maybe u just have to manage two bfs o. I suspect d difference in social status. Which is y he says he will date u all d same. Will the new guy know dis arrangement? Hmmmmm. Nice to share. I wish u d best my dear.

He doesn't have a degree but that's not a deal breaker for me. I always knew he had a kid.The deal breaker was when his baby mama came over and attacked me for breaking up her family ( This is the incident).

Truckpusher:
He's not yet done with your puccy and I can assure you that when he's done he's going to dump your ass for good maybe it might just be when you're finding the relationship quite interesting.
Real niggas don't forgive a cheating woman - They will be biding their time until when it's time to hit back and very hard just to break your fragile heart in a way it will take a genuine love to mend.

Sadly, I know Yakub. He's not the kind of man you describe. He's not a real nigger.

daben1:
I'm sure the guy is broke for now, after now you'll come back begging to reap where you did not sow...
Your story is even annoying

I don't care about yakubs money. If it was money, I would have left a long time ago. Yakub does not even make much more than me

noblemails:



The project is completed next week. you just murdered English here

I don't know why you have decided to focus on my grammar. As long as you understand it. Do I need to have a dictionary beside me to write a post on nairaland?

lolu20:
yakub definitely wants a revenge.Bleep her ass out.and post d video on social media.

Yakub is not familiar with social media

lastchild:
I never wanted to comment but you said something that I want to help change the mentality for you,you said "you are young and having fun" Lol.. This mentality doesn't go well for women,as long as you are mature to have a boyfriend,you are ripe for marriage and before you know it,its becoming late,change that mentality that you are young and having fun

I am not ready for marriage. I am still a selfish woman and will not settle down until I am financially and emotionally capable of running a home. I know who I am.