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Reggaemich:
Op, no matter what u do,

Do not engage or marry that girl

A broken relationship, Is better than a broken Marriage

If u marry that girl, know that she will send u 6feet very fast, with the speed of light

Advice 2

Your destiny is not in any one's hand

Quote::
Challenges Are the ingredient in Which Champions are Made

Believe in yourself,

Face her head On and pray yourself out

A Man is Generally stronger than a woman

Your deliverance lies in your lips,

Open your mouth and speak to God

This is What i need. Candid advice and recommendations. God bless you Man!

MufasaLion:
Imagine the crap you typed. A grown-ass man with this dumb mentality!

Nobody can hold anybody's destiny. Stop believing in crap! The man will make your life more miserable by collecting every penny you have remaining, with his bullshit prophesy. These clerics survives on gullible sheeples like you. You're vulnerable already, stop making yourself more venerable!

Most of you are only educated but not enlightened. I always distance myself from your ilks.

Bro I won’t argue with you but rather pray for you that you won’t encounter any spiritual attack from any Fetish person.

Tenrack:
guy find her go house. Talk to her parents. You can't do phone shii anymore

Her Dad passed away Mid 2020 and I no know her house and she doesn’t even want to tell me her Location now but i am
planning to go back to school Before the end of this month to get some of my school issues resolved since ASUU has finally called their strike off… Hopefully i get to meet her and Beg her. Thats if she is going to give me audience.

terrezo2002:
It is your load, so carry it.
I don't know why people love to put themselves into problems, and when they do, they will be crying for help.
Firstly, God says flee fornication, but they will do fornication with pleasure.
God says don't steal,yet they derive joy in stealing people's hard earned money in the name of format.
You are only facing emere now, more troubles are coming.

Bro if you can’t help my situation with Candid advice why not shut your mouth up?… I didn’t come here to get mocked at but rather get solution to my problem if you be pastor or Alfa shey naso you go dey condemn people problem?

Tenrack:
sorry bro. I'd suggest you talk to her make her see reason why you can't be with her . If she can change her behaviour towards you, you can both work something out. Try this. Please keep us updated

I’ve tried quite numbers of time to get together with her so i can appeal to her in person but she doesn’t want to grant me that. She rather wants to chat like a regular friend with me on whatsapp She doesn’t even act like she wants me anymore

Tenrack:
Omo..I don't know what to say. If you hadn't had sex with her now..to severe ties with her would have been piece of cake.

Bro i regret ever getting too intimate with the girl. As much as i love sex, when it comes to her matter, she was my Oga coz this girl wouldn’t go a day with me without uncountable rounds of Sex. I guess thats the weapon she used against me. I’ve been so down for a while now that i was even thinking of committing suicide at a particular time but i whirl off that thought with the hope that nothing is impossible for God to do. *Sigh*

Kenpaly:
Op i want to ask u a very good quastion. Is she from akwaibom or 4rm kogi state?if yes you don enter gbege be that.

She is from Osun State, Iwo to be precise

Olasyke:
You don buy job .
If she's an emere, isn't she supposed to be making sure your hand always hit big money from clients in the first place?

Bruh I’m so Confused about the whole thing
thats what i heard about All these fetish girls even before i started dating this girl in the question that Emere always bring Goodluck to their partner but na everytime fighting this one dey bring when we still dey together �

Tenrack:
bro... At this juncture ehn. I am scared for you. What if she wants you guys back together as the clause in the agreement you'll sign before she lets you succeed?

That exactly what the Prophet told me that the girl wants me back in her Life but i’m scared to go back to her, not because my heart cannot Love her back anymore but because of her Quarrelsome and Destructive behavior. I am an easy going guy which everybody around me knows.. I don’t want a kind of partner that will always give me BP everytime or destroying the little properties i’ve got. Had it been she is not a destructive girl i don’t mind going back
to her without a rethink because i know that she truly loved me then when we were still together but Bruh i just can’t endure her Stubbornness. Within the 11months we dated she tore more than a Dozen of my shirts, Destroyed most of my Sneakers with Blade, Broke all the Plates in my Kitchen, Tore my Moms Picture in Uncountable pieces and soaked them into a Jik container all in the name of quarrel or argument. Bruh i was in a Big soup when we were together. there are Lots of other bad things i can’t even remember that she did to me when we were still together then ��

There is a difference between a quarrelsome girlfriend and a Destructive one. During the time i was dating this my ex, i couldn’t count the numbers of my shirt she Torn. Any small argument like this she will lock up my shirt that i am going nowhere and if i struggle to leave her at the spot she would tear my shirt. She sometimes go into the kitchen and pour the food i’m cooking for both of us into the kitchen sink or break plates in the kitchen all in the name of quarreling with me which i think is very normal in a relationship She doesn’t cook most of the time she is with me in my hostel. I would be the one to cook majority of time and she always said she enjoyed my food that i cook so well. Thats how much i endured this girls wahala because i loved her then and she gives me good sex and not over demanding. If i no get i no get ni that time and she didn’t because of that cheat on me. I guess thats why i still held on to the relationship then. Fast forward to 2018 december when we got a break in school i went to my home town and she also went to hers. I was thinking that the everytime quarrel will reduce since we were not together at that time that we were on break but it got worse. If i don’t call her within 5hours i’m in soup she would nag nag and nag on the phone which i also endured because i knew she missed me thats why she was acting that way but it got to a point that i got tired and couldn’t focus on my hustle again then because of her over demanding attention so i was pushed to break bonds with her noting to her that the reason i want a break up with her is because of her everytime wahala coz a day won’t go without us arguing or fighting over something and she usually initiate them. She was begging me not to leave her that she would change but i’ve made up my mind already and couldn’t change it. About two weeks after she called me and told me that there is a ritual she has to do pertaining her departure from her Egbe (Emere) and the guy she dated last must be there for the ritual to go well, she even said her dad was aware of it then that it wont hurt me at all but i refused to do that with her because i was scared and moreover i felt like i have broken up with her already why would she want me to come to her again. I faced my life after then but noticed that in the Freelancing job i was doing then and also Gee that i was doing wasn’t paying, not that i don’t usually see the opportunity to hit big but they always turn out to be failed no matter how hard i try. The only money i do see is small change to eat and do small big boy. I was so backward academically, lots of carryovers but still moved on and hoping for better days. My thoughts then was that, who school help i just wanna graduate with any grade and face my life squarely after. Moving on with my hustle i realized that anytime i want to hit big money or i smell something big is coming my way from the way i update my clients, i would just wake up with wet dreams maybe a night or two night before the supposedly Big hit reach my hand and everything will scatter that the client will block me or get into big argument with me and won’t eventually pay the money. I used to think that maybe that money isn’t meant for me that what will be will be…Fast forward to last year, things got tougher for me financially that no day will go that i wont beg people on my contact list money to eat, Although i had graduated then but still have some courses to clear because of too much carryovers then. I continued with my hustle with lots of Mercy Soaps (Ose Aanu) from My Alfas but still yet things didn’t change, anytime big things is coming my way i will always have wetdreams a day before and thing would always flop at the end of the day. So last month i went to one new Alfa and he revealed to me that there was a girl i dated some years ago that she is the one behind all my predicament and tough luck hitting Good money from the Work i’m into, he even went further telling me that i’ve been using some (Ose Anu) lately that they are working for me but anytime the work want to show that this Powerful Emere girl will always hold it down with her Tragic Powers that if i noticed that anytime something is coming up i will always noticed a strange thing on my body like Wetdreaming or cobweb fly on my body when i’m outside and on a broad day light. The Alfa told me that i need to appeal to this girl because she has registered my name in her Group as her Earthly Husband and i won’t be able to move and inch to success in life if she doesn’t forgive me and she reveal somethings to me about the then ritual they were going to make for her pertaining her departure from the group. The problem now is that the girl doesn’t want to grant me an audience one on one but rather chatting and i don’t want be chatting with her with stuff like that. This is not fictitious as i am not looking to trend on NL but rather to find a solution to my life.. Anybody with Candid advice?

Things are really Happening… hmmmm

Reno Na F**L shey una still dry listen to that man?