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slimyem:
then you'll be getting adulterated honey, what you give is what u get.

don't worry about that.
for me, it's little effort - plenty of the best of honey!

if i have to break my back to get some honey, then the honey should stay put.
i ain't destined to get it in the first place. time to search for my own honey.

dayokanu:
What more do you expect a father to do for a 24yr old son?

He sent him to school, He gave him a car, He feeds him, The OP doesnt pay rent.

I ask what more do you expect the father to do for a son?

Yet the son all he does is

he does all that because he does not have a job - pure plain and simple.
the father is a meanie. i cannot watch my son keep late nights, oversleep and drive around town like a twunt. if he fixes him up in a bank doing 5am till 10pm, when would he have the time to be oversleeping or driving cars around?

i believe one's son is one's dignity - i can understand if the op is a girl, at least one unlucky man would marry her and the responsibility shifts.
but we are talking about a son here. his own bloodline - if the son fails, the father has failed at parenting!
there are no 2 ways about it.

[b]So you expect the father to do? [/b]Since we all claim the father should help him more, Maybe the father should be waking him up also in the morning or the father should be washing his clothes, cleaning up for him or whatever.

get him a job.
if he is too dull to fit into any job - set him up in a business.
even if it's a small kiosk where he can be selling recharge cards and phone accessories - he will wake up every morning to go and get paid.

If your father was oversleeping as a youth, keeping late nights and being generally useless do you think he would be a rich man today?

my father was not oversleeping cos he had a father that won't allow such. fathers should support their kids until they are in employment and they are bringing the bacon home. if a son fails, the father is a failure. how can i ever watch my son loaf around? i'd rather kill myself.

Another thing his father has a right to do whatever he chooses with his money.

only irresponsible fathers think this way. he doesn't have any right to do whatever he chooses with his money.
he should have gotten himself castrated 24 yrs ago - fathers who cannot raise children should leave the business of rearing children for the ones who can. most fathers fix their sons up or teach the son their trade so they can continue the business when they retire or pass away.

If you start earning money you can spend as you wish.

i will spend as i wish but my children is all i will ever leave for.
of what essence is a father who drives big cars around and his own son is wasting away? such fathers should be put against the wall and get shot.

In general the society expects a child over 18 to take responsibility for himself. If you commit a crime as a 18yr old you serve time like an adult. You have no parental cover from prosecution. But in our society its usually til the child gets out of school.

in developed countries, this is the case. in a 10th world country like nigeria, no chance, mate!
at 18, what could you do for yourself, dayo? you were still bed-hopping from one extramural class to another writing jamb or whatever external exams you were interested in. could you have taken care of yourself then?

in first world countries, kids can leave their parent's house as early as 16/17. there's social security. the government takes charge if the kid wants to be in school, wants to learn a trade or even if he decides to stay jobless. he will be on state benefit or copping food stamps. one way or the other, he can survive without his parents. don't compare that with nigeria.

The father paid his fees, Do you expect the father to help him read his books, attend lectures, do homeworks and submit projects too?

he is guilty of paying his son's fees. he has achieved the biggest task ever paying his son's fees.

The guy I mentioned earlier that still steals from his mom as a 40yr old is a friends elder brother but has a similar sense of entitlement that the OP had

okay!

The man being the first born, the mom pampered him because she said "He is my first fruit and must be well catered for" The guy could barely pass in school, His mom knew all his lecturers and settled everyone of them to make the son graduate. Even his mom knew lecturers more than the Son(student). He got a 2-1.

this is a different matter.
the boy here is a dullard and unserious - quite different from the op who seems to be determined to make something out of life.

He couldnt get a job or keep a job. His reason was that everyone hates him, The economy is too bleeped to accomodate his noble ideas etc

then the mum should set him up in a business.
ordinary viewing centre or a smart looking barbing saloon would set him for life.

He was always driving round town, without a job living on his pocket money from momsie till he got into his 30's got a girl pregnant, It was the mom who organized and paid for all the wedding expense and still gives him money regularly.

Would always even at 34 say that his mom couldnt help him but the mom has money for clothes and jewelries

i don't blame him.

parents cannot hands off just because a child has a bachelor's degree.
in my opinion, that is when the hardwork actually starts. after his degree and nysc - parents should do all they can to connect him to any good job and if such proves abortive - set him up in a business.

when that son is successful, the credits go to the parents.
if the son fails, the parents should take the blame as well.
nigerian parents are mostly lazy and they compare the hardship youths of today face to their own era when a gce o'level holder can work as a bank clerk. these days - people with masters degree cannot work in a bank.

slimyem:
yeah baeby.
Tired already??
He who wants honey from the rock must not dwell on the bluntness of the axe you know??

what about trying softer rocks?

slimyem:
why you the vex na??chill man!
One whose wife is being brought to him should not giraffe.m only testing your patience.dont fail this test sweery.

testing my patience?

tellwisdom:
[size=18pt]coogar hustles china fones in computer village. How long will you do that??  [/size]

it's better than you scavenging for food on refuse dumps, you homoerotic midget!

dayokanu:
^^ Its a privilege for a parent to be giving money to a 24yr old not a right.

If you have a parent that gives you N100 at age 24 appreaciate it cos after sendig you to school he doesnt owe you anything more

he does.
after sending you to school, the parents should then help/support to get you a job before putting their hands off. finishing school does not automatically translate to earning money. there are 40 million youths in nigeria that are jobless. what feeds them? at the age of 24, the boy needs every support his parents can give. not all nigerian graduates would get a job at the age of 24. some aren't in employment until 36 sef. . . . .

slimyem:
okay.how about i pick the face feature by feature.like the lips first,then the eyes and bla bla, ??

start with one hair strand by hair strand then the forehead, eyes, cheeks, etc.
let's hope you finish by year 3099.

you are not a serious chic.

start with the face!

it's the most important feature for me.

hahahaha

la liga playing their matches early in the morning to capture the asian market.
nice innovation from florentino perez. . . . . .


pepe header!!!


higuian seals it.
barcelona are not going top this weekend.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490545#msg9490545 date=1320543039]I get your time today. I'll indulge you.

Who announces the fact that they just got back from the Cinema? Bush-Man! Thank God for Jand.[/quote]190 na houseboy whose madam sends from nigeria with a shopping list.

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=797460.msg9490509#msg9490509 date=1320542206][color=red]reality please answer TEAM APE
im off to bed

just back from the cinema - went to see MACHINE GUN PREACHER

best movie so far this year - go check it out instead of that PLANET OF APES u talked bout the other time

coogar is an APE himself (check profile 4 proof) so u reality can always talk tins over with him

good nite

Coogar APE good nite [/quote]when i see big coloured fonts like yours - it tells me the poster is brainless.
the over-emphasis is just a ploy to mask your foolishness and the idiocy behind your moniker.

coogar is a gorilla, that line is tired.
you get a c-minus, you lobotomized mongrel!

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=797460.msg9490470#msg9490470 date=1320541389]yawns[/quote]190, is that you in the profile or someone else's pic you lifted?

sima:
well,  what i really meant was that some of those guys might be after something else not love.

this is hardly a problem.
every guy is actually after something else plus love or minus love.
it could be your curves, boobiez, arse or money - or even your travel papers. these days love is secondary!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490400#msg9490400 date=1320540098]Aproko oshi! Just lookachu! Common park well jo. Instead of you to face Coogar, your fellow man, na me you dey face. Chicken! [/quote]you dey mind 190?
he is the equivalent of a slave invited to dine with the king but whose table manners came short.
he's mentally crass, unexposed and genetically silly.

if a mother has 2 kids like 190. the solution is to sell one and use the funds to take care of the other.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490339#msg9490339 date=1320538903]Great discovery. Fantastic![/quote]https://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_llivgbgKxP1qfsm7o.gif

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490330#msg9490330 date=1320538740]@ Coogar

LMAO--- hehehehehe. buhahaha. *catching my breath* My stomach hurts.

That's a nice picture. You mean she's Susan? [/quote]100% dna match
100% fingerprint match.

sima:
welll, there are more 419s in 9ja than outside 9ja.

what do you really mean by 419 in terms of relationship?
please educate me.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490305#msg9490305 date=1320538412]X-factor? She can sang? Wow! Simon Cowell probably has a crush on her. She's a hot cake o. My guy try your luck. No think am. [/quote]https://assets0.ordienetworks.com/images/GifGuide/dancing/tumblr_liuqmpbAG81qzb2ai.gif

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490269#msg9490269 date=1320537851]haha-- How you take know? hehehe. Seriously try her. Don't be shy.[/quote]i once saw tpia on x-factor where she revealed she's a bedroom tiger.
as for trying her - hmmmm(i'll think about it).

#cough cough#
i just perceived a strong stench of a billygoat? who just walked in?

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490220#msg9490220 date=1320537002]Pele. You sef no help the situation with those tribal marks on your face. Better luck next time. Try Tpia.  [/quote]tpia? at all o.
her sex-drive is scary - you want to kill me? i don't want to die of slipped disc.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490168#msg9490168 date=1320536275]Chei! You have tribal marks? Nawa o. In this age and time--

No, you no qualify. I live in 9ja myself. Dating you is not an option.  [/quote]my tribal marks should have nothing to do with it. what about my agege swag?

you see? see what mr cork has caused on this forum.
another rejection!!!

allah dey!

sima:
i personally find it hard to find a decent 9ja guy in 9ja without being scared to be duped 
n' yh, i know not all 9ja guys in 9ja are 419

say what?
so you mean there are no fraudulent naija boys abroad?
sima? pour some cold water on your head to see things clearly.

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=797410.msg9490134#msg9490134 date=1320535934]There are millions of jobless and broke 33yr old men in Nigeria. So, by the law of nature, they are not allowed to chase younger women for the fear of being labeled a sugar daddy even though they can't live up to the title?.[/quote]but i still expect them to be a bit better than the 25 yr old men of the same social spectrum.

they often date women of the same class. so the 33yr old man is more or less a bigger fish in the small pond than the 23 yr old man of the same pond.

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=797410.msg9490134#msg9490134 date=1320535934]Should a woman proceed to call such man a sugar papi even though he can only afford a bottle of Pepsi?.[/quote]it depends on the class of the woman. if she's of a lower or the same social stratum as the man then the man is definitely a sugar daddy.
if she's of a higher class than the man, she won't even listen to the crap the man has to say.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490124#msg9490124 date=1320535777]lmao. Ye! See yab! I no dey o. [/quote]yab ke? you nefa see yabis.

E be like say I don dey fall for this bobo o.
Your agegeness is a bit of a problem. You fit hustle for Visa? 

i have been turned down several times. i have been to all the embassies in lagos.
my tribal-marks are scary! i'm considered a flight risk.

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=797410.msg9490095#msg9490095 date=1320535391]What if the man is significantly older and significantly poor?. Will he still be considered to be a sugar daddy?. Could finances be another factor that qualifies one to be a sugar daddy/uncle/pastor/imam?.[/quote]finances - you have a point there. . . .
but the natural order dictates a man of 33 should be more financially balanced than a 23 yr old girl - and in nigeria where men are expected to do everything, it's pretty much given.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=797460.msg9490090#msg9490090 date=1320535310]LOL--- Na your fault sef. Why you con dey announce say you live in Agege/Nigeria? E never spoil. Hope still dey. Quickly change your lacation.

lol @ downtown Agege. Posh man forming Agbero swag. hehehe. [/quote]honesty is a virtue.
i am real, not fake unlike some of the ruminant animals here(200-10, lefuX2 and tell-foolish). negroes who until last summer were bus conductors and street urchins in downtown mushin/okokomaiko.

i represent agege to the fullest - where flour becomes gold!
if you don't mind my agegeness, date me na.

the manual won't work anymore.

i stand no chance - i stay in downtown agege(where those pot-bellied breads are made).
if i lay my hands on mr. cork - he's a dead man!
that big-headed sick pup!

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=797410.msg9490051#msg9490051 date=1320534698]So what do you call a 30 yr old married  father of 3 chasing 18-20 year old girls around town?.[/quote]technically, he couldn't have fathered the 18-20 yr old girls as he himself was only 10 yrs of age when the chics were born.

he's a sugar uncle or a big brother.

silvertuke:
There is something I really want to know, Are NL Babes falling in love with only NL guys living outside Naija?

blame mr cork. . . . .that obdurate w@nker.

he said all of us staying in lagos/nigeria are ugly, with bloodshot eyes and malodorous scent.
because of him now, i have lost all my female admirers.

emofine:
lol that's an interesting point.

@OP I thought a Sugar Daddy referred to someone who grooms/spoils his love interests who are quite younger than him. So I guess he is an extension of a "Daddy" in a way then.

if he's not 18 yrs older than his spouse - it's hard to call him a daddy.
that will be sugar uncle.

dayokanu:
The same Real Madrid have won 9 CL titles more than Any club in Europe, Can we also say the CL is a one team competition?
Madrid has shown that they are the strongest team in Europe, Common sense dictates that if this team were to be in any league they would dominate easily

stop arguing like you have never been to college before. . . . .

9 times in a competition that have spanned almost 60 years is not domination. that is ratio 1 to 7(approx). compare it to 31 times in 82 seasons.
christ - have you ever been a pupil of math? adult education classes you desperately need. we are talking about the strength of a league - you are talking about the best club. how many la liga clubs have won the champions league? how many english clubs have won the champions league.

this is not a debate of club versus club. it is league versus league. if more clubs in england have won in elite europe than the clubs in spain, then common sense dictates the league in england is stronger than the league in spain.
i have warned you. be at your sharpest wit when arguing with me.

Barcelona and Madrid are two of the best teams in Europe and have 13 CL between them, Definitely if they play in EPL or FA cup, They would simply alternate it between them like they do La Liga

speak with common sense. barcelona and real madrid have been able to do all those things because of the unfair revenue share in spain. if they play in the epl - the revenue will be equally shared like it's affected the finances of man utd, liverpool, arsenal, chelsea etc.
yet again, you are comparing club versus club instead of league versus league.

Go check the exploits of players like Aguero, Silva, Torres, Mata in their various clubs, These were mediocre La Liga players oo

of course they are mediocre la liga players in shyte clubs but now they are playing for rich clubs in man city and chelsea.
david silva should have gone to aston villa(valencia equivalent) or aguero should have gone to stoke city(athletico madrid equivalent) then the comparison would be fair.

The same way Madrid mopped Tottenham on the floor 5-0 aggregates, Barcelona has impregnated Man Utd and Arsenal countles times, Even Valencia turned Arsenal to a punching bag while Sevilla turned Middlesboro to their ashi, Should I tell you what Atletico did to Fulham in the UEFA cup final? E be like Mortal Kombat

yet again - club versus club comparison instead of league versus league.
historically, more english clubs have won in elite europe than the english clubs - yes or no? if the answer is yes - the league in england is stronger than the league of spain. the mere fact that only barcelona and real madrid have won it in la liga is the single reason the league is not competitive,

Go and watch Deportivo beating Arsenal Home and Away 4-0 aggregates

more club versus club comparisons. the original poster asked for the best football league in the world not the most successful club in the world.
i require your common sense in this debate. 20 clubs make a league, not the success of 2 clubs.

You know anytime I am around you should take your flawed analysis elsewhere or betterstill bring paper and pen and take jottings

i hope you can now smell your malodorous folly.
if you have any dignity left, don't come back.

the poster asked for the best league in the world - he wants to know the best bunch of 20 clubs in the world.
even a mosquito knows it's the english premier league.

[quote author=aloy@emeka link=topic=797410.msg9489203#msg9489203 date=1320524402]What qualifies a man to become a sugar daddy?. If a 25 year old married man who has one child is chasing women around, will he qualify for a sugar daddy?. Is it age or marital status or what that determines when a man can earn the prefix "sugar" before his name?. Now, if a 55 year old married father of 4 is chasing women who are 40 yrs and above around town, is he a sugar daddy?[/quote]a man qualifies as a sugar daddy if he's at least [b]18 yrs older [/b]than the woman he's dating.
it has nothing to with marital status. if he's capable of fathering his date then he's a daddy.

Emperoh:
I really don't know who that stands for. For me, play beautiful attacking footie and give me three points.
However, whether u agree or not, we don't have a decent midfield. So much for converting a striker to a midfielder
because he can string together a couple of long range passes!!!

we have a decent midfield - the midfield that was tearing defences apart @ the start of the season.
ruudie and starboard and 90% of the media criticized them that they were too cavalier - fergie answered their prayers.

now, it's the 3 months that matters and keeping clean sheets.
we are back to the winter of 08/09 season again. united won't concede a goal until new year if we stick to this type of play.
don't complain o before ruudie brings his excel sheet of conceded shots/saves per goals per wind pressure per the velocity of fergie's farts.

why should i talk to badosky when i can talk to you directly.
upload the pic, abeg - you sabi waste time.