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At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by markidoo(m): 4:15pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Am 28yrs old n a graduate 4rm uniabj. I am unemployed and stay with my parents. I happen to have a girl am true to. I av been hanging out with her at a friends place due to fact that my parents dont wanna see any girl at home with me. My girlfriend got tired of that n i summoned courage to take her home one day whille my parents where out unfortunately they did nt go far. When they came back my mum checked on me in my room n found me watching a movie with the girl. I had no intention to even touch her since she said she hated sex,i jst wantd company at home cos i ws lonely. when ever we hangout its jst jisting n fiddling wit phones. My mum called her out n used alot of harsh words on my only true love. My gf never replied,she jst picked her bag n walked out of the gate i ran out to apologise n walk her home, bt she wud'nt want any of those. I got back home picked up money went to the a pub nearby n got so drunk that the only thing i remember is coming home so wet n sandy. I lost memory of what happened n since then i am locked in my room i don't wanna eat nor feel like doing anything. Even tried calling her bt she wudnt pick her phone. All i nid in this life of sin is me n my girlfriend. Drop ur advice. |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by raayah(f): 4:17pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Unemployed and living with parents at 28 Its your parents house and you play by their rules. If you want your girlfriend to come over, get your own house. 20 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by demmy0325(m): 4:17pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
But what are you still doin at ur parents house at 28... .. I hope ur case aint spiritual.. .. U shud rise Up on Ur feet man.. Make sm money and live Ur life.. U are your problem ursef nt ur parents.... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by coogaluta(f): 4:19pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
markidoo: With this 1 point of yours, I agree with your mum 6 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by yorubadelta(f): 4:19pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Unfortunate situation. Sorry dude but ur 28, if u can't get a job due to economic situation then find a business or something doing. Your parents can't respect you as a man when ur still under their roof.. 13 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by angieberry(f): 4:20pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Get a job, get your own house and do as you like. It's your parents' house therefore, their rules stand and you have to respect that. I don't blame your girl for reacting the way she did, she must have been so humiliated! 3 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by mredwifeosband: 4:22pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
when youre 47 living with your parents and collecting money from them,come back,ill give you advice. ode 1 Like |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by tinuolababy(f): 4:24pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Eeya |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Cutehector(m): 4:28pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Go out of ur parents house and neva come bak... U just lost ur babe op... |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by yorubadelta(f): 4:30pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
tinuolababy: Lol.. is that all you can say? advice the guy na |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by lonngmann(m): 4:33pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
markidoo:All you nid is a job. .that's ur sin 3 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by sunnydayasaba(m): 4:34pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
@OP, U even have time to spend watching movies at 28...na wa for u oh...Ur lucky ur mom didn't even hit u in her presence. 1 Like |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by libertyfather(m): 4:37pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Pelle |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Nobody: 4:39pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
guy which vila re u from? |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by snakebeat: 4:43pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
sunnydayasaba:What is wrong with watching movies at 28? 2 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by sunnydayasaba(m): 4:47pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
snakebeat: Not when u still stay with ur parents and unemployed...its irrating, Is like d money they invested in educating such a guy is a waste. 3 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by markidoo(m): 4:47pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Ur advices r okay.The state i stay in is a state with one of the highest number of unemployd youths. Evry1 depends on the govt e.g civil service or u have rich parents with godfathers. I have tried staying byslf it nearly killd my dad n what u nid to start a biz is capital. They aint jst ready to set me up. I want to join d civil defence corps bt i av to wait till they recruit dont think am nt doing all i cn to get out of dz shithole called home i came home 4rm service june 2014 n nobody give me a dime nt even pocket money n i dnt av relations dat r supportive.If i av made it thru dz last yr witout assistance,stealing,selling drugs etc then i blif i will mk it in life,God has bigger plans 4me. Leaving my parents will only land me on d streets. At the same tyme i blif parents shld also seek their wards happiness. I rest my case. |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by mikool007(m): 4:54pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
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Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by MsTIQ(m): 5:05pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
raayah:This is harsh BT true |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Hhmmmmmmmm...pele...do u hav friends I mean guys who live alone??...if u hav someone u cn squat pending wen u ll get a job den leave.... U need to man up dude and u hav to start by leaving ur father's house and taking responsibility for urself Una wey dey shout, work! Work! Work! Una give am work?? Like we don't remember the kind of society we live in 6 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by mredwifeosband: 5:10pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
End time lazy a55 son |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
mikool007: Wat is end abt his story?? |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Enoquin(f): 5:28pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Ideally, at 28 you shouldn't be living with your parents but realistically sh*t happens. The sin isn't in living with them and being jobless, the sin would be not making any efforts to get something to do. Regardless of all that, your mum shouldn't have spoken harshly to the girl. It'd be funny if she didn't speak harshly to you when you came home drunk. 4 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by addictiv(m): 5:32pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
markidoo:Listen to me son...In life there are only two outcomes, reasons and results. You can either give excuses for your situation or deciding to take action and doing something abt it. You re responsible for everything you re experiencing. 1 Like |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by stepo707: 6:09pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
forget your girl for now.I know you are so much in love but you gotta let her go.Then use this month to hustle like crazy,look for a job and if possible learn a trade.Your parents should be supportive at this critical stage so you dont enter any trouble.Drink nearly got you into trouble the last time. |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by ABEngine(m): 6:20pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Who is talking parents at 28? Who does that? Please say something valid biko |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by pickabeau1: 7:20pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
markidoo: Carry go Gangsta You even blacked out from the pain |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by Yustash001(m): 7:28pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Try get a job and then you can be freed...but atleast your mother shoulda treated her well...then she could blast you after her departure... 3 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by EyeKandy(f): 7:46pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
C'mon, some comments are unnecessary. Until you've bagged degrees, hustled for employment and own your own business, you're not in a position to ridicule anyone. Do you know if he's been actively seeking employment? I don't care if you work at Shell, you could be ax-ed tomorrow and it ain't yours. That being said, OP, you should have made her understand that your parents are conservative. Hence, a lot of outside hookup. Its your responsibility to let your parents know you love this girl and you're hurt by the way she was disrespected (unless she was in a school uniform ) You're at fault for keeping a secret relationship at 28!! 2 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by markidoo(m): 8:20pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
EyeKandy:I dnt do sec sch girls moreova shez a Hnd holder. Even my elder bro dat has a job,earns gud salary n is 31yrs dare nt bring home his gf home |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by cococandy(f): 8:30pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
Your parents don't want a grandchild when you're yet to get a job. How will you take care of your child? Get a job, be a man of your own you will see them urging you to get a girl. 2 Likes |
Re: At 28 My Parents Dnt Let Me Keep A Girlfriend Advice Me Pls. by cococandy(f): 8:31pm On Jul 06, 2015 |
markidoo: If he's still living with them, that's explains it too. |
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