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idnoble135: Hey dude, poor folks always prefer humor while some people are busy creating wealth for themselves. Fyi, i have a sense of humor but whats humorous about this? Abegi, let me be jawe

Sadist keeep creating wealth while some put a smile on others face, I won't b surprise if you are in UK
Even if u r not pls keep it to urself and allow us enjoy ourselves
God bless the OP for assisting in taking my stress away

Guy that boxer is even funnier that the catwalk ladies, abeg watch

Wow, I'm speechless
Truth is until we sit down and talk this bad blood will always be there

He should change his name to whiteface

delishpot: @ poster, maybe you have been controlling her too much and expect her to lick your bum as most Nigerian men expect of their women. In Nigeria the men don't think their women are humans they feel women don't have feelings and are expected to be yes sir, yes sir wives. If there is any problem at home the woman must beg, hell, she must beg and serve him better even if he brings his mistress to the house cos she is a woman without feelings and needs the marriage more than the man. so , if your wife has been saying sorry these past years and you capitalize on it to hurt her she may be tired of saying sorry just to see what will happen. so, in that case its time for you to sit up and treat her as a partner in your union and tell her you know how you made her feel in the past and try to make both of you happy. on the other hand, if you have been a good caring hubby and she is daring you by not saying sorry then she is wrong and you should still have a chat with her to tell her how you feel about her attitude towards you and lets see what happens from there.

People like you r surface readers with no depth otherwise you would ve read btw the lines and tell his kind of person
Pls go back n reread all his post n responses and stop behaving like the average nairalander

safeLove: I like this OP. Who has noticed how calmly and maturedly he has handled all the criticisms from all angles and all the e-insults thrown at him just for coming to an anonymous forum to vent.

It shows one thing IMO,he's really an emotionally matured person,and from his responses,I feel (not assuming) that its madam who is actually going ahead with the divorce instead of saying sorry and quenching the fire.

Don't worry,OP,do what you have to do. You'll be fine.

Truly from his post and responses I want to applaud him, his responses has been well cordinated, mature with depthn he has not insulted all the hot blooded nairalanders, I think you are good at heart and a nice guy that has finally woken up, I think you married a child but for me I will say that instead of divorce that you should move out of the house for a while for sanity n health reason but not pride
You tend to analyse issue a lot sometimes this could be bad as it reduce excitement in relationship, if u ever make it work then learn to be spontenous and not too predictable
You also seem like a people pleaser and too nice a guy becuase somehow I would insulted one or two nairalanders and be well justified, well if u go past this learn to say no and not always yes with a smile and a hurting heart

Finally the only reason jesus recommend divorce is only when there has been sex because spiritualy you guys are not longer one whole but a mixture

Ujujoan: Forgive me if my question has been handled aready but I'm new on did thread and really don't want to go tru 5 looong pages

I completely agree that a woman should be matured enough to say 'sorry' if that's what it'll take to keep her marriage, but it looks like you are trying to blackmail her into saying 'sorry'. I bet you didn't know she'll be willing to call your bluff

You say you'll reconsider if she says she's sorry right? Now I dont know what she did but will saying 'sorry' solve the problem? what if she says it without meaning it, or gets pressured into saying it just for you to stay, but at the end of the day, she's not different from whatever made you want to divorce her in the first place?

I'll advice you to really really consider why you want to let go of your marriage. Not to encourage your wife's stubbornness but is it really worth it . . . walking out of your family because of a childish wife

Pls read all his post b4 saying anything

True NaijaBwoy: Point 1 i do apologise, im not afraid to be sentimental!
Point 2 Women changing after the ring goes on, thats another issue! It a default land mine... this is not what this is about!!
Point 3 we initially had financial strangle on us that i felt was both to our mutual understanding, obvisouly not, im an absolute extrovert, she knew this about me and loved this about me,she also has this in her nature,but i firmly go to work n go home to spend time with the family, my time with the guys is playing on a footy weekend, which i have cancelled on a numerous occassion to hang with family,,, my flexibility has never been an issue... she also loves my relationship with kids which never changed, she will always tell you 1 thing, i am a good father and a hands on dad as she is a good mum,,, our problems was never us a a couple,,, its the external factors which are crippling and undermining us.
by the by,,,, I'm a very good cook and do cook for her, and my saturday is typically a house cleaning blitz by me,, especially sat mornings,,, this is neither here nor there, my point is i am not shy to be soppy if i feel happy!

silly me, maybe!! but we both deserve happiness even if its apart!!

I will say one fair thing, women(maybe her) prefer to see what they want to see rather than appreciate the personalised effort!

kai, una don turn me to agony uncle!!

I heard this from a friend that a man usually come home from work b4 his wife
And everytime he comes back he would clean the house n the dishes, then a particular day the wife came home early and left everything the way they are, when the husband came back and saw the house n dishes still dirty, he said to the wife " honey you didn't clean the kitchen. The wife turned and told the husband that "I thought cleaning the house n d dishes is your job. I was told that that was the last time the husband went into the kitchen or cleaned the house, he said sometimes women tend to take men for granted when they are too nice

biolabee: THIS IS FIRST HALF...

THERE IS STILL 90 MINS NEXT WEEK

For who? Madrid or dortmond

Wahala dey
So its means that EPL n spanish league na just media hype

What a nite for lawandoski
Its like the final is an all german day

Pepe put him on-side
This pepe sef

Why don't they want to show the replay of the goal
Abi them they edit am

biolabee: u are confused... living to your name

But didn't u. Hear the it

CFCfan: Ronaldo has now scored in 6 consecutive Champions League matches, equaling the record.

He has also now scored 50 goals in the Champions League.

Sharrap na all of us hear am when the commentator talk am

Ref no spoil this game o

Wasn't that a Penalty

Wow madrid has scored

Dortmond seem to be on the drivers seat o

Samelfisha: Abeg were i go watch d match

NTA Borno

MOD pls do you work n update the score

teadrake: Hello Luis suarez,please help us bite Bayern before they'll humiliate us again,come camp nou.Regards to Gerard and Ur coach

Guy u no well o, you for invite the whole Vampire clan to assist Suarez bite people

Why are they all short in Barca

Guadiola has revealed Barca secret to Bayern

Messi to me is the one killing this game for Barca

Messi is not in this game
But I'm so loving this game

Before I join the band wagon of sympathizers I just want to know if the land is hers,if it is not she should go and negotiate instead of emotional blackmail but if the land is hers and the environment dirty, the govt still ve d right to ensure its tidy, anything out of this then the govt is wicked

Broken TV: Why is it that China is feel with weird things happen.
gbagaun!!!
(Quote) (Repo

Time is 9:40pm
Seun is this evening or we should wait for another eveninhg

Game don tough o,
Barca v bayern
Real v dotmumu

Make una draw this thing na

ony073: Dis is bad and sad. Maybe d girl av necklace on her, dt's one of d reason y footballer are nt allow to put on chain during a football game wen it's rainy!

Guy na wa o, so people that put on necklace on d street should all b dead na. I bow for ur reasoning,

eddy1977: All of you guys making fun of this couple are just sick and twisted.
Some of you will never have a proper wedding. Bunch of losers.

What's wrong with the picture? If they were white folks you would have all been clapping for them.

Go ahead and call them names. But guess who gets laid day in and day out? Not you losers.

Poo on all of u

my guy why you blood dey hot, abi na you lie down there, if na you, pls just tell us wetin been happen wey make you lie down