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Politics / Re: Buhari’s Punishment For Ballot Snatchers Constitutional, Says Keyamo by cooljuman: 12:56pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
It's festus keyamo on the beat. |
Politics / Re: VP Osibanjo Takes Over The Worship Session At RCCG, Ikoyi by cooljuman: 1:37pm On Feb 17, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Magnus Abe Celebrating Supreme Court Judgement (Photos) by cooljuman: 5:29pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Free Whatsapp XX Group Link by cooljuman: 8:10pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Free Whatsapp XX Group Link by cooljuman: 8:09pm On Feb 06, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: You Lied’ — Amaechi Challenges Peter Obi To Public Debate by cooljuman: 7:47am On Feb 02, 2019 |
If anarchy is looking for a lier to debate with, he should first go and challenge lie Mohammed who is the chief lier of APC, VP osibanjo. Then we will know he's serious to challenge Peter Obi. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 10:03am On Jan 15, 2019 |
oluwafreshkid: I don't understand, please more explanation for me to understand. |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 4:01am On Jan 14, 2019 |
ceeceeuwa: She don't want to go for further medical examination, she said all she wants is for us to get married, after that she'll be ready for any medical examination. Cos she said that she's ok cos of the herbal drugs. |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 8:30am On Jan 13, 2019 |
1Ronaldo: Except she gets married she's not going for surgery. To her marriage is an assurance that I'll not leave her no matter the situation. For me I just want to know that everything is OK before marriage, cos marriage comes with its own challenge and adding fertility to it might just be too much for me. |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 8:23am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Yohh: We met a gynaecologist after examining her ordered for the various tests including hsg. Doctors are of the opinion that if she goes ahead with pregnancy without surgery, she might have ectopic pregnancy. I advised she go for the surgery but she insisted that she's not going for surgery and opted for herbal medicine.now she said she's ok and all she wants is marriage. So I said let her get pregnant before marriage but she insisted on no marriage no pregnancy. Am so confused. |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 7:55am On Jan 13, 2019 |
Yohh: She did hormonal profile test too. The reason she went for the scan was because we had unprotected sex and she said she was in her ovulation when we had the test, when she didn't get pregnant she insisted we go for testing, that was when we discovered this whole thing. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 7:48am On Jan 13, 2019 |
martyns303:m Yes, she's capable of raising the remaining half, cos she working. Yes, we're both based in ph 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 1:11am On Jan 13, 2019 |
marvin906: For a year now I've been pleading with her to go for the surgery but she's only talking of getting married before surgery. It's her health we're talking about and she's talking about marriage. She's telling me that I want to put her life at risk by asking her to go for surgery, well since she doesn't want to go for surgery then I need pregnancy before marriage. |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 1:05am On Jan 13, 2019 |
bigpicture001: She said she's ok after taking the herbal drugs several months, so what stops her from agreeing to get pregnant so we can get married. Am not forcing her to go for surgery, all I want it lets try pregnancy then we get married. It will reduce my fears. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 9:58pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
[quote author=samysmoothfresh post=74704752] ........and now you've discovered she doesnt want the surgery. In other words, she doesnt want help. Dont be offended, but I have another question for you. What do you think you should do?[/quote Well, as it stands there's nothing I can say to convince her to either accept pregnancy or surgery. Last time argued she said am using her, so I just want to stay away from her for awhile and if the situation don't change, I'll have to move on with my life. Yes I may be wrong or right. Let it be my loss. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 9:48pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
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Romance / Re: I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 9:38pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
samysmoothfresh:No i didn't collect the money back. I left it with her. I really didn't need it. I just wanted her to solve the problem. 3 Likes |
Romance / I Want To Get Married To My Fiance But Her Medical Condition Is Making Me Having by cooljuman: 9:16pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
We have been dating for more than 2 year, but in 2018 she went for a scan and found out that she has fibroid and hormonal imbalance and that it could hinder pregnancy. Doctors advice that she go for surgery in order for her not to have complications with pregnancy. I gave her more than half the cost of the surgery which she agreed to go for. Same day she said she's not going for the surgery again until she gets married. She started taking herbal medicine that it will reduce the size of the fibroid and that way she will be able to get pregnant even without surgery and she also took drugs for the hormonal imbalance. after some months the size of her stomach reduced cos initially it was bigger than normal. Late last year we started having disagreement as regards marriage. She wants us to get married but I'm reluctant cos of her medical condition knowing she didn't go for the surgery and not sure if she's going to find it difficult getting pregnant after marriage. So I asked her to get pregnant before we get married and the once she get pregnant I will marry her, but she said she's not getting pregnant unti we're married. again, I'm working and earns in six figures. She said she don't want to get pregnant and that she's not going for surgery until we're married. I love her and will like to get married to her but the medical condition is putting me off. What if am right and what if am wrong. We've not talked to each other for two weeks now and we've not seen either. Doctors in the house i need advice please |
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