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 Romance › Re: Am In Love With My Old Friend by cooldud62: 10:36pm On Oct 16, 2008 |
why didnt she accept before? |
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| Romance › Re: Can Your Husband Top This by cooldud62: 9:39pm On Oct 16, 2008 |
now,this is romantic, the kind of man that can do this to make his wife happy will suck her every night  every woman's dream  |
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| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Iice Can I Meet You? by cooldud62: 11:45pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
this thread just dey grow, werin una dey see talk? |
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| Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Need A Matured (responsible) Woman For A Relationship by cooldud62: 11:37pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
in other words,you need a sugar mummy  say the truth,i will help you out, i feel your pains pain |
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| Family › Re: I Need Help! I Am Dying In Silence & Frustration by cooldud62: 11:26pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
@benin, why divorce? i am totally against that, thats why you should look b4 leaping! both of them in these cases above got what they want probably and now realised the partners are not good if it were you,what would ur reaction be |
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| Family › Re: I Need Help! I Am Dying In Silence & Frustration by cooldud62: 6:59pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
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| Family › Re: I Need Help! I Am Dying In Silence & Frustration by cooldud62: 5:31pm On Oct 15, 2008 |
tatooboy:
I married a currently married to a woman i dated between 1994-1998 and she departed abroad between 1998-2005/6, but we didint have too much communication while she was abroad, but somehow because of pressure from my parents to get married, i called her sometime in 2005 to find out if she was still single, then she was in the US. She said yes and she came home to naija and we discussed on old times, but sincerely, when she came back and i saw her, i knew i had lost sexual interest in her, but i thought i could make do with it, and that it might improve over time.
If you ask me the reason i got married to her was because ma family members thot she was the best for me; inview of the fact that she is an EXTREMELY kind person. However, i thought the sexual issue would be taken care of. In my mind i wanted her to live in the US where she currently lives and i live here in naija. But i visit the US once in a while. Do you know that my problem is that i don't have any sexual feeling for my wife. I manage for force myself to have sex with her, but sincerely she does not know all these, i am not bold enough to tell her.What do i want to say? She is not young anymore (36). She is craving to have a child, but i usually struggle to have sex with her. This i find very strange because its not because its not because i can perform o. I can be randy if given the opportunity. Everytime i think about this, its like i am dying, if you see my, you will not imagine its a guy like me this is happening to. Good Looking, Intelligent, successful young man.
Truly, i am tired. Bad enough i like sex, but i am married to a woman i don't like to have sex with and time is going. Please house mates what can i do? I am eant to go to the US soon again, but sincerely i am afraid since this issue will play out again. I think the worst way you can put a woman's self esteem down is to make her know your not sexually attracted to her. Some people say divorce is the solution, the truth is i can't face her to propose that. Please i need help. I wake up every day unhappy and i can't tell anyone my problem. who be house mates? you think this is big brother or WAT? anyway,you said you dont like having sex with her, and she's ur wife! you are in trouble my friend. as much as i support a guy having enough fun, i dont suport leaving ur wife. find a way out to like her somethng again thats my advice |
