GHOJES
Alutacoogs wont come and voice out how he scammed you too, its airing day for NAIRALAND PLAY BOY!

Babe3, there may be other victims presently too who are yet to know what they are in for. He has been soaring on you guys silence

I'm guessing this is supposed to be me.....
If so, I'm imploring you to please keep my moniker out of your hands and/or tongue
Nairaland was always fun for me, till I no longer had the energy...
Dunno about nobody scamming nobody....
I'll NEVER be a false witness to ruin another man's reputation
Like who the fvck are you sef, I don't even know you and I'm sure we've never had a conversation outside here before, maybe not even here!
The scammees should identify themselves, biko!
I HAVE NEVER BEEN SCAMMED BY ANY NAIRALANDER!!!
Just stumbled on this and had to clear the air!
I'm out of here!

coogaluta:


I can't even access the email to this account
But i'll see what I can do

You can reach me on.....taking this down in 2 minutes

cc: bellong

bellong:


How about send me a pm

I can't even access the email to this account
But i'll see what I can do

bellong:


You....

Your case is in the shrine with the gods

Lol
I am sorry...
How can I reach you? Could you drop your email address or something? Just long enough for me to see it...
I lost access to all my accounts

bellong:


Sent

Hi Bellong
Hi everyone

sonymerlot:


Seriously not sure where you will be flying from, but with $5000? I will go to Dominican Republic (Punta Cana) 3 (three solid times) without spending a penny more on flights, taxis, hotels, food, liquor.....it is all inclusive as in unlimited. Shopping, well may be!

Do some research man.

Really? Dude?
3 times for $5000....means one time is less than $2000=#400, 000
Which airlines do you fly, biko?

Sacluxpaint:


14 years alert

It's legal in our part of the world, darling

RedBenson:


Lol. Fine girl. I just wanna say 'hi' to you in a private environment. Can i PM you now?

Hehehe
You still dey this your ashawo business?

cococandy:


So our relationship has turned to past life

Never!
You're my only love yesterday, today and forever.

Borrow money to lend a boyfriend?

anyways, play dumb till you get your money...every single pence of it and then do the dumping afterwards.

cococandy:
I hate all house chores. All of them. Except cooking. Cooking relaxes me and I can even cook while half asleep.

But the rest, count me out.

Lil wonder you were my wifey in my last life
Even the cooking, only if I'm in the mood

No 19: I have a friend who keeps explaining the importance of prostrating during trad wedding to her oyibo boyfriend

Phema:


I honestly don't care if my man helps out with chores or not, as long as i don't stress out trying to do them myself.

I've come to understand that life marriage is what one makes of it. See it as suffer head and that becomes your portion.

True though
Life is too short

coogar:


i won't be caught dead in the kitchen, never mind getting caught alive. what i ain't good at, i hire experts to do for me. i cannot stress abeg.

smh....
Sis. Mary can teach you
She be chopping onions while you're chopping pepper

coogar:
i don't want my wife to start complaining of backaches or headaches in the bedroom. i will be hiring 2 housemaids to make life easier for wifey.

the experience of your friend that lost 2 sons to a housemaid is an anomaly, it's not a norm. wives are not donkeys, they need help sometimes.

what about helping her out yourself?
And the use of machines?
Housemaids are

freecocoa:
I wonder why any sane person would be making out in a cab to start with.

what's the big deal?
It's a kiss

salsera:

Very nauseating hearing kissing noises for over 5mins, consider others.

Oh please
Chances are you watch porn, but even if you don't, you most likely watch movies where they kiss...
what's the difference?

Timbuktou:


Not all girls are bad, you know?

Are you sure about this?

bellong:


Ok.. Thanks for the education. I am so old school I don't understand all these modern day slangs..

However, by your definition, I guess God is my Bae...

you must be really old!
lemme guess..50?

markidoo:
All i nid in this life of sin is me n my girlfriend. Drop ur advice.

With this 1 point of yours, I agree with your mum

Amazing?
Or ridiculous?

Ladies should learn that there's more to value than vaagina...
@op, it depends on the circumstances.

if it feels right, by all means, go for it

IVF is another alternative, surrogacy ain't bad either....depending on the cause of the delay and how much the couple can afford.


I totally agree that more people should be open to their options in this day and age.

PreciousBro:


Please caution your self ,I wouldn't sound like you now, it'd be messy for you and this thread.

Lol....calm down!
why are you getting so salty so easily?
Am I supposed to be scared?

Where did I put it that she doesn't deserve to be wifed ?

Your post definitely summarizes in one point: she hasn't been wifed cos she's not worth it, she should try harder! Not one tiny bit of you thought just maybe the guy doesn't know what he wants and/or when he wants it.

I stated she should ask her self if she's marriage material,please read again and this time with your reading glasses as well as someone to assist you in case,so you don't misquote me again.

Read your last paragraph again and tell me you haven't concluded this poor lady is not 'marriage-worthy', hence her 3 year delay.
You're trying too hard to come across as blunt and scary but maybe if you do it in the right context, people will term it as 'constructive criticism'.

This sounds like a question for her and the supposed boyfriend and definitely not me.

You had me believe for a nanosecond that you're the 'supposed boyfriend'

PreciousBro:


Madam, all this good guy good girl talk has nothing to do with this thread. All that is written here is desperation as far as I can discern.

3yrs is not the zenith of the numbers of years I have heard,and there is no one wasting anyone's time. If marriage is so important to the Op, I already suggested she proposes to the new guy she'd catch next or stay put ,be good and earn it from this one she has ,or should I have said she should kill her self ?

Its not only bad guys that can tell a desperate girl, good guys also have senses and they do what they feel works for them, what you should be asking the OP if you have her interest at heart is ,is she deserving of a proposal ? Or do you think anyone should just marry anyone regardless of love, moral background etc just because they shared time together ?

You keep parambulating........
If this lady does not deserve to be wifed as you have put it, why has he spent 3 years of his life with her? Why not leave her and go for a woman that deserves it? KAPUT?

PreciousBro:


If you read my post very well you'd know I gave credence on "Good guys" not wanting to waste their time on foolish girls ,so if that was a question, I suggest you direct it to the right person not me,I am not the one in a futile relationship with her.

so, it's safe to assume that it's bad guys that waste time on girls, right?
If good guys don't waste time on foolish girls, I suppose they don't on wise girls either, it must be that the guys who waste time are bad guys?


Just tryna get your stand point straight here, no need to get all defensive, ok?

PreciousBro:
This is why a woman should accept a man for the right reason, if by 30yrs as you claim you are and have dated for 3yrs, you still don't know where you stand in and are headed to with your supposed spouse ,then you have failed as a woman, check your self well, you probably aren't marriage material,(that may be a cold sad truth,not my fault and not my business) and all of a sudden you realise your biological clock isn't wait-friendly. You now want a serious fantasised relationship with this said guy just because you want the big ol marriage"(something y'all pretend isn't necessary) regardless of whether you love him or not...

Ask your self, think, recollect how you both met, where you serious from the onset ? Was it something that you remotely thought could ignite the "tie the knot" gesture in the future ? All these are questions you need to ask your self and not deceive your self ,then you'll get your genuine answer,otherwise any move you make now only portrays your desperate self in magnified spectrum...

I know for a fact that no sane man would like to waste his precious time as well as a good girl's being in a relationship that would yield futility at the end,so except you wanna be a man,buy a ring and take to the next guy and do the big ol proposal yourself I suggest you shut it, put your self together, be a good girl and earn the "will you mary me" right from the man otherwise you become a yoruba girl because O.Y.O will be your state...

Thank You!

why keep a lady for 3 years if she's not 'marriage material'?
Isn't that callous?

10million Naira is small money na
If it's dollar now, I for consider am
I'll just have to wash the peenis thoroughly with chlorox when he's done

Nawa oo
I no even know what to say
Make I just dey one corner as the comments troop in


I'm sorry about your break-up

damiso:
I remember how they would come to sell gold in my office back then and I would excuse myself when it has pased my power, my colleagues would ask why I could not afford it knowing I lived at home and my fiancé was 'abroad' .'Does he not give you allowance' was the question I used to get. 'Allowance' ke am I working for him ni? I never got the compulsory 'pocket money' send weekly recharge card , pay for hair buy mobile phone thing.



E be like say the women in my family like sufferhead We didn't/don't have 'head' for 'allowance' 'pocket money' giving boyfriends chai.Cos I know its the same for my sister. My parents sure did a number on us.

e be like say I am carrying last too oo
make I go compile list for my man, biko

FrancisTony:



Care for a popcorn?

Sure darl

I've been looking for a way to de-stress this weekend
Make I park my mat here