PRXPERT:
They have been celebrating one phony interviewer on nairaland! but now we have a rare gem in the person of Augusta, an igbo girl, they will not sleep today.. wake me up anay day a yoruba girl achieve this feat!!

oh stop being a bigot please. You seem bigger than that plus It places you on the same pedestal as the ones you accuse. People of different tribes have been achieving one notable feat or the other in diaspora. The only sad thing is that here in the country, big expensive dreams are allowed to die. We don't value rich content sadly.

Congrats to her. Did anyone notice the kind of project she was involved in? High school o. Meanwhile even some Msc. Science Students don't even know jack from spanner.

On this thread, I have seen two men who have actually been in the situation, one forgave his wife cz he has the grace to. The other has been forced to cheat on his wife as well cz as he clearly stated, he never had a reason to cheat on his wife for the 7 years they have been married. Lesson for the ladies is this, not all men would be like the first guy who has the grace to forgive and still love you from the heart and contrary to the popular believe that all men cheat, the second guy was an exception until the sad incidence, meaning there are still good men out there, therefore don't because of your assumptions push a man into what he really wasn't. And to the guys, if you can't be like the first guy who clearly has the fear of God in him or if you can't be like the second guy who clearly is a modest man, and sees no reason to make emotionless conquests like someone cited, you have no morale standing to speak. To the second guy though, I pray you find healing. Two wrongs has never and would never make a right. Inflicting pain because you are pained would not bring you the happiness or peace you've lost. Only God can heal you

princeunugwa:
Even Jesus understood the severity of the crime of adultery on the woman's side, that's why he permitted divorce only on that course. Even culture frowns at a woman cheating and her recompense is life excommunication. Hence, if she cheats, she unconditionally without further provocation leave quietly. Don't even ask me what if I do. That's d conclusion of the whole matter, biblically and culturally. Na me marry u, no b u marry me. Like saying u came late to work cos ur boss is always coming late. U'll excuse him

do you know what adultery is according to Jesus Christ? You all are so quick to shout divorce and adultery according to Christ but let me tell you what He said, He said if you as much as lust after a woman/man in your heart, you have already committed the act. By Christ standards, you can't even stand since what goes on in the heart is enough to create a lot of divorce. Therefore I suggest we as much as possible and by God's grace, choose to have pure thoughts cz if our thoughts are pure, so would our deeds be.

Raiders:
dont ever forgive a woman that cheat on you because she is going to cheat again. once a cheater, always a cheater.

speak for yourself. I pity the woman you get married to if you have as much as cheated on your girlfriend/wife once. Cz your own word is going to judge you

lodscott:


there's something men have that is called an ego and his pride, which is usually his wife's faithfullness, once you destroy that, there is no going back.even if he is Jesus christ and manages to forgive you.you would hv killed something that goes as deep as his soul, he'd never be the same trust me, neither wld the marriage

as much as man's ego is concerned, please don't compare him with Jesus Christ, for Christ is ever faithful, more ready to forgive than we are ready to forsake sin.

PureWays:
Hmm.. You are a woman, I believe you should know better..
If what you said is true about women, that means a woman that cheats shouldn't be forgiven..
It's nice to know that there are still women with moral standards..

Respect ma'am..

haba,she didn't say they shouldn't be forgiven nau.she. Said they don’t fear God n they don't love their husbands

AfroKnight:

"Man" in that context refers to "humankind". Well, of course you'd know that. You just want to colour the meaning to suit your sentiment.

Why should I consider those women?

If other men cheat on their longsuffering wives, how does that rob me of the right to be hurt or even indignant should my wife cheat? Should I knowingly torment myself because of a lofty notion?

Many of those "noble" women remain in such homes because of finance. Some others would consider the pleas of family members and remain in that marriage so that they won't be tagged stubborn. Some just don't want their children to grow up with separated parents. I believe they all have their various practical reasons for staying but love (for the husband) is not one of them.

So please don't preach this message to me. I cannor gree.... At least for now.

believe me, you really do not know women then.

AntiWailer:


Even bible allow divorce on ground of adultery

the way guys are quick to quote God in the case of divorce cz of adultery, it would seem like adultery was a feminine crime.

AccidentalGenius:
once she cheats, she Leaves!


it's something she carefully thought of before she did it

and when you cheat,it's an accident abi? There's no excuse for cheating. If it happens, be ready to forgive if she acknowledges and is remorseful

tomdon:


he probably met not what he expected, borehole maybe. indeed you may even have lied to him that you're a virgn, if this is the case, he must have said some things to express his disappointment.
sorry, there's little or no help ma'am in this regard for now.
if however he's not d kind of man who wanted a virgn, then he may be wondering about other things about your sexuality, maybe your hygiene, eg smelling poosi. it could well be other issues. you alone have the signs that point to the issue

how did you read the post biko? I saw from the thread that the husband was only soft towards her and smiling only when it was time to be intimate

goingape:
how do you know he is a weirdo

You don't take a woman's side of a story and make a conclusion! Don't you see she is talking all kinds of things to make her be the good one while the husband look bad!

And nor of you here see this but siding her and giving her advise. To the marriage folks who advise her! You are worst for you not to see through and taking only side ( her side)

I don't see anywhere where she tried to make her husband look bad. She only complained about him being withdrawn and how it is affecting her. Obviously there are two troubled souls in that house. Your first comment btw makes you look like a bitter soul. Is everything alright?

Serenity008:
OP, are you working, if no, get your lazy ass out of the house and look for a job.

how come many of you are reading with your mouths and fingers? She clearly stated that she gets home from work at 6pm n her husband gets in at 9pm. Every excuse to call someone a lazy ass,you guys would jump at it. Mscheww

kolajoo:
Sorry OP. Mine was kind of funny but turning to be realistic though. I am a married young guy and I have someone am seeing who I also committed to and she knows everyone about me from A-Z. Early this morning I received a call from her that she was at my entrance at the main gate asking me to come outside that she need to see me urgently and I was like are you kidding because I knew she couldn't take bold step but she kept saying it that she was at the gate but something in me tells me that I should yield at her and also take it personal that if i should come outside and I met her absence that I will take it wrongly with her but her response was like can't someone joke with you ni lol. That it all about April pool

If she knows everything about you, why did you marry your wife, who doesnt know you as much as the person you are seeing? You even sound very proud of yourself

doskie:
pale yellow eyes, low weight, weak appearance, generally a sickler looks like a sickler and you can at least have cause to ask questions merely looking at the person

It's not always the case. There are different levels in this ss thingy. I have a friend who you'll never know is ss unless she tells you. She is full,has white eys and rarely falls ill but when she does, that's when she has her crises. She's 25 now

To all those who are opening their mouths to call these women ugly and how they can't advise their husbands, it's a shame all you came to do was comment and did not read the post at all. Shame on you.

And the family that had a father beheaded, a mother killed, a son killed and left with just two little girls of which the older is at most 15 is still not compensated because father was an APC man? This happened right at your backyard. Wike's hypocrisy stinks to high heavens.

jusRadical:




Please which plan of the last administration? Like the abysmally poor quality work on Eneka-Igwurita road?

Why did Amechi not start the Woji road?

Why did he not start the Elelenwo road?


Why rush to start the monorail? Why did Amechi not complete the TransAmadi road?

Why did he not modify Rumuola flyover?

I don't know about any other community but Woji road was highly politicized by the then king- ezebakabaka. Ezebakabaka had properties on the road side and never allowed amaechi fix the road

Who also saw that she was heavily druGged? These boko people really messed up theseyoung bombers. Doing things without their clear mind for what reward exactly?

Denn:
Only very few people know the truth.

The rest are just judges...giving different interpretations of events, as perceived.

Pastor Biodun knows the truth
Ese Walter knows the truth.
Bidoun's wife knows the truth.

The 'robust' reply was given many months ago...we all were not just listening

His silence was very robust, still is.

chichriso:


Wike is working on all the projects Amaechi left behind apart from Monorqil of which after much consultations, he said the he was advice not to continue with it.

Read well with understanding.

Wike is patching what was left of the previous administration and not doing quality work. I live in rivers state enough to know this. People are clapping for breadcrumbs when they can actually be given bread.

Kennydoc:


I'm sure you didn't see this part of the post



That aside, what topography are you talking about inside PH city where the monorail is supposed to pass? Apart from that, what kind of topographical differences will justify PH monorail being over 11 times more expensive than Calabar's?

Find out the distance the monorail covers in calabar as compared to ph. Also find out the elevation of that in calabar and that of ph. When you ve done that, answer yourself

aresa:



You and the ignorant, petty, irresponsible and reckless governor must have missed the fact that other modes of transportation like this metrorail relives pressure on roads, reduces road traffic and stress, reduce and prevents road damage and constant need for road maintenance, it's environmentally friendly, it's faster and get you to your destination which increases human productive hours and saves money and so on and so on.

Regardless how you feel about the project and the initiator, it remains a visionary project. The silly, short sighted and petty should set aside his silly and misguided ego and finish the project, improve on it and take it to the next level, this is what sensible and responsible leaders do.

Letting the people's money go down the drain because of his ignorance, ego, crude and low grade thinking (Like many people on NL) is not only foolish, it's idiotic, abdication of responsibility and criminal..

May God retain your wisdom

cashreport:
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If you are not on ground in port Harcourt please don't comment what you don't know is a sin

Interview anybody on the street of port Harcourt they will tell you the monorail is a wast and a scam by Ameachi
Distance that is not far
Come to port Harcourt and ask people ok
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Always learnto speak for yourself

bgates:
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Who is this person called rottennaija ?
Do know or have ever been to Rivers State before??
Monorail that covers just a small distance that a 10years old can walk
Travel and come and see how Ameachi wasted billions
I was born and brought up in Rivers state and currently stay here so I am on ground
The governor should sell some of the already fixed materails n structure
#salethemonorailstructure
Use the Money and fix more bad roads we have in port Harcourt
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I was also born and raised in ph and I see his comments as being petty. River state needs as much means of transportation as possible

jusRadical:



Can't you folks hear?

We do not need monorail in Rivers State for now!!!

We need more wider roads and more flyovers and modifications to some existing flyovers. Many roads are in bad state like Rumuodara-Eneka road, Eneka-Rukpuokwu road, etc.

You need wider roads and woji that is supposed to be dualized as par the plan of the last administration is just ignored and potholes filled instead? We need as much means of transportation as possible. Rivers state is congested.

Hello house, please has anyone tried investing in Tbills from UBA? @feelamong please whatsthe next auction date?

[quote author=Sunnah1 post=44152784][/quote] let's assume it was elopement, why would the emir house an eloped child for a second and not call on her wards to come and carry her? Is it not a shame on a respected authority of islam?